I'm still fairly new to this sub, but am already incorporating the FDS handbook into my life.

One area of surprise though has been parenting. I have 3 boys (with an extremely LVM ex...., smh lol). Even after the break down of the marriage I would excuse things to my boys that their father did (broken promises being the big one). Also, I still retained some pickmesha attitudes....., but in how I parented (gave too much while asking for too little in return. Ex - my oldest in the past joked about me being his butler).

FDS reminds me that I don't want to raise scrotes!!! I've been really using this quarantine to reset a lot of bad habits.

Anyone else find this??