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[–]Fuxk1n87 points88 points89 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Fuck the truth hurts. I cannot spend the rest of my life checking on someone to make sure they are still content when they don't even know what would make them happy. It takes an incredible about of mental effort to constantly have to check on someone's mental state, one moment of silence from them can lead to a fucking nightmare of a day/week. I now view myself like a video game with the health bar as a patience bar of being able to handle women. They have eroded that health bar now and it does not recharge itself anymore. I feel it's a shame right now. But I'll eventually be alright.
[–]Diogeneplz120 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It really woundnt be a big deal if it was common knowledge and we weren’t lied to or deluding ourselves our whole lives
[–]Fuxk1n5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]DacoLordo11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I cannot spend the rest of my life checking on someone to make sure they are still content when they don't even know what would make them happy. It takes an incredible about of mental effort to constantly have to check on someone's mental state, one moment of silence from them can lead to a fucking nightmare of a day/week
I have lived this myself in basically every relationship, thanks for sharing. You are not alone. It is definitely a nightmare. Read this if you have time, the mindset it promotes helped me a lot.
https://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-fuck
I'd like to say that finding the "right" woman fixes it. My best friend tries to tell me that all the time. I don't think that's true. All women have that in their nature. Hell my parents have been married 50 years and my mom can be annoying as fuck every day. She's still a responsible amazing parent and wife with her core duties, but goddamn if you don't learn to tune out those temper tantrums you're done for. The whole reason they have lasted so long is my dad basically doesn't give a fuck about any of the small emotional bullshit unless it's something serious. Hope that helps
[–]Fuxk1n2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree completely with everything you said. My mother is the exact nightmare. But it's thought me not to let anything slip, I can smell any bullshit before they even know they are doing it. I haven't learned to tune it out I snap. I tried the whole not giving a fuck, it's my natural state with women and it works excellently but when I spend 3+ years with women I start giving a shit about them and it ruins everything. Happens every time. I can't fight my nature at this stage. It's best to just know who I am as a person as I have tried in multiple relationships to change it but it keeps happening. I wrote in another post when I am a degenerate scumbag with no morals women are obsessed with me then I try to live my life better be a man with morals be the man that would be a good father or person but women fucking despise that and leave. It's crazy when I am a horrible human being they won't leave me alone when I try to become a functioning moral member of society they fucking can't stand me. It really is something to see. I'll never be beta provider women know that with me but I think that when I want to be a moral man they think they have something to do with it and think they changed me so game over. No idea really probably gonna stay mgtow, get my cabin here and a house in Spain then worry about women. They've taken enough of my time I should have been focusing on money the whole time.
[–]bmoney68977 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It gets better with time, like most things. The freedom on the other side dramatically outweighs any regret for the world you feel at this time. Leave them to rot in their own shit, they technically asked for this. Remember that.
[–]Fuxk1n0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hope so bro.
[–]strongandhappy51 points52 points53 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This guy's got it all wrong, he still thinks they need a reason before they'll drop you.
[–]Diogeneplz116 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A feeling is all it takes
[–]pull_a_sickie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or a mood, or emotions.....
[–]magicmikefx10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even another man's attention
[–]chakamaki2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely true
[–][deleted] 44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I think this single fact is what really keeps me MGTOW. No matter what thoughts you think, who you are, where you're from, what you want, dreams you have, none of that matters. Only one thing matters to every last female on this planet:
What you can do, and how long you can do it for her exclusive benefit
[–]ihnrva36 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"What have you done for me, lately?" -Every woman ever...
[–]disayle323 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Throw that question right back at them and watch their heads explode.
[–]ihnrva0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They will call you an incel, when you say this, even after you hate screw them.
[–]chakamaki8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes : https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eafjq6/to_get_exactly_what_you_want_out_of_dating_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
[–]thisisnotreal66627 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Always in search of the bigger better deal.
[–]Cantcuckthiss22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The day my ex figured out id never marry her she never spoke to me again, cant get her to if i tried, and i have (literally out of we were together for 8 years and were friends, tied our families, didn’t matter. My aunt died 6 months after she left, and she knew this was coming, spent a solid 6-7 xmas at my aunts, nothing, no comunication.) had new bf 2 months later, had the simp buy a house with her after dating 1.5 years, im sure they will be married soon enough. I loved her, still do, but never trusted her enough to marry her and the way she uses this guy and the way she went ice cold like i never existed as soon as she knew shed never get more from me than a loving boyfriend shows me i was 100% correct not to trust her.
In a similar situation I just cut contact, it's too emotionally draining hearing or seeing all the shit you're saying. She got enough of my energy for the 5 years together.
[–]quickGunShoot20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Truth is what it is. You can accept it or live a lie” -Miyamoto Musashi
[–]MTG_Enhancer11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Facts
[–]chakamaki4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Example: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eafjq6/to_get_exactly_what_you_want_out_of_dating_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
[–]Rodion-Raskolnikov3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I found this out the hard way a few times. It’s true. Your looks can slide a bit as you age, but If your social status and ability to provide resources falls, then she’s on the look out to monkey branch to the next guy.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% agree. That's why not validating yourself by using a female is crucial for men.
[–]oceansarevast1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wished I had accepted these facts as a teenager. Would have saved me a lot of trouble.
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