Hi Queens!

(Posting on my secondary in case this stalker finds me)

Lately I've been dealing with a stray that my stupid ass swiped right on (I was lonely, and still a bit pickmeisha). In the beginning it was harmless fun, and I quite liked him. I made myself unavailable to other men and threw away the good teachings of this community, thinking "surely this guy is different".

Two months later and his life had slowly gone downhill. He's having trouble left and right, and I actually believed he was innocent - that somehow he's been very unfortunate. I tried helping, listening, caring and all that, but this dude had a tendency to go from sad to fuckboy faster than lightning.

He frequently said mean things to me and hid behind "it's a JOKE" whenever I'd calmly explain why that wasn't funny.

Once while facetiming he kept asking me to flash my boobs at him. He was drinking with his friends, and I said firmly 'no' several times before hanging up.

He then called me crazy for being annoyed.

Yep. Women that demand respect are apparently 'crazy', and when I brought it up the next day he got hysterical, saying I was being dramatic - ignoring the fact that he's the one shouting, while I'm calmly seeking an apology.

He called me a "feminist idiot piece of shit" for getting upset that he tried to force himself on me.

It's disgusting. But what's even more disgusting is the fact that I didn't block sooner, and now that I have he's emailing me, calling me a bad person - and every other trick in the book trying to manipulate me to answer him. (Anyone know how to block an email adress?)

Anyways, I'm done. I always seem to find LVM whenever I decide to open myself up for romance, and even though OLD isn't the best place to find love - I have found some pretty cool people there that are now my friends.

Hope this ramble made sense. I just needed to get it all out during my lunch break so I could keep focusing on work - atleast my carreer reflects back at me the care and love I put into it.