Thank you Pook, for a second chance at living. An inspiration not just to me but the entire manosphere. He presented the answer to not only love but to life - the focus must be on YOU. Unite YOUR dreams to day. I created this username to re-post Pook's advice to those who need it. He doesn't get enough credit not just for his content, but his writing ability. Here are some quotes that I often refer to. If you've read the Book of Pook, re-read it. His blog is also excellent.

"There are two paths in love and life. Live your dreams or live other people's dreams. One path is HARD. The other path is EASY. One path leads to SECURITY. The other path leads to FREEDOM."

"Do what YOU want, do NOT follow the Way. (What is the 'Way'? The Way is College -> Good Job -> Marriage -> Big House -> Vacations -> Kids -> Save for kids college -> Retire. You do not HAVE to get married and do any of that. There is no formula for life. Never trust anyone who tells you that should consider yourself 'lucky' even if you feel unhappy in your job, wife/girl, or house"

"By putting the focus on you, rather than the women, you DO gain a control on your life. Most people sleep-walk through life. Others figure out what women want and, like clay, remold themselves to that. But by focusing on yourself, you keep yourself from ever being desperate and, even if things do NOT work out with a particular woman or women, you are still better for it since you haven't stopped upgrading yourself."

"Away then with feminists and guilt felt males! Away with their stones of sensitivity programs to tie us down! Away with their whips of laws! Away with their ropes and bindings of legalities that shuffle our success and wealth to women! Away with the stones of guilt that push us to pessimism! Away with the hanging of annihilation whose executer’s hand is but our own! Towards Manhood! And through it, let men be men and the light of life shall shine again into the world. Towards Manhood! And let us never deceive ourselves again. Let Eve cry all she wants. Let the feminists, turning ever which way, prattle and rattle their flaming sword of devilish tongue... for we have reclaimed Paradise"

Pook's most relatable post for /r/MGTOW is "Romanticism, An Obituary". My personal favorite is "A Second Life"

As you think you shall become!