Hi, I wanted to share a thought I'm having right now after seeing how my sister gave everything to her stupid ex-boyfriend who left her with a child and was left for another woman. Sometimes I feel I can be too selfish with my partners for not giving enough (emotionally but mainly sexually) not only because I don't want to do it but because I know it doesn't make any man stay or that they will be more attached to me. My point is some women are openly givers sexually, they say they are happy being her whores and doing all the porn repertory. It's what they tell themselves (to convince themselves) but most times it's only a way to try to keep a man interested, being open to the desires, and you think in this way he will love you more. The truth is, it's not. Even if you accept to do everything they want, they will still abandon you for another girl (that probably thinks she got him because the same reason xD). My conclusion is, that men don't worth giving fully your body and heart trying to keep them, it won't keep them, always keep the most for yourself.