Recently i acme across some content which was in korean website. Its basically said theres woman in 40s and had group of best friends. 60% of the friend was against going dutch when dating and 40% agreed. that first group of friends met well off guys and had good marriage while the remaining ones struggled and married someone who was less than them.

2 guys i dated and same pattern.in the beginning they always took the bill but as it was near the breakup, they started being stingy and asked to split the bill. My ex was muslim and he always took the bill but towards the breakup, he started being stingy and ill never ever forget the day that he asked to split thebbill when i paid my flight and hotel to go visit him. Since then 2 years passed and 1 of them was pre med student and after 2 years and finishing his masters, its still the same. He’s broke af. The second one was the messy one i posted earlier on. I was blinded by their handsome looks so ignored redflags of how theyrr stingy.

Its true that what guys spend on matters. If the guy likes you he’ll 100% take the bill. But on the other hand, even if you pay the bill, but if youre not his type, most guys will take it for granted. They wont thank you if you look ugly and not his type.

My friends who all went 50/50 in relationships, when theyre married its far worse. So dont ever go dutch with guys.