Yep, that's me. I have ZERO experience - no dates, never even looked at a woman naked in person. The reasons are procrastination and social anxiety and things of that nature. I'm not attractive but not that bad; I have the figure of a dissipated, ugly Spider-Man. If I made a real effort, I probably could get at least one date.
I don't care, though. For the past few years I have been trying to lose my virginity using online ads advertising myself as a virgin, just to have done it. Yes, some women are into this idea. I make it clear I'm not looking for a relationship, and perhaps that has hampered my chance at success. Again, I don't care. I'd like to have one nice time with a woman, then put it behind me. I was very close earlier this year, but it's a long story why it didn't happen.
I do realize that my libido is very low, perhaps unnaturally so, and that could be a big source of my lack of interest. However, in general I'm just not . . . fucking . . . interested. I've procrastinated too much in life and am at sort of a weird spot. The idea of being beholden to a woman has never been, and certainly at this stage is not, something I want.
The idea of MGTOW is something I heard of a couple years ago, and I guess I sort of fit it. Pairing yourself up, being beholden to what someone else wants, is just not appealing. As is said, the risk/reward disparity is just too great. What is a man's reward today? He gets into a relationship to have sex, and after a few times it's old hat, but he stays on. Then he makes the mistake of impregnating the woman, she gets what she really wants (the kid) and he is stuck paying for it. Then he gets spit on by a society where the loudest voices (that is, enabled to be the loudest by fear, but not the majority) are feminist fucks. I'll pass.
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