I’m not sure if any of you have spoken about this before, but if not, let me be the first. If so, then let’s use it as a reminder for those currently dating.

As women we must keep our body like a temple. That means, not letting in stupid men that would otherwise be a waste of our precious time and energy.

I also know that when women are young we have very high sexual needs and sometimes the hormones cloud our judgements causing costly mistakes that could be avoided.

One trick I have found to combat this is to masturbate before a big date. When you satiate yourself sexually, you won’t need to find the satisfaction outside of yourself, so you can be a completely clear-headed, cool woman for your meet up.

Finding a way to satisfy yourself and enjoying it will help you make less mistakes overall in dealing with men. It also helps with the whole waiting 2-3 months thing. If you can wait a bit to jump his bones, he will love you all the more for it. Men like waiting way more than they are willing to admit, so it’s a good technique to keep you chill when you are hanging out with that guy you have major fire with. In the end it will be so much better.

So this has been my trick for a while now and it’s really helped with meeting back up with exs, with dates, and with guys that I needed some serious clarity because my hormones were saying sex and my brain was saying NOOOOO. It will also allow you to keep your dignity and save your prize for the one who truly deserves it instead of the ones your hormones were screaming for at that moment.

Hope this helps.