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By all means please cross post back here when you start posting to r/deadbedrooms
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 10:17 PM
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Yup, this. I love being the “fun one” that all my friends want to hang out with. Sure sometimes their wives hate me, but then they’re also trying to flirt with me & see if they can set me up with some post wall hag they know. I play it for laughs & drive away chuckling
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 05:44 PM
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Fantastic post 👍🏻
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 05:38 PM
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Don’t sweat it, my man, not yours, just your turn. The toxic BPD stuff will poison you
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 01:41 AM
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Great sex, shitty everything else
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 01:32 AM
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Based bluesmen got the message to me
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 01:29 AM
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Indeed. Pretty soon you smell the rat
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 01:25 AM
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There’s a reason why in psychoanalysis the “therapist” sits behind & out of sight. So she doesn’t see the yawns & eyerolls
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 01:23 AM
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& either claim ignorance of the rules of the game to cover up their cheating, or complain that the game is rigged when their duplicity is exposed
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 10:54 PM
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Ouch
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 03:55 PM
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& you can say this right to her face, while there’s still time to avoid crashing the relationshit into the mountain, & she’ll look you in the eye and hold steady right into the cliff side
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 03:54 PM
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Every. Time.
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 03:50 PM
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You just have to look a little harder. There are still musicians making great, heartfelt music. Off the top of my head, I’d suggest you check out Ben Harper, BlackBerry Smoke, Tab Benoit, Marcus King. They’re not making “pop” music, but they are making great music
/r/MGTOW22/07/21 03:30 AM
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My ex sent me something several years after the divorce. It was a Shiva lingam her grandparents had picked up on a trip to India. They had wanted me to have it after they were gone; once they died, she sent it. Basically her way of reminding me, “You are a BIG DICK”. I display that stone proudly in my bachelor pad ;)
/r/MGTOW20/07/21 05:53 PM
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Then you have already spent more time with this thread than you would in just doing that.
/r/MGTOW20/07/21 05:49 PM
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You are dastardly. I salute you
/r/MGTOW19/07/21 10:25 PM
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Bullshit. The world is your oyster. Build on a good foundation and stay vigilant & engaged, lotsa opportunities for fun & adventure
/r/MGTOW17/07/21 04:54 PM
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Just saying, bud—it’s a worldwide brotherhood & not everyone Is fully conversant in English language grammar. Exhibit forebearance
/r/MGTOW17/07/21 03:37 PM
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Maybe try a slide?
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 05:53 PM
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Well you’ve got all the material you need for some gutbucket barroom originals! Axes make a way better harem than women. What’s your favorite guitar at the moment? Mine is a Epi Blueshawk
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 04:51 PM
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& for many women like this, divorce becomes the tool to wield to see if they can’t “make” a content man miserable. Whether it’s alimony rape (muh lifestyle requirements) or parental alienation, she’s not happy until he’s not happy.
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 11:02 PM
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Bingo
/r/MGTOW14/07/21 03:15 PM
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Spending as much time as possible in the wilderness. We are but one species in a wide web of vitality. Nature speaks to those who have ears to listen.
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 02:43 PM
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Quality
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 03:19 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dulce_et_Decorum_est
/r/MGTOW09/07/21 02:08 PM
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As a Tibetan once put it, “The bad news is you’re falling through space without a parachute. The good news is that there is no bottom.” Falling or flying, you decide…
/r/MGTOW06/07/21 04:05 PM
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A friend’s story: he’s repairing gutters on the 2nd story, house is built into a hill so kitchen is on the top story. The ladder he’s on slips and falls away, he’s able to grab onto the gutter, swing over to a nearby deck and thank his lucky stars he didn’t go down with the ladder. Wife watched the whole thing from the kitchen window. She comes out onto the deck & starts dressing him down for possibly messing up the gutter. They’re divorced now
/r/MGTOW05/07/21 07:06 PM
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One upside from my dating experience: way better bodies. Women who haven’t borne children can maintain slim & perky figures well past “wall” aging if they take good care of themselves.
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 06:23 PM
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Could not agree more heartily
/r/MGTOW01/07/21 05:48 AM
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Disappearance of empathy (or the camouflage that covered over an original void)
/r/MGTOW01/07/21 05:22 AM
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So unfortunate & surreal to watch this transformation occur in front of you.
/r/MGTOW01/07/21 05:20 AM
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Well done
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 08:53 PM
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My cure = sweat. Just back from a good loop now, in fact. But at my lowest low after cheating, mega-gaslighting, divorce & parental alienation, what got me through was walking or hiking long distances on nature trails. Improved my mood and exhausted me so I could bank good sleep. Hang tough, my friend, there’s better days before you
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 08:43 PM
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Respect
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 09:43 PM
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The response I love to this: “Oh, I’m currently in between disasters.”
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 09:21 PM
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It’s your risk/reward comfort level, my friend. Everything in your post screams I know exactly what to do, I just don’t want to do it. It’s very odd so few people, when offered the vision, are actually prepared to RISE
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 02:41 AM
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Exposing hypocrisy is free speech, as well
/r/MGTOW25/06/21 04:30 PM
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My favorite word: No.
/r/MGTOW24/06/21 08:17 PM
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I’m in a FWB & it has certain perks. I’m FIRE, she works. So that takes up a lot of her time. She works in a field of interest to me (hobby related) so I get to meet some smart people & learn about stuff I’m already interested in along the way. I’m snipped, so no baby traps. I have no illusions about unicorn oneitis or forever after, it’s one day at a time for as long as we both enjoy our times together. I’ve been married (once) & thru the divorce machine, & was monk mode for a couple of years. …
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 05:34 PM
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The hamstering… can’t help but chuckle!
/r/MGTOW20/06/21 04:04 PM
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As they say, be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. Intimacy with a woman is ALL of her insecurities & dissatisfactions being projected onto you to fix or swallow. Meanwhile, the companionship & reciprocity YOU want & are projecting are utterly foreign (& inconsequential) concepts to her.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 02:35 PM
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I’ve volunteered at an animal rescue when a huge batch of wolf hybrid pups came in. It was awesome
/r/MGTOW16/06/21 12:15 AM
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Travel doesn’t have to be for sport/show. Not sure what your hobbies are but you could look into things like river rafting trips, a guided camping experience, learning to hang glide, etc etc. there’s both the where you’re interested in going (beach, mountains) & the what you’d be interested in learning about/doing/stretching yourself
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 05:22 PM
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Check out The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer. Leans more eastern/yoga, but it’s a great read
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 05:12 PM
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It was a series rather than a film, but very cool premise & the lead (Tom Hardy) is either a dark triad or a MGTOW, you decide! It’s called “Taboo”
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 05:10 PM
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Condolences, brother, I understand this pain all too well. I’m still convinced being the best version of YOUR self is an indelible teaching that will be there for them if they ever recalibrate to look.
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 05:07 PM
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Great comment, champ! 🏆
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 05:03 PM
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Can relate, brother. My kids are young adults now but will always have to deal with the cognitive dissonance of knowing the narrative that comes out of her mouth is bs gaslighting. I try to continue to make myself available to them, but I refuse to engage with her since the last graduation.
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 03:50 PM
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Wild & free
/r/MGTOW10/06/21 11:12 PM
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Hence, “falling out of love”— I monkey branched & it’s because of you
/r/MGTOW10/06/21 11:07 PM
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Then they can discuss it for hours, seeking sympathy from their female friends or beta orbiters
/r/MGTOW10/06/21 11:04 PM
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“Either you die early a martyr, or live long enough to see yourself become the villain.” Embrace your dark side
/r/MGTOW09/06/21 04:26 PM
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If you struggle with the idea of seated meditation, either due to physiological limitations or ADHD etc, I’d recommend looking into iRest yoga nidra. Plenty of free YouTube videos, essentially they are guided relaxation meditations. The practices have been effective with veterans & others suffering PTSD symptoms (check out Warriors at Ease). Just another alternative
/r/MGTOW09/06/21 12:00 AM
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Based
/r/MGTOW05/06/21 05:35 PM
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A lot of people fall back into old (expired) relationships for the safety & comfort. Embrace the unknown, never look back, keep your vision honed on the future you desire for yourself. Women will present themselves. Repeatedly. Then it becomes a question of whether or not you choose to sacrifice your goals to sexuality & companionship. Choose wisely
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 06:11 PM
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Thank you. This is the content this sub needs and counsel you’re unlikely to find via any other media. Tip o’ the cap Edit: corrected
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 02:46 AM
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The only younger ones who hit me up are cashiers. I can’t help it it, my look kindof says sugar daddy. Not too old, but hints of grey, & not a clothes horse but I still dress neat. So I get these bored, plain 20 somethings in deadend retail jobs asking me “what I’m doing with the rest of my day,” etc. If that’s my market, I’m just as happy GMOW
/r/MGTOW31/05/21 04:51 PM
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Barrel on https://youtu.be/7GeVW7aVShY
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 06:35 PM
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Exactly. Yo trainwreck, this ain’t yo station, keep on choogaloogin
/r/MGTOW15/05/21 05:02 PM
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Preach
/r/MGTOW10/05/21 03:21 PM
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Accurate
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 04:12 PM
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I know the story, my man. It will take some time, but only you can set the limits on how far the good times ahead can go. Take care of yourself & keep seeking your best life!
/r/MGTOW22/04/21 12:47 AM
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The variance is easy: daddy issues
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 08:03 PM
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More like, “She’s not happy until you’re not happy.”
/r/MGTOW16/03/21 09:54 PM
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LOL!! W: “What’s missing?” Dick M: “Well, damn, look what I have!” Freud was based.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 03:52 PM
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“Infestation”
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 01:47 AM
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A serious drop in human population numbers might not be a bad thing at all. ‘Course who’s stepping up?
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 01:46 AM
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Based
/r/MGTOW11/10/20 04:21 AM
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& they’ll accuse you of having an affair b/c that’s the way they are thinking, but taking no responsibility for it, they project it onto you as they hit the door
/r/MGTOW10/10/20 09:17 PM
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Well said
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 03:27 PM
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PSA— there are 1000s of strays of virtually every breed in canine rescues & shelters. Save the life that will save you back.
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 04:58 AM
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Great post, my friend. Enjoy the days ahead. I’m about 6 years ahead of you, & I can tell you it only gets more chill AND more interesting as the days unfold. & I dig the username
/r/MGTOW05/10/20 03:49 PM
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Yeah, I have, too, but was it even that good? Hardly.
/r/MGTOW02/10/20 01:18 AM
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This should be pinned in the sidebar. Comprehensive overview.
/r/MGTOW01/10/20 06:53 PM
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Hang tough, brother. It is a difficult road, but there’s a whole new territory when you make it to the other side.
/r/MGTOW01/10/20 03:41 PM
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50s, made the move about 2 years ago
/r/MGTOW01/10/20 02:39 AM
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I discovered a passion & moved to a rural area to pursue it. Have a small house on a nice chunk of land and don’t really have to see anyone that I don’t want to. Connecting in with a larger community surrounding my interests, tho, & I have friends & family who come & visit occasionally & with whom I otherwise keep in touch. The woman scene is scarce and low return. A couple of exes hang around in the wings and contact me intermittently; I’m not a rude person by nature so I curve them rather than…
/r/MGTOW30/09/20 11:50 PM
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This place is here so that you can understand & assess the risks, not to tell you what you can or cannot do. Life is for the living, so love yours, but it sure doesn’t hurt to be informed.
/r/MGTOW30/09/20 03:34 PM
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Yo daddy was
/r/MGTOW29/09/20 05:32 AM
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Sometimes art cuts to the truth even more directly than logic.
/r/MGTOW29/09/20 04:03 AM
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Accurate
/r/MGTOW29/09/20 02:08 AM
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Constantine
/r/MGTOW29/09/20 01:51 AM
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To be fair, it’s the doorway for each of us into this world. But as Walter would say, “Smokey, yer entering a world of pain!”
/r/MGTOW29/09/20 01:46 AM
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Well, that’s a niche, whoring for the Savior
/r/MGTOW28/09/20 10:15 PM
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They’re just thoughts, don’t sweat it. The key is to en-joy your present life, knowing you’re in a good place pursuing happiness for yourself. When thoughts/feels arise about an ex, take 10 secs to wish them happiness on their journey, as well, & then let it go. As has been said, men don’t red pill each other, women do that for us. So offer a second of gratitude for the life lesson you received, for your current fortitude, and get back to kicking it!
/r/MGTOW28/09/20 07:55 PM
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Can they possibly even own how sexually frustrated they are? Babe, are you sure only one of those is gonna do the trick?
/r/MGTOW28/09/20 06:41 PM
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Word
/r/MGTOW28/09/20 03:29 PM
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I used to think penis envy was a joke. I was mistaken.
/r/MGTOW28/09/20 03:26 PM
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Can attest. Glad you are a fan of the Dead, my man, it was this exact track at my first show back in the 80s that flipped the switch & turned me on to them for good. Love Europe ‘72! I recall some of your trials from a while back so I’m glad it’s all in a great flow for you at present. If you’re looking for another fun “Sunday spin” I just acquired Nick Mason’s Saucerful of Secrets Live at the Roundhouse, a revisiting of the old Floyd material. It’s excellent. As for me, gonna breakfast to some …
/r/MGTOW27/09/20 04:01 PM
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I own it because the scenery of the Greek Isles is so stunning, but yeah the movie itself is filthy bad. A better choice for some fantastic European scenery and a lot of laughs is The Trip to Italy with Steve Coogan & Rob Brydon
/r/MGTOW27/09/20 03:53 PM
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Great line from a Ray Lamontagne song: “There's nothing in the world so sad as talking to a man who never knew his life was his for making.”
/r/MGTOW26/09/20 07:40 PM
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My solution is exploring the natural world. Humanity may be f*cked, but we’re not the only residents living on the blue marble. Snorkeling, sailing, hiking & camping all instill a sense of awe & wonder for me, & that’s enough to keep me going until I figure out where my “next time” is gonna be. & yeah, I’m FIRE
/r/MGTOW25/09/20 06:50 PM
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You seem to have everything else figured out, why bother crowdsourcing your sex life?
/r/MGTOW22/09/20 06:20 PM
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It ain’t advice, it’s an observation.
/r/MGTOW22/09/20 03:42 AM
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⬆️
/r/MGTOW22/09/20 02:34 AM
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Who cares?
/r/MGTOW21/09/20 10:38 PM
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Like, it doesn’t even cost shit. It is both irrational & mind boggling. Best to steer far clear
/r/MGTOW21/09/20 04:09 AM
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Enmity means you’re still being gamed by your own lust. Indifference and solicitude are the stepping stones to great things.
/r/MGTOW12/09/20 03:55 AM
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I lean toward experiences over material things, so it depends on your area/all the quarantine bs, but I’d go somewhere you’ve always wanted to for a long weekend and live it up. I did it twice during the divorce process—once to a beautiful old hotel in the mountains for a weekend, then I flew to Amsterdam & joined a buddy for a fantastic lost weekend. Post-divorce I packed it in and moved to my favorite spot in the US & restarted from ground zero.
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 11:59 PM
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It takes a lot of courage to short that circuitry. For most of us it was installed before we were even conscious of being an individual. I grew up (& did the “love thing” several times) before the internet age. I could never have imagined how common and typical the stories we see here every day are. I didn’t want to believe it. I assumed my experiences were anomalous, maybe even self-shamed that it was MY fault. In the end, only oneself can get oneself right. But the supportive “council” of r/MG…
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 10:31 PM
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Men are trained from an early age to sacrifice personal needs & desires for the greater good of the collective. Women learn to siphon the collective for their personal well being & self aggrandizement (&, worst of all, “entertainment”).
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 10:04 PM
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Have a wank. Then go out into nature somewhere where there are no other people. Sit down, close your eyes, breathe until you begin to touch in to the stillness. You don’t have to be uncomfortable, or make this super spiritual. It’s just about appreciating the movement of the natural world and the internal stillness & contentment. When you “know” that because, temporarily, you become that, when you open your eyes and return to your “regular” home & routine, ask yourself whether there is anything …
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 05:51 PM
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It’s competitive grievance oneupsmanship. No, no, you bigot, I am the most aggrieved!
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 04:34 AM
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So funny, this isn’t even an original title. Stieg Larsson wanted to call his “dragon tattoo” series of novels by this title, but was overruled (posthumously, maybe?) by editors. So this female author is literally cribbing the title of her book from a deceased male author. Color me shocked.
/r/MGTOW09/09/20 06:03 PM
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According to Briffault’s (which I have no reason to doubt) there’s little upside to option 2. Women’s love is conditional based on accessibility to resources or benefits, so they are essentially looking for serial monogamy—locking one man down and then continuing to look around for upgrades. So you’re always either the prisoner, or the prey. Plan accordingly.
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 04:53 AM
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So tell me, punk, are ya?
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 04:25 AM
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Breathe that free air, Neo!
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 11:18 PM
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She awoke a fucking monster. Right on, dude. That’s my handle—she plunged me into darkness but at the bottom I found Prometheus’ flame. I recollect I “was” that old guy, blue-pilled, faithful etc etc, but now things are entirely different. Now I’m occasionally scared of what I might be capable of... not violence, it never needs to get that far if you can see what’s coming in front of you. Ruthlessness.
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 09:38 PM
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Chick has already got thicc thighs... tick tock, tick tock 🕰
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 08:52 PM
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About as good as it gets in terms of seeing the unvarnished, seething ridiculousness of female entitlement. Poor babies...
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 06:35 PM
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It can become your reality. And... it doesn’t suck!
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 06:13 PM
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Fan fucking tastic. I know it’s not easy taking the high road, but I think in time the truth comes to light. Sounds like you have yourself together & a plan for you & your boys. Forward, brother
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 06:11 PM
1

Don’t know where you live but my recommendation is outdoor rec. getting out into the natural world & sweating/working muscles/triggering endorphins is the best mood adjustment I have experienced, and there is a true “high” that comes from putting in the work to access a majestic view. & they’re all over the place out there, you just have to muster the effort to get yourself there, whether solo or with a buddy or two
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 02:53 PM
2

Love classic blues—the 3 kings, muddy & the wolf, Ronnie Earl, Justin Johnson. Man’s music.
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 02:47 PM
4

Your post reminds me of this: I was wondering, as I drove to sign the divorce documents, just what this whole sh*tshow was going to feel like after I was done & on the other side. As I came out of the lawyer’s office after, I realized the sensation was exactly like stopping pounding my head against a brick wall—immense, overwhelming RELIEF. I’m glad you recognize your own self value & are beginning the process of reclaiming your own life. Enjoy the hell out of it!
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 02:44 PM
8

Congrats on seeing your freedom, being the freedom, expanding your freedom. I know the blue-pill mill sucks, but when you come out the other side you realize both how strong you are and can become, & also what an amazing opportunity it is to take your own life back & chart your own course. Enjoy the voyage!
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 02:37 PM
1

I just hope he doesn’t do a Dennis Quaid & wife another one up.
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 09:53 PM
35

Saw a quote recently that resonated with me, dunno who from: “Either you die a hero, or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain.” I’m willing to wear the villain’s mantle!
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 09:03 PM
10

In the frozen land of OF, they were forced to harlot themselves upon only Bella Thorne’s castaways… and there was much rejoicing
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 07:08 PM
6

Thanks, I was raised by one. Lemons into lemonade, gentlemen
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 06:16 PM
25

My endgame is to leave 3 kinds of legacies. One social, having provided certain services and support to improve the lives of people in my community. One monumental, I’m designing and building my own home that will be an expression of my values and vision. And last, one that’s a legacy for my estranged children. Regardless of what they have been led to believe about me or how they interpret my choices, it’s my intention to leave them with both some inspiration for life & some resources to begin t…
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 05:06 PM
2

How about a mandatory paternity test clause as part of this agreement?
/r/MGTOW27/08/20 11:21 PM
6

Inability to pair bond. What a black hole for a man
/r/MGTOW27/08/20 11:19 PM
5

These women are dolled up vermin
/r/MGTOW27/08/20 03:33 PM
22

Chameleon hamstering monkey with a dog... you got a whole petting zoo there, amigo!
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 10:56 PM
17

Here’s what I have learned after similar circumstances. If you aren’t the asshole, you ain’t doing it right! #cheersassholes
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 05:57 PM
7

Used to like Slate once upon a time. It has become so cucked I haven’t gone near it in years
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 12:32 AM
4

That’s right. It might appear to be about the quality of attention initially, but it never is. It’s about quantity. Most women (AWALT?) are gaping holes 🕳
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 10:42 PM
9

PSY cho
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 10:34 PM
6

You’re assessing the current state of your affairs accurately. In part I think it’s because of longterm female desperation, in part because of the shipwreck of feminism, in part because of the uncertainty of these current days, and in part because your disinterest must be palpable. They really are attention addicts. They need validation & juice all.the.time. What bugs me the most is I have this one married old gf who won’t stop texting me. It’s like you said—I wait days to reply and am on the ve…
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 10:30 PM
5

Ya don’t say?! Science!
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 03:36 PM
2

Hadn’t thought of it until this post, but Zen & the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance is an excellent MGTOW philosophical read. The search, the centerpoint that the entire narrative rotates around, is for a personal understanding of Quality. Worth your time.
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 02:40 PM
3

Thanks for this. Has been my approach, hoping in their 20s the tides may shift
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 01:39 PM
232

Also a dad. & divorced. Just warning you bud, you’d best gird your loins because nothing gets the women off more than turning their sons against the father. I’m sorry buddy to be the bearer of bad news. Do the best you can but don’t be surprised if all the crap generated over at her place rolls its way right to your front door. It’s a long road ahead.
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 02:20 AM
28

Much truth. It’s weird to have so many memories of intimacy & sharing that apparently I’m the only one to retain. Post-divorce it’s a whole different ball of wax & the “what-have-you-done-for-me-lately?” attitude can go right from ex spouse to children.
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 02:16 AM
2

Lucifer = light bringer
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 06:49 PM
3

Very instructive. Thanks for this
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 03:18 PM
23

Weren’t you just STUNNED when you first stumbled here to see how MANY men have been played by women’s duplicity? There was a time when I was sure it couldn’t happen to me, even though it actually already had a few times & I was just too blue pilled beta to even comprehend. Finding MGTOW was practically a genetic rearrangement
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 02:18 PM
45

Sweat & endorphins
/r/MGTOW22/08/20 05:56 PM
2

Resonates. Shamanic/mystic types have generally always been at the margins of human cultures, because their vision, while useful and meaning-full, is often “too much” for the everyday humanoid to process in the rounds of fulfilling Maslow’s initial needs. Every new day is a window of re-creation. Build your future.
/r/MGTOW22/08/20 02:40 PM
13

Tally ho, & a-questing he shall go!
/r/MGTOW21/08/20 10:42 PM
13

Is there a community college in your area? You can save yourself a lot of dough by knocking out a year or two of prerequisite type courses at a local cc
/r/MGTOW21/08/20 09:15 PM
1

Apathetic toward the opposite sex, therefore freed to pursue a host of other interests, many of which likely benefit humanity as a whole 🤙🏻
/r/MGTOW21/08/20 02:12 AM
3

Story as old as time, buddy
/r/MGTOW21/08/20 12:35 AM
6

Relationships that endure without state interference naturally become reciprocal; why else would you stick around if you felt you were being used? It’s only when there are enforced penalties if the relationship ends that the person in the advantageous position starts leveraging, & then it’s not a free relationship, it’s coercive. Value your freedom, & you will also as a side effect value the freedoms of others.
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 03:24 PM
20

Unsolved mysteries
/r/MGTOW19/08/20 12:32 AM
1

NC= Tradcon bastion
/r/MGTOW18/08/20 11:34 PM
3

The frustrating thing about this is the never-ending denial of accountability. It’s still always someone else who is to blame for the dire circumstances they find themselves in. Steer clear.
/r/MGTOW18/08/20 09:54 PM
35

I don’t even have to know where the way is leading... just that it’s MINE is good enough
/r/MGTOW18/08/20 06:10 PM
2

Navajoland. Enjoy the cruise
/r/MGTOW17/08/20 04:11 PM
4

Great post. You know where you’re headed. Keep your navigation true, your future’s bright.
/r/MGTOW17/08/20 03:26 PM
1

Vintage gold, baby, vintage gold
/r/MGTOW15/08/20 03:52 AM
107

YOU living the life you love is being your own best friend. Great post
/r/MGTOW13/08/20 01:40 PM
65

Dayum
/r/MGTOW08/08/20 09:07 PM
5

Acquire double slits, ignore bitches LOL
/r/MGTOW07/08/20 03:36 PM
6

Ight, it becomes meaningful as you fill your life with your meaning. We’re all artists, whether or not we’re aware of it
/r/MGTOW07/08/20 03:35 PM
3

Try disillusional!
/r/MGTOW07/08/20 01:46 AM
22

This is powerfully instructive of female nature. They will do anything to elude accountability.
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 07:33 PM
1

Outdoors. In a natural environment, ideally. You are meant to be here.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 04:53 PM
1

I would hike for miles & miles. At times the endorphins & the physical exhaustion were the only things that kept me going. Your body, your humanity are a gift. Don’t let this messed up world con you out of ‘em!
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 04:49 PM
3

Maybe not “Brave New World,” more like “Depraved New World”
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 05:23 AM
18

But now they’ll come running back to the evil patriarchy, wailing for white knights to defend them
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 12:44 AM
3

Penis envy. Sux to have to go without 🤙🏻
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 01:31 AM
3

It’s a hard rain gonna fall
/r/MGTOW22/07/20 05:37 PM
4

The late great Riley B King: “Nobody loves me but my mother... & she may be jiving, too!”
/r/MGTOW21/07/20 06:49 PM
0

I’m on board
/r/MGTOW20/07/20 01:24 AM
1

In Willie we trust!
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 02:56 PM
1

Every.Time.
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 02:56 PM
4

I favor 1:1 w/CBD
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 05:41 PM
7

So much truth it pains my neck!
/r/MGTOW17/07/20 05:47 PM
7

For laughs, google “smokin jay” memes. Dude has had a unique perspective for a while
/r/MGTOW17/07/20 05:37 PM
3

Wild, off the cuff assertions— 1) noise cancelling headphones were invented by a dude. 2) dude’s wife/girlfriend expects half the credit/earnings for doing her part!
/r/MGTOW17/07/20 02:28 PM
3

I’m in the crew that say take what’s in front of you (the job) but keep your eyes open. Learn what you can, while you earn. It may be industry perspective, it may be a personal connection, maybe you’ll see a niche no one else has stepped into. Also, focus on your mental & physical health. Play the long game.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 01:57 AM
22

Another MGTOW poster boy & Dixie chicken
/r/MGTOW12/07/20 12:30 AM
8

The Matrix is such a good analogy—the truth is a pretty nasty comedown. That being said, instead of the cognitive dissonance, cultivate cognitive integrity and watch where it takes you. Keep an eye out for opportunity. & eradicate all fears.
/r/MGTOW11/07/20 11:08 PM
8

I don’t mind interactions as long as it’s in the course of serving my purpose. I have zero “dancing bear” left in me, but several other pursuits that bring solid satisfaction. If I’ve sacrificed relationshit, I’ve gained another kind of vast freedom that refuses to be suppressed.
/r/MGTOW11/07/20 05:39 AM
-1

Yeah, man. It’s not exactly MGTOW but it did make me laugh, so I thought I’d share. TGIF 🍻
/r/MGTOW11/07/20 01:50 AM
24

Break ups suck, but dinner is now drama free!
/r/MGTOW10/07/20 08:04 PM
6

He’s wearing shades to hide the tears
/r/MGTOW09/07/20 06:10 PM
49

Huge cause for celebration. Get debt free, stay debt free
/r/MGTOW09/07/20 03:14 AM
6

Just desserts
/r/MGTOW08/07/20 10:33 PM
2

It is embedded in 98% of modern media, whether its popular music, movies or television. It becomes clearer & clearer, the conditioning messages, but it can be really annoying to navigate. Pay attention to what you feed yourself!
/r/MGTOW04/07/20 06:19 PM
2

Ain’t that the shit? They don’t even have the self awareness to recognize their own hypergamy, it’s a natural thing for them. & don’t hold up a mirror, it’s like sunlight to a vampire!
/r/MGTOW30/06/20 09:19 PM
26

I felt the vomit in my throat on this one. Jezzus.
/r/MGTOW30/06/20 08:28 PM
12

Nothing wrong with self-care, brother. Set yourself up for the future you know you can build
/r/MGTOW30/06/20 04:48 PM
2

And for that we are all very proud, indeed. You set out to achieve, & you will.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 10:58 PM
1

Old school so I say Raybans, I never have liked Oakleys, they don’t look good on my face. If you have the coin and are considering alternatives I’d look at Maui Jim’s. Those are some nice lenses. My less expensive go-to is Sunclouds.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 06:59 PM
7

U r the “woke” one! “Buddha”
/r/MGTOW27/06/20 09:05 PM
1

I have a frankenstrat with lipsticks that nails tones from Jerry to Knopfler to Gilmour. Love that thing!
/r/MGTOW01/01/20 10:56 PM
1

Bruichladdich, the Classic Laddie
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 08:55 PM
6

I liked Altered Carbon.
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 07:48 PM
10

I’m a fan of good sci-fi, as well. I quickly realized The Expanse ain’t that.
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 07:20 PM
5

If it makes you feel better... most of us have to learn this the hard way, thru experience. Fortunately I didn’t engage or marry any of the “rebounds,” but I can easily understand why it happens. It’s no easy accomplishment to break the cycle of female validation, it’s a deep, deep conditioning
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 07:14 PM
5

& yet—his rebounding right into another state-defined relationship, one that proves his “desirability,” also proves, not coincidentally, his manipulability. She thinks he’s still a sucker, & his actions would indicate she’s correct.
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 06:40 PM
6

“She just wants to have it both ways.” Of course she does.
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 04:29 AM
12

Yup, that’s the harem I prefer. When you get bored with one you box it up & stick it in storage until the magic returns. In the meantime, there are so, so many others...
/r/MGTOW29/12/19 07:09 PM
10

Try to live somewhere where you can interact with 65+/70s men. There are a lot of older guys out there with amassed life wisdom & maybe no one to share it with. Some of my best friends these days are 15 years older than I am. Some of them are partnered, some not, but at this stage of the game there’s not a lot of idealization of the female of the species. Anyway, you can learn new skills, life tips, & share viewpoints. Keeps me sharp, flexible, and still on the lookout for opportunities.
/r/MGTOW29/12/19 06:38 PM
16

Good luck with that. Lower your expectations, then lower them again.
/r/MGTOW29/12/19 02:53 AM
2

LOL should be “Subway Club”
/r/MGTOW29/12/19 12:07 AM
7

Yup
/r/MGTOW29/12/19 12:04 AM
11

Love this
/r/MGTOW28/12/19 10:39 PM
1

LOL, definitely committed to GEEKing out
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 08:38 PM
1

Cool, will look forward to checking this out.
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 08:17 PM
27

Well said, & done
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 01:50 AM
3

Thanks for the inspiration, my good ser!
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 01:16 AM
1

I have, literally, stood on the mountaintops. (Ex had vertigo/acrophobia)
/r/MGTOW26/12/19 04:22 PM
3

Beauty
/r/MGTOW26/12/19 03:32 AM
4

Yes. & corallary: if you I’ve done what you can to let them know you love & support them, then you have done what you can & can do no more. It’s a 2 way street. Yes, psycho mom may be the one blocking the intersection from the far end, but eventually the kids have to see that for themselves & deal with it themselves IF they choose to care. There is no other way.
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 08:04 PM
6

Great wisdom, here. Although there will always be the painful scar, the “flipped script” reality is I have done & accomplished things in the years post divorce that I could never have even considered if still bound to her. Don’t waste the opportunity of freedom & self sufficiency, set your priorities & agenda and go out & achieve!
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 05:27 PM
7

Had this happen the other night at a holiday party. Very attractive very pulled together woman sits by me & because I’m neither an ass nor a wallflower, we strike up a conversation that’s moving along pretty well. But in the light from the fire I can see that she is made up to the nines. She does it well, it’s pretty subtle, but whatever is behind that mask surely isn’t what I’m looking at. & then we get to the teenage daughters. GAME OVER. A buddy comes up to me later, kind of wants to rub it i…
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 04:47 AM
2

Can confirm the relief in that initial sense of “WOW, I’m NOT completely crazy.” 👍🏻👍🏻
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 01:54 AM
44

This may be true if you’re younger & red pilled without marriage. Maybe one of the silver linings is being an older, divorced guy, you can look both partners of a marriage right in the eyes while they’ve being bitching to you about everything on their plate, shake your head glumly, say “God, I sure do miss married life,” & then walk away laughing. Stay gold, gents!
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 01:17 AM
17

That’s how you do it, fellas
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 12:33 AM
13

Enlightenment is a destructive process. It has nothing to do with becoming better or being happier. Enlightenment is the crumbling away of untruth. It's seeing through the facade of pretence. It's the complete eradication of everything we imagined to be true. Adyashanti
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 05:35 AM
6

Point taken, but don’t stop short. ALL wolves die. Every single one. Carpe diem, you fucking animal
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 12:44 AM
68

“Semi faithful”— now there’s your hamster
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 04:59 PM
5

Been a long haul for you, as I recall. It must be some relief. Nice that you have some folks to visit with over the holidays, but also you can enjoy your own place as yours and just be sovereign unto yourself for a while. I’m about your same age & when I read this I just think... nope. No fucking way. Never doing that again. My last bitch got clipped coming up on 2 years. I haven’t lived together with a woman since I moved out on my cheating wife 5+ years ago. I wouldn’t trade peace in the castl…
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 04:50 PM
21

Women are vile. This one just happens to speak the truth.
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 08:43 PM
6

Dude it truly do be like that.
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 08:13 PM
10

I thought episode 3 was hilarious. Literally 2 women screaming at the tops of their lungs. One ripping out her own womb because all she wants is beauty & power, & another the miserable crotch spawn of incest fulfilling a curse by running around murdering anyone she can. Seems on point to me! 🤡
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 04:40 PM
5

I’m enjoying it so far... duplicitous female nature definitely comes out. Male, too, but 3 episodes in its looking like a cautionary tale
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 06:00 AM
2

Yup, will be on the road but solo. Except hanging with friends on NYE, low key. We’re old farts. I have some good books & expect I’ll FaceTime and/or text with some family & friends on Christmas Day, but I’m cool with it being low key. My dad had a thing for Christmas carols, if I get antsy maybe I’ll hit a church Christmas Eve & sing a little. No one gives a hoot who you are on Christmas Eve, they’re pretty much happy to be happy. As for 2020... well that, my friends, is GAME ON
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 03:25 AM
3

Preach
/r/MGTOW20/12/19 11:52 PM
43

Been on both sides of the table. Locked down for 2 decades, then broke off the plantation. Still have many friends who have made their “golden anniversary” & feel the same as your friend. People are proud of it like it’s a badge of honor, but ask just a couple of questions and you realize they’re toting a Sisyphean boulder.
/r/MGTOW20/12/19 11:50 PM
1

You, my friend, have a drama problem. & you’re a significant part of the problem. Stop worrying about her, cut her off cold, and start figuring out why you ever let yourself get into this situation in the first place. Disclosure: been there. Not there any more. Set your compass and navigate from point A to point B, and spare the rest of us.
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 01:21 AM
18

& that, gentlemen, is AWALT in a nutshell
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 12:51 AM
7

He’s better off knowing. Might not feel that way in the short term, but he is. Damn, this is another case of if THAT dude’s gonna get cucked, what the hell would make me think I’m gonna find a golden ticket?
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 08:45 PM
3

If you don’t feel like a) you’re being used as an emotional tampon and/or b) it’s clearly “just your turn” & her head is on a swivel constantly looking elsewhere, then nada. But don’t deceive yourself, and the mantra is “is the juice worth the squeeze?”
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 06:53 PM
4

Doing some local volunteer work tomorrow delivering food & supplies to a minority community with needs. Yes, women & children, but the men as well. Some sports equipment, & school & art supplies for the kids, as well as basic healthy food. Sunday hanging with friends, binge watching sci-fi with some sweet Mary Jane
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 06:06 PM
2

Good on ya! I’m glad you’ve been able to sustain, & take control of, the relationship with your kid(s). I haven’t been so lucky, but I haven’t given up, either. Fortitude in the face of treachery.
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 04:16 PM
25

That’s why most porn where the dude is totally dominant & the woman just LOVES the sex for the sex is FICTIONAL
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 01:46 AM
14

Quality post
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 01:44 AM
1

Search for Youtube “binaural beats” vids, or “yoga nidra”
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 01:40 AM
1

Now you got it. You’re being “sold” the competition as if it’s a masculine necessity. There are cheat codes, & like most games, at a certain point you’ve seen what it has to offer and wonder if there’s anything else out there.
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 12:30 AM
1

But it’s not only about winning/not winning, it’s also about losing (divorce/finances/reputation/offspring) and even losing when you “win” (stress/nagging/wasteful spending/hours of anxious hamstering with handwringing etc etc).
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 12:21 AM
1

If it’s a technique, it’s of limited usefulness. The old adage about leaving the boat there at the shoreline once you’ve made the passage still holds. Make sure you’re not lugging unnecessary baggage.
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 10:27 PM
10

Well played
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 10:25 PM
1

Becoming the manipulated male. Check the sidebar
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 02:35 AM
1

Nate. You can’t possibly be 20. Keep your eyes open & yer head on a swivel
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 02:30 AM
7

Never heard of false accusations? They’re kinda a thing these days
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 02:26 AM
3

Financial & emotional evisceration, possibly prison
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 02:23 AM
3

Agree with most comments here, it’s a forced analogy. What is interesting in the wolf community is the sigma realizes it needs (on occasion) the protection & resources of the larger pack, so it hangs on the edges to utilize those things, but only for its own sustainance. It steers clear of the gamesmanship of alpha/beta dynamics and sex-based posturing. Where the analogy IS interesting to me is if you think of this from a “meta” standpoint. I really don’t care how I’m characterized by others, th…
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 08:33 PM
5

Si, senor
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 03:31 AM
2

I think he got it better with “Watching the Wheels.” But if Yoko isn’t THE archetype of chick obsession destroying a band, I’d like to hear what tops it. Whatever he saw in her... I do not see.
/r/MGTOW10/12/19 11:39 PM
15

Their grand game is being exposed to the light—& along with it, some potent male rage & of course the evaporation of easy resources. They’re terrified & it’s a fight for survival.
/r/MGTOW10/12/19 03:57 AM
2

If she doesn’t poop rainbow sprinkled cupcakes... AWALT
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 10:08 PM
3

Ain’t about to fight over this c*nt (Ronnie’s aside in the live version)
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 07:36 PM
16

50s, married 20 yrs then divorced. My still married friends truly are like mules yoked to the cart; their wives have grown haggard but they are still pulling the load financially, emotionally, etc, with very little reward or peace in their lives. Whereas I own my home, no mortgage, own car no loan, travel where & when as I want, am moving on to a 3rd career that is what deeply interests me without having to worry about how much or how little it pays. Also, I contribute both time & money to chari…
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 04:07 PM
9

Agree, herein one finds the pith
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 03:51 PM
9

If the relationship means so much that you’re willing to live in delusion, so be it, but who do you expect to suffer the consequences? If you choose not to live in delusion but to see clearly & to act out of clarity, it can be a lonely path, but again, who receives the rewards from that clarity of vision?
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 12:44 PM
7

Yep
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 01:24 AM
3

She “can’t really explain.” Duh.
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 04:09 AM
2

I think the Buddha was onto some shit. BuddhISM, hit or miss.
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 03:29 AM
7

It’s your birthday! Eat what you enjoy, have a refreshing beverage, take in a favorite flick or show, read a good book & relax in YOUR space!
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 12:24 AM
11

In perfect David Attenborough!
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 05:14 PM
2

Men don’t waste time on hypotheticals. They make assessments & strategies, & execute.
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 05:13 PM
3

Pick a place to live that offers you joy, then enhance it.
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 02:36 AM
15

Welcome, bud. It’s a whole new world!
/r/MGTOW04/12/19 08:55 PM
12

Again, her main regret is she slipped up for a moment & was honest with him.
/r/MGTOW04/12/19 08:42 PM
3

Fundamental incompetence is NOT sexy.
/r/MGTOW04/12/19 08:40 PM
17

Women like this are just so vile. I guess they pass it off as “edgy,” but for me it’s an immediate hard pass.
/r/MGTOW04/12/19 08:37 PM
3

This is one reason why I almost always carry cash. If this kind of service is what I encounter I leave cash on the table & walk.
/r/MGTOW03/12/19 07:06 PM
2

My story is like yours: marriage, divorce, rebounds, re-screwed. It hasn’t been a barrel of laughs but it has been edifying. What is also BRUTAL is having so many blue-pilled friends in long marriages, for whom I have become confidant, & they are just gutting it out in misery because they are either scared, rationalize “cheaper to keep her,” or believe the haunted relic of their “family life” is the best they can do. I have genuine compassion for these fuckers, try to offer an ear & listen witho…
/r/MGTOW02/12/19 09:28 PM
1

Can you say, “Win-win?”
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 07:46 PM
11

& this is a “human interest” story? SMH
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 12:52 AM
12

Oh and butt sex isn’t “sex.” Tee hee
/r/MGTOW28/11/19 01:52 AM
1

Yes. & corollary to this... get a massage. From a decently trained massage therapist. Feels great, releases toxins and stored stress, & it’s great down time to relax deeply.
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 08:53 PM
3

Land conservancies, wilderness nature reserves.
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 07:03 PM
3

Cream (of the Clapton, Bruce, Baker variety)
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 06:57 PM
29

I’m a huge believer in wilderness therapy. We’re meant to be outdoors exploring. I don’t know where you live, but try hiking, or kayaking, or rock climbing, or skiing, or surfing. These things will improve your fitness, you will have direct experience of the beauty of being alive, and the endorphin & dopamine rewards will improve your mood. Works for me anyway!
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 06:56 PM
24

Younger guys, take heed. This actually shows you exactly what you need to know about women as they “mature”. They want 2 things from you: 1) $$$, & 2) children. Once they have those things, you’re entirely dispensable. After that it’s only on their terms, and on a utility basis. Not going to tell you what to do with that information, but there you have it. Accurate.
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 03:34 PM
5

Indeed, women to a “t”!
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 01:44 PM
6

Communitas—men are really good at it. Fraternal organizations, military, search & rescue, etc etc. These all provide fraternization & serve a larger public good. As far as intimacy goes... companion animals. Or family, if yours is half decent.
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 03:47 AM
3

Or you’d still serve as the occasional emotional tampon. Uh, no.
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 04:38 PM
1

Your partyline response to her is perfect. Give them no juice.
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 04:37 PM
8

My point exactly. If you are a self-validating man, a little flirtation is a momentary and generally harmless diversion. If a child looks at me & engages me & it’s a public place so everyone can see it’s innocuous, I’ll engage them in harmless banter, too. Most women are arrested development children.
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 02:14 AM
8

Guess I’m super old school— I’ll still occasionally flirt. & then walk. With a smile.
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 02:03 AM
14

NO—the most liberating word in the world
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 01:43 AM
78

Pair bonding permanently impaired
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 02:06 AM
38

God those biddies are SHRILL
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 10:10 PM
3

Sweet gig
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 12:13 AM
3

4... that one’s stuck on them like a fucking barnacle
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 10:44 PM
9

I especially love the feel of reverberation in my belly with a nice acoustic resting there. I don’t usually play for or with others—rare occasions—but the vibes alone are potent & sustaining.
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 10:42 PM
6

Yeah, that weird shift from practicing to finding yourself jamming/“playing”, like who the fuck is doing this? That’s the last second before the transcendent wave collapses & then you’re back into ego practicing again. Good times!
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 10:40 PM
34

Lil bit o both
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 10:34 PM
56

Ray Lamontagne has a great song lyric: “There's nothin' in the world so sad as talking to a man Who never knew his life was his for making”
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 06:45 PM
3

Did most of the ascent in the dark with a headlamp so I was at the summit for sunrise. First 6 that morning were all guys... me, a pair of climber bros, a Zion local who does it regularly for fun & exercise, & a father/son pair. On the way back down it was almost exclusively couples coming up, all decked out with the proper Barney gear, the women wearing makeup, their guys looking rueful, exasperated, and like tethered mules. God bless the self-possessed gentleman!
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 06:08 PM
34

The vows of marriage mean nothing to them. It’s just a big party where they are the center of attention. After that... every contract can & will be renegotiated, and usually ex post Chado
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 09:29 PM
6

Well daaayum. Standing ovation, maestro!
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 03:12 AM
43

No problem whatsoever. I’ve seen your repertoire and prefer other forms of entertainment.
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 03:01 AM
6

This basic reality is always kicked under by the hamstering, and it’s a good thing because it’s when the chameleon mask fails
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 01:34 AM
1

The grandmother!
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 01:06 PM
3

I tip the guys, as long as they’re not jerks, which they virtually never are. Guys are chill, go along to get along, & if they’re driving Uber it’s often because there’s a bitch in the background, either still there or in the rear view. I’ve had a number of red pilled convos with male Uber drivers & wished my brothers the best when it was time to depart.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 03:09 AM
7

This is called parental alienation. It sucks, and if I was a wagering man I’d guess it’s mother-initiated 80%+ of the time. Sadly, I know of what I speak. Do what you can but don’t beat yourself up. Live your best life, that’s the most important example you can set for a child as a father.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 02:53 AM
2

He was not immune to the femme fatale, but did manage to keep her in check. Check out Lives In the Shadow with J Krishnamurti, written by his personal secretary
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 01:16 AM
1

Ah, yes, men are lazy & women, despite it all, continue to be the helpless victims & collateral damage. Cool, pass the popcorn
/r/MGTOW28/10/19 02:35 AM
3

If you have the time, hit the Hypogeum. It’s amazing
/r/MGTOW27/10/19 04:14 AM
3

Well played, sir
/r/MGTOW27/10/19 04:11 AM
7

He’s getting hit hard by life right now. It’s been a bold strategy, Cotton. Let’s see how it plays out for him
/r/MGTOW27/10/19 04:08 AM
6

Dual mating AF/BB
/r/MGTOW24/10/19 09:06 PM
2

Ronin Constantine & to remember why MGTOW... Body Heat
/r/MGTOW24/10/19 04:21 AM
10

Feel like a stranger in a strange land. Never got the obsession. Still fell for the blue pilled Disney-vision, got a harsh red pill rammed down hard & dry. Back to my natural indifference toward women... some in my family are half decent & I have a couple of female friends where things are very loose & distant. All the media, the crusading, the obsessing, I just do not get it. Kinda like Kawolski now, smile & wave...
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 02:02 AM
2

Most have things that have never even been worn, as well. From the rack to somebody’s overstuffed closet, then onto Goodwill.
/r/MGTOW21/10/19 10:24 PM
13

Me right now: sitting in the sun in the american sw with an açaí bowl, tanning up & thinking about my next hike. Eat healthy, stay fit, give no shits
/r/MGTOW21/10/19 06:48 PM
1

IF you can enjoy it while it’s your turn, without becoming attached, use it as an experience & realize that it’s going to come to an end. Think about how YOU want it to end & make sure that’s the way it goes. DONT become victim to slow creeping “compromise” to keep her around. Learn what you can, DONT move her in or get her with child, then dump & move on when you’re ready.
/r/MGTOW20/10/19 01:31 AM
5

Don’t forget “Already Gone”
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 06:19 PM
15

A woman will always try to convince you she has a better style sense than you. Fuck that.
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 12:02 AM
4

Brother, don’t bring me down with that defeatist BS. Men are far superior to women. Look around.
/r/MGTOW18/10/19 11:13 PM
2

D-O-N-E, done. Sailing on the breezes of whatever the fuck I want
/r/MGTOW18/10/19 10:09 PM
3

The high cost of (theoretically) proximate pussy. Shift your priorities or, if necessary, sharpen your game.
/r/MGTOW18/10/19 03:16 PM
4

Walking on eggshells... the classic description of living with a BPD. Get.Out. NOW
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 05:08 AM
2

This is great
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 12:00 AM
3

Hope this isn’t simplistic, just concise. Hypergamy 101, my friend. It doesn’t matter that it’s an illogical move on her part. She’s following the feels. Maybe she’s testing you to see your reaction, needs new drama whether from you or elsewhere. Maybe she’s allocated you to backup status in her mind while she goes out to hunt the wild throbbing cockasuraus. Who knows? But the reality is your turn is over (for now). Just look at all the a-list celebs & musicians & athletes that have been through…
/r/MGTOW16/10/19 06:47 PM
6

After “nice guy,” the milkman, the postman, the cable guy. Nice guy’s away supporting the family & the minx is getting busy
/r/MGTOW16/10/19 06:04 AM
20

Hahahahahahahahahah (Inbreath) Hahahahahahahahahahah 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh my. This is sooooooo rich Hahahahahahahahahaha
/r/MGTOW14/10/19 11:54 PM
2

Here’s the thing... in GYOW fashion, you WILL become better, you will become a “player”, & whether or not you play out in public, if you enjoy it, it becomes an incredibly therapeutic activity. Music is medicine, & it doesn’t take much practice before you’re making music. As far as decent electrics, while there are dozens (Fender, Gibson, Gretsch, etc amongst the bigs), if you don’t have a particular guitarist whose sound you want to emulate, I’d recommend looking at Eastwood electrics. A wide v…
/r/MGTOW14/10/19 09:08 PM
3

Laughter IS the best medicine, and by those terms we should call him Dr. Carrington! Talented guy, knows the score. His tune “Ain’t it great to be a man” is another good one for MGTOWS
/r/MGTOW14/10/19 05:16 PM
2

Kerouac: “Climb that goddamn mountain.”
/r/MGTOW14/10/19 01:12 AM
3

Wrangle on!
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 10:14 PM
1

What’s the strain?
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 03:29 AM
18

Here ya go: “Oh I think about legacy a bunch. I’m going to create a named scholarship for young men with entrepreneurial promise so they can attend business school. That’ll be a real meaningful accomplishment.” Then wait for the Pikachu face
/r/MGTOW01/10/19 05:27 PM
2

Don’t want to give away my secret but this is EXACTLY what makes real estate an easy game for an intelligent male. Very few people in the game (inspectors excepted—seem to be almost all male and the good ones are cautious & thorough) have the slightest clue what they are doing. I am basically FIRE but occasionally get involved in a real estate transaction when I can pick something up cheap for cash in a market with increasing demand.
/r/MGTOW01/10/19 12:02 AM
11

Grey man
/r/MGTOW29/09/19 06:19 PM
2

Flip the script man. You escaped a psychopath. Don’t go back that way, there’s a big ass world out there, find your own pearl.
/r/MGTOW29/09/19 06:17 PM
4

Courtesy of notorious do-nothing Jack Kerouac: “Climb that goddamn mountain.”
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 01:13 AM
2

Something tells me Casey Jones is probably a genetic relative of Trainwreck. Yeah that stuff will knock you to the floor
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 03:47 PM
3

Want
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 06:37 PM
4

Reciprocity. 👍🏻👍🏻
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 05:51 PM
1

Yerp
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 05:27 PM
2

What’s your shop of choice? My favorite place to smoke up with a cocktail in hand is Lost in Amsterdam
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 05:23 PM
3

While I appreciate your self-confidence, do you ever look at the news? You’re in a high-risk endeavor, brother, which is fine as long as you’re self aware & it’s your way. But does the reward justify the risk? For each man to decide.
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 02:41 PM
6

Glad you brought this up, more dissonance. Women are sold dildos as literally a tool for their “empowerment” & “liberation.” Men using masturbation aids are shamed. It’s just conditioning for a societal end that doesn’t value YOU. See through it & GYOW
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 02:38 PM
8

Yeah man. The economics of relationships don’t change once you’re back on the plantation. If the end game for PUAs is just ongoing variety, it’s costly, repetitive, high risk (STIs, metoo, etc) & a huge distraction from a best life of self actualization. Yeah, you enjoy yourself your way, “stud,” I’ll put my feet up with a whiskey & a j & enjoy MY plantation in the big sky country!
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 02:33 PM
5

My middle way answer is 1) friends choose sides. It’s just inevitable. So the ones that are loyal to you—you’ll be able to tell— you should stay loyal to, as well, if you want to maintain the friendship. & also 2) losing friends isn’t as awful as you might assume. If you’re a semi-sociable person, new people will come into your life & if you’re a good friend, they’ll see it and there will be new opportunities. Relationships change throughout our lives. Since we don’t know what the breakup was li…
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 02:58 AM
16

This one’s so easy, learn this one simple word: “No.” Practice. Repeat. I had a generally lovely female neighbor try to drop a stray dog on me today. I love dogs, but I’m not in a position to be the caretaker for one at this time. So... “No.”
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 05:53 AM
7

Ex used to make up “special” rules playing board games as we were playing. You know, “rules” that benefitted her in that moment. That was a red flag I didn’t see, until the classic, “Oh, we ARE in a committed relationship. YOU’RE committed to me, & I’m committed to seeking my happiness... wherever.” Live, learn, & look out for number 1.
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 10:11 PM
13

Briffault’s, my man. Your utility expired.
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 10:05 PM
3

ISO Domino’s driver
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 12:14 AM
19

Cranking live concert films on the telly with the surround sound— Last Waltz, Pink Floyd, Clapton, Van Morrison... Taking a huge rip & dancing around the living room
/r/MGTOW15/09/19 05:31 PM
7

Yeah, like watching the WNBA
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 06:56 PM
2

Looking for a servant. & no, you’re not a priority. Line forms at the pootay
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 12:17 AM
2

“When set free from a cage, even a golden one, the bird does not return for crumbs left on the bottom.”
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 12:12 AM
4

Well played, sir
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 08:09 PM
3

Heroes do exist!
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 06:49 PM
7

Well said. They “owe” you nothing, OP. & if you point them toward misery to satisfy your own agenda, you’re hardly better than a golddigger. You need to get a grip, you’re not purple pilled, you’re red pilled and choking.
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 03:27 PM
11

If this doesn’t show you how little they value their male companions, nothing will
/r/MGTOW10/09/19 04:35 PM
2

Cringeworthy as it is, this should probably be tacked at the top of the sub
/r/MGTOW10/09/19 04:33 PM
5

That’s the healthy way to get yourself across the sea of emotion. You’ll be stronger for it. & man, that world out there... is truly your oyster.
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 09:18 PM
24

You are NOT a failure. This is a test you had no ability to see coming because you were doing all you could to be a valuable partner and exemplary father. Many of us here have been thru this; the story resonates so much familiarity for me. I’m 6 years removed from this after nearly 20 years married. For me, working it out—sweating— got me thru the worst of it. I would go for long long walks or hikes to reach the point of physical exhaustion. I got healthier, and could get some sleep. If you have…
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 02:56 PM
11

Rest well. It’s a new day mañana.
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 02:38 AM
22

Love that final line!
/r/MGTOW08/09/19 03:53 AM
9

Can really relate, man. It is a kick in the nuts but it sounds like you were taking care of yourself as well as every other thing during the marriage, so at least you know you can do the same for yourself. & of course the freedom, peace & calm are all beautiful. I say enjoy that convertible and the highway down to the keys, and have yourself a round at Sloppy Joe’s!
/r/MGTOW06/09/19 06:03 PM
16

“I’m currently in between fiascos.”
/r/MGTOW05/09/19 03:46 PM
4

“Goddess” is the updated princess fantasy for post-wall hags
/r/MGTOW04/09/19 04:12 AM
9

Can confirm
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 11:51 PM
5

LOL username checks out
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 10:16 PM
14

This is gullible women preying on even more gullible women. Remember they don’t just despise us, they hate each other, too.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 10:15 PM
1

Get a good massage from a professionally trained masseuse. Not talking about rub n tug, an actual therapeutic massage. If YOU don’t sexualize it you get lots of healing touch and it’s actually a really healthy thing for your body, no matter your level of fitness. I try to go about once a month. Usually you can request if you have a gender preference for the therapist, & if she’s not good, try another until you find a good one.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 08:28 PM
5

Football binge days are definitely one of the best parts of flying solo! Sometimes I’ll meet up with buds at a sports bar, but lounging at home with all the amenities—on my schedule—is equally enjoyable.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 06:06 PM
18

Yeah, you’re not alone. Seems eventually they all get bored. Sometimes they’ll play the gamut, “I was desperate for your attention.” Well, now you have it, for as long as it takes to legally get clear from you. Love ‘em, until you understand ‘em, then it’s a strange new world beyond that. I hope you have, & continue to work on, a loving relationship with your child. It isn’t easy in these situations, but it still can provide some satisfactions (as well as a ton of heartache). Onward, brother!
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 06:04 PM
4

Understandable
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 05:26 PM
4

I hear what both of you are saying. I rarely eat out, I enjoy controlling my own diet and paying attention to what I spend on food. But when I do eat out & I know I’m paying for myself alone, IDGAF what it costs as long as the price equals the value to me. Why not splurge once in a while on a good, well made meal? I treat myself well in my own kitchen & then on occasion I like the change up of a good meal out. Wouldn’t choose to spend my money that way every day, but now & again... In the same w…
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 04:53 PM
1

Does she have friends, family, a social network? I ask, because if NOT and you are her only world, then losing you means she has nothing else to lose and those people are seriously dangerous. If she has orbiters or other people in her life she can turn to to feed her attention sucking needs, then perhaps you’ll dodge a bullet? But you may need to move. Given she trashed the place I’d just consider that a push in the right direction. Maybe stay over with a buddy or family for a couple of weeks, g…
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 04:41 PM
7

Yep, the male she’s with is an accessory, she wants to try it out & see what the other girls think.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 04:26 PM
2

The ladies want the drama & the juice, I crave peace in the valley (& like a lot of men am willing to work toward it as a moving target). Always so funny when she’d chide me claiming she was raising x children (the kids plus me). Well, now she raises x-1. Love your word choice, “shallow selfish materialistic airheads.” It’s all most women know how to convey.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 04:56 AM
1

Here’s a start. There are a bunch of extract products in development, some on the market in recreational states. It’s a gentle relaxant/euphoric that doesn’t have a ripping “high,” but can have some definite body analgesic effects. https://www.leafly.com/news/science-tech/what-is-cbn-and-what-are-the-benefits-of-this-cannabinoid
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 04:02 AM
1

I’d suggest finding a balanced CBD/THC strain. The “real good shit” has incredibly high THC potency; nothing wrong with starting with a strain like Critical Mass, Harlequin, etc that gives you a nice body fade but less in the way of the heady paranoid high. Go slow and find the strain that works for you.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 12:48 AM
3

Briffault’s. That is all.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 12:25 AM
1

Hell yeah. I have a cupboard stocked with about 10 strains of bud (faves at the moment are Mendo Dream, Kali Mist, Juicy Fruit & a killer called Caramel Ice). I smoke them from a simple, hand blown water pipe. Also currently have about 5 vape pens, a variety of prerolls, infused oil, mints, chocolates, waffles, breath strip type things & transdermal patches. In addition to the THC/CBD I also have CBN caps (kinder, gentler & awesomer than xanax) & Delta-8. Aloha, Mr Hand!
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 12:03 AM
6

What.A.Horror.
/r/MGTOW01/09/19 12:40 AM
5

The library. Slew of books, magazines, these days DVDs & not just the popular stuff, sometimes really good docs or travel things or academic fields. Also a relatively safe place for people watching.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 11:06 PM
7

NO MATTER HOW carefully the custody agreement is worded and no matter how “committed to coparenting” she claims to be, unless you prove her an incompetent parent she will always use the children to manipulate you & attack you. & the causalties in that battle are the kids themselves.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 11:03 PM
2

I think a combo of fade/full beta. Annoyingly cloying, over sharing & opening up with all your “vulnerabilities” when together, lean on her, cry, ask for $$$ to cover obvious fuckups, then slowly reduce actual contact time. Depending on HOW crazy, you may need to consider relocating.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 11:00 PM
1

Damn this cat should know better. Must suck getting hard-pilled at 70. Love that he’ll do a new standup tour about his divorce. CK did something similar, Chris Rock, as well. Funny sells, stale milk smells. GYOW
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 07:45 PM
1

Beauty
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 01:43 AM
7

Cypher we hardly knew ye. Godspeed
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 02:55 AM
13

Ninja props
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 02:53 AM
18

Dagum, son, you knocked the snot offa that’un!
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 02:52 AM
6

Men can disagree & still do it respectfully, without backstabbing, chameleoning, browbeating, etc. It’s a bit of a free for all, welcome
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 01:36 AM
5

You’re lazy, & it shows
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 12:27 AM
3

Do you NOT? Keep going
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 12:22 AM
1

You’re familiar with the expression “curve”? No need to bash women, or treat them as anything other than a specialized, deranged form of infant in IRL interactions. This isn’t hate, it’s learned indifferent avoidance.
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 12:18 AM
6

Ha yes, there’s the not so subtle superiority
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 12:16 AM
3

What FIRE frees up is TIME. I stay up as late as I want, sleep until I wake, hit a deli when I don’t like what’s in the fridge, take off for a week to see new shit as I’m inspired. Hell, I just signed up for a 2 month immersion in 2020 because I’m curious & there’s no impediment. I know the people I used to call friends think I am crazy but I also suspect they envy my life. Whatever. It’s my availability that determines when we hang out & I’m usually the best listener, but it’s still on MY sched…
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 12:05 AM
18

Riiiight. The cage is over there in the corner, sporto
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 11:11 PM
1

Dude I’ll trade a smore for nanaimo bars anyday
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 07:04 PM
2

Bros Landreth “Runaway Train” https://youtu.be/7GeVW7aVShY
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 06:09 PM
5

You need to pull your shit together & ghost from your own pity party. Agreed you should let her walk, mainly because you need to take responsibility for your own issues & stand or fall. What you have isn’t love, it’s another form of addiction, codependence. The fact that she’s still with you would indicate she suffers from it, too.
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 04:33 PM
10

Keep’em coming, friend
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 04:16 PM
3

Kowabunga, muthafuckas!!!!
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 01:08 AM
1

Great book. Another: The Light Inside the Dark by John Tarrant
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 09:35 PM
1

SELF. CARE. Make it a mantra. Almost all men have been socialized for sacrifice. It’s tough to reprogram that is is both OK & necessary to prioritize yourself. But do it. Buy the good food. Take a trip to someplace inspiring. See the concert. Hike to the peak. Reward those who have a genuine interest in your well being. & give zero fucks over that which concerns you not
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 09:32 PM
1

Volunteer work is another great way to put your own trauma in perspective, completely agree
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 09:28 PM
2

I found regular floating in one of those float tanks was super helpful as I went through the divorce. I don’t need it as much now, but still book a session once a month or so. For me anyway, it’s a deep reset, and makes the more regular meditation & yoga practices much richer & more effective
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 09:25 PM
6

You make me think of the Tom Hardy character in “Taboo” (pretty good red pilled show): “Why am I here, Delaney? Because I have a use for you...” Non serviam
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 05:17 PM
19

I just got a new fire pit, looking forward to whiskey and shooting stars this summer
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 04:58 PM
1

The bad news is: you’re falling through space without a parachute. The good news is: there is no bottom.
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 03:36 AM
45

Hey, I hear you & there are nights like this. It has been a journey for me to figure out how to self heal, or at least suture up the parts that got shredded when the family tore apart. I have no platitude, friend. Some days it is just taking care of the physical body from the place of a disembodied spirit. But other days I’m in front of a mind blowing sunrise or sunset, just staggered by the beauty of this world, this wild, luxuriant, crazy & wonderful world. & then I remember it was always slip…
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 03:18 AM
4

If you are completely past red pill rage and #ignoreallwomen then by all means take a pass; if you still struggle with the wtf happened question occasionally, this may offer some relief. THEY HAVE NO IDEA THEMSELVES. It happens, then they find a way to justify it. No continuity. No self control. No sense of moral responsibility. Enjoy the rollercoaster thru a crazy, crazy woman’s head, thank god it ain’t you, and buy your hand a beer!!
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 02:56 AM
1

Chaos & destruction everyday; creation & ecstasy everyday. Wizard up, honcho
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 06:15 PM
1

Angel’s Landing hike @ Zion NP is on mine, & now it’s on the calendar
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 09:34 PM
3

Where is your male ancestry from? If you can find that out, that is where I’d head. Get a look at where your people came from
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 07:24 PM
2

I totally get you. Freedom is alternately exhilarating, boring, & scary. I have no need to work anymore other than contract work that I’ll take on if it suits my schedule. I am angling toward a new occupation but it may be mostly volunteer. I still have the motivation to give back, but I’m making sure it’s personally gratifying as well, & adds to a personal growth trajectory. Live somewhere you enjoy being. Don’t be afraid to move, even to a place you know no one. The reset is—exhilarating, bori…
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 07:21 PM
3

Now THAT’s a Freudian slip
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 07:04 PM
2

“Evil” by Howlin Wolf, for one
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 06:51 PM
1

OP... & this is a woman
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 04:09 AM
7

You need to find a way to curve her & get some access to your kids. It may take a LOT of time & it doesn’t mean you have to compromise your values; quite the opposite, give your children the gift of your values, on your own terms.
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 10:01 PM
19

Up your game, bitches
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 09:20 PM
1

Hell yeah
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 07:46 PM
2

I LOVE the idea of a MGTOW streamer behind a paywall. I’s even wear a wifebeater, just to look the part. But sorry, no duckface!
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 07:41 PM
1

Hiked the Sea to Sky a couple years back, awesome up there north of Squamish
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 07:34 PM
24

Such infantile creatures
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 07:30 PM
43

I call these chicks boomerangs
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 07:12 PM
108

They just can’t be anything but unhappy until they’ve made everyone around them unhappy. Cut & bolt!
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 02:29 PM
2

I’ll be hoping the antibiotics hold up for the both of you
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 02:40 PM
6

This is getting to the truth of the matter, but could women change even if they were motivated to? Collapse & reset seems immanent
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 02:05 AM
22

Uh huh. The juice ain’t very juicy no mo
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 01:50 AM
1

If you can’t handle her worst, what’s the fucking point? Clue: her best doesn’t get “better”
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 05:31 PM
2

My favorite Cash song: “Flushed from the Bathroom of Yer Heart”
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 04:10 AM
3

Dude. It makes for a great story, but wtf you thinking? You strung that out long after you short have shut the door. Yuck.
/r/MGTOW17/06/19 08:42 PM
5

Needs more bleach. Or I do. Fine, just hand me the jug
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 03:39 PM
2

You’re a good son but also express your own personal boundaries and sound like you will truly own the “O” in GYOW. Keep on keepin’ on!
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 03:38 PM
20

Sounds like you have a measured & well considered approach, both you & your kids will benefit in the long run. Keep on plugging away for your thot-b-gone!
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 03:23 PM
12

It’s a marathon, not a sprint. Kids grow & change; I just try to keep the door open and the hearth warm.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 02:53 PM
7

It is such a rough day. My kids weave in and out of estrangement, & they are all young adults now so it’s really on them, though we did go through the whole parental alienation thing with their mom refusing to co-parent & instead making it a blame/victimology (after monkey branching, of course). This morning I received a long email from one child with a level of maturity and ownership I hadn’t yet seen. So there at least is the possibility of increased, and possibly regular (?), communication. O…
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 02:49 PM
2

An all time fave: https://youtu.be/TWbREvFyUkQ
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 03:45 AM
1

Which, if we’re honest, tells you something about many men today & their lack of self esteem.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 02:13 AM
10

Powerful reflection
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 01:46 PM
2

“It is like you are a Coast Guard cutter and she is a drowning woman-- but she drowns in a peculiar way. Every time you pull her out of the turbulent sea, feed her warm tea and biscuits, wrap her in a comfy blanket and tell her everything is okay, she suddenly jumps overboard and starts pleading for help again.“ THIS.
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 09:39 PM
1

https://cometresearchgroup.org/
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 04:36 PM
3

Attended a lecture recently that would indicate the greater threat, even than climate change, is meteor impact. We have pretty good evidence it ended the dinosaurs and has had cataclysmic impact on humanity in past ages. So don’t bank on 2050; the Pleiades are coming! 🌧
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 04:19 PM
19

I want to comment specifically on your point #6. I’m a “survivor” of such a relationship, and the narrative of course is I’m the abandoning male. By using “I have a diagnosis!” as an excuse, a woman like this will basically demand that you accept her disorder as part of the package deal that comes with pussy. There’s no effort to recognize that a cognitive deficiency means EXTRA WORK or that you’re going to have to combat your own self-defeating tendencies (with DBT & so forth); instead they sta…
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 03:45 PM
6

This gives me a dastardly laugh
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 01:46 AM
2

Tl/dr: the penis envy is real. What they can’t possess they will attempt to destroy
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 01:27 AM
3

Hornitos tequila, for variety
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 10:34 PM
7

Are ya feeling lucky, punk? Well? Are ya?
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 10:32 PM
6

Jamaican Blue Mtn in a French press, then add raw cacao, cashew milk & stevia to sweeten. & on a day like today, a dab or two & some skanking around the living room
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 08:19 PM
4

Right it “sounds like” he’s equally telling singletons of both genders to man up, but we know who actually gets screwed in that process & who remains forever infantile, never seriously considering curbing any of those tingles
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 05:06 AM
1

I suspect this sub is data mined in a number of different ways
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 02:42 PM
55

LOL, they’ve already learned the manipulation game from mommy shedding their crocodile tears. I know this circumstance far too well. My hope—maybe to pass along to your friend, as well—is when they are truly adults (mid 20s) there may be a realization that reconciliation is possible, but it requires reciprocal acknowledgment that every one has their own responsibility to bear. “Family” or not, if they shunned you then come running back expecting you to make it all better “because,” the life less…
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 04:31 PM
4

Agreed, my dark secret to myself is I’m 98% MGTOW. There’s a slim, slim window (in my head) that if a relationshit started organically & genuinely & the woman had a clear value-add that intrigued me & I believed would help me grow, then I might pursue it. Cautiously. But 98% of me is pretty damn sure that ain’t happening.
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 04:19 PM
9

YOU are “the one.” Welcome, Neo
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 04:05 PM
3

My comment would be that as your children age, they are far more influenced by what you actually do—the example you set—than what you say. So while being a “distant father” (which I am) generally blows, what I am DOING is, as you say, designed to heal family trauma, but more for the long haul. One child gets it, one doesn’t & continues to “hate” me based on mommy’s abandonment narrative. But I believe a father has to stand above trying to manipulate children’s feelings; you want them to grow int…
/r/MGTOW06/06/19 04:00 PM
1

I like a good sipping tequila or the occasional craft beer. I make make it a triple, but there’s never a round 2.
/r/MGTOW05/06/19 12:27 AM
1

Nothin left to do but smile smile smile
/r/MGTOW02/06/19 05:19 PM
2

Re #2: check & check
/r/MGTOW02/06/19 05:25 AM
2

Here’s to D H Lawrence (gik!)! He wrote these words in 1926, in the mind of a female protagonist: “Let me close my prying seeing eyes, and sit in still darkness along with these two men. They have got more than I, they have a richness that I haven’t got. They have got rid of that itching of the eye, and the desire that works through the eye. The itching, prurient, knowing, imagining eye, I am cursed with it, I am hampered up in it. It is my curse of curses, the curse of Eve... why don’t these me…
/r/MGTOW02/06/19 05:22 AM
2

“You Can Go Your Own Way” by Chris Rea Great driving tune
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 10:26 PM
3

So tl/dr is that older dads make for saner kids (as generations evolve)?
/r/MGTOW29/05/19 05:16 PM
13

Ikr
/r/MGTOW29/05/19 03:02 PM
20

It may take a while, but what appeared via social conditioning to be a “failure” may reveal itself in time as “grace.” Take care of yourself—always including maximum chillage—& by living your best life that creates a strong example for your children to emulate someday. Build toward the future you want to see!
/r/MGTOW29/05/19 02:59 PM
1

I hear ya. My ex is going downhill fast with a variety of health issues. I realized recently she’s ALWAYS had some physical malady to complain about, since I met her when we were young. Always a tune for reeling in sympathetic attention. While I don’t revel in her infirmity, I do revel in my relative good health, and my ability, because of her monkey branching, to now do things in my 50s like strenuous hikes, paddling, surfing, scuba, camping etc etc that she would never have been able to keep u…
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 04:04 PM
1

Yeah yeah we get it that you cared for her. The joke is that you think she felt similarly for you. They. Do. Not.
/r/MGTOW26/05/19 08:03 PM
29

I’m 52. Went thru what you are going thru now about 5 years ago. Today I learned that an old buddy—our wives were friendly & our kids all grew up together—died over the weekend. Heart attack. He wasn’t divorced, still with the wife. Struggling to come to grips with his being gone. But also reflecting on how STRONG my heart is after the emotional debacle that was the divorce. The marriage was killing me. The gaslighting was truly insane. My children will all carry the scars. So some days it is ha…
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 05:23 AM
5

Find a reputable breeder and do your due diligence. Many breeds--including Berners--have been so inbred for confirmation that they have high rates of disease (cancer, dysplasia, etc) & end up living shorter lives. caveat emptor
/r/MGTOW02/05/19 05:19 AM
7

Congrats, my man. You been off board for a while, working your hustle. Tip o the cap, & a pint glass!
/r/MGTOW02/05/19 03:06 AM
1

So follow up q: is Zion always crowded? It was packed in the summer the one previous time I've been. But I've been to GCNP a bunch and if you time it right you can definitely hit it on quieter days. Just wondering if you had any thoughts on what might be slow season, I have flexibility and will be coming from within a day's range.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 07:32 AM
1

Have you done Angel's Landing? Thinking about that for later this year
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 05:33 PM
1

So OP asked about therapy and advice, I'll try to answer that. I saw a family therapist post-divorce, mostly because I needed coaching on how to deal with my BPD ex (we share kids). When you're with someone who's unwell, you literally compromise away your own mental & physical health. So now, make sure to regain them! For me it was good to look at my own patterning that dovetailed into being as blue pilled as I was. So there's a book out there, Facing Codependence or something, that was importan…
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 06:10 AM
1

Great words, brother
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 06:01 AM
6

Yup, this story parallels mine, too. When they get too comfortable it's just more shit testing, all the way to the court house. The irony is MGTOW is soooooooo much better than even the best story book parts of married family life. I feel pretty blessed to have lived the dream, watched it unravel, and then rebirth myself like a phoenix from the ashes. Allow yourself to mourn what you must, and then greet each new day with enthusiasm, vigor, & vitality. Get after YOUR way!
/r/MGTOW27/04/19 06:58 PM
21

Im-paired bonding
/r/MGTOW26/04/19 07:03 PM
1

The Razor's Edge (Bill Murray version), Constantine, The Accountant , Open Range, Dead Man
/r/MGTOW25/04/19 06:16 AM
2

Yup, stayed in that hotel, the Grand Amranth, across the canal a few times. Nice spot by the station. Voyagers coffee shop across the way.
/r/MGTOW23/04/19 01:24 PM
15

Not impressed. You didn’t even ask them about dildos, vibrators & other “empowering” sex toys for females. I bet the majority—if not every—one of the girls you interviewed has used a simulacrum for a penis. You seem to think you were edgy. Not so much, looked more like you were trying to scope a date.
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 05:18 AM
21

Siddhartha was onto this O about 2500 years ago! Contemplation on the body for overcoming lust
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 03:02 AM
2

From a woman’s standpoint that’s just rote practicality. From a man’s standpoint— isn’t that ROMANTIC???
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 10:06 PM
5

Excellent post, really puts it in a nutshell. Things, while never 50s postcard perfect, have devolved at an alarming rate, but this sub allows men from around the world to compare notes and realize they are not struggling in isolation. DO NOT mindlessly submit yourself because someone is using shaming tactics to manipulate you. Develop skills, use your authority, and no apologies necessary.
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 04:50 PM
3

I actually think Aretha’s performance is the high point of her career, but James Brown, John Lee Hooker & Ray Charles are all amazing. And then there’s that “fine dining” experience! Orange whips all around!
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 03:01 AM
10

My dragon is bigger. & a fuck of a lot meaner
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 01:04 AM
5

Just give her a tequila shot or two & tell’er to swish real good
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 08:18 PM
4

& all the boys there at the bar began to sing along: “If you’ll be my Dixie chicken, I’ll be your Tennessee lamb...”
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 08:21 AM
5

It’s a massive trauma. With a lot of reflection, self discipline & hard work, you can realize how simple the pleasures of being alive really are. & then you can look at the world and truly chart your own course.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 05:19 AM
13

18 months, over/under?
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 02:39 AM
8

I get your frustration over the blatant hypocrisy but it has always been this way with women. GYOW
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 12:21 AM
1

Perhaps. But from the bottom of the gorge.
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 11:22 PM
36

This sucks. Not your narrative, but the actual experience. Been there.
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 10:48 PM
2

So I might agree (when it suits me) or I might not agree (when it suits me). But don’t call me a manipulative bitch, that’s toxic!
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 10:15 PM
14

It just another example of AWALT, they regard any past relation as a possible resource. Shut that shit down.
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 05:36 PM
3

Excellent. I jack that shit
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 03:01 AM
18

Here’s my 2 cents: pay attention NOW to at least a thing or two you want to explore IN DEPTH when you get to FIRE. The dream doesn’t stop at the freedom, THEN you literally get the freedom to dream! Minimalism can be a big part of it, but you also can and should indulge your passions, after all you earned it! So whether it’s travel or oil paints or a darkroom or a fine ass Les Paul through a Fender, begin the plan with what’s next in mind. Of course it will evolve and lead you into new ideas bef…
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 02:51 AM
3

Milady, your unicorn... is saddled.
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 01:50 AM
1

It’s YOUR OWN way, brother. You’re planning a bold strategy. Let’s see how it plays out.
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 11:50 PM
1

“Buy the ticket, take the ride.” Hunter S. Thompson
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 11:23 PM
4

Attaboy. Risk it.
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 10:52 PM
89

Alpha posturing
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 09:42 PM
3

Spot on. Saw it when we split. She was never all that.
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 06:28 PM
13

I don’t think they’re intelligent enough to put it together that it’s a sociological trend. For each woman it’s all about HER feels, HER attention supply and HER orbit. Lots of individual women feeling the squeeze, but it’s not like they’ll help a sister out. They are as cutthroat as can be
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 04:46 PM
8

Oh, the misery
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 04:44 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/b7druz/mgtow_reminder_when_spring_hits_with_full_force/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 07:23 AM
2

Removed by mods, I’m guessing.
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 05:55 AM
2

Some douche who came here advocating harassment of an ex
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 05:52 AM
1

Sobriety might help
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 03:29 AM
11

See my exact same post, although it’s been a full year. & suddenly she needs an attention fix. Block the bitch
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 11:34 PM
20

Sicario, at least the first one. Looked like Emily Blunt was in over her head the entire time.
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 05:09 PM
54

This is such condescending crap. Wow. I can’t believe that ANY biz can treat 50% of their customer base like this & actually remain relevant. So glad I ditched this shit.
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 12:24 AM
2

Fucking awesome!
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 11:47 PM
6

Standing ovation, Captain!
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 04:04 PM
12

Bravo
/r/MGTOW28/03/19 04:07 AM
3

I’ve commented before. I like your vision & the way you often present city scapes with little human intrusion. Nice to get an image of you doing you.
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 09:32 PM
2

Practice regularly for many years. There are lots of different “yogas” out there, what I do is what I’ve learned from different places & what works for me. Occasionally I’ll do a special occasion class at a studio but most of the time I practice at home. There is yoga for the body (asanas/postures), yoga of speech (vibration/cellular energy shift), and yoga of the mind (breath regulation/concentration/meditation). Self care is at the core of spiritual development & MGTOW
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 07:38 PM
11

Cost/benefit ratio based on time. If my time with her ADDs value to my life, then given the basics of no cohab/no government contract, maybe we take it day by day. Past experience had demonstrated that the COST rapidly exceeds the benefits, usually within a matter of a couple of months. Stay safe, gents
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 06:23 PM
2

Brilliant
/r/MGTOW26/03/19 05:15 AM
10

Absolutely, get clear of the noiz
/r/MGTOW24/03/19 03:49 PM
3

It’s a version of a diablo margarita—equal parts reposado tequila & mescal, honey-habanero simple syrup & lime juice, & ancho chili salted rim. Arriba!
/r/MGTOW24/03/19 02:13 PM
6

CLT
/r/MGTOW24/03/19 06:47 AM
3

Thanks for the share here. A dad standing tall
/r/MGTOW24/03/19 05:59 AM
4

Beauty!
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 07:19 PM
6

The prototypical thotbegone!
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 04:45 PM
14

LMAO, the truth, it burns...
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 04:21 AM
6

I am entranced by Bladerunner 2049. & if it’s not already on this list, Ex Machina. Both are visually stunning.
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 04:19 AM
3

Yeah, good film for sure
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 04:17 AM
8

Sip a whiskey, rip on a j, and go out & take in the moon & stars & galaxies
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 04:16 AM
1

Chase YOUR dreams
/r/MGTOW22/03/19 09:20 PM
3

Good on ya!
/r/MGTOW22/03/19 04:35 PM
1

Jeep Wrangler. Gets the job done & gets me to the places I want to go—wilderness.
/r/MGTOW19/03/19 03:45 AM
7

Beast mode!
/r/MGTOW18/03/19 11:53 PM
6

The crazier, the tighter the boomerang spiral. But they all boomerang, so remember to keep your head down!
/r/MGTOW18/03/19 08:39 PM
13

You know how you get a song stuck in your head & it can be totally annoying? “What have you done for me lately?” On repeat. For decades.
/r/MGTOW17/03/19 05:08 PM
5

I had one who was quite hot; never had kids and her body was still remarkably firm. Maybe she had work done, nothing obvious. But I think she was a rarity... most women into their forties & beyond... more trouble than it’s worth, which isn’t much. Menopause is like double-secret hamstering cray
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 10:04 PM
34

Will comment here because my situation is similar. 50s, divorced, kids run the gamut from engaged & interesting to having disowned me & no contact. In any case, they have my love, but it’s not a father’s job to simp. The contemplation on quality years remaining is a real & potent exercise. I have travelled a ton in these last few years, learned & grown immensely. I’m acquiring the property you hear so many MGTOWs dream about, & plan to be pretty much off grid in the next couple of years, though …
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 05:58 PM
12

Pure heart
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 05:36 PM
4

Love your images, Dude. Thanks for the shares, they elevate the vision
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 05:35 PM
14

You realize exactly how strong the romantic love conditioning is. Keeps me sharp.
/r/MGTOW15/03/19 04:41 AM
3

NOW you’re closer to your own answer, my friend
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 06:46 AM
1

Good words
/r/MGTOW07/03/19 05:56 PM
3

Ain’t life grand?!
/r/MGTOW07/03/19 02:51 AM
5

I drink less, but smarter. I drink way better stuff, & a single scotch or smoky tequila is usually all I need. Definitely not about forgetting... quite the opposite. Life is a temporary phenomenon so on occasion, I’m gonna toast to it while I can!
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 08:50 PM
26

As if they ever settle for half
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 01:26 AM
4

It always felt like however high the bar was, you could never quite reach it. & if you ever came close... She'd just move the bar. Fucking exhausting
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 10:11 PM
8

I so resonate with what you’re saying. When I finally got out of it (long marriage), family & friends were like, “we were happy for you if you were happy, but we could never figure out how you handled that. Now it feels like YOU are back.” If you’re an empathetic male & you get involved in this situation, you truly are screwed, because by the time you realize something’s askew, you’re already in over your head and extracting yourself from it means leaving pounds of flesh, possessions, maybe even…
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 06:48 AM
2

Love that vibe
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 05:37 AM
1

Spot on
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 05:34 AM
1

Preach (then pass it)
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 02:14 AM
2

What a weird fetish (he sez, with a head scratching glance in the mirror)
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 02:09 AM
7

What’s a 6’ guy call Brittanys? The cray to stick your dick in if you’re feeling lucky, punk.
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 07:59 PM
2

Got FIRE?
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 07:56 PM
3

When you are kind to yourself in this way, as well, it’s EASY to be kind to genuine people. And they pick it up off of you. Of course you also have to develop strong boundaries to keep clingers (of either gender) at bay, but once you discover the source of kindness for yourself, it’s no big deal to live from that place. I just shut people down if they try to climb in; up to each of us to get it from the source within, & not suck the marrow out of another
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 07:49 PM
23

I am ADDICTED to just flowing from the one thing that holds my attention in immersive happiness to the NEXT thing that I WANT to do without approbation. Dancin’ my own way
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 07:11 PM
2

They’re no different. It’s the same “mine is mine, yours is mine,” and pretty quickly they will guilt you over any unwillingness to give your everything to meet their material thirsts. In some ways maybe it’s the very worst. They’ve already had a taste of the true high life, & they sure as hell aren’t going to pass it up, so either you’re dogging it to keep them there and facilitate their expanding largesse, or you’re a disposable utility. Probably both.
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 06:40 PM
5

Crabs in a bucket. People are projecting their own insecurities onto you, so they don’t have to be reminded about what true freedom and happiness look like. GYOW
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 06:30 PM
1

First read Jeanne Varenne’s Yoga & the Hindu Tradition Then look into Richard Miller’s books and practices (yoga nidra/irest). Also, Tenzin Wangyal’s book Awakening the Sacred Body
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 06:26 AM
1

ROFLMAO
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 02:43 AM
16

Going to the mall is hardly dope. I’m not saying don’t splurge on yourself occasionally, but don’t be a mindless consumer.
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 01:33 AM
9

Who hurt you?
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 09:02 PM
1

For me, “travel” has been a huge inspiration. Not to cities or to places that are Instagram enviable, but places like national parks, places where you can observe animals in the wild and reconnect to the beauty of the wilderness. That’s become my passion & sustenance, & it doesn’t take a lot of money to access, either.
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 06:39 PM
1

I hear you. I’m well into knowing it’s the right answer, having learned the hard way (at least only once!), but there are still days where I wistfully “wish” the right answer wasn’t so goddamn right. :/
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 06:35 PM
2

1) Sustained introspection. Meditation, REAL yoga, retreat to a community that supports inner work. When you have your shit together within, very little of what occurs without has any meaningful influence. You still win some & lose some, but your overall humor remains consistent and you learn from failures as much as from success. 2) Embrace the riskiness that comes from being a part of the natural world. Don’t try to insulate yourself from animality, explore your NATURE by spending as much time…
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 06:32 PM
3

You got it!
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 04:53 PM
6

I look at it differently. What you see in the last panel is the beginning of a new evolutionary strategy. Sure there will be post-MGTOW, whatever the fuck that is, but as long as there's men intent on self actualizing and, as a side effect, the inevitable influence and betterment of human existence, well there ya go.
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 07:06 AM
1

Yes, but there are ways to minimize that. Stay away from resorts and fancy restaurants. There are pretty amazing Airbnbs & follow the locals for food!
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 04:55 AM
2

Dunno where your from, eh, but if you haven’t been to Vancity/Victoria, it’s good stuff. Also how bout Hawaii?
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 02:42 AM
2

Awesome. Look into the Tour du Mont Blanc... Switzerland, France, Italy
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 02:41 AM
25

This sounds almost exactly like my story, just lacking the counterfeiting investigation. Sometimes when you look back it’s hard to imagine that was your life or that you ever thought that was “happy enough”. Now the only thing I lock down is properties! Cheers, mate!
/r/MGTOW28/02/19 10:29 PM
2

Archer
/r/MGTOW28/02/19 07:51 AM
9

That & a pair of testicles
/r/MGTOW28/02/19 07:51 AM
10

That’s a sweet setup!
/r/MGTOW26/02/19 06:58 PM
6

Looks in mirror... I got this
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 06:57 PM
6

Nice post. Thank you. I appreciate the solitude (which can be quite healing) vs “loneliness” distinction. The one thing this piece doesn’t delve into—that certainly requires a deep dive— is the crucial foundations of the relationship one has with oneself.
/r/MGTOW24/02/19 08:04 PM
2

Haha my takeaway? Don’t wear red
/r/MGTOW24/02/19 06:14 AM
5

Nope. Waste of time. Although I went looking for “resolution,” whatever that meant, and what it came to mean is “I am done with this BS.” Have not looked back!
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 05:43 PM
1

Hey, some trial & error is entirely appropriate. But mostly I’m saying, take a chance, pick something that makes you feel VITAL, & go deep into that. For me it has been outdoor sports—circuit treks, kayaking, skiing, snorkeling. Or maybe it’s a car, a bike, or a dog like you see a lot of here. Push yourself in the direction of something you love & do it for you. It’s NOT “selfish,” because contentment and relaxation in one’s own true self spread to those around you. Peace (& GYOW) are contagious
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 07:28 AM
3

Well said
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 07:40 PM
9

That ill health one is so harsh, man. I hope you’re able to work on getting the care you need and self care to the extent possible. I hope you have some good buddies to talk to and share time with. Stay tenacious in terms of development yourself however you can, intellectually, socially, look for the opportunities. Glad if this sub has been supportive & perhaps some relief to know it really wasn’t about you.
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 07:36 PM
7

Look up “parental alienation” & be prepared for a rough go. My girl turned 18 recently and will have no contact with me. I continue to try to do the right thing, but it’s not a good example to jump through hoops for a moody hormonal adolescent. So my advice is to try to take the long view... take good care of yourself & do the things you love, & when an opportunity to reach out to her comes along that doesn’t feel overly “manipulated,” if you’re feeling generous go for it, but know there may be …
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 07:07 PM
7

1) Ghost. No need to make any big deal about it. Just drop her. If the friend at the gym inquires, just say “O I’m so busy right now.” If the chick herself engages you, say you’ve started dating someone else. 2) Pursue mastery. Whether it’s in work or a hobby, pick a skill and grind until you see the progress & get GOOD at it. Obviously, the point is to pick something you like—guitar, archery, cooking, rock climbing doesn’t matter. Satisfaction & contentment come from commitment & evidence of pr…
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 04:53 PM
19

Damn. This.
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 01:14 AM
1

Enjoy a little bit of the poet, & take heart https://youtu.be/RZgBhyU4IvQ
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 10:01 PM
23

This community gets maligned out of knee jerk reaction & the habit of white knighting. At its core it’s about personal responsibility & self respect, or so say I, anyway. & MGTOW, as others have pointed out, can be the first in a series of more & more profound realizations about social conditioning and “plantation” mentality. The old crabs in a bucket simile comes to mind... misery loves company & those stuck in shit have a strong adverse reaction when they see someone else moving to extract the…
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 09:10 PM
3

“You Can Go your Own Way” by Chris Rea https://youtu.be/3wTjsb4qpVQ
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 07:19 PM
2

Yep. Sometimes. But not always.
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 10:35 PM
3

Oh yeah the Texas Cannonball
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 09:44 PM
4

Well said. Kinda like John Lennon’s “Watching the Wheels.” The carousel goes on, but you’re not on it anymore.
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 12:09 AM
2

Now THAT I’d hit
/r/MGTOW09/02/19 05:52 AM
3

I ate out, & left 20%
/r/MGTOW07/02/19 03:09 AM
6

Massage, you find a good masseuse who gets to know your body, it’s a wonderful thing
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 08:46 PM
5

Endorphins. Sweat. I prefer to get outside, somewhere in nature where the beauty distracts me and is inspirational.
/r/MGTOW03/02/19 06:45 PM
3

How long to you need to keep knocking your head (& pecker) against that wall? There’s your answer
/r/MGTOW03/02/19 06:44 PM
2

Got to see him back in the day on that tour (“So”). Fantastic artist.
/r/MGTOW03/02/19 06:07 PM
3

Sounds like your personal version of the shadow from depth psychology. See my user name? I hear what you’re saying. You have to inquire inward and bring the unconscious into consciousness. Peter Gabriel has a great tune about it... “Digging in the Dirt.”
/r/MGTOW03/02/19 05:05 PM
11

I hear the disappointment in your tone. It’s a hard truth to handle that the romantic version of how relationships are presented to men is total bs & the reality of how women behave and scheme is a completely different agenda. I have times where I get lost in wishing it weren’t so, but generally I KNOW that in fact this is exactly how it is, & I’m better off GMOW. Maybe the simplest example is going to bed when I want & waking up when I want. No late night drama & no whiny beginnings to the day.…
/r/MGTOW03/02/19 04:59 PM
28

Ha! therapist has had enough of her bs & is ready to pass her along to another caregiver! Nope nope nope.
/r/MGTOW02/02/19 06:45 PM
5

Just when I thought I’d seen it all... MGTOW, are we the keepers of the freak show that is this hovel?
/r/MGTOW02/02/19 05:14 AM
3

O brother, I’ve been there. There are responsibilities of love & care as a parent, but a certain part of that love is establishing standards & it’s no use getting run over & ground under in the name of “love.” Glad you have your head on straight!
/r/MGTOW02/02/19 05:09 AM
2

I know it sounds crazy but the far side of rage is peace, acceptance, SELF forgiveness & reconnecting to the things that inspire you to make a worthwhile life. Find what fills your sails & do that, A LOT. For me it is hiking & exploring national parks & a whole lot of other outdoor activities. But I also struggled into a career I love & I have friends & family that provide a lot of love. Gird your loins & do NOT admit failure. There is purpose out there, pursue it with pride & dignity and leave …
/r/MGTOW02/02/19 05:07 AM
6

It’s a long haul, brother. My girl did therapy in her mid teens (living with momma’ll do that to ya!), we got to interact for real during that as we had letter exchanges, mediated calls with a therapist, a visit and parents program, etc etc etc. 3 years later upon turning 18 she’s cut me out of her life like I’m a disease. I KNOW she is filled with anger & resentment and is the most cringy of “feminists” etc but l have to hope that when she gets some actual maturity under her belt she’ll realize…
/r/MGTOW02/02/19 01:17 AM
2

or “Thee.” Not my meme, but point taken!
/r/MGTOW01/02/19 11:27 PM
5

Everyday hero you are
/r/MGTOW01/02/19 10:19 PM
3

Waters, certainly. Always been a shrill one. I prefer DG’s tasty guitar licks & sociopolitical diffidence
/r/MGTOW01/02/19 10:11 PM
2

Good on ya! Enjoy your kids & the free air!
/r/MGTOW31/01/19 05:21 PM
4

You got gaslit (raises own hand, sheepishly)! If you’re not familiar with that term, “gaslighting” google around on that one, too. It’s like Stockholm syndrome... what we believe to be true is so deeply influenced by the people around us that we can reach a point where what constitutes “normal” & “real” has become something deeply distorted and poisonous. Good for you for doing the legwork & getting your head on straight!
/r/MGTOW30/01/19 09:02 PM
2

Tip o’ the cap, my friend
/r/MGTOW30/01/19 05:59 PM
2

Thanks, really relatable post for me. I have had on again off again correspondence with an old flame from 30 years back, but she is way more batshit cray than your old friend. She’s married & blatantly wants to crank me up & orbit me. She knows I’m financially independent and is still hypergamously looking to trade up from her steady but boring beta bux hub. I want nothing from her & just try to be polite as any old friend would be to another, & she hamsters away at me. So the communication is t…
/r/MGTOW30/01/19 05:42 PM
2

That looks like butt stuff
/r/MGTOW29/01/19 09:29 PM
3

Brilliant 👏🏻
/r/MGTOW15/01/19 11:19 PM
3

Huge Knopfler fan. He’s touring North America this year, gonna try to score a ticket fo sho. But he hardly pioneered the reso. For some real fun, check out Son House & Bukka White! When they weren’t thumping it, it was a means of self defense in rowdy jukes!
/r/MGTOW15/01/19 10:50 PM
9

Miniolian, a parlor sized resonator
/r/MGTOW15/01/19 06:36 PM
2

The vibe. It’s a little bit smaller, less pollution, more of a coherent “city”. Phoenix is like LA or like a fat cow, it’s just busting out everywhere...
/r/MGTOW15/01/19 06:02 AM
2

Tucson or San Diego
/r/MGTOW15/01/19 05:33 AM
3

Haha, buddy, that’s YOUR projection, “mutual respect.” Mutual respect, lol, that’s a good one!
/r/MGTOW15/01/19 02:11 AM
4

That’s the ticket, indeed
/r/MGTOW15/01/19 02:04 AM
5

I really believe social media had a LOT to do with it. Suddenly chicks could dangle themselves again in front of every guy they’ve ever known, & deluded dudes think they can still get that crush from high school, not doing the math on how many miles of pipe she’s smoked.
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 10:06 PM
5

Take your lumps, be a good dad to your kids, otherwise GYOW & enjoy breathing the free air
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 03:12 AM
7

Only proper response: SOLD
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 11:41 PM
9

LOL, pretty much took the wall toppling over on you, didn’t it? “Older women have learned the importance of reasonable expectations. We know that all our desires will not be fulfilled, that the world isn’t organized around pleasing us and that others, especially our children, are not waiting for our opinions and judgments. “
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 10:11 PM
5

‘Xactly!
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 08:32 PM
13

Great shot, greater life!
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 08:30 PM
9

“ “
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 08:26 PM
1

LOL, love it. “No mas”
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 02:33 AM
8

Attaboy!
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 01:26 AM
1

Push/pull
/r/MGTOW12/01/19 10:14 PM
3

One of my all time favorites
/r/MGTOW12/01/19 10:11 PM
13

godmode
/r/MGTOW12/01/19 07:05 PM
1

Aren’t you just a paragon of virtue, dirtying your undergarments by (s)trolling through MGTOW? Nice delusion, friend.
/r/MGTOW12/01/19 04:28 AM
73

Eddie didn’t even listen to himself
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 08:39 PM
14

The entitlement expectation is truly bizarro
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 08:04 PM
45

The best!
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 07:00 PM
40

You are doing nothing wrong. You are asserting your right to enforce boundaries in a space you are paying for/providing. If they don’t like your rules, they don’t have to be there. I say stick to your guns and hold the line.
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 06:21 PM
10

It’s at that point that they open the spigot on the wine box
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 03:45 PM
8

Engineer a trip for yourself. Pick a trail, read up on it, get yourself the gear you’ll need and provisions that will make you happy (good food, good mood), & then go execute your plan. It’s awesome to spend time out in a part of nature you’ve never been to before, & there is a real sense of accomplishment after covering a 30 mile hike or kayaking a sound for 5 days & nights. You can do this alone, or thru meet ups or adventure outfitters you can join a group. I’ve done both and each offers diff…
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 03:31 PM
87

I have had a number of red pilled convos with male Uber drivers. I have never used the term MGTOW but we have talked about relationshits, the cray of the modern woman, etc. Funny to literally JUST meet a guy but because you’re driving around somewhere, you can get into pretty serious shit quite quickly. I always tip those dudes extra.
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 05:07 AM
9

Hilarious? My sense of humor just died.
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 01:30 AM
3

You, my friend, are one of my community faves. Attaboy!
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 09:53 PM
7

Attaboy, we love success stories!
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 09:49 PM
17

Can’t remember the exact cite, but it wasn’t long ago that there was a post about middle-aged women being the highest rising population of binge drinkers. But that’s because they’re victims, not pathologically toxic feminists, amiright?! All that therapy seems to be doing wonders! s/
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 09:45 PM
3

The hand wringing & rush to judgment are dismaying. Are you guys really unable to scroll past what you don’t find useful while using your own developed judgment to hunt for what can make a difference to you? When did the wide world, including the internet, become a place you expect to meet your needs & sensitivities? Bitch much? It’s been said dozens of times— be the change. Also, screw you for piling on the men who are processing their red pill rage. Society has been engineered for a long long …
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 09:41 PM
3

Amazing breakdown, very, very grateful for the share, this guy spells it out succinctly & clearly. Wow.
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 07:10 PM
1

I appreciate your taking the time. You’re more empathetic than me!
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 05:35 AM
6

I spent 4 months or so in counseling with my ex trying to get something like an approach to 50/50 (as above, she was the one who cheated, but she only did that because it was my fault. Ha!) Anyway, it took a while, but the counseling did lead me to the closure I sought. The marriage had to end, because she was never going to stop blaming me for any and everything that ever didn’t go her way (I won’t even go into the f’ed up stuff from her childhood before I even knew her). In any case, LET. IT. …
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 04:40 AM
1

I’m that age, divorced at 48 after 20 yr marriage. Some of my oldest friends are now entering their 3rd decade of marriage with university aged kids, some of the kids even getting married themselves. My friends are openly envious of my freedom and self sufficiency. I do listen to their bellyaches because I can identify with it from my own time on the plantation. I don’t really try to redpill them because it would probably end the friendship; I can see their weakness and if I opened the door to h…
/r/MGTOW08/01/19 06:38 PM
26

From a friend... he was fixing the gutter in front of a kitchen window and the ladder he was on collapsed. He grabbed the gutter one handed & luckily it held his weight, averting a 2 story drop. He was able to get himself steadied and dropped & rolled with only a slight tweak to his ankle. His (now ex) wife was at the kitchen window, saw the whole thing. When he hobbled inside for an ice pack she started bitching at him, afraid he’d damaged the gutter.
/r/MGTOW08/01/19 05:22 PM
12

Doing the same next week in BC!
/r/MGTOW08/01/19 04:16 AM
10

Do you hang out with other women? Or smoke crack?
/r/MGTOW08/01/19 04:10 AM
6

Sweet
/r/MGTOW08/01/19 12:17 AM
86

THEY call it a loan. Everyone else knows it’s theft
/r/MGTOW08/01/19 12:16 AM
1

Lenny Kravitz covered this, think he learned the hard way. Like me. D’oh
/r/MGTOW07/01/19 10:49 PM
16

& how did you achieve your fame, SS? Beaver shot, of course
/r/MGTOW07/01/19 10:14 PM
4

Went thru this exactly, dating post-divorce that naturally lead into “nah, I’m good, peace out.” No way the juice is worth the squeeze. The daily red pills are important, but I also manage to stay friendly with a few females (family & a couple of old friends). I’m not interested in them that way, so it’s easy enough to occasionally lend a hand or enjoy hanging out. & make my boundaries crystal clear. But I have LOTS of me time & lots of time with guy friends unencumbered by bitchy wives & girlfr…
/r/MGTOW07/01/19 04:30 PM
21

The “new economy”... & we wonder why Rome is burning
/r/MGTOW07/01/19 04:07 AM
7

You already know how this ends. Enjoy the hormones until Crayville time!
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 11:35 PM
2

Fucking awesome. I dig it. There’s a “psy” skill called remote viewing. This is like visionary prognosticating. You know the path is indubitably leading you higher. Forward!
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 01:40 AM
2

The Jamaican coffee is fucking mana, my dude. Mornings with Jah be ICY
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 01:33 AM
4

We’ve got our own emotional stuff to deal with; it’s not a requisite that you deal with someone else’s.
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 01:14 AM
10

There is no bottom
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 12:33 AM
9

Keep digging, brother
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 12:23 AM
2

Depends on how attached you feel to a place & your acumen for the market. While the freedom of renting is a big upside, if its within your means & you spend some time learning the game, you can enjoy a nice home & pick up an decent bump when you move on without too much effort.
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 12:12 AM
20

You, my friend, appear to lack imagination
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 12:03 AM
12

Attaboy, muthafucka!!!!
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 11:54 PM
21

Just opt out
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 11:52 PM
5

IMHO that’s right, but we learn by modeled behavior so you have to imagine the qualities you want to grow into through examples of virility. So you have to start with what you admire in others & acquire it as a result of disciplined development.
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 08:29 PM
1

Irie unto thee, bredda
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 08:20 PM
3

Dude, even if you’re all those things, you’re not lost until you lose your self respect. I hear they can do removals, & that it’s wicked painful. Seems like you’ve earned that.
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 07:48 PM
1

Google hack— the answer to (& in) marriage counseling is: “Don’t do it!”
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 07:19 PM
3

Possession of less than 2 oz is no longer criminal. People getting into ganja cuisine FAST. Negril is going to be a leader in Carribean ganja cuisine/whole foods (ital) lifestyle... it’s a sweet spot
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 05:28 PM
3

Bingo. Gotta be you no apologies
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 04:32 PM
2

& now yer laughin! “& all the boys there at the bar began to sing along... if you’ll be my Dixie chicken...”
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 04:25 PM
2

I’m currently in Jamaica. It’s not without some problems, but people are SUPER friendly, lots of NSA possibilities if that’s your game, but also no one pressuring you about your “status.” & easy to get back to States if necessary
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 02:58 PM
32

This. They’re not alive without psychodrama feels. Men use rationality, philosophy & inquiry to eradicate psychodrama.
/r/MGTOW02/01/19 02:49 PM
3

Couldn’t ask for a better companion animal! HNY
/r/MGTOW01/01/19 03:43 PM
6

Pyre? Great breed
/r/MGTOW01/01/19 03:38 PM
4

Nerp
/r/MGTOW01/01/19 03:36 PM
2

Got her eye on you, don’t be fooled
/r/MGTOW01/01/19 03:42 AM
3

Beauty
/r/MGTOW31/12/18 10:48 PM
6

Lancealot. Perfect.
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 08:32 PM
78

I’m not a gamer at all & that’s freaking cool
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 06:45 PM
6

The “end game” is living a life in truth & awareness. So it’s either happening now, or it’s not. Siddhartha noted that all compounded things revert to decay (bodies & relationships both). MGTOW is just a refusal to blindly ignore what’s right in front of your face. Take a selfie & describe what you see. There’s your endgame. If you don’t like aspects of what you see, then get hustling
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 05:28 PM
3

We are on the same page, my friend. I have a plenty active life and I am my own captain, no need for a 2nd, much less a mutinying bitch with her own plans for me. Carry on, good man
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 04:56 PM
1

Well said. Don’t know about others but I was doing the MGTOW thing before I ever even knew about Reddit. This sub just showed me in a really dramatic way that my own experience-based assumptions were spot on.
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 02:17 PM
9

So very true. I don’t think it’s an unfair question to ask in your 50s, what does a relationship with this person ADD to my life? I have yet to find one the measures up to that valuation standard.
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 02:14 PM
1

Brilliant
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 02:15 AM
3

Check out his standup routines. Like that better than his shows. He’s a divorced dad with 2 daughters.
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 02:03 AM
1

& your choices are only as broad as the options you’ve exposed yourself to. So you have to keep your head up and stay alert to what’s new and what possibilities might be presenting themselves. Every moment. Pattern recognition. Seeing the Matrix & how it shifts.
/r/MGTOW29/12/18 06:58 PM
95

The vomit at the back of my throat is real
/r/MGTOW27/12/18 06:55 PM
2

Bonnie Raitt
/r/MGTOW27/12/18 06:54 PM
6

Haha, we’ll let “tingles” be the judge
/r/MGTOW27/12/18 05:29 PM
1

Yeah mon. Tell the children the truth.
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 11:20 PM
17

I feel your pain, man. I haven’t had a Christmas with my kids since we split, only 1 Thanksgiving. When I try to respectfully coparent with her (hard because at this point I’ve zero respect for her), she puts the blame on them saying they don’t want to see me and she won’t make them. Of course that’s the core of co-parenting, being able to recognize the importance of the relationship to the non-custodial parent. But can a woman EVER meet you halfway? Of course fucking not. Stay the course & take…
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 08:59 PM
7

I’m even on a family vacation as the “fun-cle.” Be you & do it your way, give no fucks except when you’re in a generous mood!
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 06:56 PM
1

Merry Christmas, brother. Enjoy the f*ck out of it, let the good times roll!
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 06:53 PM
8

At the core of your post I see— “I’m glad”
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 04:17 AM
4

Mind. Blown. Whaaaaaaaat?!
/r/MGTOW24/12/18 04:43 PM
6

Tragically, this IS the way they think now. Back the fuck away, & don’t turn your back on ‘em as you go. They will backstab you without a moment’s reflection.
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 06:07 PM
2

We’ll miss the inspirational shots, but not the arc of the story! Via con dios, amigo!
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 04:07 PM
1

Appreciate this, good read, still feels like mirroring. She “sees” the problem, realizes women ARE the problem, but sugar coats it. So who’s this supposed to be more palatable to? Feminists who critique her? Men like me who will simply retort with “AWALT”? Also curious that according to her she’s never encountered a MGTOW. If ALL men are preoccupied with women does that make us AMALT?
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 06:21 AM
3

Amazing share, man. The ghosting is brutal. I really do hope they come around eventually. Stay strong.
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 05:35 AM
7

Feelin’ ya. At the moment only 1 of 3 (my son) will speak to me at all.
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 03:01 AM
60

Aside from terms like AWALT and the Wall, something rarely discussed here is “the change”—menopause. I think it’s a factor in many “late stage” divorces. I think it was a factor in mine, which sounds similar to what OP’s father is experiencing. When they hit menopause women really wig out, & they often weaponize that against their partners. I think this should be discussed more openly, if not by men, than TO middle aged women. They get the notion that the green grass on the other side is so much…
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 06:04 PM
2

365 Tao
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 02:44 AM
8

Danish. With a danish would be nice
/r/MGTOW15/12/18 04:44 PM
4

True dat
/r/MGTOW15/12/18 06:58 AM
3

I don’t feel you fleshed this out fully. First, the immediate counter argument would be, “Well how do you calculate the male deaths induced by female-related stress?” Screw worrying about war, resource scarcity & competition, how many men can we quantify that are literally nagged or harassed into an early grave? I think it’s a lot more than the number of women who die at a former lover’s hand. You don’t even think to consider the most obvious counterpoint? Secondly, MGTOW is exactly the opposite…
/r/MGTOW14/12/18 06:01 AM
3

Also, meatballs
/r/MGTOW13/12/18 11:11 PM
20

Meow...
/r/MGTOW13/12/18 04:44 PM
11

Hamster on, strong independent bored wahman
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 08:50 PM
1

Arizona
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 04:03 PM
7

Attaboy, you got yourself there, now the future’s a blank canvas, go all Jackson Pollock all over it
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 12:55 AM
3

Glengoolie... for the best of times
/r/MGTOW09/12/18 07:56 PM
2

Right or wrong, I like to think it better than the ghettoization explanation. Both work
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 06:26 AM
2

Its origins actually go back to the evil nurse in the movie One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest. Bitch got off on her capacity to control institutionalized men on a ward. https://youtu.be/faeEnoYcT7w
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 04:08 AM
1

This is awesome
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 04:05 AM
4

She was a “journalist”
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 03:26 AM
7

This is how my ex used to play card & board games— “family rules” only revealed when they helped her in the moment. And if she ever was down, cheating was always fair game for her
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 03:25 AM
2

Stepford thotzis!
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 12:35 AM
12

Hey man, when some prophecies DON’T come true, that’s cause for celebration!
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 12:34 AM
16

I got “shit tested” by a woman half my age with a Daddy complex last February; I was telling her I was dating post-divorce but had no plans for another LTR. She mockingly accused me, “You’re not a MGTOW, are you?” I had no idea what she was talking about. She told me a little more but I barely knew what reddit was. Anyway, some months later I googled it & viola, I ended up here, truly freaked out to realize there are so many men who have endured similar relationship trauma.
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 12:03 AM
2

That was epically awesome!
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 11:18 PM
10

Glad he won the judgment but still the aggro, for that chick? GYOW
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 09:46 PM
41

I mean, we can all have brain farts sometimes but it is ridiculous that when a woman can’t figure a simple solution it is ALWAYS somehow an unlucky dude’s fault. Jiminey crickets
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 09:42 PM
8

For me it was crazy long hikes until my feet pounded and my toes turned black & blue, but yeah, this is how you PROCESS the rage of betrayal.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 07:36 PM
19

Spontaneous combustion?
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 03:09 AM
24

Dude, get a grip on yourself.
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 01:05 AM
5

This is some boundary-breaking levels of cray
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 11:01 PM
1

Preach
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 09:02 PM
2

You guys know the old John Lennon song “Watching the Wheels”? Yeah, that. There’s actually still a lot of land out there, or vans, or boats. My inner life is rich, my outer world disciplined.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 04:10 AM
11

Enjoy the show! I do this a few times a year. No DUI happening, fun to let loose
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 12:56 AM
1

Takes a bit of time to figure, but yeah, this!
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 06:32 PM
9

Heartily agree. I’m not suggesting escapism. I’m suggesting that literally grand vistas help contextualize the size of one’s psychological problems (quite minuscule in actuality) & also provide the opportunity for the reflection and contemplation that significant endeavors require as crucible. A change of scene can provide a shift in perspective. But yeah, then you’ve got to get back home and start pursuing those inspirations. But also... all goals go for naught. Impermanence is the great unchan…
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 02:08 AM
53

I suggest a major change of scene. Take a long vacation and go somewhere completely new, challenge yourself to do something that scares you a little but also excites you. Hike. Bike. Paddle. Sail. Scuba. Etc etc. Life is a big ass playground, so explore
/r/MGTOW24/11/18 08:21 PM
3

There are a number of options. I love my coffee but also monitor my intake. If you feel it contributes to anxiety, cut it with decaf (“half caf”) or switch to decaf entirely. Or you could try black teas or green teas, both of which have caffeine but many people have different reactions to (less jitters). Finally there’s matcha, which I just can’t get into but many people swear it does the trick for them & is supposed to be quite healthy.
/r/MGTOW24/11/18 04:59 PM
2

Unwrap those tentacles and politely show her the door.
/r/MGTOW24/11/18 01:43 AM
9

Congrats, man, welcome to the free 50s! Don’t sweat the occasional loneliness, reframe it as solitude and explore the depths & your hobbies. Use meet ups that interest you if you want to hook up with new people, enjoy your time & influence with your son, and most of all revel in the PEACE & freedom of getting to live your life as you wish. I know it starts out raw like you’ve been flayed, but you’ve just shed a skin and the future is bright AF!
/r/MGTOW23/11/18 10:51 PM
2

Well done
/r/MGTOW23/11/18 10:46 PM
18

Dude. Did you miss the hypergamy part? It’s ALL OVER Hindu mythology. It’s not about getting a woman, it’s about being done with the “romance game.” Got Kali?
/r/MGTOW23/11/18 07:52 PM
15

Truth from start to finish.
/r/MGTOW22/11/18 10:39 PM
3

That’s a nice perspective
/r/MGTOW22/11/18 06:35 PM
15

Gentlemen, my advice is nature. Find a park, or a creek, or an ocean or the lake. Walk 5 miles. It will ground you in your body & put you back into your physicality. Got me through the worst of times, so that’s my advice.
/r/MGTOW22/11/18 01:43 AM
15

I’m proud of you. I play, but taking the step to do so in public is a sack check. Congrats, glad it went well!
/r/MGTOW22/11/18 12:41 AM
24

Classic
/r/MGTOW22/11/18 12:15 AM
9

I hear ya, buddy! Lemme tell it in reverse... I was in a marriage for 2 decades that went south. I tried everything I could think of to salvage it (seemed like the right idea at the time?). Nope, she demanded divorce, so divorce it was. Divorce takes planning and a lot of legal rigatoni, it’s not a short or easy process. So when I’m headed to the lawyer’s office to finally sign the papers, I’m actually being self aware & wondering, what am I feeling about this? What is this going to be like? (Li…
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 10:54 PM
4

Volunteer & see how you feel about it. Big Brothers is a great organization. Or start at an animal rescue. (For reference, I have an adult son & it’s true, he is one of the joys of my life. Yeah, I’d go thru the crap with his mom again for him, without question.)
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 08:29 PM
21

That is really sad. Her: I can still manipulate you just like old times, right? Right?
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 07:05 PM
43

& she STILL strikes a pose like she has shit to do with the reasons everyone is there in the first place...
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 07:00 PM
2

Go get ‘em!
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 06:25 PM
3

Nauseating
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 03:16 AM
2

You are one sick fuck, and I heartily applaud you
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 03:10 AM
2

Yeah, parental alienation, it’s a thing
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 03:05 AM
1

& the crowd goes wild!
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 03:02 AM
1

& sleep with one eye open
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 03:00 AM
7

This guy is going to get FLAYED
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 02:59 AM
9

Stay classy, cunt
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 02:56 AM
105

“Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner.” — This guy, in Heat
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 02:49 AM
1

Ha! Like Jennifers AREN’T cray through & through? LMAO... & crying, too, ‘cause I made both these mistakes!!
/r/MGTOW20/11/18 11:27 PM
7

You, sir, are of my vintage. Punctuation & spelling, phenomenal structures, probably generated by men!
/r/MGTOW20/11/18 11:25 PM
20

If there’s better than that... then heaven awaits!
/r/MGTOW20/11/18 11:23 PM
3

Weekend in an Airstream in a canyon. Got a couple of good books, a geetar, and some amusements!
/r/MGTOW17/11/18 05:10 PM
7

It’s not easy, & the fallout isn’t easy, but STILL you know it is right every day at the gut level when you wake up and go to bed at night. Children eventually turn into young adults and begin to see their parents as real flesh & blood beings, not just idols. I was literally dying under the same roof as my ex... burying unfulfilled needs in too much food & drink. My chances for having healthy adult relationships with my kids are so much better post-divorce because my own health is back in my han…
/r/MGTOW17/11/18 01:52 PM
20

AND the Bluetooth! Jam on, brutha!
/r/MGTOW17/11/18 05:32 AM
1

Ah, the emotional shitshow. On 2nd thought... nah.
/r/MGTOW16/11/18 02:58 AM
3

Almost makes me wanna do it again. Almost.
/r/MGTOW16/11/18 02:06 AM
17

Got an LOL from me, take my upvote!
/r/MGTOW15/11/18 03:59 PM
2

Jo Nesbo, The Snowman
/r/MGTOW14/11/18 02:18 PM
1

I see possibility
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 09:15 AM
3

I have a similar situation with kids. I keep positive & try to initiate contact regularly, but regularly get the cold shoulder because it’s clearly telegraphed by their mom that positive interaction with me is a “betrayal” of her. Oh well. Eventually they’ll be adults and will see it for themselves, I have no doubt. But mostly I’m responding to give you an idea for dealing with the sleep side of things. The practice I’m recommending is called yoga nidra (or iRest), it’s really a progressive rela…
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 08:31 AM
11

Even George Michael knew it... everything she wants is everything she sees!
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 05:12 AM
10

I don’t give a rat’s ass what a woman thinks my ambitions should be. You have ambitions, baby, well by all means get on ‘em! Ain’t nobody else pulling that weight for ya
/r/MGTOW12/11/18 05:40 AM
36

Prepare for incoming
/r/MGTOW12/11/18 03:38 AM
10

Pussy pass denied. You ain’t “art”.
/r/MGTOW11/11/18 06:04 PM
3

Haha, this is a little aggressive, but not one iota of it is untrue!
/r/MGTOW11/11/18 05:36 PM
7

Ain’t gonna sugarcoat this. She’ll come trolling by again, sure as shit. So gird your loins & keep vigilant. They always come back.
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 11:54 PM
1

Right on. The Russell Brand/Gabor Mate podcast I linked to the sub digs into this as well. Contentment is an inside job.
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 08:57 PM
4

So true. Get used to no closure. You have to create that closure for yourself, no other way.
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 08:31 PM
6

I binged thru it right when it was released. Is there a 2nd season? Great show
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 08:29 PM
30

Talk about no self respect, & entitlement without boundaries!
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 05:01 PM
2

This is nauseating, but there it is, the female solipsistic rationale in a nutshell. Once the screen is pulled back, how could you ever go running after this? AWALT
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 04:34 PM
3

Fantastic. You have a whole life ahead of you
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 04:27 PM
2

Raises hand...
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 04:23 PM
2

Too Many Dirty Dishes by the iceman Albert Collins
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 05:21 AM
1

I don’t look at it as a hobby, because there’s a purpose that involves an aspect of self development. If there’s literally no purpose (even if sometimes the purpose is largely social, like reconnecting with family or friends), then what’s the point? So no it’s not a hobby, it’s strategic.
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 03:02 AM
2

It’s a weird dynamic to master, but you have to drag yourself (by yourself) into new situations & circumstances. Keep growing. Keeping reading, exploring the world, learning new things and finding at least a few trustworthy friends to bat around your developing ideas with. Personally, I feel like you can be polite to women, you just don’t feed any “intrigue,” anything beyond a normal interaction with a person. & of course interactions with females invariably become abnormal quite quickly, so rec…
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 02:57 AM
24

Ugh, bitches
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 02:52 AM
2

Constantine, also with Keanu. Ronin w/Deniro
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 12:37 AM
1

So very true. & this isn’t even a divorce/separation thing, it’s just the process of growing up & seeing, as you said, both of your parents as flawed beings. Then when you can actually see the perfection in the flaws & forgive, you truly honor yourself in your own completeness. There’s nothing worse that a parent can do than blame & shame the other parent to the child, because of course you carry a part of that parent, as well. So glad your healing is unfolding!
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 09:01 PM
3

I’m at least open to what you’re saying when you describe a temporary setback. But when your partner is on antidepressants for years and years and uses the diagnosis to justify whatever kind of behavior they want, then you have a problem, & sorry toots, the problem doesn’t start with me.
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 07:13 PM
12

Your post gives me chills because it’s something I could have written. I have no idea whether this is “normal”/awalt or the sign of disease, but in any case I could NOT stay around that because it was taking me down faster than her. Here’s to LIFE & living well!
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 05:31 PM
10

Traveling with women is the worst. You see half as much in twice the time, & they just go around posing everywhere, looking like a fool. For them the entire thing is about inspiring jealousy in someone
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 05:20 PM
1

The reflection of your own character and values.
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 05:53 AM
8

Hard pass. Not even a 2nd look.
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 05:00 AM
1

“So you can stick your little pins in that voodoo doll I'm very sorry, baby, doesn't look like me at all I'm standing by the window where the light is strong Ah, they don't let a woman kill you, not in the Tower of Song” RIP, Leonard
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 03:26 AM
3

Buuuuuuuut feelz!
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 12:24 AM
5

& why own when you can rent?
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 11:23 PM
3

I’m thinking about going for a paddle on Thanksgiving Day!
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 10:50 PM
17

LOL as we were having an annual convo about financial stuff & the kids a couple years back the ex took it upon herself to let me know she was “coming to terms with her anger about how I left her to grow old by herself.” This from the partner in the relationship who cheated, lied, attempted to shame, stonewalled her way thru months of counseling & then finally sued for divorce. Uh, yeah, honey bunch... good luck with that anger management. Darkman out!
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 09:29 PM
14

When a post-wall woman tells you right off the bat she’s “sex positive”... that’s a nah, dog.
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 09:21 PM
3

& now for my second thought. Meh, you guys is all mean & bitter. Boo
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 08:31 PM
20

My post-divorce dating experience was they can keep up the charade for about 3-4 months, then the chameleon mask slips & the real agenda (financial & psychological control) comes into view. Like you, I had to experience it for myself. Now you know that you know, it’s a LOT cheaper than a divorce I can assure you.
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 06:12 PM
53

I can assure you, her future is “sadder”! Yours, on the other hand... breathe that free air, my brother
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 05:57 PM
14

I applaud you
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 05:01 PM
27

Good for you, & for him! If that was all this sub accomplished it would be enough, but the reality is r/MGTOW is doing so so much more. I’m in awe. Keep up the good work, gentlemen!
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 04:38 PM
1

There’s that one in the desert... Utah or Nevada that’s supposed to be amazing. Deep Springs College.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 09:37 PM
10

Of course post-wall Staceys are gonna be the first to break ranks. Their privilege is sliding, they know it and can see the writing on the WALL
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 09:23 PM
1

I think it’s possible to be grateful for the good parts of the time you had together, while still realizing that what got mixed up in that chemistry set was toxic. I was married for 20 years so will always be stuck on some degree of oneitis for my ex (even tho there have been a few since), BUT that is sentiment & nostalgia that I can appreciate, while realizing it has nothing to do with my present or future. Take what feels like an uncomfortable negative, learn to focus on the positive side, & l…
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 09:17 PM
10

Wilderness is the ultimate medicine
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 02:10 PM
5

My situation is very similar, tho the youngest just turned 18 so the custody bs is finally over. But I have an alienation situation with some of the kids that is based on absolute vapors—the evidence of my love & commitment to them is everywhere but they’ve been coached not to see. Mostly tho I’m pissed for you that your family have reacted that way. My extended family have been great to me and supported me (emotionally) through this shit show. I hope you have some good friends to lean on occasi…
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 02:09 PM
10

Because women are toddlers
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 03:51 AM
75

I know emotions are running high, glad you have a friend to walk this with you. It’s important to put yourself in the best position to succeed, even if that does mean relying on the kindness of others for a little while. Ultimately your kids WILL be better off because they will have a grounded, self aware man for a father. Hang tough, don’t get distracted into anything petty, and accept that while it’s hard right now there are limitless ways forward and now you choose your own path.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 03:37 AM
1

Attamgtow! Lolz
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 12:12 AM
29

Fucking outstanding. Standing ovation!
/r/MGTOW05/11/18 12:13 AM
1

Dig it. Always glad to see this kind of thing spoken here. There have always been MGTOW, & one reason why is because men understand what GYOW actually means.
/r/MGTOW05/11/18 12:10 AM
2

Solid
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 10:57 PM
2

Buying some land in the rural high country. Teaching myself basic architectural wisdom and working on designing a home. Continuing to study indigenous wisdom traditions, going on wilderness expeditions and offering some of my philosophical and life-acquired insights to those who might seek it out. Otherwise, eat, shit, sleep, repeat, for as long as God's grace allows.
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 10:30 PM
1

Nope, just voting the lesser of 2 evils. There’s at least the possibility that a cuck elected to office might find his cajones once there & embrace the power with its responsibility. A female GOP candidate might chameleon the policies you subscribe to, but that’s ALL you’re getting. An image.
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 08:12 PM
-1

Have to disagree. In my state many many women are running for public office, & some of them as GOP. In some cases I’m screwed because it’s woman versus women, but I’d rather vote for a Dem with testicles than a faux tradcon biddy. Vote your gender, gents.
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 07:38 PM
3

I’m a big fan of the Rodney Carrington song, “Hey ain’t it GREAT to be a man?” https://youtu.be/dtvc_6DARuk
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:22 PM
6

Seriously, WTF happened?
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:20 PM
3

Notice the words "this relationship"... She's already down with transferring her "everything" (tang) to who's next
/r/MGTOW01/11/18 05:38 AM
2

One of the best red pilling movies: “Body Heat” with William Hurt, Ted Danson, & Kathleen Turner.
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 05:48 AM
2

YOU, sir, are why the internet sucks
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 04:20 AM
2

Your vision represents your own reality. Suck on that, toots
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 04:18 AM
2

I’m a spirit guy. So something that calls you onward toward higher purpose. When I got my new bachelor pad several years ago my first acts were opening the windows & doors and inviting in the spirit allies. I had a couple of offerings (silk, feather, book) and offered a prayer to the allies to let them know that they were invited, indeed welcomed. Talk about never feeling alone! & to all you atheist cynics our there... I don’t tread on your views so if this doesn’t meet your definition of the ra…
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 07:09 PM
4

I concur. Scroll past what doesn’t strike your sensibilities and let it go. But damn, this place often tickles my funny bone and laughter, they say, is the best medicine. Hell, it’s just fun.
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 06:49 PM
3

I have a home, but road trip all the time.
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 05:17 PM
26

Run, hamster, run
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 05:07 PM
4

& yet... this is an apt description of the female of the species. No awareness of the relativity of perspective
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 04:59 PM
8

Frack. Thanks for the history lesson, one more red pill for the PEZ dispenser.
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 04:49 PM
1

That’s a no. Dog.
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 01:42 AM
14

This is why it just ain’t worth it
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 07:09 AM
6

Wowsa
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 10:55 PM
4

Fire lookout warden: Ed Abbey was a ur-MGTOW, check out Desert Solitaire or Black Sun
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 10:55 PM
2

Youbetcha
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 09:21 PM
10

The Blue Lagoon—look out for the omnipresent InstaTHOTs but still worth it! Also... Lebowski Bar in Reykjavik!
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 07:52 PM
2

Ah, the golden glow. You’re kick ass, my friend!
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 04:17 PM
2

Agreed, folks do “relapse.” We all know how easy it can be. I’m not big into laying judgments on others, it’s my own garden I’m responsible for
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 03:43 PM
1

Great thread. So much truth about relationships and trust. & women’s mercuriality. Either you’re stuck ALWAYS proceeding with caution, or GYOW. I did my years on the plantation. Not going back.
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 02:56 PM
1

In any case, it’s way healthier than “feelz”!
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 06:11 AM
5

You are living the life, my friend!
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 06:16 PM
24

This belongs in MGTOW Lifestyle!
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 05:13 AM
3

Look, it’s a simp, it’s a cuck, it’s... META-man!
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 04:32 AM
13

You get my upvote, even tho I puked in my mouth a little bit
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 04:27 AM
8

Savage
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 12:51 AM
98

Projection, Example A
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 12:50 AM
2

I agree with this. For me it was just walking/hiking. I would channel the rage into the walk, but the beauty of nature always softened the edges and the process of sweating was a great release of the frustration. Plus the exhaustion/endorphins afterward allowed me to rest solidly, which is important for healing both body & mind.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 11:43 PM
5

Bayou country. Enjoy your day
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 04:08 PM
2

Hence the appeal of hermit mode
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 04:06 PM
41

Damn that’s the heart of a woman in a nutshell. Frozen and unfeeling for decades & then they turn on the waterworks and expect you to jump on your steed and come white knighting at a gallop. Follow your own course, bro
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 04:03 PM
1

You're mistaken about plants, and this isn't even new news. "Life" advances by the repetition of consumption and metabolism. Keep your anthropomorphism off my bacon .
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 03:41 AM
4

At that point tho, what are you harvesting? Apathy has a cost. Before the monkey branching & the divorce, we hung out in apathy land for maybe 3 years. It was always punctuated by ever escalating confrontations, and she’d get closer & closer to the threshold of physical violence. Eventually I got wise to the cheating, what a relief, a line in the sand that ended it in no uncertain terms. And life has been a revelation ever since, each day like a new page in a book you can’t imagine putting down
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 01:57 AM
1

(Golf clap)
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 01:48 AM
9

Grab life by the teats & twist!
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 01:35 AM
9

One response, play with the emphasis to watch his face shift in knots: “Well, Charlie, A MAN ought to have standards.” “Well, Charlie, a man OUGHT to have standards.” “Well, Charlie, a man ought to have STANDARDS.”
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 10:25 PM
1

Cymru
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 07:55 PM
7

Spray on sunscreen
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 06:32 PM
19

My ex literally said that to me after she monkey branched & I moved out. I prefer memory foam, but lawd yes, I sleep just fine
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 05:34 PM
1

I don’t regret much. If I knew then what I knew now I would definitely at least have put off marriage until later in my career, & if I married I would have married someone different. Ah, hindsight. The upside to my situ is I had kids relatively young, eventually dumped the cheating ex, & now am still solidly physically and psycho-emotionally fit to have supportive relationships with my young adult children. It’s not perfect, but I’m glad to have them in my life, with clear behavioral expectation…
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 06:14 AM
2

I realized that would set an AWFUL example for them. Your most important relationship is your relationship to yourself, & if you have no dignity, you certainly can’t lead a family.
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 07:21 PM
5

How about The Shining hotel in Colorado?!
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 04:21 PM
2

Absolutely. Have to take a long hard look at why you didn’t see it as it was coming at you. Can’t undo the past but if you don’t learn from it... well that’s on you.
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 05:26 AM
16

God, this
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 04:57 AM
7

In a car, in a bar. On a train, on a plane. Agree with the cautions everyone expresses tho, I like alcohol & mj as little celebrations, not as daily coping mechanisms.
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 02:46 AM
8

The literal script of what goes down when you get involved with a BPD woman. Like reading my fate thru other dudes’ words umpteen times
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 02:19 AM
7

Yeah, you got the pooty tang, but also ALL of the strange that comes along with it. Shake it off, son, and strap your self respect back on.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 11:23 PM
2

Good stuff, my 1960’s brothers! Straight on & true, health, wealth & happiness unto you!
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 06:57 PM
1

Enjoy! https://youtu.be/Z6ZAujtEgVM
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 05:46 PM
1

Catching a friend’s band at the brewery this evening. Another friend coming in for a hike tomorrow, followed by tequila, smokables, & star gazing. Sunday nfl, brunch, laundry, general chillage.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 03:30 PM
4

Great checklist, self care, meditation, knowing who your friends & family are that CAN reflect reality back to you without gaslighting, & absolutely no contact. These are the keys to the way forward, healing will occur!
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 03:24 PM
10

It stems from gaming culture, but I think it’s ok to liken it to zombies. TheWalking Dead with spoon fed politicized opinions, no actual personal agency. At least that’s my take.
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 11:44 PM
3

Thx, will check it out
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 11:28 PM
5

I love to travel, and love to read the stories about EXPLORERS who of course are misunderstoodZ why would you leave home & hearth and go risk life & limb among the (dirty) natives of darkest XXX? Seems some subset of men had ALWAYS eschewed the bullshit of “civilized society” and enjoyed the adrenaline rush/terror of stalking the unknown. The astronauts are certainly a part of this band and worthy of all accolades. I think psychonauts like Buddha, Alan Watts, philosophers, architects, the Laird …
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 11:07 PM
3

Is this from Constantine (great MGTOW film BTW)? Or something else?
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 09:57 PM
20

Can you imagine? Paying your own way? /s
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 09:25 PM
3

I think of them like cats. They prefer to keep the mouse alive as long as possible, for entertainment. Sure they’re going to devour you eventually, but there’s no rush
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 09:17 PM
14

Age is just a number!
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 12:48 AM
13

You thought NAWALT. Guess what?
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 12:46 AM
2

The Untethered Soul, Michael Singer The Light Inside the Dark, John Tarrant (hence my user name)
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 11:44 PM
0

You are thinking of Into Thin Air
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 11:10 PM
2

Hell yeah
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 10:40 PM
5

I have kids, but they are not THE meaning of my life. Maybe FATHERING is something I enjoy (ironically, since they are putting me thru the ringer both emotionally & financially), but it’s just one kind of relationship, not the only kind. And to me the biggest part of fathering is the example you set, not the bs you spew, so post-divorce, GMOW is both for me & for my kids.
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 04:55 AM
10

Nope, nein, nyet. Expand your rap!
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 06:51 PM
13

Very well stated, & appreciated!
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 06:48 PM
17

Thanks for the laughs dem’s good MANtras!
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 06:47 PM
9

You so got this dude. Don’t settle for bs & stress, live a good life!
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 09:23 PM
2

Even if you (I) had the typical “high school romance,” the same media you mention STILL trigger a weird nostalgia that doesn’t align with the present. (For me it is a whole bunch of songs that were “our songs” during that stage of life.) So when I hear that same old song, there is a feeling quality that arises, but like you said, it’s more of an acknowledgement that there’s an apparition in the room. OK, it’s there, briefly, but it has nothing to do with what’s presently going on. And honestly, …
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 04:38 AM
9

The Jo Nesbo book “The Snowman” is about a serial killer who is motivated by this kind of hypergamy. He kills women who have their betas secretly raising another man’s child
/r/MGTOW13/10/18 07:55 PM
28

Gotta get this clear in your head— for a woman there are NO “innocent” men.
/r/MGTOW13/10/18 07:22 PM
5

Gotta go!
/r/MGTOW13/10/18 06:14 PM
10

It’s a fucking revelation when you find this place, isn’t it?
/r/MGTOW13/10/18 03:57 PM
2

May seem nit picky but IDGAF. If you have a son with a woman, YOU name him. Period.
/r/MGTOW13/10/18 03:55 PM
2

Excellent practical advice
/r/MGTOW13/10/18 01:04 AM
21

“You know I’m right.” Yeah, sure you are boyo. Now run along... (pats head)
/r/MGTOW13/10/18 12:46 AM
53

Thank you for being a caring companion on the journey.
/r/MGTOW12/10/18 10:13 PM
1

Jeep
/r/MGTOW12/10/18 05:50 AM
2

This is a little red pill all on its own. Rather take this than an antiviral everyday, though
/r/MGTOW12/10/18 12:10 AM
3

Take my upvote, you fucking savage!
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 07:04 PM
4

So this
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 07:01 PM
5

In my best Elvis: “Thank you very much...”
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 01:38 PM
22

Hilarious
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 01:32 PM
15

Or: women want what they can’t have!
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 04:31 AM
1

What interests me is with all of the new letters indicating increased gender/sexuality fluidity & a greater emphasis on “spectrum,” maybe MGTOW will actually become more integrated as a “valid” gender expression of a certain type of masculinity. On the one hand, IDGAF, but that’s because I’m an older Miggie. Maybe for some of the younger guys it will mean less backlash or knee jerk scapegoating? I don’t know, & ain’t wasting much more than these words contemplating it. GYOW, no need to explain.
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 04:30 AM
3

Happy birthday! It’s a new year, rock on!
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 02:01 AM
3

borntomanipulate
/r/MGTOW10/10/18 08:56 PM
6

It really is tragic to bear witness to a perfectly good (hu)man ending his life in despair over the machinations of a heartless bitch.
/r/MGTOW10/10/18 11:02 AM
2

Spot on
/r/MGTOW09/10/18 05:22 PM
1

Meh, on a day like yesterday, sunny & autumnal, all your countrymen cruising the canals in their cocktail barges and the bikers crisscrossing the city & the masses of people filling the outdoor cafes... they can’t all be wrong.
/r/MGTOW09/10/18 04:09 AM
1

Found it in a souvenir shop, yeah always wished I could play sax, next best option? 9 euros
/r/MGTOW09/10/18 02:50 AM
2

10 euros a gram
/r/MGTOW09/10/18 02:49 AM
1

“Hey Hey what can I do?” Hey Hey What Can I Do Led Zeppelin Want to tell you about the girl I love My she looks so fine She's the only one that I been dreamin' of Maybe someday she will be all mine I want to tell her that I love her so I thrill with her every touch I need to tell her she's the only one I really love I got a woman, want to ball all day I got a woman, she won't be true, no I got a woman, stay drunk all the time I said I got a little woman and she won't be true Sunday morning when …
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 07:58 PM
1

True, but FYI, it’s a great fucking MGTOW song
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 07:44 PM
1

Seriously? Led Zeppelin
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 07:35 PM
11

Now that’s a bootay
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 07:21 PM
1

You know Zep sang about this eons ago. “Hey hey what can I do?”
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 07:10 PM
1

Isnt there some old county tune, ™My Woman Ran Off with my Best Friend & I Sure Do Miss Him"?
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 06:47 PM
15

Knife. In the back. Perfect.
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 06:40 PM
24

My ex used to refer to our children, in front of me, as “her children.” That should have been my clue.
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 06:22 PM
2

This is where I need to be able to post the Archer Glengoolie ad in the comments. “For the best of times!”
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 05:39 PM
0

It’s a fucking fantastic city. But I don’t do working girls; maybe a massage. The city just has an energy that’s worth having a dance (or two) with.
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 05:37 PM
14

If you don’t like my fire, then don’t come around
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 04:58 PM
1

My regrets that it serves to be true. But a memory’s a memory, just don’t let the bitches getcha down
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 03:46 PM
4

Not yours, only your turn, right?
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 11:36 AM
52

“Tell me the truth” = Tell me the truth I want to hear, i.e., lie to me
/r/MGTOW07/10/18 11:08 AM
2

Greek isles
/r/MGTOW07/10/18 03:57 AM
1

Dayum. Uh huh
/r/MGTOW06/10/18 05:35 PM
1

Wicked Pats feeva!
/r/MGTOW06/10/18 05:33 PM
12

I had the same mindset as you, but objectively, it drastically affected my health. I was not in a good place. I lasted until the mid teen years & have never looked back, life is so much cleaner & VIVID. Kids still have the story all wrong—surprise, ex is a lying attention victim—so I’m the family scapegoat, but honestly that is much less detrimental than the daily indignities & intolerable manipulations. I’m still confident they’ll see from a more balanced perspective in time, and THAT IS my mos…
/r/MGTOW06/10/18 06:41 AM
3

50s
/r/MGTOW05/10/18 07:34 PM
6

Homey don’t play dat
/r/MGTOW05/10/18 11:21 AM
5

Yo man, you’re harshing my mellow
/r/MGTOW04/10/18 08:23 PM
9

I’ll just say: read. A lot. Read about things & places that interest you. It can be fiction or tech, doesn’t matter. When you get to mid career with money, start traveling to places for professional & personal/recreational development. You won’t have good health forever, so leverage it while you’ve got it. You have wings, but you have to exercise ‘em
/r/MGTOW04/10/18 03:21 AM
1

Sick! (in all the right ways)
/r/MGTOW03/10/18 04:15 PM
2

With the heartiest of laughs and fist bumps, brother: fuck right off
/r/MGTOW03/10/18 04:10 PM
5

Shop around. Avoid a class that’s just as stated above, an excuse for women to show off. But a personal yoga practice is GREAT for flexibility, mental resilience, a calm & concentrated baseline. Used to be you could find DVDs of classes... bet you could also find scores on YouTube. & keep your eyes out for the occasional course offered for men— “Yoga for Stiff Guys” or some such. If you’re having no luck, I’d also recommend Tai chi. Usually there’s a better gender balance in those classes & it’s…
/r/MGTOW03/10/18 07:21 AM
1

You sir are a refined & astute cat
/r/MGTOW03/10/18 05:43 AM
1

Greece
/r/MGTOW03/10/18 05:42 AM
2

Bugles (branded or not) still live on as a bar staple in Greece
/r/MGTOW03/10/18 05:42 AM
2

Jon Kabat-Zinn has some good books, Wherever You Go, There You Are & Full Catastrophe Living
/r/MGTOW02/10/18 07:09 PM
2

Jeep Wrangler Unlimited
/r/MGTOW02/10/18 06:11 PM
8

Boo fucking hoo
/r/MGTOW02/10/18 04:05 AM
3

Go somewhere new. Somewhere beautiful & compelling. The mountains. The beach. The woods. Get OUT of the confines of the life you know right now, and do something physically intense. Hike. Snorkel. Bike 100 miles. & music. Go see some good live music. Or crank up your stereo & force yourself to dance. Endorphins & nature are what pulled me through.
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 08:17 PM
6

Now here’s a guy... who GETS IT
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 04:39 PM
1

Stranger in a Strange Land, hell yeah
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 04:35 PM
4

I resemble that journey. Few years down the road, no idea what the ex is up to and no need to know. We communicate very sporadically when the kids need something. In the meantime, I’m celebrating my autumn birthday at the beach. In Greece.
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 04:33 PM
9

Yep. Internet blew up that scam
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 08:15 AM
3

Tried it, had pretty much the same experience, she was hot but so not worth it.
/r/MGTOW24/09/18 02:43 PM
1

Traveling in Netherlands. Coffeeshop for a joint. Funky BBQ place with moonshine and classic rock (“Freebird” & “Wont Get Fooled Again”) Enjoying a day wandering the markets & canals stoned to the bone.
/r/MGTOW21/09/18 07:29 PM
1

When it became clear the last one was angling for keeping her options open because it wasn’t “convenient” enough for her.
/r/MGTOW20/09/18 08:18 PM
18

No one’s saying not to love. But start with YOURSELF. Love yourself & respect yourself, don’t be a doormat & don’t be fooled by the game. As you point out, when you love your life & are confident in yourself, women are not a problem. They are just there, part of the environment. In rare cases they can be decent friends and maybe something more, temporarily, but when YOU cease projecting & sexually simping around them, you’re free to prioritize your own concerns. & this is how an individual man b…
/r/MGTOW20/09/18 08:15 PM
1

Enjoy River Man
/r/MGTOW20/09/18 04:36 AM
6

yup somehow I expect we’ll be womansplained that huge 24” double-ended purple dildos are “Empowering”...
/r/MGTOW19/09/18 08:59 PM
2

Can we just get to the fembots already? You’ve held evolution up enough
/r/MGTOW19/09/18 08:49 PM
40

Bingo
/r/MGTOW19/09/18 04:30 AM
5

And that, my brothers, is what the theistic traditions refer to as “grace”. Kinda funny, isn’t it?
/r/MGTOW19/09/18 03:23 AM
2

The number after 40 in the US rises to 50-75% females test positive for genital herpes. That means you’re more likely than not to come into contact with it, and even a condom is no guarantee against HSV
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 11:54 PM
1

If you’re game I’d suggest you check out what might be the ur-text, “Psychology of the Future” by Stanislov Grof
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 12:15 AM
1

Serious question: so you’re not interested in depth/transpersonal at all?
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 12:00 AM
2

Saw The Accountant recently, decent flick.
/r/MGTOW16/09/18 11:58 PM
2

&... we have a winner!
/r/MGTOW11/09/18 03:53 AM
0

Hilarious!
/r/MGTOW09/09/18 09:05 PM
3

Sux. I know that pain. Rally strong, brother!
/r/MGTOW09/09/18 09:01 PM
7

This is fantastic. The Tao is the way
/r/MGTOW09/09/18 05:06 PM
8

I appreciate youranalysis, I really do, but at the end of the day when this is exposed, who cares? I have no real interest in “counter manipulation,” no need to reprove that my distasteful insight into the female nature is indeed correct. I remain polite, good hearted, but most importantly detached. No need to buy in, not just GYOW, ENJOY doing you!
/r/MGTOW08/09/18 06:52 PM
9

It’s ColUmbia, THOT
/r/MGTOW08/09/18 02:54 AM
34

Repressed shadow of metoo... methinks she does protest too much
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 08:51 PM
1

I do everything for the kids! Except Tyrone. I do him for me. (Tee hee)
/r/MGTOW06/09/18 06:25 AM
2

Genuinely inspiring. Steady as she goes.
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 11:09 PM
6

The beauty of nature. I GET OUTSIDE of myself & that really helps put it in perspective. Camp. Paddle. Snorkel or scuba. Cycle. Engage your body in the great outdoors. When I can't do that I read philosophy & also regularly take in quality live music.
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 06:19 PM
1

Good point, if it's good to you, then it's good. Tastes vary.
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 03:20 AM
3

Aw, now THAT gives me feelz
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 02:11 AM
1

Wanna good red pilled laugh (sure there's more than a little bile)? Listen to "History of Jody" by Guitar Shorty. Jody is Tyrone's grandpappy!
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 01:33 AM
74

Congrats bitch, you can boil spaghetti & heat sauce on a stove.
/r/MGTOW04/09/18 10:17 PM
5

I love classic blues stuff man, those guys know the deal. Yeah, sometimes they're blubbering on about the woman who left them, but most of the time it's like, "while you were stepping out--someone else was slipping in! " But I hear ya--all media is different to me now. Books, tv, music, movies . There's so much blue pilled cuckoldry it gets annoying fast. BUT, it's also a valuable lesson, to only consume & digest ideas & narratives that genuinely conducive to your future health. And with all tha…
/r/MGTOW04/09/18 10:09 PM
19

You are only a couple of years removed from being a child yourself, & there is a ton of life ahead & waiting for you. Don’t look back. Ignore your parents. Later on they’ll realize how right you were. Or not. Fuck’em. Trust in yourself & your future.
/r/MGTOW04/09/18 03:07 AM
1

Fuck off, fucker! /s The whole wide MGTOW world may not get to celebrate Labor Day like us bastards. Abide.
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 08:08 PM
3

Stay gold
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 07:55 PM
3

Yep, dead man walking
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 06:11 PM
11

My neighbors across the street, same way. & they love to “take it outside,” so sometimes I just retire to the back porch. Strife over!
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 06:08 PM
3

Words can inspire, certainly, but as you grow into a man (ha, “man up”), deeds become the stronger statement. Maybe it’s because they’re harder to revise, so you’d better be on your game every moment. I still love to talk a blue streak, but I’m focused on deeds while I have the mental & physical strength to make it happen with minimal compromise. Peace unto you, brother
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 12:14 AM
4

Love the glow
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 12:09 AM
1

Dirty towel & water bottle so I cropped'em out. Will try harder next.time, sir!
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 08:50 PM
5

Cold brew coffee & a day of sprucing up around the house. Clean sheets & clothes, gearing up for a bender of a week that includes clubbing & a black tie wedding next weekend in Music City, USA
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 04:19 PM
2

A solid 2. Empty bedroom
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 04:15 PM
5

I call your "cure" tapering, & it's what I did post-divorce & before finding MGTOW. It happened naturally..less & less interest in sacrificing my own priorities for anyone else's. And you're right, it starts with introspection, reevaluation of self esteem, & valuation of oneself.
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 04:13 PM
17

The Cray is strong in this one
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 04:30 AM
2

Which hand do I choose? Maybe a threesome?
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 02:12 AM
2

I can relate to a lot of your journey. When I’m out at big public events I’m just not interested in what the “drones” are doing. I was fully blue-pilled for a long time & pretty much know the content of those discussions, over & over & over again. It’s not the people themselves, it’s just the type of interaction. It’s dead to me. Not interested. Last night I had dinner with my neighbors to celebrate the holiday weekend. We were drinking and smoking & having fun, & then a small thing happened & t…
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 02:04 AM
3

The picture has me dying. Better be some quality bourbon, scotch or tequila in that insulated mug!
/r/MGTOW01/09/18 01:21 AM
1

Well that cuts to the chase like a Ginsu. Cue the bloody Julia Child stump skit!
/r/MGTOW01/09/18 01:18 AM
3

Just saw him the other night & he played it. That & Sitting Waiting Wishing are both good tunes, but overall he is completely blue pilled. The audience was full of lovey dovey couples, too, and watching dudes posture to keep their women happy (the incessant selfies, etc) was kind of depressing.
/r/MGTOW01/09/18 01:15 AM
3

Blues festival tomorrow @ a mountain lake. Bringing the yak so I can paddle & listen from the water.
/r/MGTOW31/08/18 05:47 PM
3

I am seeing live music 4 times this week, each act better than the last. Outdoor show, festival, club shows.Love doing life as I please
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 05:31 PM
4

I think your comment was excellent, but goes again at the basics of hypergamy. They want assets, physical protection, genetics...and if a better deal comes along they are branching away. I have tried staying in my own age bracket (50s) but the women STILL aren't mature enough to be beyond this, so MGTOW. I might give in and pay a young thing to wash my low hanging fruits in a decade or so, but at the moment, the market for balanced relationships is nonexistent.
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 01:15 AM
3

Crabs in a bucket
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 08:29 PM
52

This boils my blood. Right, because the BPD manipulative cheating b°tch has more "needs" and better skills? I am counting down the days until my kids are free of custody. It's still a mess between us, but they'll eventually be able to claim their liberation from her!
/r/MGTOW28/08/18 08:50 PM
3

Well duh, it sure as fuck isn’t about posting to Instagram!
/r/MGTOW28/08/18 02:46 PM
3

LOL, when ya gonna nix your "Joy Division" there & move on to a New Order?
/r/MGTOW28/08/18 02:12 AM
1

I'm a regular to the Dam. Great.city, you can get lost to your heart's content, then pretty easy to find yourself once again. & those stroopwaffles...
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 11:05 PM
1

Some of each. But I have no problem traveling alone, it is easy to strike up conversations & quickly decide if this is someone worth hanging out with or not. I’ve met people around the world traveling alone who come & visit me at my home; & others who want to, to whom I politely say “nah”
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 06:11 PM
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Different strokes, I guess. This year I have been to Hawaii, Switzerland, Peru, Greece, & a bunch of US national parks. Snorkeling, hiking, cycling, paddling, the occasional random boning. Do your best you.
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 04:34 PM
3

That's fucking interesting, man
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 04:30 PM
3

Forward, brother
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 03:42 PM
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Don't be too hard on yourself. You were trying to do GOOD, but you didn't see the manipulation coming. I know it hurts like hell right now, so find ways to take good care of yourself. For me nature was the critical prescription that helped me never let the despair get the upper hand. I still have to do it sometimes, just hike until I am exhausted & a handful of nuts, a slug of water from a canteen & a comfortable bed seem like the biggest luxuries life can provide. 5 years down the line life is …
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 03:39 PM
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Fantastic post, thanks brother!
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 02:31 PM
1

Provisioned for my next overseas trip. Yoga. Cleaning & laundry. Took the tux to the dry cleaner because I have a wedding to attend soon. Got my last minute tix for an amazing show on Tuesday! Went to dinner at friends' with margaritas & 2 leaf varietals, Death Star & Thunder Berries. Smacked down a biddy who's divorcing her new hub of less than 2 years because "no more feels." Grilled her til everyone was uncomfortable, I enjoyed it immensely. Today hiked at dawn & again at dusk. Just finished …
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 03:18 AM
2

Madame, might I recommend the grilled hamster?
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 03:07 AM
6

Resonates with me, and this is the essence of "the juice ain't worth the squeeze". For professional reasons and others I have to have a few relationships with some women and they are alternately hilarious & exhausting. I minimize contact because there's just not a lot of upside there for me (tho some, in terms of contacts), but if the situation allows, I will drop red pills all over these women and whatever blue pilled cucks are hanging around. I just never violate the first rule. Better to hear…
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 03:01 AM
8

Caspar. So even when you "ghost" you'll always have your wingman!
/r/MGTOW26/08/18 10:21 PM
3

Yep, I relocated 2000 miles post divorce. Be patient, it can take time to be MGTOW & build a friend set, but it'll happen.
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 06:11 AM
1

& deaf!
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 06:07 AM
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I share children with such a person. So in addition to the gaslighting, sadism & general trashing of my rep after she cheated and moved on, I also have had to deal with several years of parental alienation and may or may not ever be able to repair the strong fatherly bonds I had with my kids. Really my only hope is that they see the disorder for themselves as they come into adulthood and finally realize why it's lucky for all of us that I ghosted hard. No contact is really the only solution; eve…
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 03:31 AM
2

Could be my ex
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 03:53 AM
0

IDGAF
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 02:20 AM
7

Hang in there bro, my story is very similar to yours but I'm a bit further down the road--a few years--& it is way shiny & glossy these days. MY ex admittedly suffers from some mental health issues, & she had worked very hard to convince our teen daughters that they did, too. At one point shortly after the divorce (where of course I was painted as the abandoning & abusive parent) she wanted ALL 3 OF THEM to get matching "semicolon" tats. It's some kind of symbol for mental illness solidarity, I …
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 01:59 AM
1

Awesome
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 01:49 AM
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