Hello,

Second post here, I told my love story here, asked questions and received usefull advises which I still work on.

Long story short, my relationship is going stronger and stronger, but this weekend, during an intimate moment of tender share of views and stories I confessed something I thought not really important, that the week after we met the first time, dispite we get along so well, I went to a diner invitation with a man that was already set, and I had been seeing some month ago, not really seriously .

It was the last time I saw this man, and my choice was made.

But when I told that story, my actual lover showed great surprise and even some sadness.

He told me he didn't see me acting like that, especially when our first meeting seemed so promising, he added he can understand and it was minor but still, he felt kind of a disappointment.

I was really sorry, and couldn't understand why I told him.

Things turned good though and he expressed he wouldn't have been affected if he wasn't feeling solid feelings towards me and really after that long conversation some more bound was obviously here.

I may add that I live in an European country were there is less dating rules, maybe things are more natural so strategy apply less ?

So my conclusion one is keep those truths for yourself , and two is should I fear other consequences into my relationship, due to my confession, and how should I react then ?