I have a good friend who is in a long distance relationship with a significantly older man. They've only been dating about 2 months and she's flown to stay with him for two weeks and has met his family and friends already. I have been telling her this relationship is moving too fast (flying to be with a guy after only a month, that too in a PANDEMIC) but she's not listening to me. She's telling me that this guy is perfect (he just started residency and is 10 years older than her) and really is what she wants in a man. We both just finished our first year in college and I'm sensing things are getting rushed because of him. I don't want her to put her life and dreams on the back burner for him. She's told me about wanting to move to where he lives as well and may transfer to a community college near him. Do you ladies have any advice on whether there's anything else I can do as a friend to help her realize her priorities are outta whack?