After this devastating breakup, I've decided to go my own way...

executedigging · 2017-11-16T01:34:00+00:00

She accused me of "not trusting her"

She was probably already cheating at this point and was projecting. Everything she said and did was to hold on to you in case her other guy didn't pan out. Other guy committed and she dropped you without a second thought.

Incapaisa · 2017-11-16T01:35:55+00:00

The other guy did you a favor bro.. look at it as a gift.. now he can endure that thot..in a marriage/potenial divorce

ddmirror · 2017-11-16T01:53:06+00:00

You dodged a bullet and are still alive to tell about it. Try to move-on-already.

tiredofshit · 2017-11-16T02:03:39+00:00

RIP other dude. You will be missed.

TheOnlyThing-Sufjan · 2017-11-16T02:37:31+00:00

Sounds like another border line personality girl. At least manic-depressive which also have a tendency to manipulate and are in general not in control of their emotions. Anyway mabye one of the best things that has ever happend to you knowing this right? Yes you got hurt which sucks, but you did not lose out on alot and you learned a big lesson: Their red flags for a reason, not yellow or anyother color but red flags, for the simple reason that they really signify something bad ahead.

Probabbly in a couple months when married she will get bored again and will hit you up to cheat with you, since this trill will for a short while calm down her constant impulses and thoughts and emotions. Best thing to do is just ignore her at that stage for your safety especially.

6tfcxdr54eszaw32q1 · 2017-11-16T02:49:00+00:00

She reduced you to orbiter status because it feeds her ego to have extra guys hanging around and in case things didn't work out with the other guy you were a backup plan since she hadn't flat out told the truth about her cheating. No honor involved. Just "how can I win without caring about anyone else but myself" tactics.

dildo_bagmans · 2017-11-16T01:47:08+00:00

You are better off without her. She gave you tons of shit tests, lied, and didnt respect you at all. The relationship was doomed to fail. She probably had BPD. She falls in "love" hard, wants to move in, loses interest fast, emotions all over the place and suicidal. You have dodged the biggest FUCKING nuclear warhead of crazy my friend. Take it as a deep learning lesson. Never, ever expose yourself like that. The chemical feeling we call love will fade, so do not forget AWALT. This could have been much much worse for you. Imagine having a kid with such a flaky person.

If does suck you work with her since you gotta see the deception and that skank on days you work. It will at least remind you of a terrible thing you got away from. GYOW brother and learn from this.

MincoLesharo · 2017-11-16T02:14:52+00:00

AWALT

Frongth · 2017-11-16T02:31:09+00:00

The next LTR you enter (as your writing style suggests you will), try to do what women do; Be emotionally convinced in the moment but have a capable strategy for being brutally cold, keeping a score sheet in your mind for when stuff goes against you. When you hit your threshold for bullshit, leave.

raisins3142 · 2017-11-16T03:34:46+00:00

I'm sorry for all this. Not to water it down, but this chick was extreme even for chicks.

Read up on cluster b personality disorders, specifically borderline personality disorder.

They tend to swing from fear of abandonment to fear of attachment, and get into relationships quick and end them quick and oddly.

Anyone that can do what she did is crazy, and you are better off to be rid of her.

Title	After this devastating breakup, I've decided to go my own way...
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Date	November 16, 2017 1:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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