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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:54 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTE_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:10 AM
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LIES MEN TELL_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:03 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICK_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:41 AM
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TRIGGER WARNING_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:53 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNY_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:33 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:34 AM
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RANT_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 12:52 AM
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FDS HUMOR_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:31 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:00 AM
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FDS TRANSLATES MEN_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:00 AM
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RANT_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:56 AM
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FDS HUMOR_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:21 AM
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RANT_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:08 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNY_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:02 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:45 AM
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RANT_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:55 AM
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RANT_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:36 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICK_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:46 PM
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SCROTATION REPORT _tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:23 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITY_tinyimp/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:27 AM
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Okay so I wish I could respond to these comments but I’m only seeing them in my email and not on Reddit like what anyways yes I missed April and Colby having sex, yes some of these women are hypocrites no I still love Shanique even if you think she’s selfish she’s just looking out for herself like any man would and I’m at the reunion it’s chaos and wtf is everyone’s hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 02:04 AM
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How the show works: a variety of couples are struggling. One wants to get married, the other doesn’t, and so the other issues an ultimatum. Unsurprisingly, only one man was the one to issue the ultimatum (who ended up being a dick to her anyway) All the rest were women trying to get their boyfriends to propose. The creators of the show design a social experiment where all of the couples mingle for a few weeks, and then they’re supposed to pick someone else to live with and pretend to be a marrie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 12:52 AM
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Great the pickme’s are evolving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:06 AM
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God they will project anything and everything. Nothing is wrong with being open to the idea of love??? Like simply be flattered a woman expressed interest but then decline it if she’s really all that bad as these men describe…But no, they frame these poor women as desperate when it’s really these scrotes desperately banging any girl they meet to stroke their own ego. On a side note, even if a man pursues you and ticks all of the boxes, make sure to vet for how they handled women pursuing them in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:50 PM
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I’m so confused at the guy in the last comment being 11 and finding his friends sexy who are also like 11, not to mention when I was 11 I didn’t even know what sex or being sexy was like what on earth ??!!! Shook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 02:01 AM
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But even men above average in terms of wealth and power (politicians and millionaires) could even bribe/pay for women like prostitutes who would satisfy some weird kink yet we still see children sex-trafficked and mail order brides for the wealthy and powerful. I honestly believe 90% of men get off on ruining someone’s life at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 10:30 PM
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Thanks, I love your explanation, I didn’t think of it that way and words hold power even if said nonchalantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:04 AM
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Lol aw I’m glad I could help out then! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:41 PM
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It’s possible but would he have truly gone down quietly when she laid expectations? I feel like this is when they would blow up at you. Or maybe I haven’t encountered covert tactics/covert narcs, I have usually been with obviously controlling men or men who are so dumb they don’t care about the relationship. I agree most men will use these manipulative tactics, but I also don’t want to hold them to this idea of being big brain genius master manipulators with a grand plan (like let’s be honest me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:25 PM
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Lol sorry I didn’t mean to be savage 🤣 You should trust in yourself more, no one is born being a good judge in character. Every bad experience with a man is us slowly learning more about like, everything we discuss in FDS. Even if this guy is a step above the rest you’ve been with, don’t settle, cause you’re right you aren’t here to teach a man. I am usually lenient communicating my expectations with a man in the first month but if I have to explain like…EVERYTHING, I know how the relationship i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:21 PM
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Yeah, it’s good he understood and stopped doing it, but I mainly think OP should just trust her gut. She did state it made her ‘extremely uncomfortable’. I can’t tell from the story, but does he also ‘spread positivity’ equally to his male counterparts, the elderly, and children? Positivity isn’t just compliments. It’s holding doors, helping people carry heavy things, having good manners and social skills and so on. If he does all of these things then him complimenting other women isn’t all that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:11 PM
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I saw like a nanosecond of the advertisement and could already sense the sexist bullshit. No, women are not dying to sleep with random men every night now that they’re legal, literally all humans begin having active sex lives in adulthood if they so please but they act like women specifically are sex crazed animals when it’s men that are lol. Seems like propaganda to make sex even more casual despite the risks for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:29 PM
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He doesn’t sound malicious but sounds a little dumb? or like he says faux woke stuff but then just continues contributing? And no man would waste his breath complimenting other women out of nowhere bc most HVM LIVE to please their partner. If they’re smart they wouldn’t risk displeasing them, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:24 PM
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Right. And the truth is coming from their own mouths yet they still get away with it. They just enjoy seeing women suffer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:38 AM
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I must’ve gotten lucky, I was a huge tumblr nerd and familiar with Eugenia growing up but never realized there was a whole pro-ana community. It’s sad ):
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:37 AM
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Something is seriously wrong with the Y chromosome. The worst part is there’s already arguments in the comments because women made the grave mistake of using their brains to analyze this video /s Saying that these men want to watch women suffer, cue people saying women can be like this to. WHERE?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:36 AM
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That was well said. I feel like men are trying to trick women into putting a full stop the the strides that the women’s rights movement started. Like considering the grand scheme of things, it wasn’t that long ago, yet young girls are STILL being groomed (myself included) to be more concerned about sex appeal, vanity, causing this disordered eating and competition to divide women…and everyone acts like modern day feminists are on some crusade against sex work, but this is no longer just sex. It’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:13 AM
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Men will actively encourage women to become emanciated for their own sick fetish. This can stem from wanting control over women, enjoying watching women suffer, having women regress to a childlike state physically and needing their help, or -possibly the most terrifying- a pathological fascination with the human body withering away. While some scrote may yell from the rooftops: “women can have this as a fetish too!!!” I SERIOUSLY doubt more than 5% of women are interested in any of these disgust…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:05 AM
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Okay what LOL I missed this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:09 AM
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His most recent post is even worse if that’s possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:54 AM
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Ah the ‘playing dumb’ tactic for Reddit bro support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:02 PM
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Has she considered that she’s most likely the problem lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:06 PM
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This is so disturbing. Like even the way they describe things these men are so depraved. Psychopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:54 AM
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Men gaslight women about porn on a massive scale because 1) most can’t admit they get off on women in pain and under male control and 2) don’t want the world to know about their broken penis. Porn being harmless my ass! Say that to your erectile dysfunction. Good luck replicating what you just learned … 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:06 PM
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Porn-sick fuck. Do men think women see their penis and just get turned on? No…as long as it feels good though. But this weirdo just can’t stop comparing hers to a pornstar’s or something. Because what of it really?? What is considered a beautiful vagina? They all look so different sooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:03 PM
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Wow I really like the first idea!! Simple but effective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:34 PM
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Misery loves company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:32 PM
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Ok but the captain threatening to shoot the men yesss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 06:26 AM
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Very well said. I feel like this pickme has hope though. The last sentence of restoring balance with femininity makes me feel like she’s in denial of how the patriarchy functions a bit and is willingly accepting a ‘feminine’ role because it’s easier to cope but in the end realizes masculinity is destructive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 05:49 AM
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Even if we did this men wouldn’t collectively show up and be strong, they exploit this feminine energy for themselves hope she realizes cuz this is just some fantasy bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:29 PM
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Like we even need a backstory lmfao what call the police and leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:23 AM
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These aren’t even odd signals, this is basic human body language. I swear redditors need to leave the basement once in a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:51 PM
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Literally wtf ????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:58 AM
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Very informative post! Naturally I have overheard men talking about certain women as if they are already theirs and blocking other men from pursuing the woman at hand (in a manipulate manner), but I had actually never recognized the signs of healthy mate-guarding as linked in the first FDS article. It’s a bit upsetting that not a single one of my monogamous relationships had ANY signs of healthy mate-guarding (they basically didn’t even feel the need to guard me LMAO 😂) But this explains some be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:56 AM
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Road rage ‘Equal rights equal rights’ Hesitating on agreement when you bring up some awful situation where a woman got hurt Always siding with men Staying too quiet or getting too animated on domestic violent topics Slamming or throwing things obviously next it will be you Harming animals in any way (even hunting, we must be wary of people who hunt for sport and not for sustenance)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:42 PM
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The age gap…….I feel sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:49 AM
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When it gets down to blame in any situation, men will defend random, hypothetical men over women they actually know and that’s why women are always the scapegoat it’s straight up annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:29 AM
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It’s sweet but depressing when you are reminded not even family or friends have done something this celebratory for you before. After my birthday this year I don’t think I even want to spend it with my family again. Is this why some adults just stop doing anything at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:09 PM
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The industry is out of control…more daily visitors than AMAZON and NETFLIX? This is just disturbing on so many levels. Like what if we all used Amazon daily but never spoke about it? People need to stop playing dumb - they KNOW porn is not all consensual or legal, but choose ignorance and silence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:37 PM
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Maybe people could submit photos and mods could compile 1-2 large posts of every Fine AF entry? I don’t mind seeing them but when there was like 10 in a row I was getting tired of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:24 AM
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Omggg okay I was like what? This scrote has it all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:03 PM
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LOL wtf is ‘fear’ baggage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:02 AM
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NOR does he smoke or do drugs 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:48 AM
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Anyone else remember that one Adam Sandler movie where one of the friend’s wives goes into labor and they’re all in the waiting room and can hear her screaming and they’re like ‘is it wrong I’m turned on?’ I was like 12 and saw that and that’s when I became a radfem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:31 AM
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Hhahaha right they won’t stfu they been kicked out of hell 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:32 PM
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Tell me about it, I dated a guy obsessed with philosophy, absolute hell, I think he WAS the devil’s advocate 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:47 PM
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She caught me off guard with saying she was going to set it on fire after being so docile about it all LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:01 PM
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lmao 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:58 PM
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DEAD 💀new vocab term for the handbook lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:34 PM
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I’m so tired of men talking about this like most of y’all have erectile dysfunction because of porn at this point you can’t even impregnate a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:30 PM
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It makes me sad she just immediately says she is trying to change her views when random men on the Internet start telling her she’s wrong. Who ARE these men? Trust in yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:32 AM
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Well that’s why it’s tagged as a rant, or am I also not allowed to feel frustration?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:51 AM
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Yeah it really isn’t hard at all. And thank you! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:50 AM
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Ohh okay I know nothing but lovedddd their music video together and was like they’re so cute. I feel bad Megan Fox has dealt with so many awful men in her career and now her ex is slandering her name when she’s just trying to find happiness ):
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:56 PM
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Wait did Meghan fox and MGK break up already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:28 AM
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It’s fine they’ll all get erectile dysfunction and won’t be able to reproduce eventually Almost every man I’ve slept with can only ejaculate with their own death grip like gl y’all LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:12 AM
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Yes I’ve had cars rev their engine at me or go then stop hard to try to make me walk faster I guess? Like ok hit me LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:31 PM
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Lmao 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:06 PM
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Wonder what’s happening in June
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:42 AM
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Brown eyes, dark hair, ~5’9 ideally I don’t want a HUGE height difference between us, it looks odd to me. Masculine but not a total gym rat to where I have to be ripped too. Well kept nails and doesn’t shave his down there constantly because honestly a naked penis PETRIFIES me I think the hair covering it looks better...and is masculine again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:57 PM
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Love this comment! False dichotomy fits perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:41 AM
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The second we act ‘human’ - The moment we de-objectify ourselves, the sooner LVM will show themselves and society can FINALLY say ‘men really are the problem’. Women are equated to objects in their minds and that’s why they hate us for looking, feeling, and being HUMAN. They better get over this fast because women are waking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:17 AM
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I really can’t stand this. It makes me think of how men will treat their gf like a bro and do all this gross stuff and be rude as a joke but then when other girls pass them by they act like a perfect gentleman. Or is this just a me problem? 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:54 AM
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Ew..the question about sex workers and sad stories from clients literally just sounds like men making women their therapists on top of raping them, fuck Reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:52 AM
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Anyone have thoughts on Trinessa? I’ve been on it for 7 years and worried I’ll have side effects later in life. So far my life on birth control has been good but I started in high school so I don’t have a time in my adult life to compare it to when I wasn’t on birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:41 AM
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That’s disgusting ): yeah like in school they just speed past the fact that all humans are XX chromosomes by default I’m like ummm a lot of issues are clearly linked to the Y I’m no scientist but dare I say women are the normal humans? The originals lol? Somethings wrong with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:32 PM
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I agree ): it’s so sad and every day I’m more convinced men are just sociopathic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:29 PM
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The majority of men are pedophiles. Why are people awarding this? What is wrong with the Y chromosome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:34 PM
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I’ve always been a cat person but want a dog for this exact reason. I’ve noticed it too, they have good instincts that men are shit and dogs will say it when people won’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:37 AM
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Yeah, idfk, in his mind I guess the driving would leave them alone an hour more on top of date ? Clearly his raccoons took priority over me 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:50 AM
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LOL I’m so looking up videos of this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:14 AM
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LOL 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:30 PM
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Omfg 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:30 PM
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Of course!!!! 💖💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:29 PM
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Yes another queen has ascended!! I’m SO happy you realized you deserve more, and more importantly, that you’re going to GET more out of life without him dragging you down!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:41 PM
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It’s okay hahaha I’m just glad the apartment complex never found out 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:35 PM
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Hahahaha 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:34 PM
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Yes, he was pretty rigid with his political views. I was steering clear of talking about it on the few dates we had because he’d get annoyed if I thought differently. Like bro you didn’t think at least one (1) woman on earth might have different opinions than you? Good luck out there lmao Lol I was laughing myself when I remembered just ridiculous ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:32 PM
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It’s baffling really 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:28 PM
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Yeah I wish I had declined, I made the worst decision by allowing his assumption to be correct...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:27 PM
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You’re right ): they were still alone like it made no sense. Poor things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:26 PM
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That’s so frustrating, like it defeats the point of a home being a safe space for children if other random men roam the place. And you’d think a dad would know most of all what a threat random men are to his wife and children...that sucks. Yeah, I never analyzed the problems with this situation until I remembered it the other day. Pre-FDS me just thought he loved animals and that was that, but all I’ll say is I don’t think a man would ask this of his dream girl lmao so I see where I land there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:15 AM
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This queen will take a prince consort instead thanks for the advice tho x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:46 PM
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Not hearing my voice, tuning me out etc. they simply don’t care about you. Someone who likes you will always hear your voice louder than the others and be on the lookout to help you. You can easily weed this out if they’re talking in a group of men and still listen to the men over you or don’t even notice you talking Edit: was a pink flag to me bc they lie and say they’re tired, ADD, whatever the fuck and I believed them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:17 PM
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Sickening. I took a class about the history and culture of prisons, and we surprisingly discussed women’s issues with prisons at length. Because men commit the majority of crimes, it was extra shocking to people when a woman commit a crime (especially a violent one) because it went against ‘female nature’. So then women would get harsher prison sentences or super intense rehabilitation that was just absurd. Like they would never get out in the old days lol until they became a perfect housewife. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:22 AM
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Your attachment style is going to be rooted in how your parents modeled their relationship to you. I would start by digging deep into your childhood and how your parents’ relationship may have influenced your dating choices. Then think about which partners brought out the worst avoidance versus your most secure relationship. For example, I am fearful attachment style, and have always found myself wanting avoidant men. This is like, the worst combination in the world and brought out the worst in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:11 AM
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Yeah something off in her eyes poor girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:29 AM
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Nobody considers marrying broke men taboo .. you either do or don’t marry a broke man lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:05 PM
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LMFAOO I can’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:47 PM
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Wish I knew what MBTI types my ex’s were but they were always too lazy to even do the test. Can ‘not taking the MBTI types quiz when you ask them to’ be classified as a red flag 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:31 AM
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Even if we entertain the argument that all men are stronger than all women because BiOLoGy, women literally create life so we still win. Ungrateful fucking sociopaths they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:55 AM
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LMAO I’m saving this thank you 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:09 PM
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Ok she needs therapy and a remedial writing course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:08 PM
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Ugh...I don’t even want to know 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:17 PM
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Her easiest client ever 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:40 PM
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It’s only wholesome for the reddit gamers who can for a split second imagine they have a woman on their bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:49 AM
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Lol he took so long to explain that he’s lonely and never gets laid 🤣 like you aren’t this cool calculating guy. You’re delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:35 PM
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Don’t even get me started on narcs/LVM treating you badly in VEHICLES knowing you can’t escape. The most cowardly of all, intimidating women in a confined space, no witnesses, and speeding like they’re a fast and furious racer ... one ex was driving with me to get alcohol for his parents when we were visiting their lake house, but there was like no signal so we were struggling to find a store. Finally the GPS picked one up and he was like ‘okay I see it, I’m just gonna stop for gas right here fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:54 AM
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So that’s what we call it, admiring 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:03 AM
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Men are depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:00 AM
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Omg yes withholding information or changing it up just to confuse you - my ex literally would complain that I asked too many questions but I was just trying to not be ummm confused?? I felt so stupid. Never stop questioning things!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:12 PM
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Eyebrows on point tho 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:05 AM
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Lolll 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:37 AM
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Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:55 PM
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The accuracy. My dad was cheating on my mom for years, they never shared a bed, dinners were tense etc. Most of the fighting was over me. To this day my sisters and mom joke and say I was a terrible kid, difficult to control and it always starts a fight because I will never stop defending myself. How could a kid not be a little misbehaved in that environment?! And I wasn’t even bad. I never did drugs, never snuck out of the house, never threw things or physically hurt my family. All I can say is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:46 PM
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I didn’t watch the whole thing bc she reminds me of Lele Pons and I just can’t with her lmao. I can’t believe she LEFT her puppy??????? And if she was going to completely relocate a HVM would’ve at LEAST paid for most of the expenses or flown there to help her pack and keep her company on the flight to the UK? She was trying so hard to make this a romantic montage and I saw more affection towards her from her chihuahua than her man ): Such an awkward video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:20 PM
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I’d PREFER the butterflies but my dating history says otherwise. If I felt comfortable with a guy (or felt better than him) I was less insecure the whole relationship. But in the end I craved the butterflies and would leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:23 AM
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Photos with dead animals like fish or deer Memes instead of an actual photo Photos with ex-gf, hooters girl variant, siblings or children Shirtless photos or mirror selfies (And they say men are the visual creatures...scrotes are killing their chances at a single glance)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:21 AM
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So true, never thought about comparing these two. I’m sure deep down sex-positive feminists know something is wrong with men watching degrading porn, but society has managed to cloud women’s intuition. Glad the fog is lifting, and I feel hopeful about the future with traffickinghub finally being held accountable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:25 AM
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When my FWB who knew I had a crush on him asked to hook up on Valentines....so confusing to old pick-me. Didn’t work out lmao When a coworker asked about my plans for the weekend and I said I had a date, he LITERALLY said if it doesn’t work out come to him. Guess I misinterpreted cause I gave him my number and he said he had a gf 🤣tf did you mean then Edit: in both scenarios I put myself into situations where I was too easily accessible to these men. This is why we DON’T do fwb or give out our n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:48 PM
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Dumped a LVM in June and proud to say I’ve been single for 6 whole months for the FIRST TIME in 4 years. I cycled through 3 other LVM boyfriends over my 4 years at college and honestly not sure how I kept my grades up while babysitting 4 man-children. That belongs on my resume 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:59 AM
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Does he realize his expectations are not exactly the laws of the universe 🤣they’re gonna fail every now and then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:55 AM
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I always wondered why every man on the planet claims to have that one psycho ex yet they’re out here watching degrading porn or actually beating women in bed. They literally project EVERYTHING onto us because they’re disgusted with themselves and their desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:53 AM
9

This was horrifying to read )): I admire how careful and clever you were in handling everything under all of that stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:05 PM
3

LMAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:06 AM
10

Big brain 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:26 PM
37

Men with LIVES, ambition, long-term goals, resolved emotional issues etc would not be engaging in porn anyway. Men with critical thought and respect for women would be uncomfortable watching porn. They gaslight the world so that no one will realize how pathetic they are, wasting hours a week on porn when they could be productive individuals in society or at the least enjoying a normal hobby. Shameful and disgusting, hope they’re crying over their deleted videos right now 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:14 PM
6

Lol no but seriously 🤣I’m going to stay single as FUCK in 2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:57 AM
9

Omg gorgeous ring congratulations!!!!!!! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:52 AM
3

YES I believe in you!!! We’re only stronger after these experiences. And you have limitless potential - your friends and family see it and care about your happiness and that’s what really matters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:40 PM
8

Right? LMAO 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:35 PM
8

I feel you girl. You don’t sound dumb. You sound generous and like someone who wants to end on a good note with people. It’s awkward to be ignored time and time again, left wondering (almost obsessively) what it is you did THIS time! But it’s not you, men like this are emotionally checked out and there’s this looming dread they could leave you at any second. This leads us to people-pleasing tendencies and basically begging them to stay. I agree with the other comment about oneitis being so real …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:33 PM
9

Yeah I kept re-reading it thinking I skipped a word or something 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:54 PM
96

Did his desert analogy make zero sense to y’all too lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:01 AM
2

Unless he’s making bank off commissions then HELL NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:39 AM
7

AND SHE’S PREGNANT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:53 PM
28

Mediocre and definitely has a broken dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:45 PM
54

The hiding under the bed...good lord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:11 PM
3

(Former long distance crush) 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:00 AM
1

True, it isn’t that hard to cover your tracks but they usually think we’re too dumb to realize so they don’t even try. I guess with drugs to them it’s worth being careful? That is super weird lol my ex used to keep requesting to follow my younger MINOR sisters and Idk if it was because he was trying to contact me but like...he has to know that’s creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:43 AM
2

Omg yes and they always have like a million girls on Snapchat hitting them up for weed who they also smoke with secretly. So sketchy - It sucks because the one thing in common with my ‘type’ of men is a calming nature, which is usually why I’m drawn to them (they’re always high) but it comes with so many problems. They want harder drugs, have no drive, pressure you to do drugs, and when sober they’re temperamental. And I really cannot express my disgust for those type of boy trips to Indonesia. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:59 PM
18

Men will just as quickly trade things such as drugs in exchange for sex or even facilitate these transactions for their friends or drug dealer. My ex told me the same story THREE TIMES of when his friends and him had a girl have sex with the drug dealer for their weed and they would ‘pimp her out’. I’ve heard many more disgusting stories told to me by men with this weird reverence in their voice about a girl they knew who gave a guy a blow job for some shrooms or something. Like for the love of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:00 AM
4

This made me recoil wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:45 AM
27

Right like the human race made it centuries without pornographic content, the closest for a while probably being a statue of Aphrodite or some shit, I think they will survive. Maybe they ones freaking out already have ED and know without the obscene content, they will never have an erection again. Karma 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:33 AM
66

The comment saying it’s ‘scary’ credit card companies can control where you make payment, as if they’re being oppressed. It isn’t just about that...do they know there’s like lawsuits and shit going on?? There is illegal activity on pornhub and companies rightfully don’t want to be associated with it. How out of touch can porn addicts get jfc. Like what’s scarier is the women being abused. Can they PLEASE give 2 seconds of critical thought before making a comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:47 PM
18

That’s just sad on so many levels. Why don’t women ever get the benefit of doubt (at least on reddit)? They see ‘I’m uncomfortable with my boyfriend following Instagram models’ = they must be hacking into their ig, throwing their phone at the wall, and screaming at their partner etc... No, it’s a standard, it’s not immediately abuse, why don’t you hear the full story? Stop parroting words like ‘policing’ that your own bf probably uses to gaslight you with...and policing implies the bf is a priso…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:13 AM
13

Ok and if he didn’t approve...? That would not matter whatsoever. Who does this guy think he is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:00 AM
38

Ugh I’ve been told by other women it’s a jealous look and to just let your bf follow whoever...its really come to sisters gaslighting their own sisters but ok I genuinely hope he picks you 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:59 PM
87

Tell me about it. I just changed my hairstyle from fringe to side bangs because I’ve had enough of the weird comments of being an e-girl, looking like the 50 shades of grey girl, looking like a ‘choke me daddy’ girl (yes someone actually said that. Fml). They’ll sexualize anything but if it makes you feel better college will be a bit better than high school. High school boys don’t know how to flirt, have just discovered porn, and have no filter or repercussions for what they say. Once they’re in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:48 PM
2

Sharpie neck sighted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:52 AM
16

Gamers are so condescending. They know their hobby is useless but it’s all they’ve done for the past decade besides watch porn, so they have to make it an identity to feel better than you. It’s much more fun playing a game with a guy who has never really tried because of how relaxed they are in comparison to the hardcore gamers...like the amount of time I’ve been yelled at on a mic? Jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:46 AM
12

Wow. He was definitely hoping you were wrong so he could mock you and make you feel stupid for misidentifying it. Better he didn’t die from it because that would’ve been hard to explain to police 🤣 This reminds me of my ex who got into fitness but would drink a lot of these preworkout drinks that obviously messed up his stomach, also he would only eat fast food before workouts. He told me he was throwing up after every workout and we got in a huge argument. Well, I witnessed karma in action that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:57 AM
8

I don’t keep many male friends, but I’ve had this problem with even my most reasonable ex’s playing devil’s advocate or bringing up EVERY possible ‘what if’ scenario to defend some random guy I’m venting to them about. And usually, I’m venting about a guy as trivial as a rude guest at work etc yet they empathize with the guy they’ve never met! It’s a bad sign to me now when they start doing that even in the slightest because bottom like they are your PARTNER and should always side with you becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:07 AM
37

LOLomg 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:06 PM
150

Reason number 38274738 to not date a LVM but also reason 1281 to have a balcony
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:24 PM
5

Omg I loveeee Leela so glad to see her mentioned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:30 AM
5

The Bitmoji I’m dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:21 PM
5

I had an ex insist on me texting him when I got to and from work and my house safely even after the break up which was REALLY bad like crying and yelling for hours. I wanted to cut it clean off but I convinced myself he was just being ‘watchful of my mental health’ but really he was just monitoring me to make sure I didn’t go screw a rebound or something. He also wanted to keep me in his orbit so that 2 weeks later he could ask for me back which I accepted 🤡don’t worry though I broke up with him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:19 PM
77

I think this also speaks volumes about the state of romantic comedies. Slap funny music over legitimate relationship problems and yeah it gets a decent laugh but how much of this do we internalize as normal and healthy? Edit: I’m looking at YOU Adam Sandler!! If you haven’t seen Midsommar, this is most definitely not a romantic comedy. The story follows a girl who has trauma and really no one else to rely on in her mourning except her NVM boyfriend. We watch as a vulnerable young woman is swept …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:35 PM
11

He’s definitely the sex-crazed manic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:55 AM
19

LOL I clicked on his profile and he posted a while back that he’s struggling to get back into dating after his ‘fiancée unexpectedly left him’ 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:57 AM
49

This made me feel sick..I seriously hope she moves in with her aunt soon 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:15 PM
11

what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:52 AM
4

This is literally the bare minimum I do when I’m out with a girl friend and scrotes think this is a challenge? This is like basic friendship. They’re seriously socially challenged lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:03 AM
18

like how did the H end up there LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:31 AM
2

Dead omg 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:08 AM
2

Yep, and if they’re the only girl in the gaming group or whatever they have to try extra hard to ‘prove yourself’ to these nerds. It engulfs their lives so they can’t stand ‘casual’ gamers taking up their space - which girls have to prove that they aren’t over and over. Especially if they’re young and their only hobby is gaming, it’s lonely and they want to be accepted into this social circle no matter what. To me this explains why mostly girls and young women who have time to game and be on tik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:03 AM
11

I don’t even want to know wth sub frenzy is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:45 PM
38

What losers. It’s already mortifying being picked out of the crowd, and this incel just makes his whole improv ‘joke’ around her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:05 AM
68

He sounds like such a bitter incel idk why anyone’s laughing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:00 AM
55

Ugh it isn’t like these women want to be talked about this way by some creep. Even if she wasn’t jealous, where’s the sisterhood?! Women are probably uncomfortable around him and she doesn’t even care. I’m not saying she could’ve done anything to like fix this weirdo but that she should’ve left out of disgust honestly lol, why is jealously always the last straw? This reminds me of this post I saw years ago where a girl found out her bf had secret pictures of her (minor) sister in a swimsuit and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:49 PM
7

This is a horror story ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:42 AM
11

For some of these I genuinely don’t see women searching - unless out of curiosity? My little pony? Seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:34 AM
4

It’s true that it does come with transferable skills and I almost feel like I could handle any job if I could handle every terrible night as a waitress lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:53 AM
2

Aw I’m happy for you that sounds amazing!! Yes it’s terrible being in a home where all those bad memories happened. A new home is like a fresh start!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:50 AM
2

Just downloaded the app! Yes this year has been rough. People feel uncertain and have lost direction in their lives. I’m happy you found some ways to relax and stay happy despite this ❤️I DO have a car and love to drive haha probably because it’s a getaway 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:46 PM
3

Yesss queens unite !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:59 AM
5

Thank you for the kind words ❤️I try to remind myself that this situation isn’t a failure of mine, but really that of circumstance. I find peace when drawing and have attempted journaling to process everything but that hasn’t really stuck, so I’ll look into meditation or running!! You’re right that we can’t control everything and this situation will just be one of many where I can practice developing coping mechanisms and resilience. Thank you for hearing me ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:38 AM
12

I’m so bored with my life and don’t know what to do. My graduation got postponed bc covid and I also had to move back in with my mom to save up money. Working 6 days a week as a loser server just waiting to have a degree is killing me. And it’s horrible here...being home is making me depressed. I have no motivation to do anything else but sleep and ignore my stepdad. He’s an alcoholic redneck on his last brain cell (not even kidding, dementia runs in his family and his doctor told him to stop dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:54 AM
4

This just resurfaced a memory of when I was like 15 and didn’t have a costume so I just wore black shorts, a normal black shirt, and black cat ears and walked around with my friends and I overheard someone call me a skank 🤣🤣 I was so confused bc I was wearing NORMAL CLOTHES!!! Like they haven’t seen nothing yet lol keep walking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:41 AM
75

They literally think then own a woman when they marry one lolll did he forget his wife can still file divorce papers without his permission
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:49 PM
108

Hinge is terrible. The majority of men on there are still looking for ‘something casual’ even though it’s meant to be an app for serious relationships?! The last straw for me was when I saw a polyamorous couple looking for a third. WRONG APP. Deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:07 PM
33

Men simply believe they can and should control women around them, yet they are appalled when a woman gives them a taste of their own medicine. It’s the entitlement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:39 AM
133

Men just blatantly hate women these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:04 PM
256

How is this even considered humor if it is a joke like that was just dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:51 PM
2

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:23 PM
3

Ugh. This reminds me of a time at work when this scrote came in wearing a pornhub shirt and some guys told me to come over and look. I could tell it was gonna be some dumb guy thing...I said isn’t he embarrassed? That’s revolting and they were all SO confused saying it’s ‘normal’. Wtf?! It’s not normal to WEAR PORN MERCH. The irony is we’re a ‘family restaurant’ so women wearing swimsuit tops can’t come in (even though we are by a river and it isn’t that unusual) but a man can wear a shirt advoc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:11 AM
2

Ikr I’m glad you like the song!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:53 PM
2

I JUST found her last night!! She’s amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:42 PM
9

Sounds weird but one of the most mild forms of erotic roleplay I’ve ever heard of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:58 AM
2

No thanks I have my own sexual totem pole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:36 PM
10

I was just plain stupid and couldn’t understand why 3 months in they had suddenly changed. I took everything they said at face value. Then I would struggle with the cognitive dissonance between who they were in the beginning, and who they were towards the end. My excuses were that they were struggling with something in their life and I needed to help them because that’s what a friend would do, we all go through hard times and it would communicate that I’m a bad person if I left right when they n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:49 PM
3

Why do LVM type like this lol ability to proofread is now on my list of requirements
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:25 AM
91

Story of my life lol. I used to wonder what was wrong with me. I had no issues expressing how much I cared about a man upfront but then they’d drop me like a hot potato. Their penis prefers a chase so we have to be strategic now, they just said fuck honest unconditional love lmao My most mortifying realization of this was when my childhood friend chased me from 8th grade to college. Finally, FINALLY, I reciprocate and after 2 weeks he breaks up with me. It ‘wasn’t what he expected’. We had been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:13 AM
29

This is why men must always make fun of teenage girls’ interest at a massive scale - if they don’t divert the world’s attention elsewhere people might just figure out what the male population does in THEIR free time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:40 AM
19

His nonexistent stats LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:04 PM
11

I was thinking this exact thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:39 AM
99

This was distressing to watch. I hope this woman is somewhere safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:47 PM
1

Don’t even get me started on Karla Homolka
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:12 AM
4

LMAO right 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:40 AM
3

Yeah like if anything at all he could still practice MGTOW if he won full custody but this reeks of taking ZERO accountability especially when he implies he might just accidentally have a child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:35 AM
7

How do you humanely kick a child out of your home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:43 AM
47

He hit you with that 69 LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:58 PM
3

Perfectly explained! It always bothered me and I could never articulate why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:03 PM
1

Loves animals. Appreciates the arts. Likes dessert foods as much as I do. Looks on the bright side. Doesn’t have a hole in the part of his underwear where his balls are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:39 AM
61

I hate when men say ‘harassed’ for something that’s more of being ‘hassled’. Fucking dramatic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:19 AM
2

Very true. I would be plagued with thoughts of ‘if I wanted to stop, would they still love me?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:14 AM
3

How terrible and manipulative. It absolutely is not boring to not want to hurt someone?! There’s so many interesting things to do that don’t involve pain, they’re the deranged ones 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:14 AM
5

This was like...a normal day out with a partner and people were shitting on it? How lonely they must be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:36 AM
9

Lol he was still trying to maintain the dominant energy by acting like you would lose something great 🤣 but seriously I’m glad you left. This scrote doesn’t care about consent and thinks he can cover it with the guise of being into BDSM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:07 AM
4

The small amount of appeal that BDSM or any form of roleplay has disintegrates immediately when you factor in cultural misogyny which is unfortunate. One side effect I’ve noticed of allowing a man to perform these kinds of acts on you is that is bleeds into everyday life - doms are expecting you to be submissive to them EVEN OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM? No with an extra side of hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:01 AM
5

Soooo disgusting. I can’t even imagine. And these doms always make BDSM their defining personality trait, like wtf there’s websites and meetups and polyamory on top of it because abusing one person wasn’t enough?? Seriously sounds like a void that will sucks all of the life out of women. Also fucking weird that BDSM should have anything to do with age-play. That says enough in and of itself. Like on top of abusing women why must they pretend to be minors too? Doms get off on any form on control …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:52 AM
5

I feel exactly how you do on so many levels. It SAYS SOMETHING that the ones being degraded are almost always women and the abusers are men. These men HATE women and it’s clear as day but they’ve brainwashed so many people into shrugging it off - similar to how marital issues would remain private even if the wife was being abused because she is his ‘property’ in the domestic sphere now. Women are metaphorically and quite literally chained to the bedroom with their dom and society lets it happen …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:36 PM
6

I’m glad I was able to show you a new perspective! Sometimes I want to make a post and I’m like ‘well that’s common knowledge’ but I was also in a place where I didn’t know any of this? And it’s all worth analyzing no matter now simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:29 PM
17

Exactly. Empowerment is not the end goal for BDSM but only a way to trick women into agreeing to do it. Men explaining what a woman should find empowering and satisfying is a whole other story too...maybe find the clit first please? I also love your reasoning that if the body found it pleasurable it wouldn’t be painful. Very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:27 PM
13

Yep, and It’s definitely an issue with people prioritizing men’s sexual needs over women’s well-being. If women hurt men sexually at the scale they did to us, nobody would be prioritizing OUR orgasm bc cultural misogyny and all of that lovely stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:07 PM
17

I’m happy you have healed from that 💖it breaks my heart that BDSM is pretty much a magnet for abusers to prey on young women, as well as a magnet for victims who are still really confused about their past trauma and self-esteem issues. Doms KNOW this and actively prey on it...because like you said somebody who loves/respects themself would not allow someone to hurt them in this way. And doms (being LVM) have now realized they can attach -shaming to anything and gaslight women’s experiences when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:00 PM
10

0 out of 16 have made me orgasm. I’ve never faked an orgasm. 3 were long-term boyfriends, 1 short-term boyfriend, the rest mistakes. None were worth it. About half were obviously porn-addicted. Only 1 (fwb, surprisingly) tried very hard over months but still couldn’t. I’ve given up and just use a vibrator now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:28 PM
120

There’s a twitter account called manwhohasitall and all they do is spam things like this where the roles are reversed! (Ex. Jerry can’t stand being called a Male Surgeon...we think he’s overreacting). They also do Daily Debate posts. My favorite? TODAY’s DEBATE: should all men just shut up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:21 PM
31

Yes!! It’s completely disrespectful to invite someone you care about over and have it an absolute mess. Pickmeisha-me used to explain this to my ex’s and they did not understand (translation: did not care but will pretend to not understand). It’s rude, unsanitary, and shows that they can’t even clean up the most basic part of their life to impress you - imagine what a mess he is on the inside of his mind if he can’t even clean up his environment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:18 PM
14

LMFAO how does he make that mistake what a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:51 AM
11

She basically just said men can be shallow but women can’t . Your internalized misogyny is showing .. Side note I almost feel like the men in this video don’t even agree with her either. The sigh at the end LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:52 AM
11

I was just talking to my sisters about this. My memory is so foggy with my abusive ex that I don’t even remember the day he met my dad (apparently we were arguing and my sisters said it was super awkward and stressful). I knew I was forgetting details but idk how I forgot that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:33 AM
3

I wash my face twice a day with the ultra-gentle Neutrogena cleanser. I apply some oil-free Neutrogena moisturizer after so my skin doesn’t get dry. As for hair I have found my favorite product ever. I use L’Oréal Paris Ever Creme sulfate-free shampoo and conditioner. I only use sulfate-free hair products because it’s better for dyed hair, and the apricot oil makes my hair shiny and soft. I wash my hair twice a week but shower daily. I enjoy using makeup but it suffocates my skin, so I apply a m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:52 PM
15

He probably just learned by trial and error that if he doesn’t post gf, gf will get mad etc. In LVM minds we are all the same. It isn’t you, it’s just that on round 2 he is going to know more tricks to look like a decent boyfriend until he can settle back into being blatantly LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:53 AM
15

Right? Like did they forget what the word oppressed means? Even if someone doesn’t subscribe to our views we aren’t able to obstruct their lifestyle in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:43 AM
10

Very true ): if you’re about to do something incredibly nice for someone you JUST met (a tinder date? Wtf) consider doing something like this for friends or family instead. The weird thing is that pickme behavior like her cleaning shoes for a tinder date is transactional just as how LVM see them paying for dinner = sex. Is she expecting instant love and acceptance after this? It would feel better to be altruistic towards someone who already loves you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:08 PM
54

This makes me sad. It’s a genuinely nice thing to do but we all know LVM thrive off this kind of behavior. They use naturally kind people-pleasers without a second thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:50 AM
80

It seems like porn increases someone’s chances to act on their desire. They crave more stimulation after becoming desensitized, and eventually MUST do it with someone. This is a common theme with serial rapists/lust murderers and I’m sure we all have our own anecdotal evidence to back up our suspicions 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:07 PM
2

When he draws your ring with sharpie instead of washable marker you know it’s real 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:48 PM
16

Lol imagine the wedding if they hadn’t found that ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:44 PM
48

Awww did nobody tell him porn isn’t reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:57 AM
39

Translation: by tv show characters she meant anime most likely. She begins dressing up as good as the women he leers at and he realizes she’s too good for him all of the sudden. Now he must pull off the neg of the century to cradle his broken self-esteem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:48 AM
39

LMFAOO ‘you are fat and disgusting’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:47 AM
4

I’ll never understand why someone would want to fish for attention like this. I’d be too embarrassed to even utter that sentence and she’s here making a tiktok about it LMAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:05 AM
4

It’s weird that he describes HIMSELF as faithful and family oriented. Those are already the bare minimum things a good person would be. If his ex’s didn’t like that, maybe by faithful and family oriented he means controlling and wants you to bear his children ? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:40 AM
29

All I know is that I stan Lilith
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:50 PM
4

Not romantic but like, every Avril Lavigne song is ruined for me. I still love her song ‘one of those girls’ bc that girl honestly sounds like an FDS Queen lmao and I am not entirely sure whether the bridge part of the song is sarcasm when she says ‘she’s the one to blame’? Like obv the guy just simply wasn’t good enough for her. But with Avril I have no idea. Edit: also Avril ironically describes the girl with her own physical characteristics which is why I think it might actually be about a gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:57 PM
3

LITERALLY 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:43 PM
4

Pale with dark brown/black hair and brown eyes. Tattoos but not on the face, behind the ears, or anywhere on the legs. At least 5’6, I’m 5 ft and I hate awkward heigh differences so I’m usually attracted to guys that I could reasonably lean my head on their shoulder. Still would like them to be strong enough to carry me though, but I hate veins popping out so not a total gym rat. I do like androgynous guys in touch with their feminine side and I’m okay with piercings. No super tight skinny jeans…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:08 AM
8

Lmao darn those laws protecting women from literally being his property...what the actual fuck is wrong with this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:55 AM
3

I really like the Celtic heart knot symbol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:42 AM
19

Ok I’m cringing bc I’ve had guys tell me I’m the first girl they met on the app and never thought twice LOOLLL My most awkward dates...getting ghosted on a coffee date (he had a phone call emergency...) twice I’ve had men repeatedly pay on dates, yet around the 5th date or so that THEY asked me on they admit they can’t pay for it. As the bill arrives. I’ve mentioned this one a few times in my post history, but worst ever was a fat ugly rich guy take me to a 5 star restaurant wearing a Friday the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:41 AM
12

Same LOL I was like damn I wish I was her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:12 AM
15

God any man who drives like this seriously terrifies me. I have a horrible memory of an ex who was speeding and yelling at me in the car bc of some argument, and I just snapped and kept screaming at him to let me out. He wouldn’t stop and when I shut down he was like ‘done having a tantrum?’ Funniest part, we were in my old car that he was renting from my family. The dickhead wouldn’t even let me out of my own damn car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:11 AM
2

Oh it’s adderall and there’s Red bulls lined up above the book. He would drink like 4 energy drinks a day and take unprescribed adderall (and smoke weed lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:41 AM
1

LOLL I didn’t want to put a real bed bug they’re disgusting 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:40 AM
5

Yep basically every plan goes out the window for the bro’s and they all prob know he’s a shithead but don’t tell you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:36 PM
60

I love how science LITERALLY proves AND admits there’s a problem with men yet people still be like where’s the proof 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:10 AM
26

Beautifully written. I share the same disappointment as you do in every aspect. I can’t unsee sexism in everyday things. It makes me feel hollow thinking I’ll never find a HVM because that pure happiness romance brings has always been something I love when reading or watching TV, but it feels dead now. I try not to let it bother me too much because FDS has opened my eyes. I can better protect myself, value myself, and uplift other women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:27 PM
37

This reminds me of when anytime a woman reacts to LVM that provoke them, suddenly the woman is just as bad, if not worse. They think we should always take the high road, ideally yes, it’s less stress, but that’s not always humanly possible or as easy as it sounds. This is part of society conditioning women to be docile. Edit: I actually never understood wtf the SCUM lady in Cult season of AHS was talking about until this sub lmao. She wanted women to be pushed to the edge by that guy so that fem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:18 PM
9

He thinks you’re stupid. Prove him otherwise and leave his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:32 PM
6

Ew why’s he treating you like a child this gives me the creeps!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:56 PM
3

Fr but honestly most guys probably see them and think ‘I don’t want to have to drive her to the ER so I’ll steer clear’ lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:29 AM
7

I’m sorry 😭😭😭it has never been a problem in the past if that makes you feel better, only in my mind when I’m imagining some worst case scenario where a LVM begins to disregard them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:27 AM
25

Recently I’ve been worried a guy will pull out my nipple ring or belly button ring. Not super irrational but it has kept me from lapsing back into pickme tendencies/hookup culture; if I don’t trust the guy, I am NOT risking that!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:55 AM
41

I was about to say what is up with all the meaningless expressions loll but this is it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:24 PM
13

Can they REALLY not scrape up an iota of critical thought?????? Edit: nevermind I forgot they’re predators playing dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:06 AM
9

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:03 AM
4

Yess see you at the beach queen 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:31 AM
3

Why phrase it like that? Is there an MRI involved or something??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:44 PM
5

I like how scrotes basically just protect their own life onto all men in the world. Your anecdotal evidence hardly says anything when women’s anecdotal AND hard evidence overwhelms whatever he’s trying to say. He didn’t have to expose himself like that LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:41 PM
10

I got Beach, Boobs, and Money!!! Forgot how much I love these LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:40 PM
11

That’s called insecurity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:38 PM
3

EW....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:34 PM
7

I’ve never heard of that but it sounds soooo weird. Any app/website centered around just like, chat rooms or groups is always a hellhole (kik, whisper). Like go talk to people irl or on an actual social media app LOL. Ugh it’s just so sad the grooming does start incredibly young and nobody really talks about it. Parents like KIND OF did tell their children to watch out for pedophiles with fear of rising internet usage, but it’s gone away now that social media has been normalized for like, 5th gr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:43 PM
19

That’s so disgusting...I played WoW growing up and also online dated adult men as a teenager. It’s fucking revolting that they’ll turn something innocent and nostalgic into Tinder except with minors any chance they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:38 PM
17

That’s exactly the kind of place pedophiles go to groom children. On a website where you’re bored and chat with random people, and for some reason can deck your avatar out in stylish clothes lol. For me it was an app called MiniNation. It got shut down but my friend and I in middle school met so many adult men from other countries and thought it was so cool. LITERALLY a grooming app ffs, probably why it got shut down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:35 PM
157

It’s sickening how this happens in every corner of the Internet including ANIMAL CROSSING. Proof predators know exactly what they’re doing when they target children’s games or platforms where others are unsuspecting, bc who the FUCK looks for sex on clash of clans right? And all of these scrotes are pornsick pedophiles. I’m tired of people defending porn instead of talking about actual issues like adult men grooming children. Porn ACTIVELY promotes pedophilia and grooming in the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:36 PM
26

So he’d rather make $0? Simply lazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:33 PM
2

Ew ): disgusting pigs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:45 PM
2

I’ll tell her about it. I’m worried for her and not sure what the wake up call will be. I’m just sickened by this man who offers nothing to her life - straight up NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:45 PM
6

Frrrrr I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:11 AM
7

Yeah It’s actually comical LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:11 AM
7

Yep - I’ve told her this too, hoping the feeling of infidelity helps her get over him. That’s something I’ve noticed myself. The pornsick ones are always asking for more, pushing boundaries, and aren’t happy with vaginal sex?? So entitled to not only our VAGINAS but other parts. Okay...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:10 AM
70

This is exactly what’s happening with my sister. Even my own pickme mom has asked me, at what point as a mother should she forbid the relationship? My sister’s bf has told her that he feels like the ‘relationship is more about her than him’ and that ‘she never tries what he wants to do in bed’. Which is anal....and more she’s obviously afraid to tell me about. The latest news on this was him and his family telling my sister that my mom is controlling because she was raised catholic (he’s some ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:30 PM
12

Apparently this is a ‘double standard’ for men 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:01 AM
3

So many things wrong with this guy’s argument. It seems like he genuinely doesn’t see women as equal to men. Not in terms of the actual systematic inequalities we witness, but he just thinks women aren’t as capable or something. Apparently men are carrying the heavy burden of having to PHYSICALLY FIGHT around every corner, and the naive women could NEVER be prepared for what it’s like at the top of the food chain /s. And what does he mean we CAN’T choose? What kind of society would we be living …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:14 AM
19

LOLL this is hilarious 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:22 AM
3

Thanks I REALLY wasn’t feeling it after seeing his insta and my sister and I were laughing like wait this isn’t right 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:26 AM
3

I wish I had called him out more on it but I felt bad because up until then he was pretty nice 😅clearly I still haven’t broken in my FDS shoes since I’m still trying not to hurt the fragile male ego...thanks for the advice!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:22 AM
2

Yes I’m excited to at least practice testing out FDS strategies (which will be difficult to word over the phone which is probably where we need the practice, it’s easy to carefully think out a text). I was also wondering if he too was testing out my boundaries to see what kind of girl I was, but I find it hard to believe after seeing his Instagram...I think he may just be trying to impress me right off the bat. It’s flattering, but thanks to FDS I’m no longer as naive. Everyone wants to make the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:16 AM
8

Yep /: or even if they are wanting to date, they are still expecting the sex to come within the first 3 dates. I get the sense this guy is actually trying to get to know me from how he texts but still invites me over for Netflix and chill?! Not allowing that anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:04 PM
15

My current field report: 1) creepy guy I last posted about now gives me a ‘daily call’ and leaves a voicemail. It’s entertaining to laugh about it with my sisters, (you can HEAR the entitlement in his voice - wish I could post the audio) but I know it’s his tactic to be in the back of my mind. Amongst his spamming all I’ve told him is $50 to ‘maybe pick up his next call’ LMAO...get that coin ladies 2) guy at work I posted about BEFORE the other guy asked me to a bar last night (I declined) and k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:55 PM
10

LMAOO whaaaat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:59 PM
55

It sounds to me like he is feigning concern to prevent you pressing charges because what he did was not right. You should get a rape kit done just to have it on file and block him. Alert your trusted girl friends in your friend group of what happened for their own safety and support 💖 This is NOT your fault. Plenty of people get blackout drunk at party scenes and that isn’t an invitation for rape and sexual assault. Decent men know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:06 PM
42

Anyone who even considers buying this should be fucking sterilized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:44 PM
259

Can’t believe this is like a common thing lmfaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:49 PM
187

BREAKING NEWS!! Poor men can’t have their nut 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:35 PM
3

15 years and all of our life savings 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:13 AM
6

This is knitpicky but men who say ‘best of luck’ piss me off for no apparent reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:59 AM
1

It’s okay, it really is a strange nickname that would lead to these kinds of questions but when we’re drawn to someone or manipulated it’s easy to ignore it. I hope you’re healing fuck this guy 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:57 PM
1

That’s interesting - I’ll watch out for anyone called Prince of Darkness even more then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:51 PM
8

7 months is like right when the obvious abusive shit starts happening she needs to run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:33 PM
2

Why would they give someone so evil some romance book name?? I can’t say it’s entirely your fault when everyone minimized his abuse with such a stupid title...why not just call him Abusive Asshole Everyone Avoids. Bc with the current state of romance books I could see a lot of women being drawn to dark character especially if everyone gave him THAT name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:49 PM
11

I’m crying Prince of Darkness 😭so edgy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:56 AM
8

Lol I loved this 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:45 AM
92

They act like we’re policing their every move? No, we observe them (just as all humans do) and CHOOSE not to date them if we don’t want to. It’s called free will. Newsflash: Women have it!! Men can do whatever they want and suffer the consequences they bring upon THEMSELVES. They just like to blame women for everything honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:43 AM
27

Idc wtf a man’s room looks like - If a woman steps in and one thing makes her uncomfortable, she’s ALLOWED to leave and decline sex. Wtf is up with pickmeishas lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:08 AM
23

Lol ‘as well as a small penis’ killed me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:47 AM
25

Ew he’s acting like you’re being an unruly child or something. Someone who cares would be wanting to resolve things instead of stonewall you...sorry but end it girl!! It may hurt but it hurts more to stay and he does this for years to come!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:55 PM
9

I guess she’s trying to be funny but it simply isn’t. A lot of these types of jokes wouldn’t land anywhere else but on social media. If anyone said this in person...everyone would stare at them like wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:04 PM
5

Right like wtf did he even learn then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:01 PM
3

I agree lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:00 PM
13

That is so sickening. You’re right about the mind not being very capable about distinguishing fantasy from reality. It’s disgusting how incest and child porn have become normalized as long as it’s a ‘fantasy’, but do men ever consider that the people pushing this kind of plot in porn are ACTUAL predators? Who the fuck else dreams this stuff up? Fantasies are definitely not an excuse for men to masturbate to and pictures of minors are unfortunately included in this like you said ): Reddit still a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:43 AM
30

Seriously like does he need porn THAT bad? How much more horrific does the porn industry need to get for men to finally say it’s enough?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:33 AM
17

Lmao yeah his fake ‘Shocking...’ and ‘unknowlingly’ and the worst. ‘Next time’ ughh. He had the benefit of proof-reading his own thoughts before sending and still failed at hiding anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:46 AM
8

I know. It’s sad to see a kind heart getting taking advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:44 AM
38

Do they seriously think the porn industry is their friend with their best interests at heart? The porn industry purposely makes itself addictive as well as more outrageous to keep men coming back for the ‘fantasies’ that will never happen in real life. How delusional do they have to be to think that a corporate entity such as this would actually care about their health lmao. I don’t see traffickinghub putting out warnings for the future ED men will have. I saw that post too and stopped reading t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:43 AM
19

Yeah he’s deflecting responsibility hard and not acknowledging the true victims here. It makes me sad that the girlfriend seems satisfied with this too. This man isn’t righteous, chivalrous, or anything a man should be for his girlfriend/wife. He’s a LVM and embarrassment. Hope she realizes /:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:35 AM
18

Right. His pride and peepee were hurt so he plays innocent, ignores the actual victim at hand, and manages to turn it around to make himself the victim because of how his gf told him about this travesty. But don’t worry, he has a backup site /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:20 AM
72

Yep. He clearly didn’t learn anything. Pornhub may be the biggest, but that doesn’t mean the other sites are better. Any porn site could easily fill the vacuum pornhub will leave once it’s shut down in a WEEK until men choose to stop watching it altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:14 AM
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This disgusted me. How can someone respond to traffickinghub in such a mild manner if they truly were living under a rock? Notice how he doesn’t use the words disgusting, illegal, unacceptable, corrupt, predatory...he is still more concerned about his penis, even considering another site after potentially witnessing child porn. He proceeds to have the audacity to turn it around on his girlfriend and tell her to ‘wait an hour before or after having sex’ to inform him of something this disturbing.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:47 AM
92

This scrote is seriously trying to trick you into aligning your chakras for sex smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:54 AM
9

I wish men would stop watching it for the more educated reasons than ‘muh penis!!!’ but I guess if all the stupid ones get ED natural selection will take its course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:41 AM
38

That’s what I would define toxic femininity as if it was a useful word, but it’s basically the patriarchy except the words ‘toxic femininity’ lays blame to women alone instead of systematic sexism through history. This would give pickmeishas and scrotes a way to sugar coat the patriarchy, much like how kinkmeishas say ‘choking’ during sex when really it’s strangulation, or how headlines about r@pe/pedophilia instead say ‘sex with a minor’. We need to call it for what it is Edit: Just saying I wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:06 PM
3

Chris
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:54 AM
11

I just can’t understand how they have so much audacity LOL. Like is that how they go about life? Asking women disgusting shit and hoping it will work?? What a sad existence. Manipulating someone’s love is straight up evil. This is why being called ugly or slurs by scrotes will never work on us. How tf is being ugly anything compared to someone who abuses another’s love...boy bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:48 AM
15

It’s a terrible mixture too. This is why we see women who cave in and do something disgusting for their man but then the man is still a scrote who pushes them to their limit for sex. Nice for what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:11 AM
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They have zero control over their own jealousy issues and erections lmao. My first LTR we disclosed sexual experience bc I was naive (I was 18, he was 21) he had a THREESOME but yelled at me for giving another guy a blowjob. It was ridiculous Edit: 2 years later I ran into a mutual friend who asked for my number to catch up. He ended up admitting that my ex bragged to everyone how kinky I was so he was just trying to hook up since we had split. Sooo everything I was ‘in trouble for’ was a great …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:03 PM
105

Weirdo. I hate fake deep guys who do drugs twice and think they’ve cured the world of injustice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:51 PM
1

Ikr?? What a genius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:19 AM
77

what on earth LOLLL please tell the story if she ever does end up selling everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:44 PM
9

Whenever you’re reflecting on your day remind yourself of the shame and awkwardness you felt about oversharing and say you’ll do better tomorrow. Do this every night! It sounds kind of silly but I do this and feel like I haven’t overshared in a while because I actively remind myself not to. If you find someone prying and it’s getting hard not to overshare, turn around and ask them a question instead and they will most likely overshare about whatever is on their mind because people like to talk! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:15 AM
7

I would say yes because we’re all part of the same ‘hive’ and constantly influenced by what we experience, so they should really get off their high horse. But I think this is their attempt at negging in a way to take away your own freedom of thought - like whatever I’m thinking I’m wrong because I let society influence me. Trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:47 AM
12

I totally agree. The word itself has a strangely negative connotation despite a beehive being extremely efficient. Idk why it’s used as an insult, but this is also the kind of word you might hear in a sci-fi movie and that’s it. Men act like I’m trying to create a dystopian society with my views lmao. NEVER have I heard this word in any other argument except an anti-feminist one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:44 AM
2

Lmao fr like you wouldn’t like it when you end up in the hospital but whatever gets your peepee hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:56 AM
17

Omg I HATE Meredith. The pickme dialogue at the end makes me die a little bit inside every episode. (Sister watches it. I just overhear it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:54 AM
3

Lol tell him the last man you met who was this pushy got pushed back - down a flight of stairs 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:49 AM
8

Dang guess I’m out of the game I thought yoga was a myth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:14 AM
91

Ewwww. 4x a day is definitely not normal and idk why he couldn’t just answer the question she asked instead of trying to prove her wrong. Must men gaslight every living thing??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:11 AM
7

I haven’t played a sport in years, just not athletic, but I love air hockey and for some reason men are always shocked when I win. I’m surprisingly good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:58 PM
36

The backtracking ... it HURTS LOL 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:59 PM
2

Awe thank you ! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:59 AM
2

My sisters know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:07 AM
14

So they don’t have ED but are taking ED pills? Okayyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:13 PM
7

The utopia we’ve dreamed of 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:25 PM
4

I’ve noticed too, mostly men who want to be ‘dominant’ during sex, this bleeds into everyday life with non-sexual things as if control is foreplay. But this throws off the power dynamic and BDSM specifically disadvantages women. Soon they’ll be yelling and beating you over you not doing what they want and say it’s kinky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:24 PM
9

Next time he should tack on a few zeroes lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:22 AM
14

He’s said some odd things that made me feel unsafe but he doesn’t know where I live since I moved - I should be okay thanks 💖yes he was bizarre last night for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:21 AM
5

Haha yeah he’s muted. He’s never spammed me this much before so if he keeps up I just might have to block though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:20 AM
12

A lot of porn seriously feels like dark web shit. Bc what it comes down to is that even if the woman in the video agreed to do some horrific scene, it STILL isn’t physically pleasant so the person watching it is still watching someone suffer! How is this legal? If a video of a woman or anyone being violently beat (except clothed, not a porn star) was distributed for fun it would be a whole ass problem. Oh but if they’re naked it’s okay to watch despite being fucking demented. It’s time for peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:29 AM
79

He isn’t blocked on iMessage in case I need proof of something for a restraining order (he isn’t that bad, but I’m cautious, you never know) and not blocked on cashapp in case he randomly gives me cash which I’m fine with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:41 AM
86

I’ve heard this from some gay friends where they make fun of vagina smelling and saying women don’t know how to wipe their asses properly. Vet your gay friends bc not all of them are feminist allies even if they pretend to be...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:56 PM
11

I’m so sorry. Idk why grown ass dads make decisions like this that could jeopardize their relationship with their children. Sick and selfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:56 AM
9

Lmfaooo 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:46 AM
14

Lmaooo seriously 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:35 AM
25

I’m sorry 💖 I feel this in my very soul as well. I have a lot of nightmares about ex’s where we’re together again and I catch them cheating on me, walking off with another woman and abandoning me, etc. and this even happens with guys I barely have a crush on. There’s deep-rooted trust issues for people like us. But I think it also gives us brilliant intuition. There has to be some behavior he is doing that set this off for you but you can’t quite put your finger on it. Really think about what is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:32 AM
3

LOL desperate times out here 😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:05 AM
132

This was so upsetting to read. Stepping on the breaks again to cause pain to her cysts even more? Something is wrong with the Y chromosome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:48 AM
13

Did he just attempt to put his hands around her throat literally what is happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:18 PM
1

Thank you I’ll check that out when I’m home!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:48 PM
3

Thanks I will and totally it’s still a sexist thing??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:48 PM
4

She did once say she’d be okay with going to a strip club with her man because she’s bisexual LOL so I should probably wait and see and be careful😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:53 PM
10

I’ve been stressing on how to act at work when the two of them are there now because my FDS knowledge says to not let him see I’m bothered but my dang temper makes me ice people out so obviously. But today I have a chance to work with her and his friend so I’m going to practice playing it cool and make sure she knows we’re friends just Incase she caught on. Because we ARE friends and I’m not going to let this stupid man get in the way if I feel like hanging out with her at work! Lol yes 2 weeks …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:20 PM
10

Thank you so much 💖Yes I was wondering if I was the novelty because I was new, but then the new novelty woman shows up and he just moves on. I’ve seen this behavior with a lot of men and they think we’re stupid but we notice the immediate change?? Like your actions and body language don’t lie. I am happy that within an hour he exposed himself because if she hadn’t transferred who knows how long it would’ve taken because we don’t get transfers often and I could’ve ended up embarrassing myself but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:17 PM
6

Yes thankfully the shock and pain of being ‘second’ isn’t as brutal as it used to be for me. I feel like I’m getting used to it as sad as that is but it also means that I can spot them easier - just like with this guy, I waited and saw what happened and I saved time and more pain. And it will take a lot more to impress me, like forming a genuine connection one day as you said. Beauty IS fleeting and we don’t want shallow men anyway. It makes me so sad to hear stories like that of your friend! Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:08 PM
22

Thanks I do know my worth and I deserve better than this loser 💖 I think I mostly feel embarrassed now. I’m worried the whole staff knew except me. I owe it to her to warn her, but I’ll have to do it tactfully so he can’t be like ‘she’s just jealous!!!’ given the circumstances lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:53 PM
11

It makes it difficult not to compare ourselves to the girl when this happens too. But the sad part is, he might even do this to her too if a literal model walked in. LVM will find a way to have the audacity lol. Thanks 💖I have too much pride to give this man a fraction of my attention/feelings/explanation whatever at this point. Like if he likes her, stop worrying about me ignoring you! You can’t have both wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:45 PM
7

Because fake stuttering through text screams intelligence on his end too lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:51 PM
7

Over my dead body would I expose myself like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:42 PM
1

Yeah this is definitely a thing. My ex adopted a dog that behaved badly and I spanked it’s butt once (gently) to indicate it shouldn’t BITE THEIR OTHER DOG. He yelled at me for abusing his dog. Ummm maybe train it and it wouldn’t instigate fights. Oh but if anything else went wrong the 10,000 times it ran away, snuck food, or pissed in the house I had to take care of it as well. Raise an animal together my ass lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:30 PM
15

I don’t think she’s blaming women entirely, I think she’s trying to tell pickmeishas to get off their high horse for ‘stealing someone’s man’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:11 PM
17

‘Petite’ is only used when you’re shopping for specifically petite clothing, or looking up porn. Run if a man describes his type as this. Pornsick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:07 PM
15

Ugh I remember my braindead ex retweeted some tweet about how men are over 90% of murder victims (as a rebuttal to feminism I guess) and that it isn’t just women getting harassed/murdered etc. Ummmm NEWSFLASH it’s MEN doing this to both men and women, and even when it is a woman, they were usually pushed to edge by a man. Have they watched one (1) crime show in their entire life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:44 AM
13

This shit makes me so sad. And literally nobody in the US wants to talk about blatant racism towards Asian women in the form of fetishizing them with a HUGE emphasis on pedophilia because of how rampant pedophilia is. Men just accept it as a ‘preference’ and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:53 AM
16

Potheads will only continue to smoke more and more over time because they’re numb to it. They’ll want to try more drugs and it will only get worse ): It’s okay to not want this lifestyle. And personally a lot of guys who do drugs make you feel bad if you don’t do them either and it’s a terrible feeling. You can do better than this pothead!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:49 AM
7

omg yes I didn’t mean that this shouldn’t be posted here 😭I meant why is the girl asking reddit Hahaha I also love seeing discussions in our reddit for the same reason. The double standards are insane on AITA and other advice Reddit’s...like men being held accountable just isn’t a concept to them at all I guess??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:38 AM
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Anything following AITA is always hilarious LOL like she’s clearly made up her mind calling him a CREEPY FUCK why you asking here 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:42 PM
115

This is the kind of guy who mocks you constantly but claims it’s sarcasm...no, it’s mocking and belittling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:39 PM
62

After all that ‘here for friends’ LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:50 AM
1

This is like every college boy I’ve ever met LOL ughhhh we need some divine intervention or some shit I swear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:57 PM
20

How bizarre. Why would he agree to go to a restaurant and then tell you AT the restaurant about his eating disorder? If he was upfront about that, but offered an equally romantic alternative, there wouldn’t have been a problem. My ex couldn’t eat in public either because of ‘anxiety’ (my sister’s anxiety is debilitating, so I don’t have much sympathy left to give when he’s using his rich parents’ weekly allowance on weed and unprescribed adderall, had no job, and still maxed out how many classes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:54 PM
7

I’ve always thought that a man pulling the bait and switch on a date was a power play to show us whose in charge and making decisions - him, in his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:31 PM
3

What mystical ‘essence’ did he think OLD apps had LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:38 AM
5

He has finally solved the ages-old question that no woman has ever had the answer to....not all heroes wear capes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:36 AM
25

Lol I was about to say I’m a terrible cook but know how to cook everything on that table he isn’t special 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:42 AM
53

Her boots pull the whole image together LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:30 AM
3

Yeah you’re right ): I feel sad for their daughter most of all to grow up with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:23 PM
11

If for some reason your date specifically asks your reasoning behind the man paying for the bill, you could either jokingly say ‘chivalry is dead I guess’ or ‘if you don’t understand on your own, then clearly we are already incompatible’. Either way pay for your half of the tab and block them after the date. You aren’t his teacher, or his mom, or google. If you really must argue though, you could say that you respect a man that is generous, willing to show that he is invested in you, and can pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:17 AM
13

Hahaha well I would like to bake for a HVM who appreciates it one day, but in that scenario he was supposed to be the one apologizing to me so I cringe thinking about it. I felt like I was trying to play housewife or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:01 AM
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Made brownies as an apology after a fight with my ex-bf. I hate cooking for men and I hate sharing my dessert. Not sure what made me think that was going to fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:47 AM
2

Idc what the context is, anyone who says ‘meh’ I want to shoot on sight LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:58 AM
5

It seems like to some extent he understands that porn is like sex trafficking (rape) yet therefore watching rape should stop men from going out and raping women themselves. Deranged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:27 AM
4

Pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:24 AM
21

I’m pissed that I’ve never seen a guy’s room NOT look like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:13 AM
24

Disgusting. I hope that his overreaction being public helps the wife feel embarrassed enough to divorce his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:05 AM
15

Don’t worry I made sure he ordered dessert then ghosted him to teach him a lesson LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:48 AM
2

LMFAO like why 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:46 AM
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He wore a Friday the 13th shirt to a 5 star Italian restaurant and proceeded to say I dressed like a grandma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:29 PM
4

when the guy u like only has 20$ in his bank account
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:01 AM
3

LOL literally every comment is like ‘well roommate IS a disgusting creepy neckbeard pervert who I would call the police on buuuuut...does anyone think OP is being a dramatic bitch??’ ignores that this is a confession thread, not an advice thread yet proceeds to give advice like you’re an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:36 AM
3

Ah yes. The number 1 indicator of depression: smells like a skunk /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:19 PM
5

Yeah like they’re so pathetic they have to neg women they haven’t even matched with yet ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:47 PM
17

THEY SAID NOT THE A-HOLE??? What a hellsite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:00 AM
8

Dump him. He should be celebrating you being born but instead ruins it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:43 AM
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I will never understand why they put their physical preferences in a woman in THEIR bio. Ummm if you like a certain thing, only swipe yes to women with that certain thing, that’s how it works. I swear they’re losing brain cells and it’s most definitely the porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:38 AM
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Libfems are applying 50s feminism to the modern world which doesn’t work. I’m guessing most are young and in the early stages of questioning the patriarchy, in which a large part of the patriarchy is repressing women’s sexuality. Naturally they are naive and want to believe that every pornstar, stripper, and prostitute chose that like of work and there’s no shame in it: society simply demonizes sexually active women. If they’re smart, soon they’ll see it’s a lot more complicated than ‘sex bad!!’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:34 AM
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He BLATANTLY hates women. Like if you want to be a fucking psychopath and beat someone to get your dick hard what’s the difference male or female. Oh right: you HATE WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:27 AM
3

Lmfaooo this is so fucking funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:12 PM
36

Men are stupid as shit and all it takes is dying your hair to see how differently they treat you based on appearance. But it’s easy to see through once they start talking about what they’re into or ask if you’re into xyz insert creepy fetish related to your appearance. Just cut these types of guys off right away because they’re imagining a future with you with their dick and not anything else. You will find someone and they’ll no doubt be more intelligent than any other scrote that throws themse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:43 AM
3

If it fills the void go ahead I guess hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:32 AM
3

That’s bizarre. Everyone just sat away from her lmfaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:09 AM
3

This is so disturbing wtff I can’t even imagine. I’m so glad I never witnessed anything but may have just been naive...I didn’t really understand anything sexual until like 10th or 11th grade besides like the function of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:05 AM
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I feel the same as you. I’ve always had a distrust for men and it has been heightened due to this reddit. I try to remind myself that it is overwhelming because it’s information overload. We’re breaking down everything we’ve been socialized to believe about relationships and men and reconstructing it. But this is a good thing! Once we process it I think it will be less depressing when we look around and see a mass of LVM. That means that when we find a HVM, he will genuinely be all the more wort…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:55 PM
15

Surely this can’t be real, and is only their fantasy? Teachers are watching out for students on their phones constantly how could they miss a penis on ‘several occasions’. Edit: I mean I’m hoping this isn’t real 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:13 PM
5

We need a new word for this because it’s like the opposite of virtue-signaling to attract a partner. They are upfront about their ‘kinks’ so at least they aren’t a liar (/s) and hopefully a kinkmeisha DMs then? Like what other reason is there for posting this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:04 PM
8

This is disturbingly accurate .....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:32 AM
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Most likely. I forget we’re in enemy territory...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:33 AM
5

I think it’s dumb he can’t read between the lines. I’m assuming when you say ‘it’s hard to meet due to covid’ it’s either 1. You prefer calling before meeting in person for safety. 2. Genuinely don’t want to go outside bc of covid for safety. 3. Know there won’t be any quality dates happening so a call date is convenient and not dangerous again. Yet he says he ‘doesn’t mind meeting’? OBVIOUSLY you were kindly saying you would prefer calling to meeting in person???? If you really want that call I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:53 AM
12

It’s so sad to imagine someone arguing then crying and going to a corner to type their reddit update...what’s next breakup vlogs??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:26 AM
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Wtf was the the point of the first sentence if he actually won’t take just any woman then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:22 AM
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This is LITERALLY HOW LVM ACT TO WOMEN...the projection is killing me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:58 AM
8

Well now I’m curious hahahahah will have to look at this shoegaze
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:57 AM
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Oh wow I’m surprised I haven’t heard of it since I use SoundCloud and they’re always giving their music genres oddly specific names hahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:31 AM
7

What the hell is shoegaze
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:26 PM
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Tips fedora
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:58 PM
17

LOL I died at ‘shows screenshots of 4chan’ My WORST LVM experience was going to my ex’s brother’s wedding in Vegas. When we landed in Vegas he was freaking out because his phone died and his parents were going to pick us up, but he was embarrassing me so I told him I was going to look at a gift shop across from us bc I wanted to distance myself. He stormed over not 5 min later and slightly raised his voice at me enough that people stared saying I can’t just walk away from him like that. I ignore…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:37 AM
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It’s okay that you’re tired of listening to it. Some people are energy vampires. I have kind of a funny story of a girl that was like this from high school! She was attached to the hip to my best friend and would talk about boy drama constantly. I found it hilarious but I felt bad that my best friend was like the main one she vented to because she’d see her coming and be like Jesus Christ. Soooo she had 2 guys on rotation where they’d date about two weeks and break up over something random. I me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:54 AM
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Childish sense of humor aside...it would bother me if my bf posted a sexual meme on a story bc like who tf are you trying to impress/signal this to? Wouldn’t he just send it to you because you’re the only one he’d play the bongo on LOLL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:19 AM
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I wouldn’t make it a game to neg back and forth because media likes to portray sexual tension in this manner, and we shouldn’t reward men after they have disappointed us. But, if you must, negging is like criticizing someone in between the lines (so he is actually terrible at it, because that was an outright insult). Negging breaks down someone’s confidence by saying things like ‘That color’s nice, but it doesn’t really suit you.’ ‘This restaurant looks okay, but every time you pick the place to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:08 AM
40

Pepe about to snap lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:03 PM
14

Or worse, he wants to be the dominant one in non-sexual situations too. Now the power dynamic has shifted bc if you disobey say a domestic command you’re reprimanded in the bedroom. Which idk how these BDSM people deal with that, they must be sex addicts, because that would get old wouldn’t it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:34 AM
14

‘Remorse’ LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:41 PM
3

Shouldn’t the majority of men be insulted by headlines like this? I’d honestly rather have this trending and them discussing how degrading it is to be reduced to basically animals, but no, it’s always some braindead askmen post trending or a woman getting curb stomped for jabbing a finger at a man labeled justice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:17 AM
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When they describe the type of women (including physical appearance) in their bio. It makes me think they’re the type that swipe on literally every woman to maximize matches, or is trying to neg their match before they even match?! Because obviously he can swipe only on athletic girls if he only likes athletic girls for example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:03 AM
12

Idk but hopefully if women collectively have HVM standards, over time men will be forced to level up as well and there would be more HVM. (a girl can dream)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:00 AM
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In my experience I have found that men who enjoy learning/always educating themselves and are ambitious tend to have less time to fuck around and be porn addicted. If they have a good relationship with their mother or sister, I believe they are less likely to be porn addicted because they aren’t surrounded by only men their whole life and have no resentment towards women. Lastly, if they have literally any hobby other than gaming (on PC especially) or simply lack a computer, they tend to spend l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:37 PM
1

so....stupid...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:29 PM
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Not worth it ): If he couldn’t call after that paragraph then he isn’t worried enough about losing you and this may just be feeding his ego. If you want to answer though, just keep it extra short and turn on read receipts or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:19 PM
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Yessss hahahahaa now the porn addicts can all suffer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:17 AM
2

LOL fr!! Meanwhile I’m like ‘please don’t have 6 fast food trash bags in your car upon arrival’ Men: ‘who do you think you ARE??’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:36 AM
3

He has a CAR PREFERENCE for his gf?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:18 AM
9

I got back into OLD about a month ago and I spent so many hours swiping it was pathetic. I felt terrible because I could have used my time more productively. Do literally ANYTHING other than OLD if you get the urge! Read, work out, deep clean the house...if you must swipe watch a documentary while you do LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:01 PM
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I am convinced that 90% of men watch porn but I have met a few who are as repulsed by it as I am. The only trouble is that the ones who dislike it usually don’t watch it because 1. Effects their sexual performance 2. Feels staged and just doesn’t do it for them 3. Don’t like the fake moaning/noises? While it’s a plus they don’t watch porn, I have NEVER met a man who chooses not to watch it because it HARMS WOMEN. I have met men who are willing to be educated and accept that porn harms women, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:55 PM
1

When I was 17 I found out that I was some random guy’s ‘third choice’ in a line of women to ask out to prom. Now I’m absolutely paranoid that I am not someone’s #1 option and need constant reassurance from whoever I’m dating. I’m a little more tactful with how I get this reassurance now rather than saying ‘I’m insecure comfort me!!!’ Maybe it benefits me though, because as soon as I find out that a guy who claims they’re interested in me is also interested in another woman in any way infuriates …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:55 AM
11

LOL yes she is...I’m guessing she wants to show off how sExY and COOL she is ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:40 PM
13

Yeah like this is actually some sociopathic shit but whatever sex positivity right Twitter!!! LOL yeah this is greasy ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:10 PM
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I know this is sickening and so many other women online are praising her for it. I’d probably be told I’m shaming her if I disagreed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:08 PM
15

A good one I like is ‘you’re pretty short too for a guy!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:36 AM
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Lmao! I felt something was off too but chalked it up to her being smug about her hobby. The porn usage is getting to her ig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:24 AM
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I looked through her twitter and she seems pretty pornsick. She does have a boyfriend so if she is straight or bi it’s odd that her entire ‘porn wall’ is all women. It’s straight up creepy that someone can look this proud of printing out photos of pornstars as decorations and call it art.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:10 AM
3

LOL HAHAHA dating a guy from a convention that’s comical!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:39 PM
4

LOL peter-pan syndrome yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:20 PM
2

Yeah there’s like, two anime in the history of the world that don’t have that ONE scene that’s hentai/pedophile shit and it’s disgusting. I don’t date guys who watch anime even if I do because of this lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:20 PM
3

Same here lol it’s just too much...I’ve found it’s best to keep it subtle that I like anime or I attract weirdos like this. Yes, I have seen someone in real life have an anime body pillow. It was traumatizing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:15 PM
3

That is possible, but I’m probably not alone in finding it childish they add memes to their dating profile account. But it is Tinder so what did I expect lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:13 PM
12

Good lord I’d be SO impressed take me on a date instead LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:27 AM
13

IDK I thought it would be like Tangled and it isn’t like we see hundreds of lanterns every day it’s beautiful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:26 AM
4

Hahahaha yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:25 AM
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LOL I know I didn’t know how to react! I was only 18 but now I’d definitely turn around and leave the restaurant...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:25 AM
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I’m tied for 2 worst dates... First story: Dating a guy for a couple months and I organize a date to a lantern festival at a lake. I paid for all of it as a surprise and when we get there all he does is sit on his phone and complain about how stupid it is. When we decorate our lanterns he just draws videogame stuff on it, not even things related to our relationship...I felt crushed that he didn’t find it romantic in the slightest and that I put so much effort in. Probably the most romantic date …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:59 PM
2

This is idiotic...just because they saw one reddit post that made them feel dehumanized doesn’t mean men are institutionally dehumanized. Newsflash: we’re living in a patriarchal world, where the dehumanization of women is institutionalized whereas men actively benefit from it. This is why misogyny is a bigger issue than misandry. A man has no reason to feel oppressed by a misandrist on the street because this whole world would back them up anyway, and statistically they aren’t even in physical …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:19 AM
19

Ex contacted me through my school provided email after I blocked him on everything else. It weirded me out because our school emails are our initials with a few completely random numbers. Not sure how he found it because it’s private. He sent a giant apology paragraph and left his phone number at the end in case I ‘wanted to talk’. Somehow, on a campus with 50,000 students, he found me on the first day of classes within an hour to ask if I got his email lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:55 AM
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I always read that as them sounding bitter from a past breakup lol! We’ve all seen: ‘5’10 because APPARENTLY that matters to some of y’all...’ ‘I’m not here to play MinD gAmeS’ and they’re so ugly it’s clear it was one specific woman that rejected them so now they’re traumatized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:39 AM
21

Ex bf claimed that college wasn’t for him etc. yet one day lashed out in jealousy that I was attending college and not him. He blamed it on me being white and spoiled and having the money to, but I was pulling my own loans and paying for my own apartment and everything by working my ass off. I understand that the accumulation of wealth in white families makes it easier to be a 2nd/3rd gen college student but he was SO stupid that I don’t think he could’ve even explained why he thought what he th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:32 AM
2

Sounds like he doesn’t know what he wants (changes depending on the day) or is reeling you in just enough on purpose to make you try harder? Even though it hurts, seems like too much effort...he’s only thinking of himself. LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:47 AM
2

Ew this is definitely getting retweeted onto bdsm Twitter lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:42 AM
1

This has got to be the most depraved comment I’ve heard in a while. She just gave birth? The miracle called LIFE?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:33 AM
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Okay and I’m my own person and will break up with him if he does not meet my requirements. Next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:25 AM
14

I’m sorry so many people have made your introversion out to be a character flaw?? It’s difficult for me as well to pursue relationships because I feel like they don’t know what they’re actually getting. Obviously we don’t completely lack social skills so we seem appealing on the outside, but then we aren’t the perfect little hallmark party planning girl next door they envisioned. But why should we be insecure about our introversion? Wouldn’t it be hell to date an extroverted man who drags you ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:18 AM
3

Just a little over a year and so am I hahahah! Yeah it’s such a terrible feeling!!! And just plain bizarre, standing there thinking did this really just happen to ME?? Never again for sure lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:46 AM
5

I was in Vegas last summer with my ex. It was for a wedding and his friends tagged along. One of them brought their girlfriend who was the whole enchilada- tall, beautiful red hair and could speak German. I knew she was his type because he always talked about how he preferred red hair and they are all renfest nerds so German is pretty cool. Anyways he was checking her out the whole time, mirroring her body language, and walking with her instead of me even though I barely know anyone else and was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:57 AM
1

What he couldn’t even intricately weave it in time? Christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:52 AM
4

Lol a list of situations to see a man in before you’re too deep into the relationship: Grocery shopping, poor dining experience, waiting in a long line, DRIVING, travel, and how they talk to someone with a language barrier. So far they’ve all failed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:41 AM
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It’s really difficult to figure this out in a subtle way, even more so if it’s a guy you just met. Unfortunately you might have to waste a good amount of time before you can do what I do and simply feign curiosity by asking ‘is it normal for a guy to known pornstars by name?’. I reserve this for if I’m beginning to get the feeling that they’re pornsick but need more confirmation before ending it. Clearly, I am not master of subterfuge and every guys answer so far has crushed my hopeless romantic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:27 PM
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I always thought it was a good sign when they chime in with mistreatment or women they’ve witnessed themselves in the past because that’s how someone who actually agrees with you would continue to elaborate on the topic. Or a responses along the lines of ‘it’s terrible that so many women have suffered at the hands of the men in their lives’ / ‘domestic violence towards women shouldn’t be ignored - the statistics are shocking’ etc. because they didn’t jump to defend men but sympathized with women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:12 PM
26

Can people stop sexualizing animal behavior like I’m worried if they have any damn pets lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:26 PM
242

Projecting and gaslighting since the beginning of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:34 PM
6

They just can’t stand not being relevant to something for a single day can they. I can already picture the tweets saying ‘don’t forget the dads who raised these women’ 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 05:26 AM
3

It is very scary. My mind can’t make sense of all of the contradictions I’ve witnessed. I feel as if I don’t want to date anymore either because I’ll never truly know what a man is like inside. I think it’ll be good for you to distance yourself from the dating scene and continue therapy...that all still means you’re putting in effort even if you feel like an emotional mess. He sounds stupid and that doesn’t even sound like fun so don’t worry he just wants to be surrounded by people who worship h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:09 AM
4

Thanks for this post. I’m a psychology student and was seriously considering this guy I was texting is a narc but thought I was jumping the gun. This list is spot on. I’m always analyzing people and I can’t find any answers for this idiot. But now I feel a little better that maybe the answers won’t be found because he’s a narc and trying to confuse me to feel powerful. Idk why I attract narcissists but I wish they didn’t always trick me so easily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:30 AM
20

He was complaining about international women’s day and said it’s not fair there’s no male equivalent. I googled it and showed him that there was 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:21 AM
7

Thanks I actually needed this lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:16 AM
14

Why can’t men just act like birds when courting women and be done with this shit. There’s so much risk in it for women to go on dates (bad sex, rape, pregnancy) that we actually need to be impressed enough to risk it in a sense. It’s THEIR job to prove themselves worthy of our time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:14 AM
1

If you’re like me and paranoid up until your period because sex education scarred you, you could plan to have sex like a day or two before your period so you have peace of mind. Of course use some form of BC and a condom but that’s already been mentioned. And only date guys who are 100% on board with your contraception methods and understand the risk of pregnancy. Edit: I say do it before your period simply for peace of mind + contraceptives. Never let a dude finish in you EVER unless you’re PLA…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:08 AM
3

LOL that is...so bizarre. How’s he know the kids won’t end up being YOUR mini army first of all hahahaha and idk how I nailed it probably experience unfortunately! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:38 PM
23

‘Everything we have’ LOL I guess the hot guy I see at the drive thru screen at the bank and I have also shared a long history. Who knew?! He sounds super insecure to cling to you right away and that level of over sharing is uncomfortable for most people so he clearly lacks social skills. I was thinking the baby picture thing could’ve been a psychological tactic but he actually just seems like a self-obsessed weirdo. This is the kind of man that after dating for one (1) year proposes marriage, cu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:16 PM
6

Wtf? Do they have no pride as a man? Chivalry is truly dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:04 PM
1

LOL 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:51 PM
3

I know ): I’m not going to risk my own health and it’s really unattractive he will risk his so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:55 PM
3

LOL what a dramatic way for men to say they basically have no goals or direction in life if one person is keeping them on a leash? They out themselves 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:52 PM
4

That’s so wild I really don’t understand their fascination with fast cars lmao!! And yeah when I confronted him about the snapchats I wasn’t like mad MAD but like concerned and confused. Yet he still answered with ‘obviously I’m fine’ ‘yeah well nothing happened’. Ok you obstinate manchild. Thanks I was worried a phone call itself would not be mature but it isn’t right to drag things out either and I can still maturely end it! Then he can drive his fast cars through fires with out me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:46 PM
7

Yeah I didn’t think about that?? Wtf would his mom think if she saw his story that’s even more stress for her to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:35 PM
5

LOL yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:34 PM
3

That’s so strange to not message you for weeks at a time like are you stranded in a jungle lol ?? He deserved breakup over text for that. And I’m sorry that happened with the second guy!! I’m so worried about my sister when it comes to dating because of her own panic attacks and mental health so I try to sprinkle in FDS when we talk 😭 And yesss I’m like why do I get so concerned and overthink a relationship for 4 months longer than necessary when I should’ve just ended it. Stress - gone. Time - …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:34 PM
89

Lollll just imagining her lifting his shirt for photos to ask people online about it is so funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:36 AM
2

Sounds like he just said that because he’s worried they won’t stay ‘perky’ forever. His priorities aren’t straight. Tell him well I could be dead in a ditch but at least my boobs would meet your standards then? Sounds like an idiot I’d be mad too! I’m sorry he has caused pain with this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:49 AM
2

Never heard of that but probably, I just found the song about it weird in itself. And if he didn’t even know the reason again why did he find it so amusing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:28 PM
6

Ok so this is really specific but I see this a lot. Music and social media we consume sometimes has a ‘deeper meaning’ to it or it’s just some kind of sarcastic joke, but scrotes don’t always understand it and just parrot that fact that it’s ‘irony/a joke’ to get away with laughing at it even if they can’t explain it to you themselves! Example: ex listened to Eminem and one song had a line about ‘pissing on Fergie’. I was disgusted because who even writes that in a song. He got defensive saying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:03 PM
18

‘It’s a matter of two’ parents, parental figures, good friends, therapists, teachers....there are support systems out there that don’t have to be your gf to help you make a change. So lazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:47 PM
5

This is a tough one because as much as we may want pedophiles to spontaneously drop dead, there was no reason for a vigilante group to torture someone when they would’ve had due process anyway. Especially if the vigilante group is men, we shouldn’t be encouraging men to go rogue and commit violent acts. I can see why you would be worried though because I would be annoyed too. Why shouldn’t a pedophile die honestly? Who cares? Is he more outraged at a guilty pedophile’s death than an innocent chi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:08 PM
4

He’s not even upset she left him but would rather make sure he isn’t the asshole according to a bunch of random redditors. You can tell his priorities are straight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:47 AM
9

I have a few theories: they’re young and still developing a sense of humor. Most of it is for shock value and they get the biggest response but least amount of backlash by being sexist rather than racist or homophobic, which is way more likely to get you ‘canceled’. Another is that now that the internet has been around a while, there’s loads of proof you can do and say nearly anything without repercussions if you maintain your anonymity to a degree. So now they’re just going even more wild becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:02 PM
23

A lot of these good qualities are the bare minimum you should require so his bad studying and gaming habits don’t cancel out just because he’s empathetic you know? I would recommend you stop listening to his sob story of bad grades. Simply say ‘then study more, it’s that simple’ and if he doesn’t do it then I think that’s indicative of what the future will be like with ANY adult thing. Bills, taxes, moving, CHILDREN...will all be a pain if he has no self-discipline, no drive, no ambition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 04:43 AM
6

LOL she took action
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:54 PM
16

Why can’t they objectively recognize someone is beautiful even if they don’t want to fuck them? Like I’m sure this scrote would beg on his knees for even a glance from any of these ladies but attractiveness isn’t simply ‘I want to fuck them’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:00 PM
50

When I was younger I used to buy into the ‘well it’s not REAL rape because xyz....’ argument. I used to think rape was exclusively violent but it comes in many forms that we’re brainwashed to think are normal. It also says a lot that men claim that women should just be careful 24/7 wherever they are because a rapist could be in the shadows (and now it’s our fault again of course for leaving the house) but they’ve clearly accepted that rape is so common among men there’s nothing that can be done …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:57 PM
98

he’s extra pornsick if he capitalized backshots lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:10 PM
5

Best unprotected sex ever ............ it’s too early for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:21 PM
8

Lol I always wonder HOW I even end up attracted to LVM when I consider natural selection like wtf this was never going to benefit the gene pool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:57 PM
12

They’re literally so stupid lmao. Misandry is only a word used to gaslight us at this point. We are not in a matriarchy where misandry has been institutionalized. They just love hypothetical scenarios where they’re the victim instead of women. Maybe womb envy is a real thing 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 11:19 PM
20

I feel the exact same way. I’m surrounded by women at work who tell me they don’t mind their bf’s looking at ig models and they go to strip clubs and brag about threesomes w their man. But when I express that I personally wouldn’t like that in my relationship they say that it makes women look insecure and ‘confidence is sexy’ and brainwashed bullshit like that. They also pull the ‘well I’m bisexual card’. That doesn’t mean its okay for men to leer at other women. They’re still creeping other wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 11:07 PM
23

I think about this a lot too. Specifically in the US Islam is a touchy subject because of hates crimes against immigrants from the Middle East like being called a terrorist, even if they were born here and don’t associate with the values. So now people try to make up for that by saying we shouldn’t disrespect their religion in any way because it’s racist, but a religion isn’t race, it’s a belief system that’s dominant in the area. So now, if we try to talk about Islam or something being sexist i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:41 PM
62

LOL I’m dyiiing what next we’re a terrorist group for not wanting abusive men in our lives?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:33 PM
10

Imagine waking up and seeing your partner posted this shit nooooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:50 AM
32

Lol they’ll put a mask on for 3 months then call us psycho ex’s when we finally leave 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:52 PM
6

You should probably save what you see to aid your mom in court in the future. Otherwise no need to traumatize yourself more. If you’re of age, start talking to your mom about moving out together. Let someone outside the house like a friend know what’s up if you ever decide to confront your dad or leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:36 PM
7

lmaoo I know like ok sorry didn’t know you had a phd in zoology, specializing in men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:10 AM
12

I like how she explained this as if she has been researching this for years and just found the answer through quora or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:44 AM
10

So he went to sleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:39 AM
11

I interpreted this more as breaking the rules that socialization has taught women they must adhere to. We are taught to be caregivers and emotional support dogs to men and children. Women also tend to get more invested in relationships that require too much energy from them that they feel like they have no control of their personal life. They have become an extension of their boyfriend/husband. Instead, break these rules and care about yourself as an individual more than as an extension to your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:57 PM
70

There’s like a million fun things to do in the pool that don’t require men to act like a literal dog asserting their dominance...next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:43 PM
2

Well that’s disturbing he’s able to fake it that much or has no idea why reaching out to you would hurt his wife?! It can’t be an open marriage because he lied about being married LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:17 PM
4

WTF hahahaha he really thought he could Also why is he picking up girls he knew from primary school weirdo 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:32 PM
8

They’re so in denial of their own body language too! Point it out and they’ll say you over analyze things. Soooo body language hasn’t been used to communicate emotions and intentions since the beginning of time, even before actual language? Okay Kyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 07:11 PM
8

Looks like it hahaaha although that might just be because of the recent twitter trend of making a FAKE mug shot (not sure why they would do that)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:32 PM
42

Lol their social media for the most part but at least in my state most charges are in the public records online. I remember finding out half my coworkers had a DUI and one had a rape conviction 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:12 AM
41

Lol at least he committed to one thing: cheating 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:19 AM
6

How recent exactly? It seems weird that he’s venting to you about his ex when they’re divorced and done with. And telling you about his parents’ domestic violence issues it a little bit of over sharing I would say. What was the point of him telling you if it ‘isn’t like that’? I would say just pay attention to the exact wording he uses when describing his ex’s role in the relationship. The way he speaks about her will tell you if he’s like his dad or not eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:11 AM
9

Definitely when I saw my ex’s sister in-law spoon feed him some baked potato across the table. After I had offered to share my food and he declined. So I was weirded out lol he was 20 and she was in her 30s. That’s even weird to see real couples do in public..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:53 AM
11

Everything in life is easier said than done. Try to forgive yourself for the two years you feel like you wasted and start putting a plan in action to not waste another day! If there’s no end in sight with this man, then don’t give him anything else. At least it was only two years, and you’re not stuck in a marriage like he is. This sounds like it’s agitating for you daily but I guarantee you it will feel freeing. Breakups are a strange mixture of grief and new beginnings, so whenever I end somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:08 AM
34

Lol ugh I once spent nearly $200 on my first renaissance festival outfit to impress my new bf at the time and he never once complimented it even when I asked him how he liked it. If it was ‘just ok’ then why did nearly every man in the vicinity hit on me? Guess that means my outfit was downright fabulous if he had to neg THAT lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:26 AM
176

Um it’s called a therapist? Get one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:47 PM
11

Great, an infographic on how to be a pickmeisha by a mommymeisha just what we needed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:54 AM
1

LOL exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:03 PM
3

I’ve been reading and drawing so much more and it’s nice having a quiet room to myself. I also started recording my art for YouTube videos. Barely studying my French but that’s a miracle in itself. Thankfully I mastered being ok with being alone way before quarantine 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:11 AM
9

I think the guy is making fun of girls for feeling xyz during quarantine cause she’s on the phone looking frustrated? Idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:23 AM
3

Omg I know they’re obsessed when there’s one (1) story that flips the narrative so they can be the victim. NEWSFLASH the person wrongly convicted was the victim, not all the males in the world, because women don’t lie and accuse as much as men rape and pillage. It’s like they’re scrambling for a crumb of proof that it’s ‘not all men’ LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:51 AM
2

I get that we’re living in a time when a lot of statements need proof or receipts but like...experience to some degree is STILL proof, it’s just up to the person listening to believe it. I’m sick of men who say it’s just my experience or I’m surrounded by that type of guy and that’s not all men. WTF? It still HAPPENED. Men online literally admit to men being this shitty and use it to their leverage saying ‘I’m not like that’ I’ll take my experience and run thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:10 PM
7

I think he’s being sensitive. Even a child is taught to clean up crumbs after themselves. It is his house too so shouldn’t he want it looking nice? My mom and I are perfectionists as well and it drives us crazy for things to be out of place, so you’re certainly not alone in that. Also, it’s unnecessary for him to compare himself to those other loser husbands. Tell him you wouldn’t find yourself married to one like that anyways so enough of the hypothetical scenarios. The fact of the matter is th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:35 AM
1

While there’s plenty of honest to god momma’s boys described above in the comments, I feel like if he labels himself that it might be a shitty way of him trying to convince you that because he respects his mom = he respects women? Not sure why a guy would call himself a momma’s boy, it’s human nature to love your parents, crave their acceptance, and want to do what your parents ask of you within reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:16 AM
1

This was painful to read I love games like this noooooooooo he’d be gone in 3 seconds flat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:42 AM
23

I had a long distance bf in high school Jack off over Skype when I was crying about something unrelated to him Needless to say we’re not dating anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:01 PM
3

Lmfaooo I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:56 PM
3

‘I chose you’ lmao. Reminds me of my friend from high school who got mad at her bf for having megan fox as his screensaver and he said she didn’t have to worry because he picked her. She responded saying that megan fox doesn’t even want YOU what makes you think she’d pick you back 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:29 AM
3

I’m 21 and regret every relationship and sexual encounter I’ve had except for my current bf, who is 25 and so far a HVM. 21 year old men are not that different from 18 year old men except now they’re wasting money on alcohol AND weed. These are things I watch out for/basically deal breakers and I consider LVM: No smoking, can barely handle their finances when it comes to weed much less make a grilled cheese with their adulting skills. If they interrupt you frequently, don’t waste your time, it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 06:26 AM
0

You must fit my exact description of who I would NOT want to match with if me having preferences makes me ugly lmaoo incel
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:36 AM
1

I’m picky bc I get to choose who I have sex with? LOL
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:29 AM
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There’s a lot of guys I would swipe right on or even ‘settle’ for, but some of these guys’ photos really put me off. Examples: stop putting dead animals you just hunted in the photo. Stop putting a pic of you with 2 hooters girls or half a sorority on Halloween. Stop putting a photo of you next to your hotter friend. If you cover any part of you with your phone in the photo, I’m going to assume you’re hiding something you’re insecure about so I swipe left. If your photos aren’t up to date and yo…
/r/seduction08/11/19 04:59 AM
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