Too many women are trapped with moody, insensitive, lazy, dirty, uncommunicative manchildren. The women are constantly cleaning up after them and talking to them non stop, hoping to get more out of them than a grunt. And of course, it’s not like these men have high paying jobs either- if they have any. So the women have to work too. Along with the housework. And grocery shopping. And taking care of the kids.

But nooOoO, it’s SO hard BeinG the MAN of the familyyyyyyy these men whine.

And in the rare instance the man is a sole breadwinner? Ho boy, they sure rub it in the woman’s face. (Better have a hot meal and a blowjob and freaky sex ready for your man, who is barely scraping the bills amirite?)

Kids from these families? I’ll give you one example I’ve personally witnessed when I was a teenager. They thought lesser of their mother than their patriarchal manchild father. Saying that their dad is the boss of their family. They were polite, but were constantly asking their mother to bring them snacks and drinks instead of getting it themselves. I told them to leave her alone at one point, but the mother was already coming with an armful of snacks. It was truly pathetic.

It struck me- the more a woman sacrifices herself to support a man...a family... the more they look down on her and give nothing in return.

Ladies, so I want you all to know- always date/meet a man with a transaction in mind. Think logically-what do I get in return? Men froth in rage at the idea of a woman who wants something of value in a relationship- calling her a golddigger or a spoiled woman. But remember- they nevertheless expect submission and freaky sex with their porn damaged brains. Their dopamine addicted minds want instant gratification with none of the effort.

Please remember- sacrifice everything for a man? Pay for him? Meekly do as he wishes? Build him up to be a better man? Once given the opportunity, he will ditch you. And his next girlfriend who demands to be treated with respect and makes it clear she does not need him? He will be booking the most expensive restaurants and buying gifts for her.

At least, be that ‘next’ girlfriend. And if he slacks? Do not be overrun by emotions, as that’s what men rely on to keep a woman whilst they do nothing. Dump him. At least you got the free food and the gifts for your time.

Dating is a transactional game ladies. Do it well, or you are better off not playing at all.