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One and done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:21 PM
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Some are, some arent, I've said it over and over here, if they aren't getting sex or relationships then they need to level up and bring something to the table. LVM problems are not our problem. It's not that difficult to level up to the basic requirements for a relationship, the competition is pretty pathetic out there, just not being a disgusting porn addict these days is like hitting the lottery. If men are so pathetic they cant even stop watching porn then they can die alone in their own drie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:46 PM
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Some are, because women are letting them be fuck bois, it takes two to tango. Men having sex doesnt necessarily make them LV, there are other factors to, like if hes just a hot loser that fucks a million girls on tinder then ya, hes a LV fuck boi. I know men that are great catches but they dont need to settle down, they can just FWB a woman because we are giving them all the goodies and not demanding the commitment. Men will do whatever we demand of them for access to sex, this is the first time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:41 PM
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HVM. This is a sub for women that want commitment from HVM. Who cares what LVM are doing? If 1/3 of males can't bother to level up and offer something of value to a woman why would she get in a relationship with one? It's not like it's rocket science. If you want a gf or a wife then bring something to the table. Wash yourself, get some decent clothes, make some money, learn how to play guitar, turn off the porn and video games, whatever. HVM are enjoying the free sex buffet so its pretty hard to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:31 PM
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So what? There are men not interested in women to, MGTOW and WGTOW is not what we are discussing here, this is a dating strategy sub for people that are interested in dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:26 PM
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Thats good, it's crazy how many wome post sexually suggestive photos and then are shocked when men react sexually. You are right though, men nowadays will react sexually to a guinea pig dressed in a flour sac. Dont talk to these idiots at all, hes getting off just by you replying to him, he thinks you are down. The more often these douchey losers get instant block and delete the sooner they will learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:23 PM
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Why are you entertaining this guy? Hes talking to you like this because you are responding, it's pretty obvious. Also hes talking about one of your pictures. Dont entertain fuck bois, instant block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:33 AM
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This meghan markle crap is next level annoying. Who cares about meghan markle. The ONLY reason shes all over the news all of a sudden like shes the fucking princess of the universe is to distract us from the royal peadophile son....what happened to Andrew?! That disgusting royal baby fucker has just dropped off the earth like he never existed, how convenient....now its meghan all day everyday, doing her duty as the royal patsy/scapegoat. "Look over here folks! Look at all the princess meghan dra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:53 AM
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Yup, no contact is the ONLY solution to a fuck boi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:38 PM
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Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:26 PM
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It's a journey! Lol. As long as we eventually get to the destination...self respect! Next time a guy offers "freindship" just tell him you dont fuck your friends, but theres a great sale on at Macy's if he wants to go shopping and grab a pumpkin spice latte after. See how long he still wants to be "freinds" after that....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:39 PM
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High five sister! Be a queen! ❤👑❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:27 PM
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Yes. Porn overshadows them all though. It's pure degeneracy and destroys the mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:19 AM
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Do you know what the difference between then and now is?...internet porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:47 PM
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And yet you all feel you "know" marilyn monroe. Ok then. There were other interviews with people that knew marilyn and jackie that said the same things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:34 AM
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How so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:22 AM
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I meant enough men that are on their "best behavior". Many women are better off alone then with a low value male and many women know this. If the men stepped up and brought some value to the table women might be interested. Obviously many men dont feel it's worth the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:21 AM
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Men are pure emotion, only they only have access to two emotions, anger or arrogance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:41 PM
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This is what dating used to be, you would spend some time getting to know each other OUTSIDE the bedroom and if it wasnt a match you would move on. Now a woman gives a man EVERYTHING she has to offer, he takes it all and more giving her very little in return until he turns around and tells her she isnt the one leaving her broken on the floor, rinse and repeat until she is an empty shell of her former self. Stop having sex with men that dont love you and arent committed to you. Good job OP. Its d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:29 PM
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Clearly they arent though or they would be in relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:36 PM
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Those arent HVM. Just because men are willing to commit for sex doesn't mean women are going to want committment from them, they still have to come to the table with something. We arent a sex charity. Most of those men are also shooting way above their league. Watching porn all your life is going to skew your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:35 PM
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Lol, this is from a book on her life, you hardly need to know famous people personally to know things about them. Its not bizarre at all, Jackie knew her husband cheated, she obviously wasn't happy about it, but she also knew marilyn was a very unstable girl, everyone back then did. She was a public mess. When your husband is the president of the US its not a good look for him to be out sticking his dick in crazy and having that blow up in their faces publicly. Marilyn was trying to contact him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 01:41 PM
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Ah, sorry, I read that wrong then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 01:37 PM
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You want a HVM man that is better looking then you are but you dont want a man to want a beautiful woman? I don't understand.... HVM doesn't necessarily mean he has to be conventionally attractive, there are lots of average looking HVM. You might need to reassess your priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:12 AM
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This is the brutal truth of it. And so many women now, even in this sub, are constantly arguing for pro-porn "sex-positivity". It's so sad and honestly terrifying how far we have fallen when at the same time believing women have made progress. From what I can see in the world today, we are treated like whores at best and loathed as mortal enemies at worst. How is this progress?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 03:56 AM
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I think maybe they are waiting to see if the girl puts out, if she doesn't then he expects to be paid back on his "investment". As if spending $40 on dinner constitutes paying for sex. Jesus, call a fucking prostitute! Oh right, prostitutes are expensive, they are looking for a $40 bj. The absolute state of hook up culture today. Im guessing soon guys will be expecting us to pay them for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 03:37 AM
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Shame has always been an integral part of a functioning society. All our laws started out as shame, before there was a legal system there was a social moral standard. There are limits of course but no shame whatsoever is not the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:14 PM
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Its a HUGE spiritual exchange, the most intimate thing two people can share together, and so many women have no idea what they are giving away when they let men that dont love, cherish or respect them use their bodies for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:48 PM
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Yay!!! High five sister! Love the happy endings! 🙏🥰🙏 Now if the rest of us all wake up this FWB is over! No more low effort fuck bois!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:21 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story here, I feel you will touch some sisters in the same situation and give them the courage to leave. That's what this is all about! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:46 PM
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I guess I mean validation as in my opinion isn't important, only how you feel, like I said, its your body your choice. I just think you deserve better that's all. Overall, sex outside committment isnt something we advocate for here. But at least you are getting some benefits, unlike most women in FWB situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:26 PM
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Yes, just committed is good enough. If you are in an exclusive relationship and he truly cares for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:16 PM
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Hes earning money, he gets perks, hes not paying for your flights, let's be honest here. But like I said, you do you, I'm not your mother. My feelings on this are you wouldnt be here asking this question of a stranger on FDS if something about this wasnt sitting right with you. I feel like you are seeking validation to feel better about it somehow. You need to go inside, really feel this in your soul and decide for yourself, it might be ok with you or it might not, only you can decide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:12 PM
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Then you are letting a LVM have access to your body in exchange for something that is free for him. It's cool, it's your body, you can do as you wish, but I'm prob not the one to ask whether I think it's a good idea or not. These things are an individual choice. I'm not God, I just feel like women have lowered the bar so far that we are losing the game with this FWB, casual sex shit. Just my thoughts on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:58 PM
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Girl. I checked your post history, lol. You're against relationships and pro casual sex. Not sure why you are even interested in FDS when u dont even want to date men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:51 PM
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Good job sista! Its amazing how much self respect we gain just by learning to say no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:42 PM
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It's not my place to say. If I were fucking a pilot he would be my boyfriend and he sure as shit better have me on his flight benefits, that would just be a given.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:40 PM
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Oh hun, just stop. You are embarrassing yourself now. And between the two of us, you are the one the redpill boys will love, you are right in line with their free sex, low effort, no commitment philosophy. You're their dream girl. Pumping and dumping angry "sex positive" feminists is their favorite pastime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:39 PM
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Oh my fucking stars. OLD, never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:27 PM
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This is not a new concept ladies "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Our grandmothers werent stupid. If you are letting him test drive the merchandise then he will drive you back to the lot and go take the next car out for a spin. Dont fall for this bs. Only have sex with men that are committed to you. No one else deserves access to your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:22 PM
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Maybe you could find other ways to find mental clarity then uncommitted sex, meditation works for me and is much more self empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:15 PM
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You are so lost. I honestly more feel sorry for you then anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:11 PM
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EVERYONE knows that its a figure of speech but if you want to play that game then yup, we are def not treated like cows, you're correct on that point at least. You dont get free milk, the cow has to be fed, watered, cared for and sheltered. Today's "sex positive, empowered, liberal feminist woman" just needs to be ordered up off tinder, dont even have to buy her a happy meal. But you keep giving your body away to men that dont see you as anything more then a warm hole on a cold night and tell yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:11 PM
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Omg, the amount of single mothers with dead beat baby daddies out there because of this "hook up culture" bullshit is heartbreaking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:01 PM
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When did women as a whole lose sight of this basic concept?! Good for you! Tell your freinds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:50 PM
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👍👍👍👍👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:49 PM
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And incredibly dangerous, mentally, emotionally, physically and especially spiritually. I really hope women wake up to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:46 PM
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Oh lord, this is so sad. Why the fuck are women accepting casual sex at all. Demand more then just an orgasm in exchange for your bodies ladies. Men dont deserve you. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:41 PM
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It has nothing to do with redpill, its from our grandmothers, this concept is as old as time. It's just common sense. Come on now, you wrote an entire dissertation here saying pretty much nothing. What we are saying is dont be shocked when men as a whole are no longer interested in offering anything ie, relationships, dates, respect etc, to women when we are just giving men all the benefits of a relationship with zero investment anyway. It's pretty much "why buy the cow when you can get the milk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:22 PM
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Yes, this is the thing, most women stay in an FWB because they tell themselves that he must care about her on some level, or maybe if circumstances change you could be together etc. Then one day the reality if it smacks us squarely in the face. Men are under no such illusions, they know the deal from day one and what the purpose of the "relationship" is. Most women only need to experience this humiliation once to wake up to what FWB really means. Good for you for walking away! Now you have room …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:02 PM
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Oh my god. I'm so glad you are finally free. I hope other women can learn from your story. Good for you for walking away, I know it must have been hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:33 AM
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Yes, it's always hard to look at ourselves and take responsibility for our own part in the direction of our lives. But we must if we want anything to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:29 AM
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Oh hun, I'm so so sorry to hear that. Please take care of yourself, you are so much more then what has happened to you. Sending you love! ❤ Maybe others can learn from your story and not fall into the trap of "sex positivity" when it's really abuse. Its such a cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:27 AM
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Well if that's what you want then knock yourself out. Usually in these situations it's the woman that wants more which is why I'm not a big proponent of FWB. If you really do just want sex from a man then no one is stopping you. There are plenty of men eager to fill that role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:51 AM
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Yup, too many women have been drinking the libfem sex positive koolaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:21 AM
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Why are you not mentally in the right headspace for a man treating you like a gf but you are in the right headspace for casual uncommitted sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:20 AM
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Ya, that's the norm. Men arent in it for romance, they are in it for free sex. Unless women demand more from men in exchange for their bodies men will expect this and treat us accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:04 AM
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That doesn't really sound like an FWB, more like a vaycay hook up. Either way, if you want to try casual sex then go ahead, give it a shot, I dont recommend it but maybe you just need to see for yourself. Most women find they feel used and disrespected in the casual sex world though. Then they end up on FDS trying to find out how to get a man to commit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:44 AM
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Huh, they were all about "sex positivity" meaning pro-porn last I was there, that's why I left....or maybe I'm thinking twoxchromosomes...I get them confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:33 AM
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Well that's good at least! You made it sound like it was just a hook up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:31 AM
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Can i ask you honestly, if this guy was such a good, respectful guy and a great lover why did you settle for nothing more then sex? Why not a date at least, it's still a low bar to set but at least its something.... As far as FWBs are concerned some women have to learn for themselves. Everything that needs to be said about it has been said here. If you want to continue down that path you can, it's your decision to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:27 AM
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It takes two to tango. Also I'm just telling the truth, nothing more, nothing less. Women that dont understand the true nature of men and the dating game are going to get much harsher treatment and much less respect then just hearing some difficult truths from me. Hearing some tough love on FDS is a thousand times better then getting chewed up and spit out in the modern world of FWBs, NSA sex, hook up culture, "sex positivity" and OLD in a world of pornofied men. Women wouldn't be seeking advice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:15 AM
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Omg. I couldn't even get through it. Talk about setting yourself up for abuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:09 AM
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Imagine if all women just abandoned OLD....omg, men would have to engage with us in real life like human beings!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 02:56 AM
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Liberal feminism. Pure cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 02:39 AM
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Lol. I was around before "hook up culture" was a thing. I'm sorry you never experienced the days when men made an effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 02:11 AM
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Yup! It sucks when you realize the truth but soooo much better when you know the rules of the game and stop getting burned! Cheers sista!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:34 AM
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"Sex positive" pro-porn libfem. I never said they advocated for "ethical" porn, just that they are pro-porn. The deleted commenter i was replying to was pretending she only watched "ethical" porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:25 AM
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Oh thanks! I always get those confused. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:24 AM
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Yup, and I said they can do what they like, the problem is most women coming here are trying to escape the FWB trap and if they are having sex with a guy they think is hot almost all of them are hoping for more, very few women are out having great sex with hot guys they dont want to go on dates with or be in a relationships with. That's the big lie about FWB situations. Most women arent happy being FWBs, that's why they are here looking for answers on how to get men to take them on a decent date…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:22 AM
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Yup, sometimes a woman gets away with it, but many times she doesn't. HVM arent stupid, men talk about this all the time. Just because you lie doesnt mean you will necessarily always get away with it. Anyway, you do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:10 AM
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I get your point, what I'm saying is if women are having sex with fuck bois, why would a HVM accept being expected to commit and offer dates if you have already been giving fuck bois the goods for nothing? HVM have high standards, they are rare and they know it, they wont settle for less then a HVW either. Why waste time with fuck bois that dont deserve you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:07 AM
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And does it advocate for women to give LVM men access to their bodies for nothing in return? Seems like a huge contradiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:03 AM
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I see, so you think HVM are unaware that women are out having FWBs with other guys and then expecting him to take them on dates first and wife them up? Its hard to picture any man these days being that naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:01 AM
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Ugh. Thats so depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:55 AM
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HVM are not that stupid. You must think they are absolute chumps if you think a HVM cant spot the difference between a HVW and a LVW. We dont get to decide what constitutes high value to men, they do, this goes both ways. Men talk about this game all the time, they have no interest in giving commitment to a woman that he knows is giving sex to another man for nothing in return. This is the reason men are not committing anymore, why would they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:49 AM
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Do they really think a HVM is interested in a bunch of LVM's used goods? If a girl is giving it out on tinder she is def not a HVW and has zero self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:45 AM
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This is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:43 AM
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Send them to this sub. Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:42 AM
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If you dont want to be in a relationship practice self love, cultivating yourself, becoming a better woman, leveling up. Casual sex is worthless and only benefits men. Dont teach men that sex is casual. Sex is never casual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:10 AM
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Yes, I agree. But men's problems are not the issue here, we can only control ourselves and how we allow men to treat us. I hope they figure their own shit out but it's on them. In the meantime no FWBs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:06 AM
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Lol, I'm getting good sex AND a loving committed relationship. So ya, I'll pass on the FWB compromise thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:44 PM
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Its basically the main tenet that everything else depends on, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:24 PM
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Good analysis sis! People hate 'shaming' but this is the exact reason women shamed loose women back in the day, because they were bottoming out the market for everyone else. Women were just trying to defend their market value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:11 PM
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Shes a great actress, love her to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:09 PM
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Yup, that's a big part of it for sure. Immortalized in youth and beauty by a sad, drug addicted lonely death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:09 PM
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Why are you giving a low value, no effort man access to your body? You are better then that. No LVM deserves you. If he isnt good enough to date he is certainly not good enough to enter your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:05 PM
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Great reply!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:02 PM
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Ok, so that's why FDS women are not having casual sex, because it's not serving their interests. Thats why we are saying FWB is a lie that only benefits men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:49 PM
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Sure. I dont believe this for a second. The usual FWB justification. And yet here you are, looking for answers in a dating strategy sub, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:46 PM
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And women are surprised that men aren't interested in commitment anymore. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:44 PM
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Because they get the woman's friendship + the good sex without the hassle of the relationship, exclusivity, investment, or future expectations. It's the perfect deal for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:39 PM
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Ya, being a single mother is soooo much better. Jesus. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:37 PM
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This chick is straight out of the radical libfem playbook. I dont even know why shes here. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:37 PM
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Omg. You have got it all so backwards. Lol. You really think men arent marrying because women have it better nowadays??? Lol. Men don't care about us unless it benefits them, they arent marrying because they have no incentive to marry us, they get everything they want (ie sex) for nothing. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:35 PM
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Then you'll love r/pinkpillfeminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:31 PM
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I never said you couldnt do you, just maybe read the sub philosophy before spouting your own philosophy and expecting people here to agree with you. That's why I said pink pill is more your speed. We get a lot of pink pill refugees here once they realize they arent getting what they want out of men or life following that radfem philosophy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:31 PM
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Exactly. I've been to weddings where the groom has had sex with the entire bridal party and everyone just ignores the elephant in the room like its normal, it's so bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:27 PM
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Then what are you doing on a dating strategy sub? This is for women that want more from men then just casual sex. There are plenty of radfem WGTOW subs for you to find like minded women. You will fit right in at r/pinkpillfeminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:10 PM
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And why cant you have all that and more in a committed relationship with a great guy that loves and values you? Why settle for just good sex? You aren't here trying to land a good man but just identify one? Lol. Ok then. For what? So you can wave at him and his wife from across the street? You sound ridiculous. Sounds to me like you have tons of LVM willing to commit but you dont want them, you want the HVM that arent committing to you because they only offer you casual sex, so you found FDS. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:01 PM
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And "benefits".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:49 PM
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Shes just spouting the libfem fallacy. You can justify any behaviour if you want to, doesnt mean the rest of the world is going to bend to your will, especially men. She'll realize one day, but it might be too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:47 PM
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I know :) because I value myself more than that, that is the actual reason why I won't have one, so I'm stating the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:34 PM
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Me to, it will benefit all of us in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:34 PM
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Lol, you ARE the pick me that is sleeping with men that give you nothing. You can do what you like but dont be naive enough to think your behaviour doesn't have consequences in the real world. One day you will be the one that wants to settle down with a man that has no interest in giving you commitment because some other woman will fuck him for nothing. That's how this works. All these women are in FDS trying to learn how to land a HVM, well why do you think its so hard to find one willing to co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:32 PM
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I will never have a FWBs situation, I value myself more than that. You do what you like. I know you think you will find a HVM that has no problem with the fact that he will be paying for what you are giving this guy for free but whatever, good luck to you. Just so you know, most HVM are onto this game and want no part of it. They really do see it as having to pay for what "Chad" gets for free. Men are not blind to what's going on out there and that is why so many are refusing to settle down anym…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:28 PM
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And theres the rub. Theres a trade off to everything, the sexual revolution let the cat out of the bag. Between hook up culture and porn why would a man need to offer anything in exchange for getting his sexual needs met? We are meeting their needs for free. That has set up an unequal dating market where women are losing big. There are so few men willing to settle down now that women are competing for crumbs. Stop accepting crumbs ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:20 PM
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Exactly this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:03 PM
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Lol, because this isnt a WGTOW sub, it's a dating sub. Eesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:02 PM
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Ok, I'm tired of explaining this now. Read the sub, it's all laid out for you, that's what FDS is for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:58 PM
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It is. These are newbies that are all bent out of shape because we are calling them out. My guess is they are all in FWB situations and trying to justify their choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:55 PM
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Nailed it! I knew this would be an inflammatory topic. It's a hard pill to swallow sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:51 PM
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That has nothing to do with this topic but thanks for the input. We dont beg for any old loser to offer us a relationship, nor do we give any old LVM with nothing to offer casual sex. We are talking about the lie that there is any such thing as FWBs. Hes not your freind, and hes not giving you any of the benefits of a relationship but he sure is getting the benefits. Men know the deal, why do you think they are all trying for FWB all the time? They get all the benefits with none of the effort or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:43 PM
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Yup, women can pretend all they like that they "dont care" about the guy that's giving them an incredible dicking down every weekend after he strikes out at the bar and is "perfectly fine" when he turns around and wifes up the next girl he meets. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:43 PM
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And that's the thing, its extremely rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:34 PM
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Then he would ask you to be his girlfriend. Dont kid yourself, men are very black and white. The loss of power is in lying to yourself not in the choice you make as long as you are making the choice from an informed place and not a fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:33 PM
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I know right, such a low brow cheap shot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:30 PM
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Men LOVE casual sex, dont fall into the lie that men and women are at all the same when it comes to sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:29 PM
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🙄 obviously not. But I do expect a much higher bar in what a man offers if he is lucky enough to be having sex with me. Good sex and commitment are just the basic requirement, it's only up from there. I dont sell myself short, crumbs wont cut it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:20 PM
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Sure. But FDS is not. There are subs for everyone. This isnt a casual sex sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:17 PM
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The issue with this kind of thinking is that then when women meet a man they want a relationship with he wants casual sex because women are giving men sex for nothing so they offer nothing. Its up to us how we let men treat us but dont be shocked when it's not what you want. Men will take what we give them, if they can get everything for nothing that is what they will expect. You can do what you like but then dont be upset at the consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:15 PM
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Maybe women need to decide what's more important to them, finding a good man that gives you everything you deserve or scratching an itch with a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:12 PM
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Lol! Wish more of the upvoters would help out and chime in here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:04 PM
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Thats what I mean. If you are in an FWB you are not getting a HVM, you are getting low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:02 PM
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I'm sorry you dont like the truth. It is what it is. I'm tired of the lies we tell ourselves and the flowery language we use to describe things we dont want to look at. I'm not judging anyone, I'm telling women to understand the truth of men and how men see things. If women want to play these games with men they need to be on an equal playing feild, not in a delusional fantasy land. It will save a lot of women a lot of heartache in the end. FDS is not about coddling women, its about helping them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:00 PM
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As in what? It's pretty black and white. If you want to have casual sex then you can do that, there are endless opportunities, but why are you here then? FDS is about getting more from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:53 PM
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Sometimes tough love is a thing. If women keep having casual sex then they have no right to get upset when the men out there all expect casual sex and arent willing to date or get into relationships. You dont get it both ways. Women come to FDS because they are sick of being used and treated like free prostitutes. FDS gives women a way out of that cycle but its your choice if you want to heed the advice or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:51 PM
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Read it in context. As in he finds a woman "good enough" to fuck but not "good enough" to offer her anything more then sex. If shes ok with that that's on her. Doesnt have anything to do with her value in the world but it def does have a lot to do with her value in the eyes of the man shes fucking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:48 PM
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Then why are you in this sub? There are tons of subs that advocate for casual sex. This one is pretty clear on its views on casual sex. What we are discussing here is the term "freinds with benefits" it's a lie perpetuated by men and I want us to stop using it. There is no friendship and no benefits, that's the whole point of FWB, so men can get the sex without having to offer the friendship or the benefits of a relationship. For men it's an FP, free prostitute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:44 PM
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I never said every woman had to connect love and sex, but if you are in an FWB situation you are being treated like a free prostitute, that's how he sees you, otherwise you would be the girlfriend. Your choice though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:42 PM
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Be very very careful taking this kind of advice. This is not FDS advice. If you spend more time on FDS and really try to learn from the majority of the women on this sub and not women like this you may see this very differently, and I hope for your sake you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:40 PM
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Why cant you have both? Do you not think you deserve that from a man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:37 PM
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This. 🙏❤🙏 I expect that level of lack of self control from low value men, not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:27 PM
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Its def more accurate. I'm personally going to stick with 'free prostitute' though because that's how men see it. If a woman is good enough to fuck but not good enough to date or have a relationship with then she is only there for one reason as far as he is concerned, and she is free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:21 PM
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My feelings about it exactly! Love and sex are one and the same to me and I would have it no other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:20 PM
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Obviously, it's all on the table if you play your cards right, not just getting dicked....getting romanced, respected, cared for and anything else you might want, along with a great dicking! Be a queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:16 PM
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I don't need tips on how to get casual sex, lol. I could open my door and yell "I'm horny" and have 15 hot studs lined up in 2.5 seconds. Not interested. I like having my cake and eating it to, great sex with a great committed guy. You do you though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:13 PM
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Exactly. Be better then that ladies. If anything I'm 1000% better at pleasuring myself then some tinder rando that's just using my body as a fleshlite. The newbies are really getting their panties in a bunch over this one, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:09 PM
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No, she has nothing. If you are so naive to think men and women are on an equal playing feild when it comes to casual sex then you are so lost. Why do you think this sub exists? So we can get more casual sex? Lol! It's called female DATING strategy for a reason, not female FUCKING strategy. Why are you here if you have it all figured out and are just out to "get some"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:07 PM
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I'm in a relationship, lol, not an FWB. Just so sick of the term, it hurts women and benefits men and women are all lying to themselves pretending they have a friend or any real benefits. I hope "dear sister" that you find a man that will love you instead of just fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:57 PM
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And you think the men you are having casual sex with care more then the man that built the Taj Mahal?! Lol. Ok then. Straight women have the lowest rate of orgasms then anyone else during sex, straight men the highest...seems to me like they dgaf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:51 PM
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Lol. Your nail technician gets paid, she doesn't need to care if you "deserve" it or not, and neither does he because you dont require anything from him, he gets it all for nothing. But whatever, you do you. Men used to give women good sex, commitment, romance, respect and marriage. A man built the Taj Mahal for a woman, now we are giving it up for less then a happy meal and you think this is self care?! Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:43 PM
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Because it's a lie perpetuated by men for access to our bodies in exchange for no friendship or benefits. That's why. What we call things is important. We need to stop lying to ourselves. Women dont want to call it what it is because then they would have to face the truth of it. If it doesn't bother you then why the make believe flowery terminology? Why do men use terms like this instead of just straight up asking us to fuck? Even they know FWB is bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:39 PM
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Like I said, do as you like. My sex drive doesn't control me. If you call him more then he calls you he isnt even that sexually into you and probably has others higher on his sex roster. Why are you giving yourself to someone that doesn't deserve you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:31 PM
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Sure, do as you like, just know the reality of the arrangement, he is not your friend. I'm tired of hearing the term "freinds with benefits" when there is no friendship and very little benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:27 PM
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Exactly. We were never equal. Men were never on our level and never will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:44 PM
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Not at all. I actually do see her for who she really was, complexity and all. That was my point. Everyone here just sees the 2D Hollywood fantasy. Its interesting, even Jackie Kennedy saw her for what she was. She was angry that her husband had an affair with her more because of how damaged and on the edge of sanity marilyn was then because of the actual affair. Jackie had her own issues with men obviously but she could see a disturbed woman and empathize. She gave her husband shit for taking ad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:31 PM
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FWB is bullshit ladies! What benefits? Being his free hooker? What friendship? Do you call him when u are sick? Is he available when you need a ride to the airport? There is no such thing as FWB, it's called "FP" as in "Free Prostitute", and that's how they see you. We need to stop using the term "freinds with benefits".That shit is a lie and only benefits men. It's important what you call things, dont lie to yourselves, if we called it what it is, as in "free prostitute" we would think very dif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:23 PM
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Lol. Old man feeling his mortality, wants to leave a legacy of mini-mes. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:14 PM
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Next time say "I pick Chad, hes taking me to (name best restaurant in town)".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:11 PM
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Lmfao! Right! I know the exact video. Just not running for the hills and disowning your children is considered worthy of dad trophy of the year these days!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:09 PM
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Wow, Laura dern leveled up! She looks amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:07 PM
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I know right. Holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:48 PM
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Lol, they dont even try to hide it anymore. Just tell them to call a prostitute, you're not a free hooker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:44 PM
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Lol, that's actually clear as day, not baffling at all. You were just filler entertainment for texting when he was bored. All guys do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:14 PM
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Yup, their instant thought process is "she wants on my dick" not "she wants to get to know me". Its pathetic and not worth the hassle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:13 PM
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It is if it means she doesn't fall for his low value shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:06 PM
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Yup. They see you as low effort easy sex, that's all. Men only value what they have to work for, if they dont work for you they dont value you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:03 PM
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I never said it was, what I'm saying is it's not something to look up to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:52 PM
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How is that the case? She was the lowest paid hollywood starlet in the roster. Every other woman in the Hollywood system back then brokered themselves a better deal then marilyn did. Most of the other actresses either felt sorry for her or despised her for prostituting herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:43 PM
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Well dont put people on pedestals. She was a drug addict, a HUGE pickmeisha, mentally ill and had sex with every power broker in Hollywood in exchange for fame. I feel sorry for her for sure, she had a shit run of it but I certainly dont look up to her. Its sometimes important to see past the image for who people really are. Not saying you shouldnt love her, just love the real her and not the fake Hollywood image. She even had tons of plastic surgery to "look" like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:26 PM
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Peadophilia happens behind closed doors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:19 PM
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No, you are 100% on the nose. They are both low value people. The royals are garbage. Notice how this little drama with the royal brats pops up and all of a sudden the peadophile son is out of the news?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:19 PM
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Ya, they are trying to come to canada to be "financially independent" on our tax dollar dime because princess Meghan doesn't want to have to do her royal duties. God I hate these two. Also interesting how this drama pops up and the fact that Andrew fucks children is all of a sudden old news. How convenient. The royals are garbage people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:15 PM
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"Twinflame" is the new word for "delusional codependent".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:04 PM
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Every fucking time....man says creepy shit...woman calls man out on creepy shit....man says "lol" "jk" "jeez! I was just kidding!" "Wheres your sense of humor!" "Judgey bitch!" Trying to cover his pathetic creepy ass....fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:53 PM
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Started out Diana, ended up prince Charles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:41 PM
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When men suggest "a walk in the park" to "get to know each other" I just say I already know all I need to know about you with that offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:40 PM
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Words to live by. This is what the liberal progressive sex positive feminists dont understand, they gave their power away the day they wanted "equailty" with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:35 PM
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Can I ask why you consider marilyn a queen? Just curious. She was a very messed up girl imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:33 PM
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Oh that would have been perfect! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:28 PM
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Men only notice sexual cues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:30 PM
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Many newbies come to FDS with this mindset. I would suggest you just sit back, respect the sub and stay quiet regarding porn until you have been here longer and have an understanding of our belief system and why we are anti-porn. This is not twoxchromosomes or pinkpillfeminism, this is never going to be a pro-porn sub or a pro "ethical" porn sub. We have heard this all before, you are not telling us anything new, just stop. Maybe if you stopped preaching and listened for once you might learn som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:22 PM
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Do not prude shame. No one here is anti-sex. I feel like you are in the wrong sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:16 PM
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It is. Its total bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:15 PM
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It's a bullshit new made up term to justify their porn use. Kind of like "ethical murder". Seriously, who is like "I'm super horny, let me just research this porn site a little first to make sure this gang bang rape is an "ethical" video"....ya give me a fucking break. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:15 PM
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There is no nuance here regarding porn and this is not your platform to advocate for porn. Please take your toxic pro-porn stance elsewhere. There are endless pro-porn subs, this is not one of them. Respect the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:10 PM
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Do not defend porn here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:07 PM
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This is an anti-porn sub. If you want to participate in a pro porn sub there are many other places on reddit to do this. Dont infect this place. This is the only sub we have that does not advocate for porn and we have very strong/valid reasons for this. Also do not prude shame. Being anti-porn is in no way anti-sex or not "sex positive". If anything it is extreamly sex positive to be anti-porn. People should be having actual sex with each other, not watching strangers rape and abuse women on the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:06 PM
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Ya, pornsick men usually have some deep ingrained fetishes. Pretend you are into porn to and share something that is a (fake) fetish type thing you want to do and ask if they have anything they are into....they will usually be super stoked that you might be a willing partner in their degeneracy and will usually divulge some pretty nasty shit. You can be guaranteed that whatever they tell you is the super mild version of what it is they are actually into. Usually porn sick men have a certain vibe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:58 PM
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It's the stupid redpill bullshit, teaches men to think they are the prize, lol. I see it's working out well for them. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:19 PM
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Because reddit is full of teenage incels. Stop listening to this shit, remember who is on the other side of this ridiculous childish argument. Stop engaging with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:17 PM
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Listen very carefully ladies....this is ALWAYS the case. If a man is with you when he is a loser in life he considers you just as low value as he is. It doesn't matter how much you have your shit together he will see you as someone on the same level that he is on, otherwise why would you be with his pathetic loser ass in the first place? He will not be grateful and he will not be loyal, he will use you as much as you will let him and once he levels up on your effort and your dime he will go out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:58 PM
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Well he still "allows" her to tinker with his life....wtf?! Prob still let's her lend him money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:47 PM
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No it really does. I've dug deeply into all this and they are actually satanists. They are VERY religious. It was really eye opening once I realized what was going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:38 PM
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It's so incredibly disgusting. All the Disney kids. The VP of Disney was arrested for child porn. These people are satanists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:34 PM
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Ya, don't take it to heart, don't get sucked in to his bullshit and go out there and find a real relationship with a decent man that loves you. No more of this "casual" bs. Fuck bois are a waste of time, the sex isn't even good. What's the point really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:05 AM
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Many fathers have taken the million dollars, that's the gut wrenching thing. Brittany and Jamie Lynn spears comes to mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:22 AM
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It really makes me see people like Britney spears in an whole new light. Those poor poor girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:21 AM
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Ya poor vanessa. Shes full pickmeisha. She was dating zac efron for years and same thing, she was down for whatever he wanted. They would come to Vancouver for work, my gf and I met them at a club. My friend hooked up with them and every time they came to town she would join them for some "fun". Vanessa was the "cool" gf, down for anything, but there is still no ring on her finger is there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:08 AM
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Yup, gaslighted her and the whole nine yards. Shes lucky she got out with her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:54 AM
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Welcome to the porn generation. Never get into relationships with men that watch porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:53 AM
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Sounds like a low value insecure idiot. So unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:22 AM
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Theres a strong likelyhood that he was also taking a dig at your ego to. Men have very fragile egos and they need the validation of a girl going crazy over him or having her heart broken when he dumps her. They get off on that shit, that's why they are always "humble bragging" about their "crazy" exes. They want to be seen as the alpha heart breaker. If you seemed unaffected by him, were drifting away and didnt want a relationship with him it probably hurt his ego and he wanted to get revenge by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:04 AM
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Lol....there would be no relationship phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:06 AM
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Just ewwww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:29 PM
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But muh all you can eat breadsticks!!!! Nooooo!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:24 PM
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Ugh. Just makes me feel like a roll of paper towels was stuffed up my pussy I'm that dry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:11 PM
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Yup, and they sleep in separate bedrooms of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:07 PM
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30 year olds are getting hotter and hotter on tinder these days, lol. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:05 PM
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Hopefully shes getting nailed hard by the pool boy right about now, finally experiencing an actual orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:04 PM
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Prostitutes get paid. They are treating women like free prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:10 PM
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Its from redpill. They tell men that "they are the prize" etc. All these losers that cant get laid are being taught that they are the prize, lol, its fucking delusional...and hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:38 AM
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Lol! I bet we see his ass getting financially raped on 90 day finance next! Ahahaha!!! This is priceless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:19 AM
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Bi for the guy. Such a cliche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:09 AM
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"Pick me! I'm the cool girl! I'm sex positive! I'm bisexual! I love anal! I'm chill! Im not like other girls! Pick me, pick me, pick me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:07 AM
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She's still way younger then him and accepting some serious used goods. I wouldnt touch his dick in a hazmat suit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 10:11 PM
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Clooney is an old man, he hooked up with every starlet and super model in Hollywood during his eligible years and never settled down. Then when he started getting old and losing his looks he finally settled with a woman way younger to nurse his used up dick through his geriatric years. He is the redpill posterboy, all men think they are going to be george Clooney. Just pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:01 PM
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This is why we should NEVER have sex before commitment and never let a guy string us along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:42 PM
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I know right! Soooo much better to see this couple on FDS instead of Clooney and amal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:54 PM
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Oh come on. There is no way this is real. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:46 PM
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Le porn generation. It's over my friends. There is no putting the genie back in the bottle, pandoras box has been opened, literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:08 PM
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I've talked to a few of them and all I can say is its mass delusion. They have been off the market for years and while they were married they saw the dating market transformed by OLD, apps and porn. They got it in their heads that the world was full of hot slutty nympho teenagers that couldnt get enough dick, especially old ass dick. They figured they were missing out on all this hot pussy and once they got divorced were convinced that all they had to do was throw up a shitty profile on tinder a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:56 PM
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Dont forget a free prostitute to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:27 PM
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In their own words...."sexual strategy is ammoral" well enjoy boys, you wanted this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:19 PM
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Yup, listen up lurkers, we can have sex with the top tier of men anytime we want, casual sex isnt for average men. Sorry, not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:49 PM
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GASLIGHTING!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:23 PM
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Ya, this is a twoxchronosomes post. FDS is getting overrun with this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:18 PM
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This is what casual sex has reduced men to, treating us like free prostitutes. Never give men free sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:10 PM
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This is it in a nutshell. A guy always pays when he really likes a girl, even if he is dead broke he will find a way to pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:08 PM
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They all have this lame mantra now "why should I have to pay for what Chad gets for free?" Well dipshit, because you are NOT CHAD! Why the fuck does anyone get anything in life? No one is entitled to anything. If you are not a "hot alpha badass sexy as fuck Chad" girls are not going to fuck you like you are one, sorry, lifes not fair, deal with it. I want to be a brain surgeon but I cant because i don't have the education nor training, but fuck that, I should just get to do whatever I want regar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:49 AM
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Ugh. I know right! Libfem is pure cancer. And those women are utterly clueless, buying into it propagating their own enslavement and degradation. We need to burn the whole thing to the ground and start over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 03:46 AM
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No, you clearly dont get it at all. Whoosh applies to anything that goes over your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:56 AM
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They call it their "roster" around here. Ya, no thanks dipshit, not gonna join your revolving roster. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:05 AM
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Whoosh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:49 PM
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This needs to be an all out movement bigger then women's lib was in the 60s. Liberal feminism destroyed us, we need to take our power, and self respect, back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 08:34 PM
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Ya, this whole "kick ass woman" trope everywhere these days pushing this weird concept of women beating the shit out of men is super dangerous. If I see another Hollywood bs movie where some skinny actesss/model type takes on 25 huge dudes and lays them all out with some super sexy karate moves or whatever I'm going to scream. I miss the old school Hollywood femme fatales, the beautiful, sexy, wisecracking bombshells that had men on their knees just using their actual God given FEMININE wiles. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:39 PM
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This would NEVER have happened 2 generations ago! No woman would ever have let herself be strung along as a 10 year 'girlfriend'. Holy shit, raise the bar ladies, this shit needs to stop now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:49 PM
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Ah yes, the "I look 10 years younger then my age" crowd. Delusional. They ALL think they look 10 years younger then their age. No, you fucking dont.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:21 PM
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Men see everything through a filter of porn reality now. Their brains are ruined. There is no going back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:00 PM
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Ok, well your flair concerned me on top of being so excited about drinking glasses....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:31 PM
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You realize drinking glasses can be bought for $10 a set right? Try not to get too excited if he spends $10 on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:26 PM
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I know, its embarrassing and I dont want to be associated with this kind of garbage. This sub is starting to go downhill lately ive noticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:24 PM
3

So he wants to be able to fuck around and get his sexual needs met outside the relationship but doesnt want the woman to go outside the relationship to get her emotional needs met. So a one way street, surprise surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:18 PM
2

I just send them a pic of a huge dick and say it's my fave nude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:15 PM
-10

You are impressed by drinking glasses? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:45 PM
31

Lol, so I guess if in some alternate fantasy universe a hot 22 year old hit him up he would be disgusted that she had hit the wall... 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:44 PM
8

Exactly. This garbage is just embarrassing and not at all what this sub is about. Mods should be all over this kind of crap. We are just stooping to their level and proving their point. This isnt the kind of thing I come to FDS for, it's incredibly immature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:35 PM
19

This isnt the kind of bullshit we are about here. This just makes us look petty and pathetic. Grow up ladies and have some class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 08:22 PM
8

Lol. A man would just ruin this moment. He would probably still be in bed jacking to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 01:17 AM
11

Oh right! My bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:26 PM
19

What witch craft is this?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:32 PM
82

FDS teaches to expect basic decency and respect but if you are trying to get the super hot fuck boy on tinder to settle down with you when he has 1000 other girls hes playin at the same time it might be time to reevaluate what your standards are and to value better things in a man, like respect, decency, drive, high moral character, honesty, kindness, maturity, similar values and life goals, etc etc. Dont compromise on how you let a man treat you ever, always have standards as far as what you ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:23 PM
125

Most people settle. Most people shoot out of their league and when they cant get what they think they deserve they finally "settle" for their match. Most people are delusional about their lane. Then they pine over "the one that got away" for the rest of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:13 PM
7

Actually yes, on this sub you are wong. Men that offer nothing, treat women like free prostitutes and low value fuckboi behaviour is not rewarded with sex. If you are horny grab a vibrator. But I'm guessing this isnt the sub for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:10 PM
6

Not sure why you are in this sub then. FDS isn't about casual sex. Do what you want of course but you arent going to find a lot of support for that here. All of reddit is about casual sex, this place is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:05 PM
5

Convenient how he didn't realize that until he was old and ugly. I'm sure she will enrich his life plenty now that hes pushing 60. I hope she likes changing diapers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 12:30 AM
9

Ya, cause hes the walking dead and realized his clock was running out. After he has fucked every starlet and super model in Hollywood he offers Amal his used up dick to coddle through his geriatric years? Lucky lady. How romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 10:09 PM
12

This couple creeps me out. Why is it being blasted all over this sub lately? Hes an old man. Hes every fuckboi's wet dream. Hes the redpill God that every redpill loser thinks hes going to be. He hooked up with hundreds of hot women throughout his entire young attractive years, never settled down, then when he started to get old and ugly he all of a sudden picks up some woman way younger to coddle him through his geriatric years? Ya, no thanks, nothing about grandpa gazing into my eyes through h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 10:06 PM
7

He'd probably tell her to pick up a 26 on the way over, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:49 PM
15

Maybe, but he is such a little troll. If it were me I would be laughing all the way to the bank and go out there and find a real man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:07 PM
6

She was rewarded billions, she did just fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 04:21 PM
6

Actually....your money might....just sayin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 04:20 PM
4

Good for you! I'm sorry you had to go through that. Live and learn I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:22 AM
35

Yup, liberal men expect women to be beautiful AND be the provider. Yuck, liberal men are a plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:02 AM
8

Why did you pay for his shit? I don't understand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:41 PM
3

Same. The only thing I feel anymore is resignation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:16 PM
5

Its "exes" not "ex"...scroll down, there are many many exes, they are all models and actresses, white, asian, african American etc, all paid millions for their looks, it's not about age or race, it's about level of attractiveness. I think Amal is beautiful, that's not the point, the point is Clooney chose her because of her status, not her looks. Amal wouldn't have been paid millions for her looks even in her 20s, shes not model tier beautiful. If it was just about looks he would have married on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:04 PM
2

Wtf are you talking about??!!! Lol! So there are no tall able bodied thin women of different races, holy shit, that is so racist. In fact you have turned this entire thread into some crazy racist rant, it's insane, you have some serious issues that have nothing to do with this discussion. No one here stated that other races arent conventionally beautiful, just you. Amal, whatever race she is, is just not as pretty as all the other women Clooney dated, not even the african american and asian ones…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:34 PM
2

Omg. No one said anything about blonde and white except you. Get over it. Just because clooney tends to have that type doesnt mean there are no other races that are conventional beautiful. This is so clearly your own issue for whatever reason. And btw, Clooney dated beautiful asians and black women also if you had bothered to scroll down you would see that, and Amal isn't as pretty as they are either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:30 PM
-1

I'm not going to have this arguement again. Read the thread, that's my opinion on it. Just because women here are butt hurt that there is a beauty standard in society doesnt mean it doesn't exist. It's not "my opinion" every woman Clooney dated was paid millions because she is considered beautiful by society. It has nothing to do with my tastes or opinions on it. You calling me racist is so low brow and disgusting, you have zero idea who I am, or what I personally consider beautiful. I'm not obs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:57 PM
3

Amal is NOT as attractive as the women that george normally dated, that was my point, hes with her because of her status, not her looks, if she wasnt as successful and smart he wouldnt have chosen her. We can agree to disagree but it makes no difference in the end, men decide what is beautiful when choosing women and society is very clear on that standard. Billie eilish is a young attractive blonde, if she looked like your average unattractive girl the guys would not be sniffing around, she is a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:31 PM
5

Omg!!!!! I never said Amal wasnt attractive! Holy hell! What are you arguing here??? I said she wasnt as attractive as his usual type, he likes her because she is a top notch international lawyer and has status. He wouldn't be with her if she wasnt a brilliant lawyer. And Billie eilish is beautiful in a conventional way, she is not at all ugly or plain, she just has a different style. Find an actual ugly woman that the majority of men fall all over themselves for, you can't, there arent any. Thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:16 PM
3

Society is people. Men are people to, what they find attractive is society's standards because it is society. Men arent paying ugly women to perform for them in porn and movies and women arent buying fashion magazines full of ugly women either. There are waaaayyyy more unattractive and average people then beautiful people in the world, beauty always stands out as unique, even in large groups of beautiful women an unattractive woman isnt going to walk in and out shine them all just because she lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:04 PM
4

It's not demonstrably false, its demonstrably true. The thousands of highly paid models actresses and porn stars that fit the conventional beauty mold is pretty clear. Saying the sky is orange because you want it to be does not make it true. I also never once said anybody needed to try to fit the standard beauty mold, that sounds like your own issue or projections. But expecting men to conform to your personal beauty standards will never work, so why fight a losing battle? There is someone for e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:47 PM
3

The truth can be so heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:00 PM
5

I feel for you, it really is so sad. I'd say women need to stop all sex work, no more porn, camming, instathots etc, etc but even if it were possible that wouldn't work either, its too late, it would just be VR and sex bots instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:00 PM
47

Guys that can easily get beautiful women fall for women with intelligence and status, guys that can easily get smart/wealthy women fall for beautiful women. Its kind of funny, they always want what they cant have. But yes, they always know instantly. Guys just know. Love at first sight is a real phenomenon with men. Doesnt mean its legit, but they do think they know from the first meeting. I think it's just luck, they see some girl that is their perfect physical type and then she turns out to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:02 PM
27

They do that so if you call them on their disrespectful bullshit they can gaslight you and say "it was just a joke, wheres your sense of humor, lighten up!" Fucking idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:31 AM
55

It's a lot of the things you stated yes but the big one is porn. There was once a time in history not that long ago, within just the last couple hundred years, that men would lose their composure and fall in love over "a well turned ankle". Imagine that for a second, the most feminine thing a man experienced of a woman in the world on a day to day basis was a pretty face and the hope of just a glimpse of her delicate ankle under layers of skirts and stalkings. That was it, that was enough for a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:22 AM
37

Porn. Full stop. Men were not like this before internet porn, I know, I'm 50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:04 AM
12

Jesus. Froyo?!?! This fucking old ass nasty limp dicked saggy ball geriatric grandpa needs to be paying at least a cool grand if he wants a bj from a hot young teen. In what alternate universe do these freaks think any hot teenage girl fantasizes about sucking old man dick???? Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:30 PM
3

Oh ya, the first thing these losers do after you make them over into someone actually dateable is think they are now too good for you and they start sniffing around for something better. Never invest in a man. Always make them invest in you. Men are only loyal to women they are invested in, not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:22 PM
8

How convenient, I guess of course they will have to keep their "freindship" on the DL in case his "crazy" gf finds out and goes "crazy". What a fucking loser. Tell him your friendship costs exactly $500/hr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:18 PM
2

When you turn the idea of just letting a man propose into "50s housewife" and "weak fragile emasculated men" then you have lost all credibility to me. You are so far out on some imaginary limb you arent even in reality anymore. Stop trying to be men. There are so many ways to express big feelings and romance without taking over every traditional male role out there. Acting like a man is not romantic it's just desperate and insecure and makes women look childish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:59 PM
11

Obviously. Everybody knows that. It's pure cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:18 AM
3

Thats not good. Are there any female online communities in your culture that would understand the unique issues you deal with? It's very hard for a sub of western women to relate and give you advice on such a situation. The advice we give could even put you in harm's way. I wish I could be of help but I'm afraid any advice I could give wouldnt be relevant to your situation. Are there safe womens groups or therapists you could talk to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:58 AM
8

Somebody is looking for a sugar momma. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:48 AM
14

You cant be serious....jesus girl, raise the bar to at least no ex-convicts. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:46 AM
4

I would never propose to a man. I would never respect a man that expected or accepted that and I would never take that from a man. I dont think a man feeling emasculated by a woman proposing to him is weak, I think it's just natural. Women just need to learn to leave some things alone. We don't have to take over everything. If a woman feels she needs to take over every male tradition because she cant just step back and leave some things alone and trust a man can handle things just reeks of insec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:38 AM
15

They keep calling us uggo incel leg-beards so not sure why they care what we do, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:52 AM
17

Why are they talking about our rules? What does it have to do with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 02:51 AM
30

Clearly they are afraid of us, lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:32 AM
2

Havent heard of femdom yet huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:29 AM
2

Ya, and just the cringeyness when people ask about their proposal. The other guys listening in as his wife explains how she "got down on one knee" no self respecting guy could handle that level of public shaming. Every guy they know will think hes an absolute cuckhold. Is she going to carry him across the threshold after the wedding to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:28 AM
2

Omg. This is next level pathetic pickmeisha behavior. Have fun babysitting your beta husband for the rest of your life. Ugh, even the look of this guy. Seriously lacking in testosterone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:25 AM
3

Hun, I don't think this is the right place for advice on your situation. There is too much of a cultural gap here. Maybe it would be better for you to find someone you can talk to, an older woman that has experience with the things you are dealing with. Do you know anyone in your life that has married for love that could give you advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:22 AM
6

Nah, betty is the pickmeisha. Veronica is a stone cold fox that has every boy at her feet. We all should have learned our lessons long ago, they were being taught to us from day one. "Nice" girl Betty never gets her man while Ronnie beats them off with a stick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:19 AM
12

Oof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:37 PM
4

Ew. Trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:27 PM
3

That's the majority of them these days. Thank god FDS is a biological female only sub, it would take one day for them to brigade and ruin this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 03:34 AM
11

"Bi for the guy" the ultimate pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 03:31 AM
2

Shes the queen of pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:52 AM
1

Omfg. Are you supposed to pretend you dont know? Lol. What a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:51 AM
5

And just wait a few years, hes going to be an old geriatric senile goat. She will be changing his diapers and wiping his drool while at the same time taking care of his kid. I work in customer service, I see 100s of people a day. I see so many older couples, the men are always a trainwreck, cant hear, cant see, cant understand anything. His wife is always speaking for him and acting as his nurse maid/caretaker/mother and these are women close to the same age as their husbands. Imagine what it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:41 AM
3

Arent you grateful you were "chosen"? Lol! Holy fuck. That was soooo cringey. I got the creeps for you....ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:33 AM
1

Hes not getting any responses because he is shooting for women out of his league. He is being shallow and messaging only attractive women then getting pissed and calling women shallow. So typical "hot women are shallow! They only care about looks" then proceeds to only go after hot women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 12:33 AM
2

Men only value things they have to earn and are invested in. Men are competitive, a man wins the girl over, like a prize in his mind. If shes easy shes low value, he will never see her as the prize and he will always wonder if he missed out on something better. Do what you are doing but you will never be valued by a hvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 12:28 AM
1

That's the rest of your relationship I'm afraid. Get used to netflix and chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 12:23 AM
6

I always send these guys a pic of a huge cock and say "looks like mine is bigger then yours!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 12:21 AM
2

Its because they are broke losers that cant get laid. They think socialism will even the playing feild so successful alphas wont be able to monopolize all the women. They are so incredibly pathetic. "Waaahhh! Capitalism is not fairw! I am a loser that cant make money in a free market so you better take all the money from the successful men and give it to me so I can get sex to!" - SJW socialist beta male losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 12:16 AM
5

Porn is extreamly racist. Everything about porn is disgusting, toxic and destructive. So are the men that watch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 11:29 PM
4

Hes trying to see if you will cave and let him have the cookie for free. He already set you up, he told you he has nothing to offer you outside sex. You slept with him, became attached because you are a normal human woman with feelings, he knew you would become attached so he told you the score and you broke things off. Now hes testing the waters to see if you will come back, if you fall for it he knows he got what he wanted, a commitment free casual sex situation. Basically a free hooker. He al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 11:22 PM
7

Because they get sex, companionship, care, compassion etc etc from the woman without having to give commitment, romance, exclusivity, dates, investment of time, money, resources or anything in return. He can literally have his cake and eat it to, and women are falling for this bs. Never have sex with men outside of a committed relationship. No man deserves your body in return for nothing. What guy wouldn't want everything for nothing? Hookers are expensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 11:11 PM
13

Just shows how bitter and angry they are about being such colossal losers in life. It's so pathetic that they even think we care, meanwhile they are obsessed with us. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:23 PM
13

Lol, so pathetic! These guys are so threatened they are stalking us now! Can you even imagine stalking some redpill loser guy because you have no life?! Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:05 PM
6

That already happened, so clearly they don't care either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:02 PM
24

So funny, some guys comment on that thread.... "Just an FYI, /u/_hedonism_bot is summoning a brigade from female dating strategy. Be prepared for a lot of leg-beard responses from the uggos on that forum." They are so threatened by us their only defense is "they are all leg beard uggos!" They think FDS is an incel forum of women that can't get dates because that's what they are. For one, there is no evidence that the women here are ugly and cant get dates, all we talk about is how many creepy lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 08:55 PM
15

Didnt feel indignant at all, that would imply I give a shit. If anything i felt like a roll of paper towels was stuffed up my crotch...his profile got me as dry as the Sahara desert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:09 AM
30

Just tell him he isnt hot enough for casual sex, you only have sex with 8+ alphas, not betas. Guys these days are so obsessed with this alpha/beta bullshit it destroys their ego if anyone thinks they are a beta. Also throw the number scale back in their faces
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:06 AM
6

So after a 20 year friendship he wants to stick his dick in her and when she says no he blows her off then accuses her of throwing away the friendship???!!! Holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:51 AM
2

Imagine having standards for your future husband and father of your children, lol, how incredibly unreasonable. 🙄 If he is so enamored with these 20 something prostitutes he keeps babbling about then why hasn't he wifed one of them up yet? Whats he doing sniffing around after old washed up 30 somethings then? lol. Sounds like buddy is so porn sick and delusional from fucking backpage and tinder whores (guaranteed he is paying for it, ain't no hot 20 somethings lining up to have 3somes with old s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 05:35 PM
37

If a guy insists on anal I tell him to go find a boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:32 PM
5

Holy fuck. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:31 PM
12

Ya, hes full of shit, these 20 somethings he claims to be having 3somes with he ordered up off backpage.com guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 05:43 AM
24

Is that the weird skinny nerdy IT guy? Wtf is she thinking???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 02:26 AM
2

Yup, I'm moving to, not planning on settling for some unattractive loser just because of demographics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:40 PM
6

Is there some hot man black hole somewhere sucking them all in? Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:18 PM
11

My entire city is like this not just the gyms, there are zero attractive men, the rare time I do see one he is always a tourist. The women otoh are stunning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:14 PM
6

So your boyfriend is 12 then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:47 PM
19

Except a hamster's cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 04:56 AM
2

Oh wow, yes we have to keep warning young girls and telling the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 12:33 AM
10

Its the truth, not a way of looking at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 08:44 PM
22

And we say no. End of story. If they want to die alone in their own dried up cum and filth then more power to them. We do not fuck or date men that watch porn, full stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:27 PM
11

Not really a solution when almost all men are watching it though. They really really need to wake the fuck up. As far as we go, women should deny sex to all men that watch porn until they finally step up and get their shit straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:06 PM
5

Number one....stop giving two fucks if you are high value to some loser or not. Number two....its never too late, ever. Be your best self for yourself. Get up and get going, do whatever it takes to make your life and yourself into the best it can be. Fuck men. I'm 49, I look fantastic, feel fantastic, have men at my feet and I dont give a fuck. There is no wall, if you are attractive there will always be men available at any age, whether you want them or not is the issue, not whether they want y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:58 PM
46

It's funny, every MGTOW post seems to be about women....guess going their own way is a load of crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:43 PM
59

Yup. They're cuckholding themselves. Watching porn is the equivalent of sitting in a dark dirty hotel room watching a bigger better man fuck a woman they wish they could fuck but never will right in front of them while they jack off to it in the corner....like a cuckhold. Its disgusting, weak and pathetic. This generation of men also has 60% lower sperm count and 40% lower testosterone then men in the 80s. They are useless broken shells, not even men, just pornofied coomers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:39 PM
26

I'm watching a guy I know and his gf playing this out right now. This guy is disgusting, broke, useless, a man child, cant wipe his own ass or even manage to get a proper haircut, hes one step away from homeless. She starts dating him because she is lonely and desperate. So far she has bought him bedding, food, clothes, drives him around etc etc. He is a total loser, not even attractive, he doesnt even have a phone ffs. He otoh hand thinks he's a prize. Its absolutely bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:26 PM
37

It's funny they expect all this but dont want to pay for it. If you want a barbie doll 1950s housewife then you better step up and support me in the lavish lifestyle I expect. No way in hell am I working all day then dressing up and cooking dinner for your sloppy ass when I get home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:21 PM
15

This truly breaks my heart. This might sound crazy but I was a preemie baby and was in an incubator for the first few weeks of my life. I have vivid memories of the fear, loneliness and sense of abandonment I felt at that time. I cant imagine the experience of a tiny helpless baby girl slowly dieing alone in a field or some cold institution with no love or care or hope. People think babies dont feel or understand but they very much do. China will burn for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:11 PM
13

Yup, I've seen a documentary about exactly this thing. A young poor rural chinese man taking care of his aging parents, no hope of a wife or family. Just living at home caring for his dying parents alone while they incessantly nag him to find a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:27 PM
-3

I unfortunately live in canada where our pussy of a PM admires Chinas basic dictatorship and our country has been sold out to the CCP entirely. You are so lucky you have a true leader. We are fucked. Our country has been sold to the chinese by our corrupt globalist elites and the Canadian people dont even know whats coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:11 PM
4

Ugh, just so beyond sickening and heartbreaking. China is the darkest most disgusting place. What kind of monsters can just leave their own babies to die like that by the millions. Godless satanic country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:09 PM
46

Most of them werent even aborted, they were killed after birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:16 AM
9

They are, there is a real threat of young chinese women being kidnapped, sold, held captive and forced into marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:16 AM
107

So a country that basically committed female infanticide on a genocidal level for years now expects the few remaining women they didnt kill to step up and help that country breed more female babies?....ya, fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:11 AM
3

Oh good lord. If I'm still having sex at 70 it better be with some hot young 50 yr old stud. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:30 AM
1

I think at 70 women are just over men entirely, let alone fucking one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:18 AM
13

Like seriously though, all these redpill idiots be all like "why should I pay for what Chad gets for free!"....well because you arent Chad you dipshit! At least Chad comes to the table with something, what the fuck do these average unattractive losers offer? If I'm going to have NSA sex then it sure as shit is going to be with the hottest guy I can find, lol! Not some average unattractive dickless wonder. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:45 AM
16

That's even worse. Any guy that's not that hot should never have expectations of free sex. They shouldnt even try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 12:34 AM
10

Porn sick limp dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:56 PM
6

Redpill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:47 PM
16

It's fake. LARP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:45 PM
14

Sounds like some broke ass deadbeat artist wannabe got his ass dumped when his gf met a guy with a job, lol. LARPing 100%. Talks about "frame" and "hitting the wall" lolololol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:42 PM
20

The problem is is that he is hot. Until women stop fucking hot fuck boys hot fuck boys will expect free sex. Good for you for blowing him off but we all need to do it as a sisterhood or this wont stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:30 PM
12

Because there are women that fall for this shit. Until we stop doing this as a species men will keep trying to push the bar lower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:29 PM
12

The fools are the women that actually fall for that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:23 PM
6

Number one is he doesnt watch porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:19 PM
8

Wow. Well that's just terrifying. Lol. Nobody wants to have sex with a 70 yr old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:50 PM
2

I know right. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:48 PM
19

Jesus! 70???!! Wtf are u even doing on OLD grandpa?! Your breeding days are done, out to pasture with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:23 PM
7

I think hes a juggalo....Prob thinks that makes him look 'hip to the scene' with the young folks, lol! Kinda like all those old dudes at the club still rockin the $400 true religion jeans. Or he still thinks kiss is edgy. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:19 PM
12

It's funny how Every. Single. Old. Guy. on tinder miraculously looks 10 years younger then his age....hmm, odds are..... And just fyi, taking steroids doesnt make you look younger, just makes you look like an old guy on steroids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:15 PM
12

Oh come on now...nobody is eating this shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:14 PM
28

Responding to these low value idiots just encourages them and means the rest of us have to put up with more of this behavior from men. Stop engaging in any way with men like these. He sent you a picture if his genetalia, why are you responding to him?! Have more self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 02:36 PM
2

If this were a one off then I wouldn't even have noticed it. I'd be like...you do you sister! But this is a regular opinion here these days, not much point in having a dating strategy if you don't even want to date or marry men at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 06:04 PM
1

Exactly my point. If women want to get married they shouldnt be told they are idiots for wanting that on a freaking dating strategy sub! Nor should they be constantly be told all men are evil pieces of shit, its counterproductive. I honestly thought this wasnt meant to just be a man hating sub like all the rest of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:53 PM
1

Subs have strict rules and philosophies for a reason, that's the point. That's why men are automatically banned here. This is not an open to all diverse opinions sub, it has strict guidelines and belief systems. Not really anymore though, this sub is ruined as far as I can see, just another pink pill bitch fest with zero usable dating advice anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:45 PM
8

Yes, along with learning that they need to take the appropriate amount time to get to know and vette men before having sex with them. Also choosing great guys that love them but might not be perfect over the exciting bad boys that are just using them for a night he wont remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:51 AM
1

You know absolutely nothing about me. Dont presume you know I am naive. Dont get married, i couldnt care less. My point is you are posting this on a dating strategy sub that was created to help women that do want marriage and commitment and teach them how to get what they want. But like I said, it has been brigaded by the pinkpillfeminism sub that has recently discovered FDS. It is night and day different here now then what it was just weeks ago. It's kind of ironic to because FDS was originally…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:53 PM
0

Well obviously, I'm not an idiot. Why would I cavalierly get married to a man that I havent fully vetted? But that's very different then stating women shouldnt get married at all or even desire marriage. Especially on what was once a dating strategy sub.... You opened your title with "marriage....dont do it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:48 PM
0

So we are no longer supposed to get married or have that goal then? Is that the new FDS philosophy? I'm just trying to keep up....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:41 PM
-1

I don't know what you want me to say here? That you are right? I should hate all men? I dont, I hate bad men and I love good men, I'm here to find the good ones and add them to my life. I know quite a few good men, should I throw them all away because according to you they are just one bad day away from raping or beating me? You obviously believe there aren't any high value men, so that's your path. We don't all have to be the same. I do honestly wish you the best though. I cant see where this c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:40 PM
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Never forget this. Sex is for men that prove themselves to you through love, commitment and investment. Find those guys, its easy to tell the difference if you make them wait. Why would a guy give a shit about what he does to a woman he orders up off tinder for the night? Prostitutes aren't even free, even they know the score.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:33 PM
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And yet they have absolutely no problem with it at all. This is what women really need to internalize about men, they are NOT like us. We will never understand how they view the world and we should never try to understand them through our eyes. Men can be wonderful, loving and caring but only toward women they care about, wanting to fuck us does not mean they care about us in any way or even find us particularly attractive. Women really do need to wake up to this and stop with the casual, NSA, O…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:31 PM
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Ok then. How sad this has all become. Not really any point in dating, connecting, marrying and trying to love and understand each other then I guess. Fuck men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:27 PM
7

Lol, these are not new concepts...I recall my grandmother saying cow, milk...something something....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:25 PM
18

Holy fuck. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:02 PM
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Couldnt we all. But best to know the true nature of men and stop deluding ourselves that sex has any meaning whatsoever to them outside of a loving relationship. Men have to love you first, sex comes second, otherwise you are no more then a mcchicken sandwich to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:01 PM
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Ya, you are right, porn hasnt changed things at all. 🙄 Anal sex never even used to be a thing, at all, it was something gay men did, porn made it mainstream, along with abusive sex, slapping, choking, throat fucking, the list could go on and on. I dont understand this concept women seem to have these days that all men throughout history were always abusive animals, it's just not true. Does no one here have grandfathers? Men have changed over the last couple generations, and not for the better. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:12 PM
1

This sub is no longer FDS, its pinkpillfeminism 2.0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:10 PM
9

Porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:07 PM
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Are you saying gender and sex are not connected? Gender and sex are biologically connected. They are not social constructs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:04 PM
6

Funny how that is....they must have a different biology I guess. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:02 PM
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I'm done with doing the work for them. This is the usual low effort cop out. I throw it back on them, I just say "it's up to you, I'll be ready and beautiful at the time you decide, just tell me if I should wear heels or flats. The best dates usually require both". I want to see what he comes up with, if hes a decent high value man he will make a good decision, if he tries to pull some low effort bullshit then I have my answer. Why are you researching and planning for them? This is a high value …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:51 PM
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There is a YouTube video of a man fucking a mcchicken sandwich so dont think it needs to have legs or a hole. Just needs to barely resemble female anatomy in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:43 PM
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Yup, they also see it as a hate fuck, like they conquered you and won. They get off on the humiliation. Sex is a weapon to men, that's why rape is so prevalent in war. This is why you only have sex with men that love you and are committed to you if you want it to mean anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:42 PM
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Even I'm confused. I cant imagine he has any idea what's going on, but continue with what you are doing then I guess, whatever that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 04:15 AM
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Play silly games get silly games. What are you even doing? This is middle school level game playing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:56 AM
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Only low value men hate waiting for sex because they know the longer you wait the more likely it is that you are going to bust his cover and see him for the scrub loser he is. High value men love the chase and love to wait because they never get to chase, women give it up too easy and they quickly get bored. High value men love the challenge and they love high value women that know their worth. The best way to tell between a high and low value male is their attitude about waiting for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:45 AM
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I think lying to ourselves is slipping into dangerous territory. You shouldnt tell men any number at all, its not any of their business. If he asks you, that's a serious red flag in my opinion. But be honest with yourself always. Maybe keeping track of the men you've had sex with vs the men you've had orgasms with would be a good idea as a constant reminder that casual sex is rarely worth it or rewarding for women. Lying to ourselves also implies shame, never feel shame for your past, instead vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:29 AM
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Ya, cause I was trying to hide the fact that I'm clearly not a delusional liberal feminist? Lol. Once again, surprise, this is not a lib fem sub, this sub is entirely against liberal feminist philosophy. Go back to pink pill if that's the echo chamber you're looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:50 PM
1

You are not understanding what I am saying at all. It's like trying to talk to a 5 year old. These concepts are so basic, they are very very simple, I'm not sure what you dont understand about women having standards. I give up. Keep having sex with abusive losers and men will continue to be abusive losers, why would they change?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:19 PM
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Ya, you think you have outed me as a racist? Sure, whatever, that's the card you play when you have no real arguement. I could care less what color you are. But now that you have devolved the discussion to bottom feeding name calling I'm done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:07 PM
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Sure, the privileged. So we are going to ignore the record numbers of single mothers in poverty. The record numbers of women being trafficked into sex slavery etc etc. Liberal feminists are a very privileged minority that cant seem to see past the end of their privileged spoiled western noses. So many of these successful career driven women on this sub looking for answers to why they are still alone and cant meet a man and have no children. Something went wrong somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:04 PM
1

When did I not acknowledge the widespread depravity of men? That was literally my point, easy cheap sex unleashed their depravity to levels never seen before in human history. We can either try to put the genie back in the bottle by controlling sex again or it will remain business as usual. Men are capable of great things if they have incentive, to deny they are is delusional. Men have not been useless animals for the entire history of mankind, seeing them as such does women a disservice and pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:21 PM
5

You are an unpaid prostitute if you believe casual FWB sex is empowering to women. Our grandmothers knew the value of sex and used it accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:17 PM
2

I'm on here because I believe in the FDS philosophy and I live by it and love discussing it and sharing success stories. I am not single and I am very happy with the man I am with. I also avoid subs like pinkpillfeminism like the cancerous plague that it is. You are not here for those reasons, you are here to push your lib fem bullshit brainwashing agenda because you think you are enlightened. You are not. You are like every other lost confused liberal feminist out there that recently discovered…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:14 PM
0

Lol, I'm on pick me probation for being too harsh to pick mes like you. But ya, you sure aren't brainwashed at all, such origional ideas spoon fed to you through lib fem media from the day you were born. If its all working out so well for you what are you doing here looking for answers then? Keep doing what you are doing hoping for a different result...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:50 PM
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Were you there? Or is that what you were brainwashed to believe by liberal feminist cancer?...maybe try thinking for yourself for once. If you see the world as black and white and men as the oppressive enemy then you are in the wrong sub, this sub is for strategies for meeting and having relationships with high value men. We believe there are many good high value men in the world and we want to meet them while weeding out the low value abusers and users. We dont paint all men with the same radfe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:15 PM
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You just dont get it. That is not at all what I just said. But if you want to give up your power to men then be my guest. See how far it gets you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:44 PM
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That's just delusional. Many many many men have done great things throughout history that were not aristocrats. And just because they fucked prostitutes then we should all become unpaid prostitutes? Thats the solution? Our grandmothers knew these basic concepts about male sexuality. Cow, milk, something, something....now that we are all giving it away for free hows that working out for us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:59 PM
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So once again...all the benefits a man gets from a relationship while not reciprocating any of the benefits a woman gets from a relationship. Sure, sign me up, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:44 PM
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They are angry and bitter because women rejected them their entire lives. Especially the hot high school cheerleader/mean girl. They spend their entire lives trying to get revenge on her through every women they ever meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:41 PM
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Yup, this is PUA bullshit. These guys always try to show women pictures of other hot girls they pretend they dated or are talking to to try to make you feel insecure and make you think he can get hot chicks. He wants you to think you arent special. Its typical pick up bullshit. I had a guy actually show me a picture of a known prostitute on tinder trying to make me think she was my competition, lol! Fucking idiots. He prob asked u for a picture of your ex so he could neg you and say the guy isnt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:37 PM
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Oh fuck those poor customer service girls. My silly old delusional father, in his 70s, thought the cute 20 something cashier at the liquor store he goes to EVERY DAY so he can chat with her (cause alcoholism is sexy) might have a crush on him. Holy fuck, the delusion is strong....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:22 PM
9

You might just be the lucky lady that gets to do his laundry and clean his nasty bathroom if you play your cards right and give a great blow job on demand!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:18 PM
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Fucking ew. Breakdown: I'm dangling the "im open to a future relationship" carrot but I have no intentions of ever getting in one with you. I want to take the intimacy and emotional connection part slow so I can use you for casual sex for as long as I can get away with it before you eventually wise up. I want someone to do relationship stuff with without the label or restrictions of a relationship in case I meet someone else I want to fuck or In case I meet someone better than you. I want an ind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:36 AM
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It's also a carrot on a stick they use to manipulate women into proving they are worthy of being "his person". Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:24 AM
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Porn sick cum brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:23 AM
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They even go out of their way to find and seduce women for their men, it's so pathetic. And then they act like they are somehow more evolved and sex positive then the rest of us. Gag. Reminds me of the old pimp/ho dynamic in the 70s when they would pretend their pimps were their boyfriends and loved them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:56 PM
3

Ugh. I hate these profiles. Just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:51 PM
1

Every fucking time these idiots say something creepy or inappropriate they follow it up with LOL or Haha! or ;) so when you call them on their shit they can use the "it was just a joke!" disclaimer and then neg you for having no sense of humor. I'm so sick of this lame obvious shit. He knows what hes doing, that's why he added the LOL at the end of his not even remotely funny creepy comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:48 PM
4

Nah, hes just trying to show off his cooking skills, it's a bit amateur but not a red flag, just cute, he likes you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:34 PM
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Could be a narc love bombing you. He has some serious red flags that cant be overlooked. I'd be extreamly cautious if I were you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:30 PM
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It means he wants sex, everything with men means they want sex, that's their nature. The difference is only "do they want sex with you just tonight or do they want sex with you every day".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:06 PM
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Men do not have our best interests at heart ladies. They dont care about your feelings, they care about getting laid and if you present yourself as an easy lay they will take it, every time, whether they like you or not. This is why you cant have casual sex on your terms, casual sex is for men, to benefit men, on mens terms. The only answer is to wait until you know if a guy is truly committed to you or not, and that takes time. Time is our freind, use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:04 PM
3

So you need to sugar momma him by day and be his pornographic sex doll by night....sounds super attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 07:47 PM
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I'm noticing this sub is overrun with porn loving sex positive man hating liberal rad fems these days though. FDS is not what it used to be. We need to either get serious about what this sub is supposed to be about and get back to heavy handed banning or we have lost the essence of this sub. It's just a liberal radfem playground now. I used to read this sub and it was normal women looking for and giving dating advice that benefited women. Now I just see post after post of man bashing bs and wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 07:32 PM
11

I see you've become a favorite of all the incel lurkers on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 06:34 PM
5

Oh I see, so knowing these shitty men is my fault then? Lol. This is the nature of men honey, all men talk shit when they think they are alone, that's why its called "locker room talk". Dont delude yourself thinking you know some saintly man that worships the ground you walk on because hes sticking his dick in you, because you dont. If women are willing to let men take advantage of them and use them then they will. Men are opportunists, if you give them something they dont deserve and havent ear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 04:10 AM
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Ah yes...freinds with benefits....I know what my friends offer me in my life, they are there for me when I need a shoulder to cry on, when I need someone to drive me to the airport or help with a project or any number of things a friendship brings to my life. A friendship is a very intimate and trusted relationship that goes both ways....do these guys offer that to you? Are they there for you the way a freind would be after they have busted a nut? Ya, I didnt think so....what benefits are you ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 10:35 PM
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Imagine being this desperate for a man that you let some douche bag use you for everything he can get while you get nothing in return. Women need to wake up to this FWB lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 09:34 PM
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Good job girl. None of us are perfect, the point isnt to never make mistakes, the point is to not fall into denial and self delusion because we aren't willing to admit our mistakes. You did good. And fyi, we dont die alone, we die with ourselves and our maker, forge a beautiful relationship with yourself and your God and you will never be alone. The rest is just icing on the cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 07:39 PM
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MGTOW: "I'm gonna run away and then you'll be sorry!!!.....I mean it! I'm running away and Im not coming back!....I'm leaving!.....I'm really really going now!!!....byyyeee!!!....you're never gonna see me again!......" Us: Ya....bye Felicia. 🙄 MGTOW: 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 06:38 AM
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Omfg I know, as soon as some guy starts trying to use me as his emotional tampon and personal therapist and I havent even met him yet, instant block. Such a huge turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 11:01 PM
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Yup, guys can use us to fulfill their need for intimacy over text and then watch porn for their sexual needs. They get everything they want, zero investment or effort. Meanwhile we think we are building a relationship that will develop into something more, it never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 02:54 PM
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Yup, that's why we need to avoid text game at all costs and force these idiots to talk on the phone and meet in person. Guys get no more then one or two word text answers from me and only if its about plans to meet in person or actually talk. Texting is low effort bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:09 PM
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But heaven forbid if you send a guy a text that is longer then one sentence or a double text when you are angry at him or trying to communicate something...then of course you are a crazy stage 5 clinger. Fucking idiots .🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 05:31 PM
11

Oh I realize that, I was using "you" in the cosmic sense. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 03:56 PM
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Guys: complain about having no luck on OLD because they are boring low effort losers, so they double down on being boring low effort losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 03:46 PM
8

Men are inappropriate disgusting creeps. I was hit on my entire teens and 20s by older creepers. My bosses, teachers, even my father's freinds, so disgusting. Some of them would even hit on me in front of their wives, or offer me money, ugh. One of my bosses used to stalk me, he would show up in his boat on the lake outside my house and call me on my days off, if I tried to say I was busy he would say "no your not, I can see you sunbathing on your deck, come out on the boat", fucking gross. I fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 03:27 PM
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Lots of these idiots are married or have gfs, they are just collecting texting buddies for entertainment, nudes and validation. Dont entertain these idiots, that's what cam girls get paid to do, why would you do it for free?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 03:11 PM
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It is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 03:08 PM
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Because they are boring and lazy and that's as much effort as they are willing to put in before giving up and jacking it to porn instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:09 AM
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I notice how they consistently leave pornogrphy out of these little "studies".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:25 AM
6

Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:23 AM
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Well to be fair sometimes they ask how your weekend went.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:03 AM
1

Give it time, no rush :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 01:06 AM
1

Ah, I see. Well dating prob isnt a priority right now then. Just put it on the back burner until things settle a little and your energy isnt so heavy. You arent going to enjoy daying in this mindset, and it doesnt sound like you have time for it right now anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 12:58 AM
1

Well that might be a place to start then before you attempt dating....find something, anything you enjoy or find fun, bring a little lightness into your life...get a kitten :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 12:25 AM
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😂🤮😂🤮😂🤮😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 09:03 PM
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Ahahaha! Like every creepy old douche bag on tinder...lies about his age, admits his real age in his bio but then claims it doesnt matter because "he looks 10 years younger". Lol. No you don't dipshit, you look like an old nasty, desperate creeper just like the rest of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:21 PM
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Lol, look at a group of professional women in their 40s compared to a group of professional men in their 40s. The women: slim fit yoga bodies, clean healthy diets, full social lives, therapy, botox, hair dye, makeup, great style, etc etc. Most of them look amazing. The men: beer guts, meat and liquor diet, balding, grey stubble, chubby, porn sick limp dicks.....Guess which group is fucking the younger generation, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:17 PM
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Lol. Take a breath girl. Maybe turn the analysis dial down a notch or two and go out there and try to have some fun. Just relax a little and let life happen on lifes terms, you cant control everything by analyzing and defining everything, its also incredibly unsexy. Romance is messy and unpredictable, always will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:57 PM
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No fap is the only worthwhile mens sub on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:24 AM
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I know, its hilarious, they have the most delicate little egos, lol. Any hint that they might be "creepy psychos" and they lose their shit. Hit em where it hurts! Creepers gonna creep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:22 AM
2

I think you are overthinking things. Do what you like, who's deciding you have to fit into some imaginary box?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:02 AM
0

That's not a lot of information to go on...what is the context here? How did it get to this? Do you need money? How do you feel about this? There is nothing wrong with taking money for sex, men should always pay in one way or another, be it money, resources, time, commitment, whatever, but they should always invest in you. If you don't mind having sex with him and you want the money then name your price, see what he says, or if he makes u an offer, double it, make it worth your while, dont sell …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 01:11 AM
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If a guy asks me for a netflix and chill date or something equally as low effort I just say "oh, you're one of those....I read about you guys online, so creepy. I didn't think I'd actually meet one irl, I thought it was just one of those online myths. You do kind of have that look about you though....anyway, no thanks, take care." Then when he inevitably asks "what type of guys? What do you mean? What did you read? What look do I have?" I dont answer, I just say "please never contact me again" a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 12:34 AM
2

You will never be friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:34 PM
2

Video games and porn....color me shocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:25 PM
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These men dont see women and children as human, they just see objects for sexual gratification, porn has done that to men. Keep reposting this, talk, tell people, our silence is the reason this is able to continue. Never back down, speak the truth about porn. It's dark days, I personally believe we are in end times. The evil shall be brought into the light, the veils will fall. Edit: seeing the depth of this evil has made me believe in God, because if this isnt proof of satan reigning in this wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:10 PM
1

Yup, once you see their tactics it becomes so obvious and clear. I met one last year, he was slick, he tried every trick in the book. I saw him for what he was though and didnt get sucked in. He tried to gain my trust, love bombed me, pushed for sex hard, tried knocking me up, wanted to borrow money, the whole nine yards. I ghosted him cold and never looked back. He got his hooks into another woman though, she fell for his tricks, she ended up knocked up, is now a single mother, alone, lent him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:29 AM
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Yes, exactly, great advice. And also after sex many women dont think straight, our brains get flooded with a shit ton of feel good bonding chemicals that are more powerful then the strongest aphrodisiacs and opiates, we are basically high and can no longer make logical decisions. Narcs know this, that's part of the reason they try to get us in bed so quickly. Some even try to knock women up so they are hooked to him forever, then they can use us for regular sex or money or whatever they think th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:17 AM
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There is a hell and they will burn. I agree with you 100%. Spread the word, silence kills. Maybe a few of these babies can be saved from this horror. And just an added note, this isnt really in men's brains, porn feeds this depravity, it's an addiction and porn is made to be addictive. It is the devils tool and men are the targets. We need to fight porn, not all men are naturally drawn to this sick depraved shit, they have been brainwashed. If porn disappeared tom most men would be back to norma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:26 AM
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Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:08 AM
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Well nothing lost, nothing gained, if you learned something and felt it wasnt all a loss then that is great. As long as you are ok and at peace with everything then it's all good. And borderlines can be very seductive in their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:01 AM
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Yup, sounds about right, 3 months is their max it seems. You are lucky you got away as well off as you did, I've seen women lose everything, their money, their self worth, their sanity, left broken on the floor with nothing. Narcs are monsters and need to be avoided at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:28 AM
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They were smart women, they were not brainwashed by liberal feminism like we are, they knew the score.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:26 AM
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Women can have satisfying sex and still be treated like queens. If you think just having sex is good enough then you are lost, you need to stay here and learn, not tell other women to follow your lead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:25 AM
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Its heartbreaking, I know. I'm sorry to have to be the bearer of this sick and disturbing twisted shit but women need to know. We need to know the horrors of porn and what it is doing to men, they are becoming monsters. They are eating children alive. We need to stand strong and shine a light in the darkest places or it will never change. These poor children need us to speak out. I dont have all the answers but ignorance is certainly not one of them, people need to know the truth. This is just g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:22 AM
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I never stated that, find me the comment where I framed commitment from men as the ultimate prize? I clearly stated time, resources, commitment, money, whatever, just stop handing your body out to mediocre males for nothing in return, that was my point. If you think getting dicked by mediocre males is enough then I dont have much to say to that, again, your choice. You said you disagreed with the FDS philosophy that women shouldn't give the milk out for free, i was defending our philosophy, that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 01:41 AM
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Now you are having an entirely different conversation. No one ever said we couldn't be happy without commitment from males. Where are you getting all this from, I think you are confusing yourself. The misunderstanding is coming from you making a different statement every time you comment and then back pedalling. You need to figure your shit out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 12:43 AM
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You are the one that cant see any reality outside a patriarchal reality, not me. We own our sexuality, we decide who we give it to and for what price, not men, giving ourselves away for free is stupid and short sighted but no one said you couldnt do that if you want to, that's on you, but there are consequences to that line of thinking, the biggest being men do not respect or value what they get for free. Not sure where you drummed up the idea that we are denying women the freedom to enjoy sex, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 12:35 AM
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Oh wow. You are so incredibly lost. If men loved the sex in exchange for resources situation why arent we able to even get them to take us on a proper date then? Where are all these men lining up to give us gifts, romance us, pay us and marry us in exchange for sex? Why is a sub like FDS even necessary if men are so on board with plying us with diamonds and pearls, commitment and romantic gestures?! Free, easy sex is the sole reason women are so miserable on the dating market, nothing else. Men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 12:08 AM
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Exactly. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 12:03 AM
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You aren't getting it. Stop giving men sex for nothing in return, be it resources, time, commitment, whatever. Sex is a commodity whether people like to admit it or not and it is the one power women hold over men above all others. A man built the Taj mahal for a woman and now we can't even get them to pay for a happy meal. How far we have fallen. The battle of the sexes was fought and lost the day sex became "casual". This is not a difficult concept. Our grandmothers and the generations upon gen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 12:00 AM
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Oh fuck, the 10 years younger bullshit, lol, and always after they have lied about their age on tinder "by accident" and "dont know how to change it back", lol. They really think we are that stupid. He probably targets younger single moms because he thinks they are desperate and should be grateful he even considers them, meanwhile they are using him as a beta bux and barely tolerating his old ugly ass. So delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:53 PM
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We are not stating that women cannot separate sex and emotional attraction. We are stating that casual sex is a lie perpetrated by men for the benefit of men and detrimental to women as a whole, we dont advocate for casual sex. Give away the milk for free then men will expect the milk for free. It's on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:49 PM
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He hooked you. Narrccissist love bombing tactic. Never have sex until you really know them, narcs cant hide their true colors for long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:39 PM
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Preach sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:38 PM
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The more women there are handing out free sex the more men will expect it. You are bottoming out the market, but thanks for your contribution to the movement. It's an FDS philosophy for a reason, not because we dont like sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:27 PM
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They are all watching it. Dont be fooled. Men wont stop until we force their hand. The ones that wouldnt get laid anyway, whatever, they are a lost cause regardless, no loss to us, the few decent ones left otoh are worth saving. Until we make it clear that we will not tolerate porn consumption men will not stop watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:24 PM
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Pretty much. Especially since he states his age and how he goes to the gym, I'm sure he thinks he "looks 10 years younger" then his age. 🙄 Sounds like a classic beta bux. The women are clearly not interested, a single mother is not happy being single, shes just happier single then she is dating him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:20 PM
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Well when they are good they are amazing....we just need to train them to be good again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 10:48 PM
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Yes, but they need to wake up to how fucked that is and how brainwashed and manipulated by the pornography industry they are. If they don't, humanity is lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:58 PM
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There are already tons of porn videos like that that men get off to, it's called "femdom", believe me, men are utterly depraved creatures. Because of porn they are barely even functioning humans anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:56 PM
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Well tbh they would actually probably get off on it, men are disgusting. A better analogy would be if we were making videos of financially raping them and expecting them to put up with it irl. Like if we sexually got off to women holding men down, spitting in their faces and beating them while we stole all the cash from their wallets. Lol. But yes, all jokes aside, this would never ever fly if the roles were reversed. But you know, sex is a "need" for men, they can't go without it, we just dont …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:50 PM
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Whatever, all their readers are going to be here soon anyway. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:55 PM
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It can happen, but it's not worth the risk. How many men is a woman going to get used and tossed aside by before one sticks using that theory. Dont play those odds, they are stacked against you. Its best to always wait until you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:50 PM
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Ugh, I can just hear it...this happens all the time, moids be like, "here let me give you my number, just let me put it in your phone, now text me right away so I have yours". Eesh. Just fuck off with this shit. We both know I'm just going to block you later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:47 PM
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I apologize for all the delusional western women defending the hijab. Good luck to you freind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:44 PM
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Gross. I spent my 20s warding off these types of creeps. My teachers, my father's friends, my bosses, all hitting on me constantly and all fucking clueless, I found them utterly repulsive. I see men in their 40s chasing after younger women all the time and they have no idea how young women see them, as nasty pathetic creepy old men. Now im in my 40s and I'm warding off guys in their 20s and early 30s looking for I don't know what, a mommy? a sugar momma? Wtf boys, play in your own back yard, qui…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:40 PM
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Maybe hes trying to wife up women 20 years younger then him, which is their usual tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:35 PM
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Yup. No man that consumes pornography should ever be rewarded with real pussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:32 PM
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This right here is why our grandmothers and grandmothers grandmothers werent giving out the milk for free ladies. Sex comes AFTER commitment, not before!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:25 PM
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Add mcchicken sandwich to that list. https://www.google.com/search?q=sexy+mcchicken+sandwich&prmd=ivn&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjNgZHbuNvlAhVDqJ4KHQpCBuYQ_AUoAXoECAwQAQ&biw=412&bih=670&dpr=2.63#imgrc=jE2YN4dc3ddP8M Difference is he probably ate and enjoyed that sandwich after he blew a hot load all over it, he would have just tossed a woman out on the street, cum not even dried on her face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:22 PM
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Yes. Men need to wake up to the evil they are feeding and women need to stop accepting this shit as "normal and natural". Porn is a cancer on our society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:02 PM
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It's a billion times worse, this is the most important human rights issue of our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:01 PM
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This is the crux of it right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 10:30 PM
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He sounds like a teenage virgin. Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 04:28 PM
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"Ya, fuck you lady! I already have a girl! I dont want to lick your nasty walls! I was just asking for "science"! Dumb ugly bitch!" - says guy that has never had sex in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 04:27 PM
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Gotta start somewhere. But yes, staring at and obsessing over women they can never have isnt much better. Kind of makes them creepy stalkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 10:10 PM
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Ya, that has always been a thing, but this new grift is different, these guys aren't up front about what they are doing, they're pretending to romance women so they can get food and shelter. If a guy is just straight up selling sex then so be it, women can decide if they are into that, but faking a relationship is different, women should be aware of what they are getting into. If you are down for it cool, but its better to know what the deal is then to be taken advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 07:16 PM
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I dont know. There was no census taken on race. The guy chatting me up was half fijian/half tex-mex so he actually looked Hawaiian but wasnt. There are a shit ton of homeless men in Hawaii of all races, lots of white ex military to. I didnt see many homeless young hawaiian natives, def older addicted ones though. I think the homeless surfer dude scam is more a white guy thing but I could be wrong. Women actually went to a cave with a ratty homeless dude and had sex?! Jesus, wtf is wrong with us?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:27 PM
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Basically I just tell the truth in a way that hits them where it hurts, their egos... "Men watching porn is the equivalent of sitting in a dark dirty hotel room watching a bigger better man fuck a woman he wishes he could fuck but never will while he jacks off to it in the corner like a pathetic cuckhold. It destroys their masculinity and makes them sexually unattractive to women. But you don't watch it though do you? You don't seem like that type of guy...." The looks on their faces is priceles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:01 AM
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Yup, Honolulu is the hot spot, def follow your gut. If you meet a guy make him take you out for dinner and drinks at least, if he cant even afford a meal he prob cant afford a roof, lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:39 AM
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Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:00 AM
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Get a good base tan before you go so you dont stand out as a tourist as much :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:52 AM
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Lol, none. Scrubs gonna be scrubs, no shame is their baseline, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:28 AM
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Yup, just watch and listen, they have a pretty obvious formula when you know what to look for. Enjoy yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:27 AM
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Thank you for this! I feel like I'm fighting a war and I'm the only one....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 10:31 PM
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I'm not, I'm honestly shocked and wondering why she is meeting such horrible men....why is that being a jerk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 05:58 PM
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Hes waiting for a better offer, in the meantime hes keeping you on ice in case nothing else pans out. Walk away my dear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 05:42 PM
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Are these homeless people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 07:26 AM
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Yup, its heartbreaking, but it looks like the powers that be have won. Take care of you. Believe there is a higher power, get right with God, stay true to your beliefs. Try to love your fellow man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 10:23 PM
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Keep learning girl! Take care of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 10:16 PM
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One of the most successful in human history. Imagine driving men and women from each other, making us hate each other and see each other as the enemy while the real enemy manipulates us all behind the scenes. The strongest, most natural bond in the world, broken like a cheap toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 10:10 PM
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I agree, those are not the social sevices I'm talking about here. I'm talking about communism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:33 PM
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Madonna/whore complex on steroids.....run far far away ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 07:16 PM
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Wow. I hope he dies alone honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:37 PM
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It's not capitalism. Its social engineering. Many people were doing just fine under capitalism until this generation, until right after the sexual revolution, liberal feminism and pornography became mainstream. Socialism will not inspire men to be better men, in fact it will be the complete opposite, its part of the reason we are where we are at right now. Talk to any Swedish woman, their men are useless Ken dolls that live off the state, good for nothing. I'm Canadian and our men arent far behi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:36 PM
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Internet porn is the agenda on steroids. It has rendered an entire generation of men utterly useless. So many are lost and never coming back. Porn sick and dead inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:02 PM
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Thank you! I always knew the sexual revolution was a very very detrimental thing for women. I looked into some of the political movements of that time. The women's lib movement was a lie, it was entirely manufactured by the CIA. Gloria Steinem was funded by the CIA, not long ago there was a tax evasion court case that outed her as an agent. Women were sold a lie in order to get the other 50% of the population into the workforce as a tax base for the elite. Also to break the family unit and the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:52 PM
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So many of the worlds wonders were created because of a man's obsession for a woman. There is a beautiful silver palace in the middle of a lake in Japan, a man built it for his mistress and rowed out to see her every night, it's breathtaking. Sex is the most powerful force in this world and we have squandered it in just 2 generations. Women MUST remember their worth or nothing will change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:39 PM
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Exactly. The thing women need to remember is that we trained them to see us this way, if women weren't out there desperately giving sex away for less then the price of a happy meal then men wouldn't be expecting it for nothing. Remember, a man built the Taj Mahal for a woman, look how far we have fallen. Remember your worth ladies! Get back up on that pedestal and stay there. WE set the price....NEVER give yourselves away for crumbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:30 PM
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Truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:24 PM
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This is why we dont engage. These are not the men we should ever be concerned with. Ban, ban and more ban!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:23 PM
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Stay here and learn my freind. In the meantime, level up, in every aspect of your life, man or no man, doesn't matter, the better you are the better you will feel about yourself and you will shine. NEVER take shit from men. Dangle the sex carrot until they are bleeding out their eyes they are so horny. Then dangle it some more. And number one, never be in a position that you NEED a man for anything, be it emotional, sexual, material, whatever, always be willing to walk away. You can want a man b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:21 PM
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Get off snap chat. It's a losing game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:14 PM
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Actually....some of them dont even have $50. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:14 PM
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Holy fuck that is HILARIOUS!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:04 PM
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Its because they are the type of men we actually do hate...broke, narrccisstic, dead beat, boring, unattractive, porn sick, abusive losers that cant get laid to save their lives and thought learning redpill would deliver hot pussy to their doorstep....they discovered this sub and got truth bombed. Baby-men not happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:59 PM
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Yup, and so many men these days are dusty ass losers trying to land themselves a sugar momma or provider gf. Ive even heard of guys wanting to get paid for sex, but only by hot chicks, lol, holy fuck, they are so delusional!!!! Ya, no thanks dead beat, no one is that desperate for your porn sick limp dick. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:55 PM
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Oh my god, you have no idea, they are convinced this is some sort of mass conspiracy on our part...."feed all the wamenz!!!!". They are utterly clueless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:53 PM
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Girl, there are entire forums devoted to just this thing. They brag about this shit and trade tips on ways to fuck us over. They plan and intend to do this, then post about their exploits online and laugh about it, pictures of the girls and everything, they make sure to order the most expensive items on the menu to. They think they are "getting women back" or some shit. It's disgusting. Dont be naive, many men actively hate women. Stay here and learn so this never happens to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:49 PM
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Ah yes, the type of men we would never date, or probably even meet outside some forced work/school environment, have discovered this sub and are using it as a way to take out their anger on us because we rejected them. Thank God our mods are next level ban ninjas! Remember who these guys are ladies, they are angry, bitter, porn sick, broke losers. Good dateable men aren't here attacking us and having little baby-man temper tantrums. Good men understand they have to bring something to the table a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:43 PM
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To angry incel teenage boys it is...remember who you are arguing with....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 09:13 PM
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People here tend to forget that trp is mostly made up of angry, broke, virginal, porn sick, pre-pubescent boys....so there's that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 09:12 PM
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Hey!...who's all going to the SLUT WALK!! So fun!! I cant wait! /s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:45 PM
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"Question what it means" to be sex trafficked, raped, abused, beaten, gang banged, enslaved, pimped, demeaned, humiliated, drugged, thrown away like used trash "for the male gaze". There, fify. Don't be delusional about porn. If you are going to sell it to young girls as "sex positivity" then at least be honest about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:42 PM
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Stop selling young naive girls a dangerous lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:37 PM
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Liberal feminism is pure poison sold as a health tonic. Just say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:36 PM
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Yup.....he ain't your freind and you are getting no benefits. Hes certainly getting some prime benefits though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:35 PM
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Oof, girl, you dodged a nuke!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:30 PM
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Pornography has a massive genre of teen and preteen porn, along with incest, rape, abuse, etc. It encourages men to seek out sicker and darker fantasies. It leads to peadophilia which has become a massive problem in the world today because of porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 03:59 PM
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I dont respect women that support and defend an industry that brutalizes, rapes, dehumanizes, enslaves and degrades women and children on a mass scale. I don't give a fuck how you feel about my language. People like you disgust me to my core. Move along, go watch some gang rape porn, its all the same industry that you are defending here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 03:54 PM
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Lol, rape, degradation, humiliation, sex trafficking, slavery, peadophilia....all A-OK! 👍....but aggressive TONE on the other hand! Cant have that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 12:57 AM
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How did you get this lost?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 12:56 AM
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It's clear as day and yet so many women are defending their own degradation. I would have hoped here at least there would be one sub that women were smart enough to understand such a basic concept and see porn for what it is. This whole "progressive porn-positive feminist liberalism" is a cancer and yet they are the first to call everything "rape culture" while in the same breath defending an industry built on rape. I'm just so disillusioned with women these days. If women want to date porn sick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 12:45 AM
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You are being downvoted because you are attacking the rest of us. Clearly your own messege isnt sinking in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 11:46 PM
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Oh wow. You are so past rational arguements anymore its ridiculous. You should be embarrassed now. I'm done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 09:11 PM
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I already answered this question. Move along. Hooters and cam girls are not pornography. Are you really this delusional? Holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 09:10 PM
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You base your opinion on your delusional selfish porn addiction. I feel bad for you but you should honestly go spread your poison somewhere else. So far I've given you reddit subs full of men that are battling porn addiction. Sites of stories of women that have been raped and abused by the industry trying to tell people the truth and a personal account of a woman I know that escaped the industry barely sane. But ya, just my sole opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 09:08 PM
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Once again you are delusional. And disgusting for defending this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 09:05 PM
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You are the one that JUST stated that you had a bridge to sell if I thought there were any men that dont watch porn. What are you doing here? Go rub one out to women getting raped if this is so much your thing. I know a woman that was a porn star. She did the exact type of "wholesome" porn you are defending here. She lost 8 years of her life, she has no memory of 8 years of her life because she was so traumatized and brutalized during that time her brain disassociated. Maybe you should tell her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 09:04 PM
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Wow. So much empathy toward actual people that have been hurt, abused and damaged for your addiction. But I would expect no less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:59 PM
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Exactly. Men can barely even kiss women anymore, they are utterly disconnected and not even present for the most intimate moment two people can share with each other, instead they are fantasizing about doing degrading and abusive sex acts to a damaged broken porn girl they jerk off to in their porn fantasy while they cum on your face. We are no more to them then a warm flesh lite. Its heartbreaking. And seeing women here defending this shit is beyond sad and delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:53 PM
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Enjoy your addiction to an industry that is the sole cause of the massive spike in human sex trafficking, sex slavery, rape, peadophilia, abuse and the degradation of women and children. But as long as you and hubby are getting off right? https://fightthenewdrug.org/10-porn-stars-speak-openly-about-their-most-popular-scenes/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:46 PM
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Preach sister! https://fightthenewdrug.org/10-porn-stars-speak-openly-about-their-most-popular-scenes/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:30 PM
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Here's some "grass fed" porn stories for you.... https://fightthenewdrug.org/10-porn-stars-speak-openly-about-their-most-popular-scenes/ Wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:26 PM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:19 PM
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I was being sarcastic, I thought you were to. Contracts mean nothing in pornography except for maybe a tiny percentage of the top players that are famous enough to make a stink and sue. All the other girls are just meat for the grinder, contract or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:18 PM
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I said "fair enough". But it would be nice if this sub had a harder stance on not defending porn. The whole of reddit is porn positive, its hardly needed here where we are trying to promote respectful sexual relationships with decent men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:16 PM
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Oh riiiiiight!!! A "contract"...of course..../s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:13 PM
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I dont. I've met one. I know he wasnt lying for reasons I wont get into here but he was the most incredible, connected, intimate, masculine man I've ever had sex with. I'll never have porn sick sex with degenerate losers again. If that means never having sex again then so be it, i haven't lost anything. And in case you arent aware, there are many men waking up to the damaging degrading dehumanizing effects of pornography. Have a look at r/nofap, r/pmo. Not all men are lost like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:13 PM
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Also as long as people are raped responsibly I don't see a problem..../s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:07 PM
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I dont date men that watch porn. They are the absolute worst sex I've ever had. Thanks for the tip though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:02 PM
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The pornography industry is the pornogrsphy industry. It is entirely owned by a few mainstream "hub" sites, so regardless of how "innocent" the material you think you are watching is (and there is absolutely no way you can know if it is consenting or not btw.) You are supporting that industry as a whole. Dont be so naive. And that's not even touching the effect it has had on intimacy and respect between men and women and porn sick creeps. I like your lame justifications for your addiction though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:56 PM
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Fair enough. I'm surprised female dating strategy supports porn though. If there is anything that is fucking up our chances finding a decent man or satisfying sex life its porn. Being against porn is hardly a "radfem" stance. It's more just a pro human stance. And fyi, I'm as far from "liberal" as it gets, pro-porn is purely progressive liberal. But y'all can enjoy porn sick limp dick if you like. I'll take a pass thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:49 PM
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We arent discussing sex, we are discussing pornography. The number one contributor to the world wide spike in human sex trafficking, rape, abuse, peadophilia and sex slavery of women and children across the globe. But you do you 'boo', I hope the misery of other human beings brings you much pleasure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:25 PM
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And humiliated, degraded, abused, raped and trafficked for male pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:12 PM
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You are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:10 PM
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Then go watch porn. This is not the sub for you. stop spreading your poison here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:52 PM
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Go to another sub then. That is the rules of this sub. We are not pro porn here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:44 PM
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Then go somewhere else. This isnt the sub for you. The rules are clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:43 PM
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Then go watch porn. This is not the place for you, your addictions are not our problem. We dont need that poison here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:42 PM
27

Exactly! This pisses me off to no end! This is not the sub for pro-porn bullshit. If you ladies are so delusional you are defending porn you need to go somewhere else. All of reddit is porn positive. Not here! Clearly a serious messege needs to be sent, WAY too many women here defending porn. They need to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:41 PM
2

Except you are a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 02:51 AM
8

They are a man. You are being trolled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 02:50 AM
10

Why are you here? What about "women only" do u not understand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 02:29 AM
17

The bdsm and kink thing is def true. Almost all men have madonna/whore complex. You can either be their madonna or their whore but you cant be both. Men aren't evolved enough to see you as a well rounded sexual being. If you are into kink or whatever then you are going to have to be happy with the whore role and everything that goes with it. Men will enjoy you sexually but they will rarely marry you or see you as long term or the mother of their children. It's the temporary gf or role of the sug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 09:10 PM
3

Yup....NEVER be flattered if a guy wants to fuck you. Guys want to fuck a mcchicken sandwich. If a guy wont invest in you, be it time, resources, money etc then you are no better to them then a mcchicken sandwich...or a sheep, or a flesh lite, or a grapefruit, or any of the other myriad random objects a guy will stick his dick into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 11:25 PM
3

Ahahaha!!!! You go girl! Make em work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 10:48 PM
8

Men have no clue, they think they have us all figured out but they have NO idea. I'm a flight attendant, I see hundreds and hundreds of women and how they act everyday. The biggest freaks in the bunch are the ones you would never suspect. The Stacy's are generally all married or in LTRs, they are not fucking around, the plain janes and the "innocent" looking ones are out getting tinder dicked every other night. It's hilarious because RP guys always talk about how they dont want a hot chick becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 10:39 PM
4

And yet we are labelled sluts no matter what we do. They have made sex a lose lose for us and then get all pissed off when we dont want to fuck them. Oh well, enjoy your trap porn boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:09 PM
3

He thought you were going to come back because you did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 05:26 PM
18

The other thing is, it wouldnt matter what you tell them regardless. Men believe we are ALL sluts. If you arent a 12 year old virgin, men have already decided you have ridden the cock carousel of Chads like a she-demon long before they got to you. They all bought the redpill AWALT bullshit hook line and sinker. I actually do have a very low n-count. Reason being I dont believe in giving men sex without commitment or investment, cause fuck them, and I dont find that many men sexually attractive e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 03:40 PM
2

I understand what she meant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 12:45 AM
6

Shes amazing! Loved that woman! She always said to me, "it's just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a poor man" lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 11:48 PM
20

What trouble? She texted him and sent him on a wild goose chase. Hardly took any effort on her part. Hes the one that went to all the trouble stalking her again after 8 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 07:45 PM
0

Oh brother. Lol. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 06:51 PM
0

Uh huh. I'm sure you are just here out of curiosity. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 06:47 PM
0

Then why are you commenting on it? Go live your best life, I'm sure you are proud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 06:44 PM
5

Ah, I see, you're doing it differently now because you realized you weren't getting what you want. Ya, makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 06:38 PM
1

What are you doing on a sub for getting more out of men then if it's working out so well for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 06:35 PM
5

Well good luck with that then, let us know how it turns out in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 06:17 PM
12

Hmmm, sounds like my grandfather, old alcoholic died alone in his own vomit surrounded by hookers that wrote themselves cheques out of his cheque book and drained his bank account....he was livin his best redpill life! Lol. Meanwhile my grandmother was ecstatic to unload his drunk ass and went travelling the world with her girlfriends. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 05:47 PM
12

There is no such thing as a "casual" fun phase. Sex is not and never will be "casual" for women. If you believe that you are lying to yourself, the time of feeling disgust and used will always come. Just say no to casual sex. Know your worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 05:38 PM
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I dont know if you are a guy or a girl but your redpill bullshit isnt welcome here. Women in this sub do not advocate giving "their rose" (fucking nasty) to anyone they are not in a committed relationship with or that hasnt proven himself to her in some way, be that time, resources, money, monogamy etc. This is not the sub for advocating fucking around at all. I dont know if you just showed up here and are utterly clueless or what but maybe before spouting your bullshit you should read the sideb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 05:10 PM
4

Clearly. That's why we are here. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 06:58 PM
6

Oh I know it sounds horrendous, if that was the entire story, and not just a brief breakdown, then I'd feel the same way to. None of this was obvious at first, it all seems so simple in hindsight but thats not how life works. There were A LOT of great things about this guy that I really enjoyed, he was as slick as they come, but not slick enough. People have many facets and I definitely enjoyed myself. But I knew to keep my heart guarded. Normally I never have sex outside of committed relationsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 06:56 PM
6

Its a dude, hes been reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 06:41 PM
7

Its up to us, we hold all the power, we have the one thing they want. Dont let them destroy your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 06:17 PM
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There are always red flags. When I first meet a guy I enjoy the tingles and the dance and all that, its fun. But I collect their red flags. Each guy gets his own little red flag basket to fill, and they always fill it. One of the last guys I met, VERY sexy, soulful, spiritual, intense, smart and could see right through people (most likely a sociopath). He quickly broke down my defenses. Knew all the little triggers to get me to open up to him. But he also couldn't hide his red flags, they never …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 05:56 PM
13

Jesus, dump him and get a pet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 03:53 AM
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This should be stickied. Tired of getting reported for telling women to level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 03:44 AM
1

Good God. How did we get here? 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 09:07 PM
5

Bumble/tinder, same shit. But ya, as long as you are learning. Pretty boys on apps are there for one reason only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 07:51 PM
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Then get off tinder. Do not entertain these idiots for a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 07:24 PM
5

Broke or lazy, both are a hard no. Never date a man that sleeps on a mattress on the floor beside a pile of dirty laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:25 PM
2

Preach sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:13 PM
6

PM me and I'll pass this on to NYC girl privately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 04:27 PM
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All men view tinder as a hook up app so they are all expecting netflix and chill from the start. Doesnt matter what you write in your bio, most don't even read that shit. If you say anything along the lines of "no hook ups" men automatically put you in the hook up box. The only thing you can do is have attractive classy pics with NO skin showing or overtly sexy pics. Then only accept real dates or meet ups that are clearly not about hooking up. Ie, no late night drinks, etc. Do daytime lunch dat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 04:20 PM
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What city do you live in? There is a woman from NYC in this sub that needs to see this.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 04:11 PM
2

Well you are correct in a way, there is a shortage of women training men. This is the exact reason right here why women need to stop having casual sex. It absolutely is in mens nature to see us as sex objects. There is nothing inherently wrong with that, its natural and biological, it keeps the species propagating. Men are visual, they are hunters, they see something they like and they chase. It's very primal and one track. The problem we have today arose because women lost their edge. They are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 04:02 PM
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Absolutely NOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 07:06 AM
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Oh girl. Dont fall into bitterness, it will only hurt you in the end. The world is a huge and varied place full of many different people. Please try to get out of that city for a vacation at least so you can remember what it feels like to be an attractive woman again. NYC is full of douchey man-childen just searching for the next shiny thing. It really isnt a reflection of your worth or attractiveness as a woman. Hit a singles resort, feel the sun, play, have some fun and meet some sexy men! You…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 06:23 AM
1

Well then this is going to be a bit more difficult for you, but not impossible. You say everyone around you is coupled up so clearly it happens, it will happen for you to. Just remember, you are on track, it's not you, it's just the numbers. The biggest factor in dating success is demographics and you are just unfortunate to live in shit demographics. Keep doing what you are doing, keep your head up, dont get discouraged and know its not you, it will happen. Just have patience. Even in NYC women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 06:05 AM
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Aaaahhhh.....theres your issue right there. NYC. Worst demographics in the country. Its not you, you are doing everything right as far as I can tell, but you live in a city with way more women then men, that makes men act like entitled, low effort, douche bags that wont settle down. Can you get out of there? Can you travel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:57 AM
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Wow, that sounds terrible. Where do u live? You really are getting scrubs. I would honestly choose not to date then to accept a half ass date I dont even enjoy because the guy is so low effort. Online dating is terrible for this, I really only do it if I match with someone I really connect with, otherwise I dont bother with it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:43 AM
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Well sounds like everything is in place except your confidence. You seem to be doing everything right, but remember, its only been 6 months and you are new at this, you arent going to become a queen overnight and just exude that energy, it takes practice. You also dont seem to be enjoying the dating process much, I know it can be a slog but it can also be fun, try to focus more on the fun. You arent alone, it's a war zone out there, that's why this sub exists, women are at their limit with the d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:32 AM
2

So as far as your appearance goes where do you think you could improve in order to be more attractive to the men you want? I hate using a number scale but what would you rate yourself and what would you rate the men you want? It is possible to improve your looks to certain degree....but the way you described the men you can get they sound like ogres...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:16 AM
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Hmm, well its honestly really hard to guess from so little to go on. I dont know you or how you look or the men you are meeting. You might be shooting above your league, it might be an energy thing, the way you talk about yourself and about the men you meet, it seems like you lack self confidence. That can def be an attraction killer. Also being soooo focused on needing to meet someone can come off as desperate. There are just so many unknown factors here. Men are attracted to confident vibrant …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:02 AM
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Ok, but you haven't really addressed the question, what type of men are you attracted to or attracting? It sounds like they are all youth obsessed, douchey, players addicted to the chase or the conquest. Online dating is terrible for those types. It's one if the worst ways to meet decent men. I know it's tough to meet men in other avenues but you need to try. Gyms, sports events, male centric activities like city sports leagues, volunteering, craft beer events, conferences for male dominated ind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 04:36 AM
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First of all, you've only been doing this for 6 months. I get that you are frustrated but you need to be realistic to. Secondly, what type of men are you trying to date? You seem to be kissing a lot of frogs, are they all online matches? Are you vetting them? Are you asking them out or vice versa? There are so many other factors involved then just your appearance, not being an 8 or 9 is not going to determine if you are lovable and worth commitment from a man or not. The type of man you are attr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 04:13 AM
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The second you tell a guy you are looking for a "no labels" relationship they are going to instantly put you in the fuck buddy box, and there you will remain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 03:29 AM
1

Brilliantly put!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 02:55 AM
4

This is a terrible strategy. But good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 12:55 AM
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Oh look, a man here defending FWB and casual sex! Color me shocked. 🙄 This isnt the sub for you, you cant post here. Get lost, we dont care about your "deep thoughts" on why casual sex is so beneficial to everyone involved....no shit you are all about easy, commitment free, effort free, investment free sex. Wont find it here, go get yourself a hooker....and dont let the door hit ya on the way out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 12:50 AM
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Holy fuck. That was painful! And this one guys comment..... "I'll actually be a guy that agrees with the statement. Sometimes it’s fun to go out without the label and just enjoy one another’s time. No, this not some side gig type deal. My girlfriends know I go half on everything unless I’m feeling generous." 🤮🤮🤮 I would have gone OFF on that sub over that pathetic drivel but I was auto-banned for posting here, lol. Now I can understand why they dont want us there, eesh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 12:22 AM
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Swedish men may look like supermodels but they are basically chicks in a hot boys body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 12:16 AM
3

Classic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 12:14 AM
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Lol, funny how male "feminists" are always so "sex positive" and "liberated" when it comes time for NSA sex and paying the dinner bill isnt it, lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 12:13 AM
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Its honestly impossible to know from this post what it is that might be going on, there really isnt enough information to go on and I'm not sure you would even be able to explain the dynamic without input from the others involved. There is too much here for just a reddit post to solve. This is something that needs to be dealt with in ongoing therapy. These sound like abusive bullies. I'm very sorry this is your experience of the world, not all people are bad. I feel like because of your early ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 12:02 AM
1

Looks like its been removed for some reason...did you check the sub rules before posting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:58 PM
2

That's on you, there are good people and shitty people everywhere, you accepted the people that are in your life. Blaming the rest of the world for your problems will just get you more of the same. Stepping up and taking personal responsibility for your situation is the only thing that will change your circumstances. You chose to let this douche bag into your life, and you chose to send him selfies. Learn from this or dont, your choice. And being a nihilist is a losing game. Stop that to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:56 PM
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Respect yourself first my dear and others will follow your lead. Cut the shitty people out of your life to make room for good people to fill their place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:51 PM
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Then you do you, give it away for free, your body, your choice, no skin off my knees. This probably isnt the sub for you, you might enjoy r/redpill though, you will love it there, they have a million little "strategies" on how to fuck you as fast as possible with as little investment as possible, you will have much more in common with their theories on sexuality....and in the future you might want to check the subreddit ideology before commenting. Funny how our bodies and sexuality are "not comm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:47 PM
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Society is a tragic hot mess. Being well adjusted to a sick society does not make you a healthy person. Stay true to only yourself. Give your body only to men that prove themselves to you, are committed to you and love you. The rest is just noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:16 PM
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Definitely start vetting your friends better then. And still dont send them selfies. Do not do anything for men they havent earned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:12 PM
1

👍 thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 09:53 PM
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Why the fuck are you sending selfies to idiots you dont know online???? Stop it now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 09:52 PM
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Exactly this. Good men love, protect and support women because its in their nature. They don't need to prance around screaming "look at me! I'm a NICE guy!" to get our attention. I think most of the downvotes are "feminist" little boys creeping around in the background, like they do. Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 08:26 PM
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It's total male cope bullshit. Dont listen to any of it. Leonardo looks like a bloated old man, his appeal is stardom and money. No hot 20 somethings are lying in bed at night dreaming of DiCaprio pounding their ladybits, Lol. Imagine being the type of man that's final solution is to fuck an inanimate object. It's the saddest most pathetic thing ever. Clearly these are broken men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 08:14 PM
5

Well talk to us in a year. And if you decide to date one I hope you are into pegging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 07:36 PM
8

Looks like rule #1 is not a thing today....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 07:32 PM
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I have zero issues about men trying for sex, I love a redblooded man that goes for what he wants, what I dont like is a simpering, ingratiating sleaze ball that tries shady back door tactics to try to get sex because they dont measure up and dont have the balls to risk rejection and let their intentions be known from the start. Anyway, you keep chilling with your 'feminist' work buddies, good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 07:25 PM
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Well anything to do with your 'number' before you are exclusive, or ever really, is a huge red flag. Not his fucking business. Showing off other chicks he is chatting with on apps, ie, fake plates, typical jealously ploy. Anything hinting at you using them for dinners or drinks and wanting to split the bill. Trying for a netflix and chill date. Any hint about you dating rich guys or being a golddigger. Pushing fast for sex. Touching you in weird awkward ways, PUA tactic that is supposed to get y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 07:21 PM
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You are very new to this sub. Hopefully you learn quickly though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 07:12 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 07:11 PM
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You'll find out the hard way. Good men do not see us as equals, they see us as better in some ways and lesser in some ways, they def see us as different creatures. Good men want to protect us and take care of us, also they want to conquer and fuck us. "Male feminists" do not give a shit about your equal rights as a woman, they care about you believing they care about your equal rights as a woman so they can suck up to you, become your "freind" and fuck you. And hopefully you will pay for their d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 07:10 PM
1

Banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 06:58 PM
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It's incredibly easy to filter, that's the one plus in all this, usually takes one conversation for them to out themselves. The comments are too numerous to list but its always basic redpill psychobabble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 06:53 PM
0

You can't post here buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 06:49 PM
-1

Hey ladies! Here's one in the wild! Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 06:49 PM
42

Be a Queen sister! Take ZERO shit from men! Good luck to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 06:05 PM
1

Exactly, it does no one any good to lie to themselves or blame the world for their problems. Sometimes life isn't fair, but we can close the gap and improve our circumstances if we can just take a hard look at ourselves and do what we need to do to become better people. This sub is for the truth and solid solutions, not for coddling our feelings and pointing fingers, every other sub on reddit is for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 05:54 PM
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NO man is a feminist. It's a ploy. Men that call themselves feminists are the type of men that have nothing else to offer so are trying to ingratiate themselves to you hoping you will fuck them when u are at a low point. They are the borderline creepy rapists that will be waiting in the wings for the night you are too drunk to drive yourself home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 05:44 PM
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From the sounds of it you know exactly where you stand with this guy....alone outside standing in the street. Lose him fast and never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 05:40 PM
6

Exactly. Lose, lose any way you slice it. Casual sex is a fools game we can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 04:27 PM
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Once women as a whole learn this fact and really internalize it we can finally take our power back. But until then ladies, they win. And the biggest lie is this FWB bullshit....what benefits are we getting ladies? And is he really your "freind"? Is he there for you when you are sick? Does he show up and help you out in a pinch if you need a ride or someone to fix your broken window? I'm guessing not, so ya, great friend. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 04:16 PM
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And how great are those relationships? Do we really want to be with men that were never 100% excited and in love with us? Does it feel good to be with a man that barely 'settled' for you? The only reason women end up in these "situationships" is because they are too desperate to see the writing on the wall for what it is. Women are incredibly good at lying to themselves. Stop doing this! Short term pain can save you serious longterm heartbreak. If a man is into you, you will know it, there will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 04:09 PM
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Almost all men these days have discovered redpill and now think they have women "pegged". They are all arrogantly testing us to prove their "superior knowledge" and their AWALT theories. They think we dont know, its infuriating. I get this shit from men all the time, the loaded little redpill questions and off hand remarks trying to show off that they "have me figured out". And they are ALWAYS 100% wrong, it's a total turn off. I'm so sick to death of this redpill BS, I cant wait for it to die a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 03:53 PM
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Once a man has had sex with a woman he feels he owns her sexually, she will always be "his" property on a certain level in his mind. They don't care about you or want to be with you enough to actually pursue but they are curious about their conquest. It's also like a catalogue of trophies he can stroke his ego with or show off to his buddies or other girls he wants to make jealous...."ya, I fucked her". This is why social media is poison for women in the dating realm, men can easily statisfy the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 03:40 PM
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Its mind boggling to me that we are back to the MOST basic dating concept. After everything women have been through and fought for we now need to relearn "men dont buy the cow when they are getting the milk for free"? Really?! Wake up ladies, STOP giving your bodies away for free! I dont care how you label it, FWB, open relationship, no labels, polyamory, casual sex, NSA, etc, etc, it's all the same shit, win win for the boys, lose lose for the girls. A woman inspired the Taj Mahal. Now we cant …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 03:23 PM
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Wrong messege. You can show your shape wearing something classy and flattering. Do not post a bikini pic. Men see skin and the only thing they can think about from that point on is what they are going to do to you. Once you are in the "casual sex" box there is no getting out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 04:34 AM
1

Ok, this is basic common sense. If you are gunning for the hottest people on tinder, and you yourself, man or woman, are not one of the hottest people on tinder, then obviously you are not going to have a lot of success matching with those people on tinder are you? Tinder is LOOKS based. There is nothing else to go on, if you are on a platform based on looks then of course your looks will be the biggest factor in your success with that mode of dating. The people that match with you and are open …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 02:01 AM
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Lol. Well hello again! Little obsessive arent we? I am OPs evil nemesis that has clearly rattled her cage. The VERY important point that she is conveniently omitting from this little diatribe of hers is this.....I clearly stated that the woman had TWO choices: 1: I stated that her standards were too high because the poster herself admitted to being "very picky" when selecting matches on tinder. Then she stated that she was getting ZERO responses, the extreamly few she did match with quickly fade…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 12:59 AM
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Oh! And his dick pic to! 🥒🥖🥕🍌🌶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 12:53 AM
3

Nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 12:52 AM
4

So simple! Who woulda thunk it! Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 12:26 AM
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Well this comment was in response to a man whining about the same thing so it was a bit harsher then usual. I will try to tone it down. But telling a woman she is shooting above her league isnt really harsh, people are not entitled to date anyone they want just because that's who they are attracted to. It doesnt help anyone improve their circumstances to just coddle them. People need to hear the truth sometimes so they can do something to help themselves. r/incels is a perfect example of what ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 07:06 PM
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Yes, this "casual sex" idea is a modern concept perpetuated by men for men. Sex is not "casual", it is risky, intimate, vulnerable, intense and it used to be sacred. What man wouldnt want sex without having to offer commitment, resources, time or even money for it? It's the best deal ever, they don't even have to pay prostitutes anymore. Women have never been cheaper. Women are delusional if they think they are "getting something" out of this deal. We need to wise up and listen to our grandmothe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 07:03 PM
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WAKE UP CALL LADIES! This right here! Guys want to use you and throw you away, that is their one reason for living these days. Their entire self worth depends on pumping and dumping us! DO NOT give them casual sex! Do not give these pieces of shit access to your body for NOTHING in return! You are worth more then being used as a warm hole on a cold night. I dont care how hot he is, make those fuckers work for it! If we keep fucking them for nothing they win, we lose. I've said it before, I'll sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 03:34 PM
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So stay incel. Live your life by internet incel "studies" for all i care, lol! I wonder how men for millions upon millions of years understood how to naturally and attractively communicate with women....hmm, nah, must be impossible. 🙄 Anyway, your bullshit isnt welcome here. Fuck right off back to redpill where you belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 03:04 PM
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Lol, Pua's DO NOT learn how to talk to women correctly. They learn how to treat women like objects to manipulate, gas light and pressure into sex using narrccisstic psychological tactics. Anyone that thinks "negging" is a correct way to talk to a woman is a delusional asshole. THATS why women hate them. But ya, just the usual whiney defeatist bullshit I'd expect from a man. Stay celibate. I don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:59 PM
5

Lmaooooo!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:09 PM
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Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:04 PM
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Ya, no it doesn't. Lol. Stay hot and this can go on indefinitely. "The wall" is another male cope. An attractive older woman gets endless attention, moreso then younger women sometimes depending on the situation. Believe me, I know. I get more attention now then I did when I was younger. The wall is about letting yourself go, not about ageing. Stay fit, take care of your skin, eat healthy, dont smoke, drink or do drugs and make your own money, you're golden. An attractive older woman is still at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 01:56 PM
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Holy shit. That was the whiniest, longest, most delusional cope rant I have ever read. Talk about confirmation bias. My god, they really believe this shit! They will do 'study' after ridiculous 'study' to try to prove to themselves that none of this is their fault. Lol HEY BOYS! GET THE FUCK OFF TINDER, STOP WACKING YOUR LIMP NOODLES TO PORN AND GO OUT AND LEARN TO TALK TO WOMEN IRL AGAIN! Jesus. Clearly, if something isnt working for you over and over and over again....try something DIFFERENT! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 01:54 PM
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I agree. Anyone that gives themselves away so easily and cavalierly shows very little self respect or discernment. It is one of the most sacred, vulnerable and intimate things we can do with another person and we are treating it like it's the equivalent of a drive through happy meal. Now that men are porn addled creeps they have less discernment then they ever have before I wouldn't let one of those nasty diseased losers stick his calloused, limp noodle anywhere near me. If a man isnt porn free …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 01:25 PM
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That's a dif topic, this is a dating strategy sub and the OP is talking about physical attraction specifically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 11:02 AM
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Great arguement! Lol! Now go back to r/radfems where your "advice" might be much more effective. Lol. Cause dating clearly isnt your forte.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 05:10 AM
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In what world is ANYTHING Ive said "woman hating"?! You really are in the wrong place my dear. I am here to empower women, not support them to be victims of circumstance and blame everyone but themselves for their shortcomings. You should def NOT be spreading your legacy here. For someone that supposedly has a husband AND a boyfriend (lol) u sure do hate men. I'm surprised you even let a man touch you let alone want to give advice on how to date them. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 05:06 AM
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So there are no classy summer clothes? Lol. Guaranteed these women are dressed elegantly in the summertime also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 05:02 AM
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So you suggest she act like a greasy, acne ridden incel neckbeard that sits alone in his basement screaming about the evil wimmenz that wont fuck him instead of cleaning himself up and becoming a man women would actually want to fuck then? Great advice. Why do you have such an issue with the idea that she might be shooting out of her league? Does it bother you that a woman somewhere might have to lower her standards or step up and make herself more desirable to the men shes attracted to? If she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 04:57 AM
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Uh huh. I'm starting to think its you that has an issue with this "truth". Not having much luck on tinder I take it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 04:31 AM
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This isnt the sub for whiney "it's all the evil menz fault!" bullshit. This is the place to get real working advice for real world dating issues with men. What good is your "advice" going to do her? So she can sit at home alone and wallow in her misery blaming men for her shitty dating life like the pathetic incels do with women? Sounds like you arent one to be giving advice to women about how to have success with men. She herself said she was "very picky" about the men she swiped right on and s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 04:28 AM
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Well nothing is 100%, there are always outliers for whatever reason. But in general, its usually pretty clear after first time sex how a man feels about a woman. And some guys are just straight up dogs and it wouldn't matter how into a woman he is he will still be chasing side tail. No time for fuckbois. This is why we must make them prove themselves to us BEFORE sex, not after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 03:22 AM
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Yup, they will do everything except the one thing they need to do, turn the camera on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:58 AM
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Men treat women that look elegant and classy with much more respect then they treat women that dress provocatively. Dressing "sexy" will get attention, but it wont be the right kind of attention. I cant picture any of those beautiful classy Swiss women going to a "slut walk". And why give those bozos a free show? They should work to see the goods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:57 AM
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Omg, so true! Any woman that is pro porn is delusional, not empowered. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:53 AM
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American women need to take note of these swiss women. Look at the way they present themselves, they look elegant, stylish, and effortlessly beautiful. American women try too hard to look "sexy" by dressing overly sexual, wearing tons of makeup. Sexy is a state of mind, confidence, sensuality and sex appeal, not showing the most skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:44 AM
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Oh ya, I met some swiss guys travelling once, they hated the swiss women! They were on a sex destination trip to costa rica to go fuck hookers, lol. One of them offered for me to name my price to have sex with him....ya, no thanks buddy, lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:34 AM
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The instant men cum they know how they feel about you. If they are gone, they arent into you, if they stick around to cuddle, hang out, hit the town for breakfast, then they are into you. This isnt really the way you should be finding out if guys like you or not though. Casual sex is a fools game that women cant win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:25 AM
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Wow, that's beyond words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:18 AM
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Go to his restaurant, get your treat, look as hot as hell, or as hot as you possibly can for the situation, be freindly and fun, but not like you are romantically interested. Talk about something cool you are doing on the weekend, make something up if you have to, do this only if the conversation leads there naturally, otherwise it will seem fake. Let him over hear a conversation with someone on your phone that you are meeting up with later, giggle like its flirtatious, dont make it clear of it'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:15 AM
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Read "codependent no more".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:06 AM
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Lol. Priceless. This is clearly not the place for you, and if you are so delicate and easily offended why are you here reading our posts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:02 AM
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Go on the date with him, but do not have sex with him. Go very slow, make him go at your pace. If you need time then take it, but that doesn't mean you can't talk to a guy or have sushi, just means you maybe shouldn't get super serious super fast right now. Slow your roll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 12:40 AM
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Men do have respect for some women, but it's the women that command it in the way they expect to be treated. Make them kneel at your feet. A beautiful woman will not garner respect if she is a pushover or easy. A beautiful woman with standards and boundaries will. Edit: I get that you all dont want to hear that being easy isnt going to get you anywhere with men, except maybe pumped and dumped. Do what you want, but dont delude yourselves into believing that casual sex isnt a fools game that only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 12:37 AM
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Nice work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:44 PM
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Exactly! Men will give you the exact advice that gets you into their bed as soon as possible with as little effort as possible. Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:42 PM
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Awesome! Good luck! Def do update us! And dont let your emotions get the best of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:40 PM
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Lol, been to redpill lately? You think these guys are tiptoeing around our feelings? They talk about murdering and raping women. Sorry if I'm not as gentle as youd like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:39 PM
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If you do hang out with him again look as hot as you possibly can, thats a given, flirt, be sexy as fuck, but only if you are a natural at that, otherwise it comes off as cheezy and forced so only do what's comfortable to you. Be fun and relaxed if possible. Mix sexy with little girl vulnerability, like doe eyed sitting in his lap, you big strong man! Type shit, then back to sexy. This is catnip to alpha males. Get him worked up horny but dont fuck him, no bjs either, lol. Then disappear again f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:29 PM
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Exactly, all you have to lose is your dignity if you cave, fuck that! No guy is worth our dignity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:23 PM
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We got your back sister! Stay strong! DO NOT waver, u have nothing to lose at this point anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:21 PM
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Ya. The only thing you can do is get rid of snap chat and wait for him to reach out first. If he doesn't then you lost him and there was nothing you could have done anyway. If he does text, reply and say you are on a date and you'll text him when its over. Then dont text back for a couple days. When you do text back just be casual about it all like it's no big deal. Like "hey, sorry, I got distracted, what's going on?" If he asks about your date just say "oh right, ya it was fun", and then chang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:12 PM
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Exactly. Never listen to mens dating advice, ONLY take dating advice from the women that are successful with the kind of men you want to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:06 PM
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My best advice regarding snapchat is get the fuck off snap chat. It's a fools game. Make men have to text and call you. Guys use snap chat as filler entertainment and to juggle tons of women. Also nudes. Its terrible for us. Is that the only way you have contact with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:04 PM
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He loses interest because women are too available too fast. He likes the chase, as soon as the chase is over he loses interest. Many men are like this. If you want this type of guy then you need to constantly keep the chase going. Play hot and cold with him. You have to wait for him to come back now, nothing much you can do. You may have already over played your hand. Do not contact him. If he comes back, make him work for it, when you see him be warm and fun and freindly but dont tell him you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:58 PM
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Lol, you'll be back. After you've tried your way for awhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:55 PM
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They love it because it let's them sit back and he passive feminized losers that dont have to risk rejection. Doesnt make them love or respect you though, in fact its the opposite. In fact good men love the chase, the guys that say they dont are beta losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:53 PM
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SO TRUE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:52 PM
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Hmm, my comments are getting removed and I'm being downvoted. I have only said the truth here. I thought that was the point of this sub, to learn how to win the dating game, not become a delusional echo chamber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:52 PM
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You couldnt be more wrong. The last thing I give a shit about is bullshit redpill incel morons or their ideas about women and dating. They are delusional idiots. That doesn't mean we have to be the same way. If she is not getting the results on tinder she wants it is to do with one thing only, she doesn't measure up to the competition. Either her profile and photos need serious work or she is batting out of her league, its that simple. Women should NEVER have trouble matching on tinder, its alre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:41 PM
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Exactly. I dont like to be harsh but there are already too many subs telling women that nothing is their fault, they are perfect just as they are, etc etc. and that men are just idiots (which they are, lol) and to "Just be yourself" but that's not always the case, in fact its almost never the case. Sometimes women just need the truth so they can help themselves. Men to. If people know the real score they have a better chance of empowering themselves and changing their circumstances So many peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:22 PM
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Then he doesn't care enough about you yet. Or he may never care that much. My advice is to just relax and if he calls dont answer, text that you are busy with friends and you will get back to him. Then dont call him right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:28 PM
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Ghost him for what? What did he promise you? He said he would "call soon". Your issues are not about this guy, they are about yourself. You should not be this worked up over a guy this early in the game. You are going to sabotage yourself. You should just chill the fuck out a bit and wait for him to call. In the meantime carry on with your life and stop obsessing. If he doesn't call he was never interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:14 PM
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Well you say you are very picky about who you match with and then you dont get many matches in return and when you do they ghost you. That means clearly that you are shooting above your league. Attractive women are generally swamped on OLD, if you arent getting results you need to up your game. You need to either become more attractive yourself or you need to settle for men not so high up in the looks/status scale that you are striking out with now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:12 PM
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You are already overreacting, you are so emotionally wrapped up in one little phone call that you are losing control. You need to worry about getting yourself together right now and gaining some perspective, not what this guy is doing. I think you need a time out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:09 PM
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No skin off my back what you do. You are in next level delusion if you think this guy didnt tell you in not so many words that he doesn't want a relationship with you though. You do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:07 PM
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And everyone here is telling you that there is slim to no chance of you getting more from this guy. You asked for the advice, that's the truth of it. Keep having sex with him if you want then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:05 PM
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He told you he didnt want a relationship. You are creating stories in your head because you set yourself up to catch feelings and now you think it's different. Everyone here is telling you the score. You just dont want to hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:04 PM
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Girl you are waaaayyy too over invested in this guy. You are giving off desperation to the thousandth degree. What does "call soon" even mean? That could mean anything and you have turned it into a federal case sitting desperately all night on top of your phone?! Get a grip on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:02 PM
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Sounds like you are aiming way out of your league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:58 PM
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Then what are you doing? That's what you agreed on and that's what you got. What's the problem then, you should be ecstatic. You are getting exactly what you said you wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:57 PM
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Well keep doing what you are doing then if its working for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:55 PM
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Oh honey. Those ARE the relationship benefits to a man. YOU are the only one here not getting the relationship benefits, not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:42 PM
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Welcome to the lie of casual sex my dear. Women set themselves up for heartbreak every time. Do not give men your body for nothing in return. You are worth more then that and this man has nothing to offer you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:40 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:39 PM
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Hes probably just showing off to his freinds that he has a plate, or he just doesn't really care either way. This guy has told you to your face that he doesn't want you that way. Listen to what men tell you, there is no confusion here. The only confusion is you wishing for something that isnt there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:38 PM
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There is nothing to be confused about. This man told you the score from day one, you are a piece. He will never ever ever want more from you then sex or a time filler until he finds a woman he really wants to be with. You have two choices here, cut your losses and walk away so you can find a man that actually loves you or you can stay and be a FWB with no chance of anything more if you can handle that, which by the sounds of your post you cant. My advice is walk away and never let men use you fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:35 PM
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Not sure why any woman thinks it's a good idea to throw away their biggest power play for nothing. Generations and generations of women before us knew men dont buy the cow when they get the milk for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 03:37 AM
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There it is ladies, clear as day. Casual sex is never worth it. Make those fuckers work for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:03 PM
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Oh, you're a man. Why are you here? You cant post here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:27 PM
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Then you dont understand men. Sex is not your only value, but it is def within the top 3 if not the actual top value to a man. If you are just giving that away for nothing then he won't value you more then nothing. You will def find endless men willing to take you up on your offer though. Especially considering prostitutes are expensive. Your choice, go ahead and FWB all you like. But this isnt really the sub for pushing that as a good thing for most women. Most women here want more from their p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 02:08 PM
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She is. Lol. Also incredibly intelligent and charming. Age means nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 06:27 PM
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Most likely you have given him the milk without having to buy the cow. If he doesn't care that you are dating other men my guess is hes not that invested and just enjoying the perks of the relationship without the commitment pressures. Or you have made it clear that you dont want a relationship so he is just following your lead. You have to talk to him and make it clear what you want. If he says he doesn't want commitment, then he never did and never will, so best to get out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 06:06 PM
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Lol, one guess....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 06:01 PM
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Sounds like you are just one of many and he has no investment in you. This is a fools game you cant win. Get off snapchat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 05:54 PM
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I'd be willing to bet 98% of the women agreeing to a FWB relationship are doing so at the guys request. What guy wouldn't want sex and not have to wine and dine, commit, or offer anything in return. No shit, if I were a guy I'd shoot for that right out of the gate and see how many delusional women are willing to bite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 05:47 PM
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Because you are giving men all the benefits of a relationship without the relationship. Ie, a fools game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 05:45 PM
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More attractive then letting them shit on your carpet everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 05:21 PM
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Oh honey, so naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 05:19 PM
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Well if that's how it came across I apologise, I just hate to see women in this situation when they never have to be. Sometimes the truth hurts but it's good to have a little tough love instead of being told you are just a victim of circumstance. I was responding to this particular situation where the guy was very clear about what he was thinking, she was no longer in a relationship with him. If she really listened to what he was saying she could prevent this from ever happening to her again and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 05:05 PM
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I never once said pull herself up by the bootstraps, I wholeheartedly agree with you. I do think she needs to learn from this experience though and understand the true nature of men, get therapy, and never let herself get into another abusive situation with a man ever again. For her own sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 04:47 PM
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I'm not saying we are choosing this but we certainly do choose what we will accept as far as how we let people treat us. I just wish we could support each other a little more in becoming stronger women with self worth instead of just playing the victim card all the time. Reddit is just rife with women blaming and pointing fingers at the patriarchy and the evil menz instead of focusing on what we can control, ourselves and our own choices. I was really hoping this sub was about self empowerment f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 04:45 PM
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Well considering the guy cheated on her, was abusive, treated her like shit and then straight up decided to keep doing it just to see how much she would take before she finally left him I'm going to go with ya, she decided to stick around, for whatever reason. It's sad, I dont think anyone should ever be abused but I'm tired of women just being complacent victims when it's pretty clear the guy was a piece of shit from day one. I stated that she needs to listen to what he said to her and learn fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 02:48 AM
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I think this is the wrong sub for you, this is for women that are empowered and take their fate into their own hands, not another victim sub. Head over to r/redpillwoman, pink pill, 2x chromosomes, there are endless subs for being a victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 02:29 AM
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What are women doing with abusive manipulative men? Jesus. Please stop doing this for your own sakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 02:11 AM
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She does need to listen to what he says so she never falls into this trap again. Never let a man treat you like shit and then go back for more, you teach people how to treat you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 01:17 AM
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Honestly, you aren't, this isnt kindness, this is stupidity. Women need to stop accepting bad behavior from men. He cheated on her, he treated her like shit, yet she came back, she accepted it and asked for more. Stop doing this! Men will chew you up and spit you out if you let them, dont let them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 01:15 AM
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Lol, you know how many people out there get off on that and offer themselves up? Fucking endless. Grow the fuck up. Go look up spinning plates and see how little I give a shit about narcissistic men and their feelings. Bye bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 04:42 PM
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And btw, you know you aren't allowed to post here right? Wtf do you want trolling this sub, it isnt for you, head back to blackpill and r/incels you fucking tool. I'm sure they will validate your butthurt little feefees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 04:40 PM
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Lol, aww, pumpkin, are your feeewings hurwt? 😂 I'm not manipulating anyone, they are free to go, no one is holding a gun to their heads. Ive had men actually offer themselves up to me to be my little bitches, lol. Total turn off. If men think "spinning plates" is the ultimate male dating strategy then whats good for the goose is good for the gander. Dont like it when your own dating strategies come back to bite you in the ass? Bummer. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 04:39 PM
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Before or after you jerk off like a cuckhold to a bigger better man fucking a woman you wish you could fuck but never will?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 04:34 PM
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Ahahahaha!!!! Oh fuck that was beautiful! Triggered much you sexless little dipshit?! Lol! Yup, you are clearly not going to hreed so the human race will continue to evolve, thank the lord for small miracles. Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:27 AM
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Welp darwinism sucks bro. Sorry you are at the bottom of the gene pool. Human race must evolve though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:52 AM
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High 5 sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 04:38 AM
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Lol, user name checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:28 AM
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Oh honey, if you think Harvey Weinstein is an alpha you really dont understand what alpha means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 04:00 AM
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The ONLY thing that matters is looking hot. A woman can stay hot well into her 50s, hollywood has shown us beyond a doubt that the wall for women is only limited by your ability to upkeep your appearance. Age means nothing. Every man with a working dick would be on his knees if even one of these women glanced his way.... https://m.imdb.com/list/ls055688704/ Find me one man that would turn down Kate Beckinsale because shes a "post wall woman" lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 03:37 AM
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This is also a wake up call ladies....NEVER have sex with these losers! Do not give them the satisfaction. Never fuck a guy until he has proven himself to you through investment of his resources and time, has come to the table with something or has committed to you in a monogamous relationship. If you want to just fuck around for fun, fuck young, hot super studs, not these used up, old, redpill losers. Never ever ever have casual sex with men expecting them to settle down. This is how most of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 03:31 AM
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I always just text back that I'm on a date and I'll text them when it's over, then I never text back. Lol. They blow up my phone all night thinking I'm in some other dudes bed. Works like a charm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 03:20 AM
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If you meant you are in a committed relationship and he is still texting other women and you even have to ask if this is ok then you have a long way to go my friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 03:17 AM
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Girls, NEVER fall for this wall bullshit. Take care of yourself, stay fit, constantly improve yourself and make your own money. You can rule the world of men for as long as you like. I'm 50, I have endless options. I have a 30 yr old boy toy, a 43 year old sugar daddy (he thinks I'm 38, lol) that pays me $2500/month for my company and a 36 yr old bf that asked me to marry him. There is no wall, the wall is a male myth and a total cope. Stay hot my friends and the world is yours. Men are our slav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 03:01 AM
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Masculine, intelligent, driven, takes initiative, knows himself and stands for what he believes in, loves women but does not live his life for them, commands respect, a leader, capable of intimacy, doesnt watch porn, has a mission, passionate, spiritual/believes in God, has integrity/strong code of ethics, fights for what he believes in, sexy as fuck. The opposite of Justin Trudeau.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 02:49 AM
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It doesnt stand for something? Like male obese incel dipshit? Or some such thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 02:43 AM
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Maybe not 100% but without money a man has zero RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:13 PM
2

This is all so comical. The only thing that matters is attractiveness. If you are an attractive man in his 20s you have a good chance at being attractive in your 30s if you dont let yourself go. Same for women. Hot people are hot people and their value doesn't change much if they keep themselves together. They tend to mate with each other regardless of age. Hot = hot. If you are unattractive in your 20s there is little chance you are going to magically become attractive in your 30s outside of ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 07:52 PM
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RMV=BB
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 07:46 PM
2

Nailed it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 07:44 PM
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He was by far the hottest at 22. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 07:30 PM
2

And when men are young and delusional they chase stacies, then they get old and delusional and chase young stacies, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 02:25 AM
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Uh huh. You think common women can just trade up whenever just because they feel like it? Lol. Both men and women do what they are capable of, both are hypergamous. People are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:26 AM
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Lol, talk to them how? Men have completely checked out, they are complete losers that cant talk to a woman irl life then cant understand that women aren't lining up to date their sorry unattractive asses online. Lol. Obviously online they are going to go after the top 20% in looks when there is nothing else to go by. Why would a woman be interested in a man that hasnt shown her any attractive traits? All the men that bitch about the 80/20 bullshit they got from redpill are constantly judging wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:14 AM
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Lol, you sure do cling like a dog in heat to some random ok cupid survey. Of course women dont find 80% of men attractive when they have nothing to go on but some shitty mirror selfies. Women find other things besides appearance attractive in men. If those same women could meet those same men irl the outcome would be very different. Yet those same men are the ones constantly babbling about wanting to fuck young, hot, slim,18 to 25 year old, virginal, non-hypergamous Stacies regardless of what he…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:40 PM
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What, men decided this? Lol. Ya, they arent delusional at all. Very scientific approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:22 PM
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Jack black is a celebrity, you can't be a celebrity without charisma. There are millions of men that are the butt of the joke in their social circle, they aren't celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:48 PM
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What are you even talking about now? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:29 PM
1

Whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:28 PM
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Ah yes of course, just slim isnt good enough, it has to be curvy and slim at the same time, so that narrows the field even more. Who cares what women's beauty standards are when they have been brainwashed their entire lives into believing that their only worth lies in living up to impossible beauty standards, otherwise they aren't even seen as people. No shit they have crazy standards. So a man will settle for less then the ideal if he is forced to? Lol, ya, how noble. You cant date Stacy becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 08:30 PM
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Nothing to do with me, I'm just tired of men constantly bemoaning women's hypergamy while ignoring obvious male hypergamy. Everyone is hypergamous, everyone trades up if they can. Men are just freaking out now because women were never in a position to exploit their hypergamy until modern times, whereas men have always traded in old wives for newer younger models when they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 08:19 PM
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Because successful men arent as threatened or intimidated by other men. Unsuccessful men are mostly concerned they wont measure up to the competition and their gf will be an alpha widow. Alphas dont have to be worried about alpha widows because the are the alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:53 PM
1

I'm only interested in masculine men that take initiative and take risks to get what they want. Ie, ask out the girl. If I have to ask him out I lose attraction right away, he seems passive and feminine to me from the start. Also, men will always go for the easy lay, if I ask men out they will automatically assume I want to fuck them and he will accept whether he is interested in me romantically or not because hes hoping for easy sex. There is no way for me to tell which guys are actually into m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:45 PM
1

No shit, women want high status men and men want young, beautiful women. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:37 PM
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Why do young men even expect to have satisfying sex lives? Lol Young men have never in history had satisfying sex lives, sex is a reward for becoming a man deserving of sex not something they are entitled to just for being alive. Men used to remain virgins until they were married, if they had nothing to offer a wife they couldn't get married, ie, no sex. They could hire a prostitute but that also required money. Only in this day and age do men feel entitled to sex for nothing, its ridiculous. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:30 PM
1

Hes famous because he is charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:21 PM
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Not sure where this idea that men are less emotional then women comes from either. Men have tons of emotion, they are just different emotions then women. Rage is an emotion, they have a ton of it. Shame, fear, anger, excitement, resentment, embarrassment, pride, lust. Emotions basically rule mens lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:14 PM
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Sweet!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:10 PM
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That's her point though, its the manosphere that claims women are only attracted to the top 20% of men. That is also manosphere bullshit. If that is the truth then so is the fact that the manosphere idiots are clearly only attracted to the top tiny percentage of women that fit their ridiculous criteria of an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:08 PM
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6+, slim, 18-25 yr old, non slutty women are hardly a "large number". Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:05 PM
5

So can we bio-engineer non-hypergamous men to so they dont trade in their older aging wives for fresh young new ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:01 PM
1

Again....what?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:28 AM
2

Jesus. This is the most garbled rambling piece of I'm not sure what I've read in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:04 AM
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And the scary thing is "fat Kevin" is probably giving redpill advice online to other losers about how to do well with women, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:42 AM
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Yup, and that is why the best thing a man could ever do for his sex life is turn off the porn. A mans sex drive and sexual attraction to real regular women comes back with a vengeance when he gives up the porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:37 AM
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You have a lot to offer in a debate I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:53 PM
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No shit, being a rich celebrity doesnt make you a god, celebrities are some of the most dysfunctional people alive. Getting divorced doesnt mean you are disposable, just means your relationship didnt work out for any myriad of reasons. The same amount of women as men get divorced, it takes two. Its not "women throwing men away" it's people that are no longer compatible for whatever reason. Being rich or a celebrity has nothing to do with being a good decent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:03 PM
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Lol, ya, all these rich celebrities out there that are so disposable. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 07:37 PM
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Um, losers are easily replaceable and discardable. Decent, attractive men are rare and worth their weight in gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:11 PM
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Redpill was founded by losers that couldnt get laid and is the last stop for the aspeys and unfuckables before they land in r/incels and MGTOW. Clearly men that have something to offer the world and dont have a problem getting women are not wasting time online whining about the "anti-Male conspiracy" and the "evil wimmenz" that wont fuck them, lol. I thought that was just obvious. This is funny. I really didn't realize that there were men that thought the redpill community was anything but despe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:09 PM
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Ya, the redpill only sees solipsism when women dont want to give them what they want regardless of their own needs and desires....ie, sex. "She doesnt want to fuck me even though I'm her looks match!" Solipsistic cunt!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:41 PM
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Dont then. Weed yourself out of the dating pool. No loss to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 03:10 PM
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Not even the same species as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:15 AM
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Holy fuck that is hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 01:37 AM
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A lot of it is porn. Porn drains men of their sexual masculine drive. Men used to get out and conquer the world, try to win the girl because they had a sex drive, they were horny. They wanted women and they were inspired to do whatever it took to get them. Now they just see a pretty girl and go home and pathetically jack off to a bigger better man fucking a girl they wish they could fuck but never will right in front of them like weak pathetic cuckholds. Men have cuckholded themselves and they a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 01:19 AM
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Ah redpill, the bastion of autistic losers. At least they quickly weed themselves out of the dating pool with their redpill bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 01:08 AM
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Yup, I was a playboy bunny in Tokyo and I ran into these losers all the time. They are total dweebs, clearly at the bottom of the dating pool in the western world and then act like they are Gods in asia because asian women cream themselves for whitey. Its pathetic. They are absolute douchebag assholes, as soon as they get a little taste of SMV they go full retard misogynist. They act out all their pent up rage and insecurities on the asian women and get an out of control ego. I'd run into them o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 12:40 AM
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I meant porn. If some guys need to do no fap to get there or if they feel it gives them superpowers then good for them I say. As far as I'm concerned compared to guys that watch porn the guy I was with that didnt watch it had some superpowers thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 10:33 PM
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Well considering that the one time I met a guy that didnt watch porn and he literally blew my mind the sex was so good, I'll take the flat earthers over the pornofied creeps jacking off to their computers any day thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:01 PM
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Omg. I'm so done with this. Lol. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:03 PM
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Do what you want. Pay children for sex, I dont care. In my mind its not a solution, I'd rather just continue on with my own life. Sex isnt everything. You do you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:02 PM
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That's a child as far as I'm concerned and I'm in my 40s. You are beating a dead horse. And your solution is prostitution ffs?! Lol. Ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:56 PM
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I'm done with this. You are obsessed with one thing and its boring. I'm here to discuss porn, not your old man fetish or buying children for sex. Please stop. And fwiw, sometimes there is no solution, it just is the cross you have to bear. People have lived through much worse things then bad dating/sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:49 PM
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Uh huh. So women are just being delusional when they are creeped out at the gross leering stare and sneer as a guy is looking at her tits. Women have always had strong intuition and the ability to read people, their survival has always depended on it regardless of your little aspey studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:48 PM
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Gen alpha will date other gen alphas if they are better. There is no reason why older generations should be trolling younger ones. Stop with this. People need to get their shit straightened out and look at the real issue, that is pornography. Anyway, I'm finished with this train of debate, its just going in circles now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:44 PM
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Not many women are attracted to old men, it is what it is. Its not women's fault that the young men are so fucked that they cant function. The solution isnt berating women for not wanting to date their dads. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:38 PM
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Believe me, no man rotting in his own filth likes himself. They are lashing out in pain and self loathing and playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:36 PM
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Who would want to buy a weak, sexless pornified loser?! Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:34 PM
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I hear you, but this isn't a world a woman would enjoy. It goes completely against a womans nature to enjoy filth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:13 PM
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They hate us yes, but they still hate themselves. These men have zero self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:12 PM
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I'm honestly not sure. It looks pretty bleak as far as the mating situation goes. I suggest young women do everything they can to better themselves and their lives on their own. Build a good community of people around them so they aren't as lonely and dont put any stock into finding a decent man. If it happens great, but be prepared for it not to happen. Also build a strong spiritual base. Without it you will drown in this world of degenerate filth. You'll need strength in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:11 PM
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Meh. I dont consider life good when society is collapsing around us into degeneracy and filth. I want the majority to do well, not just a few leeches feeding off the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:08 PM
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The weak men stay weak, they get destroyed and are either conquered by strong men that see their advantage and attack or they die out under a new generation that has to deal with the collapse of society and either survive or die trying. Like the greatest generation did after the 1930s depression, they rose up out of that and built the greatest country the world has ever known.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:06 PM
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Do you think while they are jacking off in the corner like disgusting cuckholds they finish up and think ,"wow! I'm such a man! I'm going to go out and slay bitches and conquer the world now"? No, they sit in their old smelly dried up cum, look around at their sad lonely sexless existence and hate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:03 PM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:00 PM
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Yes, just so weak and pathetic. Because they don't want to do anything thats difficult, like look at themselves, they want to play victim and point the finger. So they bounce between porn and redpill to validate themselves because "it's all the wimmez fauwt!" Instead of dealing with their own shit. Hard times create strong men. Strong men create easy times. Easy times create weak men. Weak men create hard times. Guess where we are on that cycle....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:59 PM
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Sigh. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:50 PM
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Thats just so incredibly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:50 PM
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The industry will never take any responsibility. This is up to us if we want it to be different this will have to be a grassroots movement. r/nofap and r/pornfree are men that have had enough. We need that on a mass scale. The next generation of men is going to be absolutely damaged beyond belief by this. I have no hope for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:48 PM
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Cant turn to the porn industry for solutions to porn. This will have to be a grassroots movement. People will have to get to the point of desperation before they change. Its like the men at r/nofap and r/pornfree thats what has to happen but on a mass scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:41 PM
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Most men 5 years older are also watching porn these days. And eventually there will be no porn free older men anyway so this is hardly the solution to a huge social problem. Whats gen Z supposed to do? Troll the old folks homes? The problem is porn. If we want a solution to a problem we need to look at the actual problem, not a bandaid solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:30 PM
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Ah, you are one I see. Cool. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:29 PM
1

What effects? Not sure. But as far as I'm concerned this is the end of functioning society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:22 PM
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Old men are not what most young women want to date, just listing off unattractive options as a solution to an immense social problem is no answer. I work with hundreds of millenial women, they are not lining up to date old men, they are checking out of the sex and dating game altogether. They are done. Back in the day most men used to be good Christian men that didnt watch porn, now all the women that want to settle down with a decent man have to fight for the few table scraps left over? There a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:21 PM
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This is honestly the fall of civilization, because if this isnt it, what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:15 PM
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From what I can see, the general life of an old woman is dying alone in a dusty old house with a few cats or in an old folks home. I'd take her situation over the alternative any day. I mean she seems to be having a blast regardless of what the men here think about this, shes living every old dudes ultimate fantasy, actually, shes living every dudes fantasy, sounds like sour grapes to me. Good on her.
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 04:10 PM
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As in they give off a creepy, predatory vibe. They dont know how to normally interact with a woman without creeping her out. Women are incredibly adept at reading body language and microexpressions. I can see what a man is thinking by the look on his face when he looks at me and it creeps me out or turns me off. So many men now either give off this vibe and I avoid them or they cant interact at all, cant make eye contact and cant hold a normal social interaction with a woman, they are like a dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:04 PM
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Heres a message for the boys....head over to r/nofap or r/pornfree and get your shit straight. It will change your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 03:55 PM
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Right, so the solution is for women to compete for the small scraps of some outlier population because the general population of men they would have dated in past generations have rendered themselves completely sexless and disgusting to the point that they are now undateable. Sounds like a great solution. Heaven forbid a man actually stop watching porn though. Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 03:50 PM
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What they can do is stop jacking off to it day in and day out and making it their entire sexuality and go out and try to actually fuck a real woman like men used to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 03:45 PM
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Not almost like...exactly like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:54 AM
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Done. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:07 AM
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Millenial men are tragic. I feel so sorry for the younger women. I am so grateful I got to experience sex before internet porn. Its night and day different. Men watching porn is the equivalent of sitting in a dark dirty hotel room while a bigger better man fucks a woman they wish they could fuck but never will right in front of them while they jerk off to it in the corner....like pathetic cuckholds. That's their sexuality. As a woman i can see it and feel it on a man when he watches a lot of por…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:06 AM
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Well you do sound like a total douche. Let's be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:02 AM
2

Well at least hes successful at something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 01:46 AM
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Exactly. Marry the chick that cant get enough of your dick. Shes the keeper. If she's not begging for it you aren't her alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:06 AM
2

Wow. You are dumb as a post hey?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:54 PM
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Oh brother, the virtue of men! Fuck, thanks for that, havent laughed that hard in awhile. Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:43 PM
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So no point then. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:31 PM
2

What? Ya, younger women have always existed. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:45 PM
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The OP is directly stating that women are held to task about this all the time yet males are not. So you agree, if we have no say in your behavior then men should have no say in ours, especially if you are guilty of the exact same behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:44 PM
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No shit it feels good, nobody is disputing that. Doesnt change the fact that tons of men devise their self worth from how many women they can bag and how hot those women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:07 PM
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Great arguement. The thousands and thousands of men throughout history that traded in their wives as soon as she got old for a fresh new model would beg to differ. Everyone trades up if they can, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:04 PM
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Yup. The male sex drive makes sure we keep propagating and the female sex drive makes sure we keep evolving. It's a perfect system.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:01 PM
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Yup. Tuth is truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:24 PM
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Darwinism at it's best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:24 PM
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And most poor people dont get anything. Life isnt fair. You can either sit around whining about being poor or you can find happiness in other things or try to get rich. Same with sex, you can sit around feeling sorry for yourself, find more meaning in life outside of notch counts or you can do what you can to rise above your circumstances. No one is going to be served up sex on a platter just for being born, you have to have something to offer, be it looks, money, whatever. Thats life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:23 PM
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You cant be this disconnected from the world....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:19 PM
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Everyone is hypergamous. Men trade up for youth and beauty and women trade up for status.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:18 PM
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Except when shes a "ho for him" he gets all up in his head and starts to wonder where she learned all this stuff, then he imagines her with other men and his insecurities get the best of him. He only wants a "ho for him" if she pretends it's all new to her and shes just super into him and experimental but only with him, never before. That's the madonna/whore complex, its alive and well more then ever. Men dont marry the porn star they jack off to every night, even though shes his sexual ideal, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:56 PM
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Oh muffin. I'm sorry your feewwings were hurwt. Actually I'm not, lol, keep sobbing into your pillow, nobody here cares. But I guess you'll always have redpill to make yourself feel better dreaming about the days when endless hot sluts are going to show up wanting your dick, any day now, Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:38 PM
1

Then again, that's on you. You married her not knowing her history, shouldn't have married her then. You signed up to be her beta, you put a ring on it, and now you are pissed because you found redpill and are embarrassed that you fell for it. Truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:32 PM
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Then you got what you paid for, complaining about it now is your problem, not hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:31 PM
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Yup. That's the crux of the matter here. Hes pissed that shes not down with his new agenda for the marriage. He shouldn't have married her under false pretences, he should have made his needs clear before hand or he should be satisfied with the status quo. This is entirely on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:29 PM
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Awww, sweetie! Your little ego got hurt! You gonna be ok? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:39 PM
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Uh huh. So that's why shes not into fucking you like you are her God then, because you treat her so well. Sounds like it's not working out that well for you is it. Maybe it's time to start taking some of the actual advice you are getting here instead of just looking for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:23 PM
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Ya, the Greeks. That was gay sex. Its always been the norm for gay sex, obviously and bordellos are hardly mainstream sex, that's where men go to do what they dont get to do at home. Your grandparents weren't rocking the anal every night back in the day. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:21 PM
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Buddy, like I said, aspeys are a waste of time. Move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:18 PM
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Yes, that's good at least. But he did get these ideas from redpill so redpill does need to straighten him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:05 PM
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Yes. Whatever. You are changing up the rules on her now, you want kinky sex when she signed up to marry a vanilla sex guy as far as she was concerned. You didn't make your needs clear from the start. Her past is of no relevance to this. She chose to marry you, not the guy that was anally fucking her that she didn't enjoy or the guy that wanted adventurous sex. She married thinking the sex was fine just as it was. This problem is yours not hers. You need to deal with your own insecurities around …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:03 PM
1

Right, fair enough. I just find soooo many aspeys are drawn to redpill because they are shit with women and then think they have discovered "the magic formula" to unlock the golden vagina. We all know how much aspeys love a formula. I get pulled into a debate with one and quickly discover they are obsessed with some irrelevant detail or semantic and it goes no where. As soon as I get a whiff of aspey I'm out, just a waste of energy. There are redpill guys that arent like this I know but there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:57 PM
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Um...no. anal wasnt on the radar as an expected sexual standard until internet porn. Anal was exotic and practiced mainly by gay men up until the boomer generation started experimenting a bit with it but still not mainstream. Anal is now for the first time in history a mainstream sexual practice. Just because it has a long and storied past does not mean it was ever mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:51 PM
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Well if the shoe fits. I know tons of women irl, makeup or no makeup I can see clear as day what kind of bone structure they have, I'm not an idiot. If you only look at pictures makeup can fool you, if you actually hang around real women it's pretty obvious what their facial dimensions are. Only an icel would think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:48 PM
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So why did he marry her then? No one held a gun to his head. He already admitted she was out of his league and that the sex was vanilla before he even put a ring on it. Sounds like buyers remorse to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:42 PM
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That to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:41 PM
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Well that's a start. If I were you I would get some counselling before taking this any further with your wife if you want a chance at your marriage working out. If you keep going down with this train of thought you have a good chance at fucking up your marriage. It sounds like you have a good thing going and you are risking blowing it up over anal sex, that's very immature and sounds like an ego issue more then a sex issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:33 PM
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If a woman can trick you into thinking she has an entirely different bone structure just by slapping on a shit ton of makeup then you are pretty retarded. This only works in photos, not real life. Maybe you need to get off the computer and meet some women irl, just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:30 PM
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Lol, yup, that's a risk. But honestly, it's pretty easy to quickly suss out a guys attitude about anal sex before throwing the ultimatum out there....just bringing up the topic of trying a little ass play with a guy and his reaction will pretty much show his hand on that one. If you get "omg! Fuck that! Gross! No way anything is going up my butt! I'm not gay!" You're safe to go. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:27 PM
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Ugh. Madonna/whore complex is just rampant with these insecure little losers. So sick of men that cant see women as people with many aspects of themselves. Just children. The scary thing is that these guys find redpill and turn into toxic misogynists instead of trying to look at themselves and get therapy like they really need.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:02 PM
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Ya, sounds like she was out of your league. And if you married a woman that you knew was into vanilla sex then that's what you signed up for, thats how she feels with you. She signed up to marry a man that she felt was fine with vanilla sex, now you are blindsiding her and shes the one that's supposed to feel guilty? I dont think so. You changing the rules of the game down the line on her isnt fair. You thinking it's your right as a man to do whatever you want to her body because redpill said so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:00 PM
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What are you even on about. I said if a guy takes it up the ass for me I'll take it up the ass for him. That in no way gives you any right to judge how I feel regarding anal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:55 PM
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Yup, hes toxic and is just here trying to validate his toxic beliefs. He doesn't care about his wife at all, just what he can get from her. Its disgusting. I can see it all playing out clear as day, he discovered redpill, is buying into it, bringing it into his marriage and now hes going to end up divorced or deadbedroomed but he will selfishly blame it all on her for not taking it up the ass for him like the good little slut she used to be. Just gross. He doesn't care if she even enjoys it or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:52 PM
1

Cool. I don't debate with aspeys, it's a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:33 PM
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Yup. I have no tolerance for it. I'm not a porno sex toy. If a guy inspires me to want anal sex with him and I'm into it then it's on. Otherwise get the fuck out with your porn fetishes, I'm not your girl. If your value as a man hinges on what "acts" you've managed to manipulate some girl into letting you check off your bucket list then you are an insecure loser and I want no part of you anyway. Tbh I'm so sick of shitty porn sex. The worst sex I've ever had was with guys that watch a shit ton o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:28 PM
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Oh brother. Are you another one of those aspey redpillers? Everything isnt literal. I meant anal sex is not that big of a deal, its a fun thing that feels good for a man, no man is traumatized by giving anal sex. Taking anal sex is another level entirely. There is a reason women only get their anal on with the guys that sexually rock their world, women need to be really turned on to enjoy it. This guy does not turn on his wife. Thats the real issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:20 PM
2

You are not a woman so you have zero rights to judge anything about how anal sex is for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:17 PM
5

Why was she Mrs right? I'm guessing she was out of your league right? Because you clearly aren't sexually compatible, shes not that into you and the sex was always pretty lukewarm even in the honeymoon stage. She got wild with other guys before you so she's not a prude. You don't inspire her to get kinky yet you married her anyway. Bad move on your part
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:12 PM
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Ya the difference here is that your husband sussed out your sexual history and values about marriage BEFORE marrying you. He was smart and made a smart decision unlike this guy that also knew his wifes history and views on sex but married her anyway. This is buyers remorse and its on him. He can't turn around and change the game later on then get pissed when shes not down with the new status quo. He shouldnt have married her. That's the real issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:09 PM
4

Not speaking for all mankind. This isn't literal. Anal sex is much more intense for women then men, that's just fact. Ask an anal virgin man to take a dildo up his ass and you will quickly realize which act is more intense between the giving and receiving. Everybody knows that. It can also be very painful if not executed properly and this guy has no experience. I enjoy anal sex also, but I'm not going to let a guy pressure me into it just because he "feels like a little anal tonight" to mix thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:52 PM
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He already admitted he knew about her sexual history and married her anyway. It's on him. And it's pretty easy to verify someones financial status, a person would be an idiot to marry without a financial history. We arent talking about domestic violence here, and regardless, abusers usually have many red flags, ignore those at your peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:44 PM
3

Yup, we all have our things. Lol there's someone for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:38 PM
0

Then have at er, fair enough. I would never be with a man with a pegging kink though, not my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:33 PM
1

So 'leagues' then....Semantics aside it all ends up leading to the same conclusion. Deadbedroom marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:19 PM
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Leagues just are what they are. He married a woman that he thought was the hottest or best he could get regardless of the red flags, and she settled for the ring. Is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:17 PM
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Then why did he marry her? Pretty stupid. I wouldn't marry a man that was lying about his finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:16 PM
2

And then those men marry above their leagues and end up in deadbedroom marriages. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:12 PM
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The point is hes a beta, he doesn't inspire any women to get kinky with him, hes a sexual dishrag. Hes been with 7 women and he hasnt gotten to try a basic common sexual experience? Now his wife is doling out half ass vanilla sex? It's on him. He married above his league, as guys like this always tend to do, and now hes headed for a deadbedroom marriage. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:07 PM
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For a lot of men "anal sex" is just another novelty to check off the sexual bucket list, doesn't even feel that much different then PIV. For women it is incredibly emotionally and physically taxing and if poorly executed can be painful and damaging. Porn has made these things mainstream, they never used to be mainstream. The anal sex thing is obnoxious, if a guy pressures me I always tell him that yup, if you take a dildo the same size as your cock up your ass first we are in business. Fair's fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:58 PM
2

Sounds like you married someone above your league
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:51 PM
1

Ya, women generally find different things attractive. Men are pretty predictable though. They are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:30 AM
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Yup, attraction triggers, every guy falls for them. Big red lips, long hair, big tits, small waist, fat ass, etc etc. Doesn't matter if the girl is naturally pretty or not, he'll be sexually attracted. Men are also drawn to sexual availability over beauty. The more available for sex a woman looks the more attracted men will be. The beautiful ice queen will look good but won't be as sexually attractive as the trashy porn star looking girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:19 AM
1

I can usually tell by the look of a guy if he is using or not, its pretty obvious. Regardless, it's the same as makeup and plastic surgery, its unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:17 AM
2

What kid knows about the OK cupid survey? And the thing all the incels dont understand about that lauded survey is that it is just about looks, women are not as visual as men, they factor many more things into attraction then men. Women factor in status, character, personality,, humor, intelligence, athletisicm, popularity, masculinity, bad boy status, chemistry etc etc. Looks alone dont really impress women and that's all you have to go by on dating sites. If a woman could mingle with all those…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:08 AM
3

Tons of guys use steroids, that's not natural and its pretty obvious when a guy is using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:48 AM
1

Make up doesn't fix ugly bone structure on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:46 AM
4

They don't know any women irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:46 AM
1

This is exactly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:45 AM
2

There are tons of posts about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:44 AM
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And yet when one of these obviously heavily made up porn doll looking chicks walks by them in a bar their jaws drop to their knees and they start drooling like dogs in heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:44 AM
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Gay men switch back and forth between femininity and masculinity because they are playing both roles in the relationship, they are not expressing different types of masculinity. Women are feminine in nature and will never as a whole be attracted to feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 05:47 PM
2

Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:12 PM
1

Fair enough. He is calling women fat though, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:11 PM
0

Lol. Hit a nerve I see. Turn off the porn and watch what happens to your life. r/nofap And btw, I'm not a boomer. Anyone can see clear as day what's happening to millenial men and why. People have lived through much much more difficult times then you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:30 PM
3

Nobody said it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:28 PM
13

Well no shit. You are a walking green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:12 PM
0

Welcome to the porn generation. They have no raw sex drive, they've literally drained it all wacking off into a computer monitor. Sex drive is the male driving force to go out and get women, always has been until this generation. Men used to be out in the world every day cruising for women, they used to love it, it was considered a right of passage for a young man to be out skirt chasing and sowing his wild oats. Those days are done. You stated it yourself, they are messing around on their compu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:09 PM
3

Birds of a feather, both are at the bottom of the RMV pool. Theres somebody for everyone so they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:21 AM
1

Yup. Is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:20 AM
5

Sure, or whoever wants to marry them. Not all men give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:30 PM
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Omg. Sluts get married all the time, no problem, men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:55 PM
2

Who cares what you like to fuck. The point is you have to pay for it. Beta buX.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:42 PM
2

Dude, it is what it is. I know it fucks with your world view but my life is a perfect example of what a hot woman's life is like. I'll just keep enjoying it until the ride is over. You keep paying for that sex and calling yourself an alpha though 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:36 PM
2

Nope. I post everywhere on reddit, cherry pick all you like, I'm curious about many different subs and clearly if Im banging a 30 yr old stud, have a 43 yr old SD and a 36 yr old bf, that makes me by definition a cougar in every sense of the word. Lol. Look at my r/amisexy post if you want to know how hot I am. But you can believe what you like. The one that was paying him is a 35 yr old woman that he knocked up and is now one of his baby mommas. So I guess hes paying her now, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:28 PM
1

Whatever buddy. So what, complaining is a dark feminine trait. You want to bitch and cunt away like a woman then be my guest. It sure wont get you laid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:23 PM
1

I am 47, and I had a 43 yr old rich sugar daddy and I am fucking a hot 30 yr old stud on the side. I also have a long term 36 yr old bf that asked me to marry him. I am hot. It is what it is. I'm hot enough to pull it off but old and experienced enough to know the score and take advantage of my situation until it runs dry. Sometimes mother nature is kind. I know my time is limited so I'm using my advantage to the max while I still can. I saw the nature of men and decided to embody the nature of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:11 PM
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No. Complaining is actually a feminine trait. Makeup and Instagram is not what defines femininity, there are a myriad of different things and complaining/gossiping is one of them. It's one of the ways women bond with each other, they complain and commiserate with each other. When men whine and complain to women they are acting in a feminine manner. They are welcome to it but women will see them as just another chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:08 PM
1

Dude. I'm a woman, I have an alpha fux. It's not the old guy paying me to fuck him. It's the sexy as fuck young badass with two baby mommas that I would never in a million years settle down with but he gets it for free. He fucks me like a stallion and I will come back for more as long as hes dishing it. (I happen to know at least one woman actually pays HIM for sex, lol). The 43 yr old investment banker that was paying me 3k/month for that same privilege is not my alpha. If you were these chicks…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:56 PM
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You were trying to call out men for being beta bux to your alpha status because they had to trade money and resources for sex while alphas get it for free. Trying to position yourself as an alpha when by your own standards you are literally being a beta bux by paying for sex. You were not "pointing out the dual mating strategy". You were flexing, and you are still trying. It's just sad now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:35 PM
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Uh huh. Sure buddy too late. You've already shown your hand. Stop trying to flex, its getting embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:16 PM
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Yes, we get it, you just keep repeating yourself. Either way you pay for sex, beta bux any way you slice it. By your very own definition. You need to provide resources to get laid by hot young girls that are out of your league. They aren't riding your cock at night in wild abandon just for the sheer thrill of it. ie, not alpha. Beta buX. This is getting old. You can try to define this in a million different ways but it adds up to the same thing every way you spin it. You. Pay. For. Sex. You are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:14 PM
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Lol, what?! What the fuck are you on about now? My alpha was just hot, alpha, and sexy as fuck, he got me hot, no more no less. Nothing to do with his car, which was nothing special, or his clothes or his haircut. Just him, that's it, and the sex was next level amazing. It had absolutely nothing to do with money no matter how much you want to push this little narrative of yours. No alphas look and carry themselves like homeless people, women or not, alphas are alphas, not losers that cant even g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:20 AM
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No, everyone doesn't pay. Just like he commented himself, Aphas dont have to pay, hot young chicks get on their dicks for free all the time, no date, no dinner, no money, no wedding ring or big ass house, nothing, just a sweet ride on some hot alpha cock for the sheer thrill of it. Happens all the time. I myself have fucked a hot young alpha stud and he didnt spend a dime on me, I was in it for the hot sex, nothing more, meanwhile I had mr 43 yr old investment banker dude paying me 3k/month to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:08 AM
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You aren't following. This guy was yammering on about how 'alphas' dont have to pay for sex or invest any resources to get sex and that beta buX losers have to pay and yet he is literally paying for sex. He is a sugar daddy. I honestly dont give a fuck if he wants to sugar some hot young tail, good on him, but don't come on here calling out other men that invest resources in women to get sex as being losers to his "alpha" when he is literally posting in another sub about his sugar baby breaking …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:56 AM
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So? either way, paying for what alphas get for free is beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:45 AM
2

Uh huh. Beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:40 AM
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Ya, because he's not an alpha, hes a beta bux paying for sex. Nice cope but this just is what it is. Old man paying young hot ass to fuck him, nothing more nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:37 AM
1

Fantasies are just fantasies. So what.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:30 AM
1

You're doing it wrong, you dont get self esteem by having sex, you get sex by having self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:01 AM
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So basically all those words to say you arent alpha enough to bang the hot young chicks for free anymore. got it. Cause you know those hot perky bubble tits are bouncing above hot young Chad's rock hard cock after you've finished paying for her services, and hes fucking it for free. Alpha is not situational. Sorry. And honestly, I dont care, everyone gets old, nbd. You just maybe shouldnt be here calling out beta bux when you are the literal definition of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:39 AM
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Only a women way below his league. A good looking whiney man is even worse because women cant understand why a good looking man would ever act like that, it's a HUGE red flag and a major turn off. If a hot guy started effeminately whining at me about women having it easier in the dating market or anything else for that matter, I wouldn't be able to get away from him fast enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:34 AM
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Lol, well some guys def do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:25 AM
1

Well whining like a girl sure isnt improving their chances much. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:24 AM
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Whining for empathy might get you empathy, but it wont get you laid. What is it you want from this, empathy or sex? Because nobody is going to offer you a pity fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:20 AM
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Because complaining is actually an inherently feminine trait. When men complain they are being feminine. Women are attracted to masculinity. Just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:18 AM
3

You clearly haven't seen the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:01 AM
0

I'm so fucking bored with this society I want to kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:00 AM
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You won't understand until you are masculine, in the real sense, not the fake sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:57 AM
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Then maybe stating on this thread that alphas get free sex and beta bux have to pay for it, might not be the best look for you...just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:55 AM
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You just commented that men that invest anything in women are the beta bux and the alphas are the winners because they get free sex no investment. Now you are stating that it is alpha to pay for sex, how convenient. By your own definition if you are so alpha dating shouldnt be expensive at all, it should be free. Paying for sex is literally "beta bux".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:42 AM
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I was a sugar baby. But ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:28 AM
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Nothing. I'm totes down w the SD/SB relationship, i was an SB, great deal. But you are commenting that men that pay for women instead of just getting to fuck them with no investment are the losers.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:26 AM
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Sugar daddies are the ultimate beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:23 AM
7

Uh...dude. you're a sugar daddy. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:22 AM
8

Is English your second language? None of this made any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:15 AM
1

Hmm, my apologies, I read you wrong. I'm glad you are not as I had assumed. You are clearly much more evolved then the usual purplepill debater I tend to run across here. Or most men for that matter. I am sorry I judged you the way I did. Thank you for having patience and an open mind. You have my empathy. For what it's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:32 AM
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Ya, nobody is putting any effort into living up to your standards I see...hmm, lol, I wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:28 AM
2

No shit sherlock. So pussies in the dms sucking up for sex and assholes in the main thread too weak and pathetic to stand up for themselves cause they are scared to get called a white knight by being a decent human being. Great bunch. Nobody here wants your dick. Move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:22 PM
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Where in my posts did you miss that I loathe casual sex? Did you even read any of the posts I wrote? The last thing I need is your empathy, or any mans for that matter, what women need is for men to be men again, lost cause though. Yes, of all the creatures on this earth that breed and raise children we are the only ones that are incomparable. And all of history when human beings became the dominant species on earth and populated the planet in the billions we did it because we were not compatibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:18 PM
1

Because clearly you havent figured us out if everyone is still miserable. If you had figured us out we would be in a much better place, men and women are naturally meant to be together, we're not enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:05 PM
2

Most guys that dm are actually nicer then the guys on the public threads. Heaven forbid any guy get labelled a white knight 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:02 PM
1

Uh huh. Sure buddy. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:01 PM
1

Yes. Thank you. Wow. It's not about if a man is the hottest guy or the richest or whatever, its about masculinity, and energy and that is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:04 PM
1

I'm just tired. I can't have this conversation anymore. You guys think you have us all figured out. Hows that working out for you then? Are you happy and satisfied? My guess is no, so clearly you haven't figured us out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:00 PM
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Wow, you didnt listen to anything i said, about my own experience or all the women i know and talk to. Just right back to "something must be wrong with you because men are the victims here" lol. I give up holy fuck. I honestly forgot what a waste of breath it is debating with redpill men, so ya, this is my fault. Lol. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:57 PM
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I checked out because there are no men I am attracted to. I am treated like a sex object by pretty much all men i meet like i mentioned. Redpill has made it even worse because now men think they have me all figured out and objectify me even more then before instead of letting me just be a person outside my physical body and AWALT bullshit. Sex is terrible, porn has ruined sex so that's not even worth it anymore. I am attracted to natural, masculine men and I don't even remember the last time I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:36 PM
4

Holy shit, you are damaged beyond repair huh? Thats just sad. Who ever said anything about a male feminist? There are many different types of men out there besides feminists or redpill psychos. Eesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:46 PM
1

Ya well seeing as I'm a hot woman I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:44 PM
2

Ok, first off I'm a hot/above average woman, always have been, I dont think I have it better then hot (or high status) men in any sense of the word. Hot men do not settle down, they fuck, yes, I can get fucked by all the hot men I could ever want, but I'm not interested in that, I want a relationship, so I have to date down for that, which is fine, but this means I am not above hot men. I am also a flight attendant, I am surrounded by women everyday that are single and in the dating field, I hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:36 PM
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Everything you say parrots redpill and now you say you aren't redpilled? Lol. Ok then. And it's not an insult, it's a warning, I'd pay attention if I were you....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:08 PM
1

The ones getting pumped and dumped off tinder, not the ones looking for relationships. That was my origional point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:07 PM
1

Sure, so am I, but this is a thread about men thinking women have it easier, they don't. Thats the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:06 PM
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Yup, but it's not you guys marrying those women, redpill is the bottom of the barrel, where the chaffe falls from the wheat. Redpill self selects themselves out of the dating pool and they don't even realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:05 PM
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You are so clueless it's not even funny. I can see where you are at with all this, you are deep in redpill philosophies right now and think you have found the holy grail of understanding women, you dont, not even close. You are in the loser pool and this isnt the way out. If you were smart you would take a few nuggets of insites and get the fuck out before you end up in r/incels. I'm not kidding. I'm trying to do you a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:03 PM
1

Oh you really are clueless about women. Eesh. Theres no point in even trying with you. Keep on going down the path you are on, just be warned, it ends up in r/incels every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:00 PM
1

Lol. Hunny. You clearly dont know any women. Stop trying to flex, it's just embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:58 PM
1

Exactly. Nobody has it better then anybody else. The dating pool is a tragic mess for everyone these days, men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:55 PM
2

Does that really seem like a good thing to you? Do you have such a limited understanding of women that you think they have it better because men will use them as a free cum dumpster and toss them aside the second they blow a hot load on her face because they think she us desperate?! Holy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:47 PM
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Holy fuck. Dude, everyone gets their heart broken when they are young, that's part of life, it's one of lifes major lessons. It's supposed to teach you to be a better person and a better partner so you can avoid the same mistakes next time. Every woman I know has had her heart broken, many a few times, difference is they dont go out and become some bitter redpill pos PUA because of it, they go through it, dust themselves off, try to improve, and go find love again. Men on the other hand become n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:44 PM
2

Legions of losers sure, women have standards even though men dont. Go check out r/femcels, they may be at the bottom of the dating pool but they still have a little self worth. Just because some pos somewhere will take them or pump and dump them doesn't make them happy or mean they have it better. Men have no idea what their league is, they accuse women of being delusional but news flash, everyone is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:37 PM
2

Oh fuck dude. You dont understand the first fucking thing about women at all. Go back to redpill, read another study, whatever, I give up, you are hopeless. Do you realize you just proved my point when u stated half of relationships started on tinder? Because normal women are looking for relationships, not casual sex, jesus christ. Youd think you would listen to ACTUAL women tell you about womens experiences but no, you understand us so much better then we do, lol. I'm a fucking flight attendant…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:07 AM
2

Many women are not on casual dating apps for one. Most women that are are looking for relationships, if they are using tinder they are generally hoping to meet someon. Even though men view it as strictly for casual sex, many women do not. Women see it as just another way to hopefully meet someone to be with. There are a lot of desperate delusional women on tinder. I'm not defending their choices. The amount of women on tinder looking strictly for one and done sex is very very slim. The rest are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:59 AM
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I have no idea what you mean by choose first. Men want casual sex with hot women, they are miserable because they cant get it easily. Women want committed relationships with high status men, they are miserable because they cant get it easily. No one is living in magic happy happy land because of their genetalia. Women do not get to just walk out the door and choose the best man she can find and have a relationship with him. If anything its more difficult then it ever has been getting a decent ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:38 AM
5

Uh huh. Desperate women taking desperate measures. You think these women love getting pumped and dumped by randos every night? Or do you think they are hoping one of them finally sees the light and sticks around for breakfast the next day and rescues her from her miserable desperate lonley life? Women are not men, shocker, but women are different and have different needs. Just because they are doing something out of loneliness or desperation does not mean they are happy and don't want something …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:24 AM
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Blah blah blah. So the issue isnt that women have it easier then men, its that hot people have it easier then unattractive people. Ya, no shit. Want easy commitment free sex? Then get hot. Otherwise ya, you're going to have to work for it. Tough shit. That's life. As far as women having it better, no, women aren't looking to get pumped and dumped, they are looking for commitment with a guy they are attracted to and they arent getting that either so they dont have it any better. You'll say they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:09 AM
2

They are fucking above their league, if they could get a relationship with these guys they would rather have that but they can't so they settle for crumbs. Start a thread asking if women would prefer tons of casual one nighters or one hot guy they could have great sex with that stuck around and actually cared about her. Itll be pretty clear pretty quickly what women prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:06 AM
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No shit sherlock. I said "casual sex" not "sex". Very few women are looking for one and done with randos, unless he is some Greek God that she has no chance at a relationship with because hes so far out of her league all she can get is a bang, shes generally looking for connection and intimacy. Women rarely want to get pumped and dumped, if she fucks a guy its usually because she likes him, meaning she wants more if possible. Jesus, do you know anything about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:02 AM
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You have to do things that are attractive or make you attractive in order to be attractive. Very few people are just innately attractive without putting in any effort at all, be that working out, dressing well, cultivating an attractive personality, humor, sexiness, being seductive, social status, having a good career, gaining wealth, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:48 AM
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Sure, but most women dont want casual sex, they want relationships, that's not as easy. Just because every 20 yr old guy on earth thinks the sun rises and sets around how much strange he can or can't stick his dick into doesn't mean the rest of he world feels the same way. It's pretty difficult sometimes for an average 20 something yr old women to get a 20 something yr old guy that's in her league to settle down, they are too busy trying to rack up notches.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:27 AM
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Yup, and most women do not want casual sex the way men do, most women hate getting pumped and dumped, so in what way do they have it better?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 12:13 AM
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It seems as though these guys are confusing the privileges of "hot people" with "women" because they only see hot women, the rest of the world doesn't exist for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:58 PM
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That's OP's issue though, he thinks its unfair that he has to "work" on himself. He thinks he should just get to wake up and have women jumping on his dick just because he exists, like he thinks it is for women (even though that isnt the truth for many women either, only the hot young ones). He can't see past his own solipsism to the bigger picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:56 PM
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You mean 20 something "hot" woman. Its exactly the same for a 20 something "hot" guy. They can both easily get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:51 PM
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If you are saying women have it easier finding relationships just because they are women well that just doesn't make any sense. If a straight woman is in a relationship then she is in one with a man, it takes two people to form a relationship, who is the guy then? Is she in a harem? If it's a monogamous relationship then obviously a guy is also in that same relationship so he is doing equally as well as she is. There are no women in happy relationships alone laughing at all the men that aren't i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:46 PM
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Clearly I hit a nerve. Anyway, good talk. Take it easy bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:33 AM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:35 PM
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Are you ok? Not dealing with the redpill 'anger phase' well i see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:31 PM
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Lol. Anger issues much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:13 PM
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Oh calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:09 PM
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For one attractive, feminine women like masculine men that take the initiative. Its biologically hard wired in us to be attracted to that. If a man is passive right out of the gate he loses a lot of our natural attraction so courting and pursuing a man is generally a turn off and against most womens nature. We are attracted to masculinity, masculine men take initiative. We take initiative in the way we attract men, we use different techniques in order to get noticed and seduce a man but we dont …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 08:51 PM
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No they dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 07:10 PM
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Dude. I get it. You are obsessed with the literal meaning of the word "league" you arent understanding the nuance here. I'm guessing you are on the spectrum. I'm sorry but I dont debate with aspeys, it just goes nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:09 PM
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Look up snake juice on YouTube. Hes the master faster and has an easy to make electrolyte recipe thats perfectly balanced for water fasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:58 PM
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Dont waste your time, buddy is obsessed with the "literal" meaning of the word "league" and cant let it drop. He doesnt seem to understand the nuance of the term. I'm guessing hes another aspey that recently discovered the redpill and now thinks hes got the world figured out. The redpill doesnt want to believe in leagues because they want to buy the bs that PUA or whatever redpill tricks they learn can get them any girl regardless of how unattractive or low tier they are in the dating pool. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:32 PM
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Feeling you deserve something and actually deserving it are two vastly different things. Most men understand it's a waste of time pining after the Ferrari
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:58 PM
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Who's looking for sympathy? Woman aren't going to start asking men for ttheir hands in marriage any time soon. Life was never fair. Women have their drawbacks and so do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:36 PM
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They both matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:52 AM
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Then women miss out on the best part of meeting a man, being courted and pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:24 AM
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Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:16 AM
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Whatever buddy. The fact that you are delusional doesn't prove anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:15 AM
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Yes that is definitely another issue, most men will stick around for the easy sex if a woman shows interest and starts pursuing him. There is no way for a woman to screen out the men looking for the easy lay from the men that are actually interested if she is asking them out. It's still hard to tell even when the man is doing the pursuing but if she is pursuing him its next to impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 08:01 AM
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Sometimes that actually is the case. But never when he marries above his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 07:15 AM
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What you say does make logical sense but it just doesn't pan out that way irl as much. Men are naturally hunters and they tend to want to be the one to "win" the girl, court her and ask for her hand in marriage. Men value more what they have to work for then what is just handed to them easily. When a woman takes the initiative it can take the wind out of a mans sails. There are certain types that this can work for, as in when a woman is more masculine in nature and a man is more passive and femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 07:09 AM
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Sure. Noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:14 AM
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