I’m sure this is a common feeling and that some of you ladies have been here before, but I sometimes struggle to bite the bullet and block NVM/LVM from my past because I feel like I’m closing the door on the possibility of getting closure/an apology, seeing what they’re up to, etc. Rejection is difficult and sometimes we keep these scrotes on social media desperately hoping we’ll find or get the answers on why they treated us the way they did.

Well here’s the answer: they treated you badly because they’re LV, and seeking answers is futile because you’re inherently better than them and you would have to be on their level to understand. Don’t drive yourself crazy trying to stoop down to that level.

I took the plunge this weekend and blocked/deleted all scrotes from my past off any platform I had them on. And let me tell you, it felt amazing. I didn’t expect to feel so free. I’m free from checking up on them, they no longer have access to me, I’ll never have to worry about them throwing me off by messaging me, I have no way to be affected by what they’re doing because I no longer can see, etc. There’s so much power in blocking, deleting, and never looking back.

I wanted to share because I’m not sure if this specific sentiment has been talked about on here before, and to help any of you ladies out there who are feeling the same. Trust me, delete that ex or old situationship, it feels 100x better than it feels scary right now.