All Time Low: An Update.

Deceased Father Front:

Got a call from the pawn shop owner friend of my father's and one of the most amazing things I've ever seen happened. He put out word with the bush pilots that used to fly my dad from place to place for his work of what was going on and they did my family a solid. Many people knew my father because he was one of the only medical professionals that would fly into rural Alaska for house calls, or if there was an emergency where someone couldn't be transported (bad weather, not likely to survive a flight to the city, etc). He was highly respected by the communities he worked in, and his reputation preceded him.

All of the items my stepmom gave away and/or sold have been located, and secured. Her kids didn't even keep the things she gifted them more then 3 days. Every Single One, even my Dad's logging jacket and Stainless Steel .338 Winchester Magnum he carried. A bag of letters and smoked meat has shown up at my house from almost every town and reservation in Rural Alaska that he worked in.

Shipping is expensive as hell, but worth it.

Ex-Front:

I did a lot of reading in the last 3 days. A lot of what I read is how I naturally learned to deal with women. (Use a fake name and a burner phone, use them for sex until they start whining or becoming bitchy, ghost them).

My biggest fuck-up was falling into the NAWALT trap. There's a few reasons why I thought this would be different:

1. I was dealing with a woman that was not "Americanized" When I fell in love with her.
2. When she wanted to stop working shit tier jobs, she didn't major in something worthless, she wanted to be an engineer.
3. She always contributed something to the bills. The method I worked out while she was in school making shit money is that the bills would be split as a proportion of our respective incomes. I.e, if I made 75% of the cash, I paid 75% of the bill. This in my mind ensured she'd have skin in the game, and have the same relative impact of bills. Her contribution to bills scaled up as her pay increased.

In short, there were a few things that came out from our mutual friend group that are enlightining:

1. One day after she left, it became known she was dating her boss. She tried to "monkey branch" upwards. The funny thing is I isolated the bulk of my assets from her and some income streams, so she had no idea what I'm actually worth. I found this information out by removing her from our shared phone plan, and took a look at text message content.

2. Her monkey branch failed, and her boss told her to fuck off at a new year's party. This led to her running back with two separate stories:
   Story #1: Is that she was so sorry and made a terrible mistake and begged for me to take her back. I simply told her that the damage she did was not repairable under any circumstances and if she cheated once, there is statistical data the indicates it will happen again:
   Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Serial Infidelity Across Subsequent Relationships | SpringerLink
   This information caused her to break down and cry, and I told her that she fucked up a good thing and her actions have consequences.
   Story #2: The guy somehow manipulated her into cheated and it was rape. I told her to go to the police if she feels that she was raped, but the reality of the matter is that she made a deliberate decision to cheat, then leave based on what she felt would be a better life for her and as soon as the other guy found out there was two parents who couldn't work in the picture, he bounced. I also told her it was time for her to live the life she created for herself. Her response is that I needed to "be a man" and do something about her being sexually assaulted. My response was calling her bluff, "Let's go to the police station and file a report". She refused and I let her know she was bluffing and needed to be responsible for own actions.

3. Within our mutual group of friends, information started filter down to me she started hanging out with some women that could best be described as hardcore "feminists". The information I have from multiple eyewitness sources is that these women were actively trying to paint me as a bad guy things they said included:
   Financial Abuse: Me refusing to buy her parents an 80,000 USD BMW is somehow financially abusive. Mind you, this is after I repaired a 2005 Camry with 150k miles on it for them after their SUV died.
   Overly Controlling: Asking my ex why she got home at 1:30 am, started drinking often, and losing her grip at work (we are in the same field, not the same employer) was overbearing and controlling according to these women.
   Verbally Abusive: Asking my ex why she has become withdrawn and if everything was okay or if there was anything she needed to talk about on her mind counts as verbal abuse. Some of my ex's responses were typical angry Latina, but when you date a latina, that's just part of the package. The good typically massive offsets the bad. Typically.
   Emotionally Abusive: I religiously jog 5-6 miles every morning except for the weekends. it clears my head and starts the day right. When my ex-started displaying signs of depression I asked her if she wanted to go for a morning walk or jog with me and we could have coffee by the river while watching the sun come up and get out of the house for a bit. Her new friends told her this was me telling her she was fat and needed to work out and thus emotionally abusive.

Lessons Learned:

• When women run out of options or a security blanket, they will say and do almost anything to get you to take them back. Don't fall for it. I was personally shocked at how her statements went almost play-by-play for what the MGTOW and Red Pill said the responses would be.
• Even "imported" women that aren't Americanized will start acting completely unreasonable once exposed to modern "feminists" for a period of time. Modern Feminism is a threat to a healthy and functioning society. This isn't Susan B. Anthony times, for sure.
• After the initial shock, I'm actually happy being alone in my house. I don't have to deal with her family's problems or drama, she isn't nagging me constantly, and most importantly I have time again.