Anyone else experience this?

You meet a girl on an online dating site and plan a date together where you will visit her. It is supposed to be just you and her, but when you arrive, to your surprise, there is another girl there. (Or even a guy) Your date "just wanted to make sure that you weren't a serial killer" so they wanted backup. They may have promised you a little action, but now you won't be getting any because there is a 3rd wheel involved and they don't want to be rude to their friend.

This has happened to me multiple times and even recently. What makes it worse is that I drove over an hour to visit girls when they did this to me. It's even happened in the same town multiple times which sours me on trying to meet up with anyone in those towns.

Recently a girl I met online wanted me to come to her for over an hour drive because she said that her aunt sent her $70 to Walmart and she would give me $20 for gas. It was also supposed to be somewhat of a date for our first time meeting. I thought long and hard about it and struggled with going. I finally thought that the weather was nice and a drive wouldn't be too bad and I'd get extra money out of the deal because it didn't take $20 in gas to get there and back. Usually I make other plans in the town, visit stores or whatever so it's not a total loss if something happens. This time the money made the deal sweeter but I had to trust her. I took a risk...

When I got there I was supposed to meet her at a gas station but she was now at Starbucks so that already made me a little upset. When I got to Starbucks I met her outside with another girl. She brought her friend with her. I am instantly pissed because this is not the first time this has happened. She lied to me and killed my trust. I took her to Walmart angrily basically being silent. They said "well this is awkward". No shit! Awkward for me! I walked into Walmart and luckily she gave me the money. When we exited they went their own way and I got in my vehicle and went home. I spent like $13 at dairy Queen. Lol never talk to her again.

I wonder if her aunt sent her the money or some random guy online lol. Hard telling.

Also her friend mentioned going to see a guy who might be her boyfriend and she talked about how he owned a glock. Seemed kind of random, don't know if she was trying to be tough or what.

I know this is a shit test.

I know that the replies on here will be focused on me saying I get what I deserve and I shouldn't meet up with women etc.

NOT ALL MGTOW ARE MONKS

I'd like to focus on people's experiences and how much bullshit it is that women do this to men. It's no wonder there is a divide and men don't take women seriously. Shit like this can only happen so many times to a man until they turn sour to the entire gender of females and dating in general.

What makes them think this is okay? How do they expect me to react? "Oh wow cool your friend is here!" Are you kidding me?