Hey guys, I (21 F). started dating again after a long hiatus. I’m not sure if this is considered mistake. I made out with my date on the first date. We hit it off really well and he was chivalrous, picked me up from my house and opened the car door for me every time I got in the car. He 21, paid for mostly everything, but I made the rookie mistake of offering to pay Dutch for food as he already spent so much on everything else. Whilst waiting for our food he rapped and we made a bet that we’d kiss if he did it well, he’s a good singer.. then through out the night he kept going for more kisses and cute physical contact, pretending to give me something just to hold my hand.. and then asked if I ever kissed in the rain and planted a kiss..

Was I wrong for making out with him? He kept calling me hot but at one point he began to rub my leg, but I stopped him by saying I saw a spider.. I’m interested in him but don’t want to be seen as easy.. How do I make him want more without giving too much? I do like kissing him but have no plans for sex or escalating unless he commits.