Am I wrong?

DangZagnut · 2020-01-09T03:58:42+00:00

Well she might just be busy. Maybe her parents died and she’s going to a funeral.

cough

No, she’s got another date lined up and is trying to compute whether OP is a beta buxxx to settle for or there is one better.

Not sure why it matters. Never commit, never give a fuck. Stop worshipping pussy. If the moist hole is busy, it’s busy.

ThunderBloodRaven · 2020-01-09T04:09:58+00:00

6 dates is a sign she has interest, but really he should put himself in a position where he isnt chasing and fawning over a woman. If something in his gut says "I dont like this" or "this doesnt feel right" then he should cut off his mental investment in her and reinvest in self progression and become the A side.

letsgobish29 · 2020-01-09T04:30:17+00:00

she's going out partying that wknd, next wknd she might feel like doing the whole romantic thing again. enjoy buying dinner for and playing couple with your used up whore m8.

strongandhappy · 2020-01-09T04:38:35+00:00

If they are actual dates and this is her weak ass reply she is definitely not invested/interested and any further action is wasting time (blue pill time. It's all a mgtow waste of time). "Hey, sorry" and "maybe" scream deflection and disinterest, she just doesn't have the energy to deal with it yet (probably looking to confirm her move to the new man this weekend). No, you're not wrong, and the horrible advice from the other responders is how we get a world of simps who can't recognize a hint, don't stand up for themselves, and get walked on for years, while women continue to take advantage of their weakness.

monk2019 · 2020-01-09T08:29:11+00:00

This dude been on 6 dates and hasnt fucked yet? She also pulling this bullshit lol

jd46249 · 2020-01-09T04:37:08+00:00

Yea she had other plans. “I don’t think it could do this weekend”. She didn’t even say what it was. He is backup plan.

9yearoldmember · 2020-01-09T04:03:42+00:00

You're right, and they'll probably call you an incel for this

Trust_No_Bitches · 2020-01-09T04:33:20+00:00

No. That was kind of presumptuous of you to assume she was cheating without any further details. You always want to read the signs for cheating in congruency with the others and not just throw out accusations like this.

It would be one thing if she said she could see him this weekend because her ex boyfriend was in town or her and her hoe friends were going clubbing together. Those are all well known red flags but "I can't this weekend how about next weekend" could be anything.

What's worse is you told him to throw a "hail Mary" move to save his relationship. That's not MGTOW, that's beta male advise. You don't tell men to throw themselves into a relationship to save their partners from leaving. That's how you make women who are already thinking about leaving feel smothered and go even faster.

Real MGTOW advice is saying "don't even worry about her. You go your own way, king" or something to that affect. Or just telling him to agree to her plan and pour his time into bettering himself so he's not focusing on preventing a breakup that's all in his mind.

horse3y3s · 2020-01-09T04:38:31+00:00

I think you overreacted in your second answer... if you know the truth, then be smart and make the most out of this shit

Life is not a movie, but many think it is

Maybe she is busy meeting other guys. But like, cmon man, in this year and age... that's what you should expect when you go dating, mainly so if the girl was hot. Or maybe she just wants to be alone because she is having her period or some other shit

avdarth69 · 2020-01-09T04:50:47+00:00

If a Chad would've asked her out she would have even agreed to fuck him without any hesitation. Foids hate betas pal.

peshMeten · 2020-01-09T09:36:10+00:00

Dump her now, social media has not helped women at all, they are like children in a free toy and candy store, some have more control than others, in your case I would come to the conclusion she is either seeing someone else that weekend or she is doing a Guinness Book of Records attempt for being locked in an underground cell for two days, I suspect the former of the two.

thatMGTOWguy · 2020-01-09T05:21:07+00:00

You might not like this answer but I think you went too far. The goal is not to get 100% of the time spent always exactly right. Sometimes people might be busy with some other things that popped up. The goal is to not become a beta bitch and be comfortable with your own self. And if she keeps flaking after this or starts ignoring you, you stand up with your self respect and walk away.

silly_birb · 2020-01-09T06:42:53+00:00

He shouldn' have asked, she should and the fact is that he has no other options. A PUA would have said to bang a secondary chick but 99% of what pua say is unapplicable bs.

pangolin001 · 2020-01-09T15:53:50+00:00

It's all in the vagaries. "I don't think I can...." demonstrates:

- Keeping options open - not completely closing the door on this guy but open to another guy. Otherwise she would have been more specific. When a chick is INTO you, she would be like "I'm really sorry, I have to {do this thing}" and that thing doesn't take a whole weekend. What is she doing, a barn raising?

- Removing accountability. "There might be this thing I might have to do"... she's trying to make it sound likes she's being forced and would rather go out with him if someone else doesn't MAKE her do something else.

- She's only willing to go out with this guy on weekends (ie: for fun). She doesn't suggest any other day of the week. Only a weekend that's a week away. A chick that wants to spend time with you WILL. She'll move everything out of the way, just like she's moving this guy out of the way to make space for a chance or seeing someone else.

She knows she's already got this guy. She's extracted 6, not so bad, dates. He's 'ok' but she's a bit tired and bored with him. One reason is that he's making it very easy for her. Her interest is dropping. He doesn't giver her the feelz and tinglz. His only hope is to go silent all the way through next weekend and hope that she gets frozen out of her other option. Of course, that's red pill PUA stuff. For us, just move along, she's playing Deal or No Deal.

PurpleHatsOnCats · 2020-01-09T05:04:15+00:00

Its kinda hard to tell without more information really. It could be either

sam123cherif · 2020-01-09T05:45:21+00:00

Yup, word of the wise right here, the universe just want to fucking end you, let your guard down and he will fucking do it.

Bigbrain13 · 2020-01-09T11:01:23+00:00

I can only speak from experience, but if a girl wants you, she'll make time. The girl I'm seeing now is actively creating time for me and I see her all the time. If she's busy she tries to see me ASAP afterward.

If you've been on six dates and she doesn't have time, she'll give you a reason.

So no you're not wrong.

boltjamison · 2020-01-09T13:22:41+00:00

6 dates? He better have gotten laid.

Ironclad_FTW · 2020-01-09T15:00:11+00:00

Dude well said, I felt that

z770i1 · 2020-01-09T10:20:39+00:00

I would say you're wrong, but i never dated, so who knows. I think she's just busy

Zavier221 · 2020-01-09T11:35:22+00:00

Depends on what the dates are and who's paying for them tbh . I mean if she really liked you after 6 dates I think she wouldn't want to miss any time with you however she might actually be busy.

[deleted] · 2020-01-09T12:40:22+00:00

what are you going to give her?

expendablekerosene · 2020-01-09T13:15:01+00:00

Delete her out of your contacts. This can be paraphrased as 'I'm busy' and is a BS blowoff answer.

If she says something like, "Me and Tina got tickets a few months ago to see Post Malone in Cincinnati so we're gonna drive up Saturday morning and come back on Sunday." then she might be into you. Vague answers about not being available mean she's not feeling it. Delete and go to the gym, plan a trip, or go to the beach until a new moist hole comes along.

sAMjAri · 2020-01-09T13:48:42+00:00

Broo big 👋 for you, you are 100% right.....

RegiusGeralt · 2020-01-10T01:47:19+00:00

Love Story its an illusion.

Title	Am I wrong?
Author	xxDuality
Upvotes	92
Comments	28
Date	January 9, 2020 3:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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