While I plan on going my own way post divorce, I am a guy and will be looking to get laid from time to time. At 45 the need for this wasn't what it was in my teens, 20's and 30's, but it's still there. I already checked off the vasectomy box so I'm good there. But going forward I'm taking a bit of advice from my ex brother in law. He's a typical Alpha. Attractive, fit, well dressed, nice car, excellent game, selfish, serial cheater, narcissistic as all get out, hits on anything with 2 tits a hole and a heartbeat, and fucks anything that says yes. And women absolutely eat it up. He several times complained to me about online dating/tinder. In his experience most of the women there were only there for free meals, many of the even having the gall to complain about the already decent restaurant not being posh enough for them, before leaving after the meal only to ghost him. These days all his first dates are cheap. Picnic in the park, afternoon in a museum, coffee. If dinner only in a midto low end range restaurant. He found that this weeded out the gold diggers and chow hounds. If the chick was hot and put out he would then splurge on fancier dates going forward to keep them around until he gets tired of them. I used to think this guy was a piece of shit, and now after being married to his sister, he's my hero.