Rushing commitment/marriage is a red flag (trauma bonding)

2020-05-17T12:20:39+00:00

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Maisiebr · 2020-05-17T09:21:16+00:00

Ugh, so much lovebombing and preparing his victim for abuse here. I just threw up in my mouth a little, it's absolutely a glaring red flag, you're right.

circescircus · 2020-05-17T13:41:54+00:00

Yup. I'm concerned for women who are idolizing getting married in a short time. It's the opposite of endlessly entertaining fuckboys, being a forever girlfriend, but it's just as bad or even worse. You can really FUCK up your life by doing this, irreparably so.

LunarCannons · 2020-05-17T17:01:20+00:00

There are too many garbage posts from men about women “living fast and hard and then expecting to get wifed up too far down the line. ” for me to not believe there’s some amount of projection happening there.

Men who have been repeatedly rejected will DEFINITELY try rush into marriage as soon as he thinks he has stuck gold. Men who unexpectedly “Hit The Wall” will also try to settle down in a fit of depression.

Thankfully as far as I can tell most of these LVM just purpose or talk about marriage too early. They rarely follow through.

Some of my sisters dodged some bullets.

Title	Rushing commitment/marriage is a red flag (trauma bonding)
Author	Whateverrr_345
Upvotes	62
Comments	5
Date	May 17, 2020 12:52 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/gl62tb/rushing_commitmentmarriage_is_a_red_flag_trauma/
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