Another clueless ex.

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2018-02-08T14:15:55+00:00

Block her, reading those messages will only extend the pain man, it may be hard but block her and don't let her take up your time. You do not owe her shit, she cheated on you, you will never trust her again so there is NO POINT in continuing to read that stuff, if you went back to her it would almost certainly still end in disaster.

Everytime you read those texts you get stuck in the past. Block her, get a new number and don't share it, whatever it takes, but move on with your life or you will spend your life wallowing in misery. I left a marriage of 19 years, moving on has allowed me to be happy again, I know it can be difficult, but you are a man and you are used to dealing with shit all your life, you are strong enough to move past this and make your life something that will make YOU happy. You mentioned her texts are all about how unhappy SHE is, how she doesn't know what SHE wants, ask yourself this, did she ever truly apoligize to you about all the cheating? Did she truly own it and admit she fucked up? Or is it all about her and not one bit about how her actions impacted you? Take care of yourself buddy, she had her turn and she fucked it up, that is her problem not yours.

Here is hoping you have a fantastic life.

stoopididoit · 2018-02-08T13:57:30+00:00

You have not learned to value yourself. You must find the strength to do the things you know you must. Have Respect for yourself, I promise you she does not.

NewLife_2017 · 2018-02-13T21:23:21+00:00

Block her... 5 months vs 7 years or marriage. Humans are creatures of habit and your habit was being married. Its familiar. Get some hobbies, join a few clubs and in another 5 months it'll all be behind you. She fucked up, she fucked up after she "wanted to fix it", she will continue fucking you up if you let her.

Don't let her. Go your own way.

Title	Another clueless ex.
Author	JPDG
Upvotes	43
Comments	3
Date	February 8, 2018 2:47 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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