So on my way home from my weekly hobby, a radio host is talking about how men feel about being sole providers. Wouldn't you know that they found men are uncomfortable being the sole breadwinner BUT they are also uncomfortable when the woman is the sole breadwinner LOL. They felt stressed when paying everything and emasculated when women paid more than them. The host said their "sweet spot" was when the woman paid at least 40% of the bills. That's where men felt "satisfied". Are we surprised at all?

Also, my weekly hobby has men and women. Usually men don't bother me too much. Tonight though, the most annoying one comes by and says "you should smile more". Ladies, I rolled my eyes and bitch-faced so hard that he took a step back and didn't even look at me the rest of the night. This isn't a smiling competition. It takes concentration not to hurt yourself and let someone else hurt you. The next guy tells me TWICE that I would be better if I adjusted my equipment. FIRST OF ALL, I have never met that guy. Y'all, I'm still learning. I was already working with some new equipment that I was getting used to and haven't practiced in a couple weeks. And I was feeling especially good tonight and felt I was doing really well. Telling me I could be better if I adjusted my equipment LIKE AN EXPERT was the same as telling me I looked terrible out there. Why was he watching me anyway? This hobby isn't competitive at all. It's for fun. The second time he said it I was directly nasty to him. I'm so f n tired of men!!!