Advice

Docbear64 · 2019-04-09T16:05:52+00:00

You're a teenager so you might not appreciate it but sex isn't that big a deal , it's friction and rubbing against some some wet shit that feels good for a while .

Women can be fun , I've had a good time with women the issue is that the 5% of the good time you may have never makes up for the other 95% of unpleasantness that comes with being with a woman . I have a hard time recommending dating because it's so dangerous for men right now . Women are dumb and emotional so flirting as a whole has been ruined. You'll say something trying to sound suave and instead of being laughed at and her moving on she'll take your picture and post on twitter about how you verbally assaulted her.

Is there value in dating ? I don't think so, do I regret dating ? no I just regret the wasted time and money that came with it .

It's a hard question to answer because you are so young, you are still learning yourself , and I think you can learn a lot about yourself by being with a woman but I just can't get past the risks that women pose in 2019 .

DangZagnut · 2019-04-09T15:53:21+00:00

Virginity is all in your head fucking with you.

CiceroVoltaire · 2019-04-09T16:25:07+00:00

Focus on yourself, your future, your dreams, own your own life, become successful on your own terms and definition.

Once you have created your adult self, you will have confidence and greater market value, and many more options.

Chase your future, not girls; when you get your success, girls will be waiting at the finish line to help you enjoy your success. Use them, don't be used.

Non serviam

Toshiba1point0 · 2019-04-09T17:29:11+00:00

If you’re 16, I don’t know how you’re ever going to be able to take mgtow advice seriously or really understand it until you’ve been through hell a few times. My advice would be to take things slow, find successful role models, and learn as much as you can by watching others around you.

dirtymo2928 · 2019-04-09T18:39:26+00:00

Im 23 and wish I was a virgin still. I lost mine at 17 because I was pressured by society and my friends... but I had no connection with the girl, she was blonde hair blue eyed little dime, you would think I had a great time? Wrong, I felt disgusted with myself after. I tried casual sex about 4 times more with different girls after this encounter....but it left me with the same feeling.... Disgust.

I thought... damn, maybe im a serious relationship type of guy, so I get in one that lasts me 10 months with non suspecting girl from good home and family, only to have her cheat on me with a coke dealer thug type on christmas. I was then at war with my longing for a serious long term relationship vs degenerate hookup culture.... only to come to the conclusion that MGTOW is the only way.

I could have saved myself some real trouble and self respect for myself if I never gave into societal pressures to lose my virginity and date. Its actually pretty overated without a connection or unless if you got true chad genetics that makes you have no problem having women instinctually submit to you because of infatuation. .. then giving you the facade of deep connection during sex but its only really because shes getting dicked down by a chad lol.

Youre no loser bro, you just feel pressured right now, been there. I cant convince you to not feel like this. Honestly if youre so obsessed with losing your virginity, then hire a good looking escort and fuck her brains out.... I bet you will see what I mean by overrated and useless without a connection, but to each their own...... or if youre too good for that, wait until you hit bar age ( 19 where I live, idk about you ) because mostly all girls ( especially sheltered by parents ones ) go fucking crazy with their first taste of freedom and the bar/club scene. You might have good luck then. Dont say I didnt warn you though.

WrasslingIsCool1 · 2019-04-09T16:05:29+00:00

Never get into relationships under any circumstance,at your age peer pressure may force you to try getting into relationships,but dont.Just hookup and dont let these women control you. Trust me you wont miss out on anything.Invest in yourself and follow your passions and dreams,you are only 16 there is much more to life than women.

_n1codemus · 2019-04-09T18:34:13+00:00

Your virginity is far too precious.

You unfortunately can not comprehend that fully as you are young and bluepilled by this sex-glorifying world. You csn get pussy on every corner but you cannot get virginity back. It must be nurtured and protected. Focus on yourself and your mission. Protect your sovereignty with all your soul. However, I know you are young and testosterone is high, but it will always be if you will be healthy male. I want you best of luck and wisdom in your upcoming battles.

term1nat0r1 · 2019-04-09T17:47:40+00:00

Take it from a fellow teenager, most thots out there are not worth a #metoo, and searching for a woman not like the others isn't worth the time and money.

SentientApe · 2019-04-09T18:43:56+00:00

For your age... Stay away from women as much as you can: sex is fun, but not worth a metoo or worse. This will be a difficult task considering your hormones.

Focus your efforts on getting yourself into a career you enjoy. Get your life together (stay out if debt, house, vehicle you want, etc). Build and implement a plan to FI/RE (financial Independence / retire early).

If you ever get to a point where you are just wanting human contact, go get a massage. If you want to have sex, call on the 'oldest profession' to assist you.

Protect yourself in every aspect possible. The world will not be kind to you if you admit MGTOW or Red Pill mentality.

Once you have things in place to protect both your mental state and physical assets, you will be more at peace about the world around you.

ky_biker · 2019-04-09T15:50:31+00:00

Use them like they use others. Don't be a push over or spend money on them. Be the bad boy that doesn't care if they are around. Pump and dump but for god's sake don't get anyone pregnant. Stay red pilled and never let your guard down and you will not miss out on anything, you will see for yourself how toxic females are. When you are older you'll see that if you want/need that pussy, it's much easier for it to just be a transaction. You are going to pay for it either way why not just use a pro.

ZeroBlink · 2019-04-09T16:32:18+00:00

Let the nature take it's course. When I was dating I just let it happen naturally. I lost my virginity at 13 , drunk like a pig in a dirty af toilet with a slutty girl , she fucked another 2 dudes later that night... wasn't the greatest first time.
So don't be desperate, if the chance comes take it , protect yourself wrap it up , never ever raw dog it.

leemming · 2019-04-09T18:22:53+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5OnPJoZG8A&t=249s

thegentlebenbear · 2019-04-09T23:29:59+00:00

I think that there are to types of MGTOW. The monks that completely avoid women, and the bachelors that will still mess around with women, but will never get married (and many will not get into a long term relationship). I personally think that having experience with women especially at your age can be a fun thing. However, you need to be VERY careful. Do not get a girl pregnant. Do not fall for her crap. Do not turn into a wuss. And always resist the urge to take that blue pill.

PrismMage · 2019-04-10T06:31:47+00:00

I don't wanna die a virgin

Why? There's nothing wrong with dying a virgin.

Or should I just learn from the mistakes men made before me and just never get into dating at all

This

will I miss out on something?

Drama. Fighting. Betrayal. Divorce. Mind Games.

Should I just hookup if I have interest in it?

No. Casual sex can wreck you. Go monk mode.

Dinomiteblast · 2019-04-10T09:54:21+00:00

Explore your human nature, explore your puberty, but always, always make sure you are in charge of the contraceptive.

Never believe women when they say they are on the pill or get a condom from a woman. Make your own security.

Otherwise, i believe people do need to burn themselves a little to create character.

Im not saying you should go in headfirst, but you are still young and who am i to take away your discovering of who you really are. Dont let other people pressure you to do something you dont want to do and always think twice before you take action.

Title	Advice
Author	ChoboJRF
Upvotes	27
Comments	18
Date	April 9, 2019 3:21 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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