I love weed. Figured I should get that out right away. I grow cannabis plants and it’s a fantastic hobby. I’ve noticed lots of ladies here mentioning cannabis and equating it with LV behavior and red flags. I’ve been wrong before so I wanted to see why this is and perhaps reconsider my usage or tolerance of a partner’s usage. Of note: Cannabis is fully legal where I live.

Weed helps with my menstrual cramps, eases my anxiety, and helps quiet my loud brain after a long day. I love growing it and trying new strains, similar to a wine tasting. I’ve met plenty of successful stoners that I don’t believe it makes you lazy. In fact, the budding weed market is booming with innovation.

I don’t drink alcohol (never have) so I don’t see it as a red flag when a guy smokes. Sure, don’t make it your whole personality or use all day to numb yourself. But I’m wondering what others think?