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Eye Candy Being Satirically Self-Aware

jewdy09

November 24, 2019

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Title	Eye Candy Being Satirically Self-Aware
Author	jewdy09
Upvotes	20
Comments	3
Date	November 24, 2019 8:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e143vb/eye_candy_being_satirically_selfaware/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/eye-candy-being-satirically-self-aware.687975 https://theredarchive.com/post/687975

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[–]OnionpepsiFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]jewdy09Pickmeisha™️6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh for sure. But, what I found most interesting was my reaction to a man who looks like Ryan Reynolds behaving in this way. Obviously, I don’t know him personally and have assigned character traits to him based on his roles in movies, but he looks to me like he must be really nice and like he treats women well. Why do I assume this? Why do I imagine Deadpool to be flawed but ultimately a good person just because that is what is shown to us of his character? Why do I want to make myself believe that Deadpool wouldn’t take advantage of a drunk girl if he knew there would be no consequences or that he wouldn’t cheat on a partner or use RP tactics to manipulate her? Why do I assume he has no dark side? Because he is hot and funny?

Shouldn’t hot, funny, sexy, charming, charismatic, successful men end up being nice and decent people? A thought experiment: If we were to remove all the obstacles men face when it comes to attracting women, would they then become more elevated beings? Would they be able to settle down at 30 and commit to one woman and providing for and protecting the family and life they are building together? I guess my real question is what is the cause of their dissatisfaction? Is it because they can’t get the caliber of women they desire or imagine they deserve? Is it simply a numbers game? If the key to getting desirable women is as simple as hitting the gym and working hard to make a lot of money, why don’t more men do this?

I keep thinking back to a documentary on birds of paradise I watched a few weeks ago. These ridiculously plumaged males spend all day practicing their elaborate dances and perfecting the structures they also employ to aid in convincing a female to mate. They get rejected all day every day for the most part and yet they persist. They have a biological drive to reproduce with as many females as possible, yet they aren’t out there negging or half-assing their twig sex structure so they can play more Call of Duty and they aren’t raping either. They are spending the majority of their time and energy trying to find ways to appeal to females, even if those ways put them in danger. There is no easy way to get laid for most males of other species.