I’ve been dating my bf for 6 months now and it’s been nice but I always had a feeling it would be temporary. Now I’m sure...

2 months ago we became long distance when he moved states for a job opportunity. It’s all male colleagues and I knew they’d probably drink but dear god it’s worse. I will find out through his Snapchat story and it’s infuriating. They all have sports cars and post Snapchats speeding down the highway at like midnight and one time he was skateboarding while hanging onto the tail of the car drunk on an actual road at like 4 am. Wtf?! I tell him it’s unsafe but whatever. Don’t get arrested. Well just now I see he posted on his story 22 hours ago - he witnessed an actual riot and 2 fires, one was a bank fire and people apparently went in to rob it! He’s standing around random people which is already unsafe because of coronavirus and he’s in a city where it was really really bad. Again this is at like midnight. I ask him why the hell didn’t he bother to mention this when I asked about his day lmfao. That’s like crazy. He says it was ‘because I was asleep’ and he also mentions to me police were there shooting rubber bullets. And my main thing with all of this is what if something HAPPENED I would never know, and worse, I’m finding out through your Snapchat story. He doesn’t seem to get it and just said ‘well obviously I’m fine’.

But I guess now I have the perfect bridge to tell him I’m not traveling to see him. I told him before he left I wasn’t going to because of coronavirus but he keeps pushing me which is irritating. I want to break up because his attitude with this group of guys is really unattractive and I’m getting bored. Is it wrong to break up over the phone lmao??

Anyways this has always been the worst part of dating for me, is seeing how they act with their friend group or other groups of men. They completely change and it’s soooo unattractive.....So yeah I’m going to go to a god damn library to snag a quiet gentleman after coronavirus blows over lol. No more OLD for me.

TL;DR male lacks self-preservation instincts. Nothing new