Am I being too hard on my husband or is it he can't handle criticism? I am much more if a perfectionist than he is. Incan pretty much tell where he was and what he did in the house. For example, some crumbs or after cleaning after cooking, throw pillows on the couch not put back straight, maybe a couple water stains by on the counter etc. He does plenty around the house, but I always have the fix things after him. Like vacuuming, things won't be out back exactly how it was, cleaning supplies put back a little messy, terrible at folding clothes etc. I get annoyed that I have to fix everything after he cleans up, then we argue a bit. He'll get defensive and say things like "so-and-so's husband has to be told 100 times to help and just plays video games all day..want me to be like that instead of just trying to do things around the house" He'll get sarcastic and say things like "guess I wasn't so perfect for you", "at least I try to do things" etc

Am I being hard on him, or his he being sensitive?