I’m a 19 year old chocolate dragon (black girl and black) bother me so I refer to myself as chocolate if that bothers you that sucks for you..) I’ve always liked white guys but I always seem to attract the ones who fetishize black girls or have a very “old school” desire for example my ex “play partner” told me he wanted to get a cabin and had a fantasy of like me coming with this house like a house slave pretty much. I was mind blown like he just said that he was older and white and it all made sense afterwards.men always tell me I’m a sweet,nice,innocent,childlike girl and I make them feel good. I care a lot, I try a lot, I invest a lot ,I give a lot of attention, i always give 709%. how do I attract better guys or should I just become stiff and a bitch because being the quiet sweet heart has gotten me nothing