Advice if possible.

darkmanilluminate · 2018-08-09T18:32:14+00:00

You're both young, & you're correct to realize you haven't even grown into yourself fully. Most neurologists agree the brain doesn't fully develop until the mid-20s, so you have some years to go.

1 piece of advice, be responsible for your own birth control at ALL TIMES. Do not get shackled into a LTR with this girl or any other because of a child.

2 you are too young to make any kind of formal commitment to this relationship. So is she. You both have a lot of growing to do. And statistically, the odds you'll stay together long term are low. She will be looking at her options. You should, as well. Remember you are the prize.

I do think the most direct way to learn about the female nature is by experiencing it directly, but you need to recognize that you are playing with fire and act accordingly.

I have a son your same age. Good luck.

AntiRegios · 2018-08-09T18:31:44+00:00

"You should stive to be the person who fits her like a glove" - some cuck or crazy bitch out there

My advice is kinda the opposite. She should fit your needs. You needa have YOUR goals. What are you trying to do? Be the top manager? Run your own business? Get a degree? Find out and focus on it. The right woman will fall in place and help you reach the goals you want. If she doesn't well then theres the door. Find out what you want. Tell her what you want. Ask her to support you while you try to achieve that. If she gets in the way then remove her. Thats what I feel going your own way is suppossed to be about. Do your thing. If you can get a girl to go along then good for you, if not then too bad, you dont need her. Also check out the sub mgtow2

JohnBravo9990 · 2018-08-09T18:28:56+00:00

She’s nice now because she hasn’t completely destroyed you yet. Once she knows she owns you the monster comes out to play

DarthSchadenfreude · 2018-08-09T19:21:36+00:00

You don't truly know a woman until you've:

a) seen the nude pictures she secretly sent to other guys while dating

b) smelled another dude's cum leaking out of her after she went out grocery shopping and came back with way too few groceries

c) met her in divorce court

I know my ex very well.

DarthSchadenfreude · 2018-08-09T19:23:03+00:00

My son is 20. Thank gods he is aware of the danger that women are.

Women are the destroy of dreams.

crityouallday · 2018-08-09T18:36:27+00:00

Happiness, success, and whatever bridges and houses you want to build how far you want to go is all you. Just be careful of how much time she can sap out of you trying to reach those goals. How fast the water can be muddied up. Lots of hobbies take a lot of time to commit to and lots og money. The two resources she will innately diversify in her image and not yours.

Elidios · 2018-08-09T19:24:49+00:00

Jesus that is just evil

Title	Advice if possible.
Author	Elidios
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	August 9, 2018 6:20 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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Comments

1 piece of advice, be responsible for your own birth control at ALL TIMES. Do not get shackled into a LTR with this girl or any other because of a child.

2 you are too young to make any kind of formal commitment to this relationship. So is she. You both have a lot of growing to do. And statistically, the odds you'll stay together long term are low. She will be looking at her options. You should, as well. Remember you are the prize.