To keep it short kicked a man out on Christmas night who didn’t deserve me and didn’t want to make anything official.

  • Said he still went on some dates with us dating/sleeping together twice (my mistake, still learning. Didn’t get attached, attached but was hopeful)

  • Wasn’t sure if he would tell me if he slept with anyone else. (Hasn’t but wasn’t sure if he’d tell me. “It’d be none of his business if I did.”

  • Not sure because somewhat recently single. (Aka wants to get his dick wet.) Was directly said to him. Laughed off. Couldn’t provide straight answer. “Doesn’t want to play games, etc...)

  • Left and asked for a hug. “Nah.” “Not even a hug?” “Nope you gotta go.”

I made some strides with this pseudo relationship, but learned before it was too late. And not taking these learning experiences into 2020.

It’s been said but let’s say again for those in the back (sometimes like me)

-Do not engage with newly separated or single men. -If hookup comes up in the first conversation. Hard pass. -Beware of pretty words & even actions sometimes. -Believe what men tell you.