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Anyone else has a problem with how girls keep saying how they are single for a long time, but they have fuck buddy and that doesnt count?

Throwaway157856

July 4, 2020

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Title	Anyone else has a problem with how girls keep saying how they are single for a long time, but they have fuck buddy and that doesnt count?
Author	Throwaway157856
Upvotes	336
Comments	53
Date	July 4, 2020 7:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/hl8r28/anyone_else_has_a_problem_with_how_girls_keep/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/anyone-else-has-a-problem-with-how-girls-keep.703924 https://theredarchive.com/post/703924

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[–]novhaku24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm not even sure about that, honestly. Given the experience I've had with autistic women, including the ones that said they were "severe" but were among the most... "liberal and hedonistic" sex-wise by a long shot, sensory overload be damned if they decide it is (severe, at least as long as it gave them the right to make no efforts at all behaviour-wise I guess, despite them being WAY more social than me in my youth when it was quite something, before I HAD to learn how the world works and make a ton of efforts. As an aspie, it's a "learn how to fit in or die" world).

Not that I'm one to complain, after learning how things work, autism isn't that much of a dealbreaker anymore. But women can get men even if they DON'T behave in an high-functioning way at all.

You'd be surprised by how some autistic women can be.

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[–]novhaku7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

We have absolutely no "instinct" when it comes to how to socially behave and have to learn it (which can take some time but is certainly doable; I'm pretty sure I'd count as charismatic when talking about something, but this took a lot of work and suicide attempts over the years because things just DIDN'T make sense. Until it did even if it's a bit tiring to "translate" things constantly. But it can be done and funnily enough once you get rid of any doubt you have you even look confident, which helps). Which has its good and bad sides because "instict" can be incredibly biased, but it can cause a ton of problem like what you're talking about and being too ego-focused and entitled.

What this means is that it can mean a COMPLETE lack of boundaries, which can extremely easily be understood as seduction, and it can also lead to one just "not caring at all". Attwood talks a lot about why "autism is different in women" and I don't necessarily agree. He basically uses an argument that can be understood as gender roles and autistic characteristics like reading the same book over and over, etc, being more common in NT women, but I think it mainly has to do with a better acceptance of nearly everything when it comes to women, period. Men can perfectly master the "social mask" as well; they just need either enough support or the will (easier said than done, I know, it can be easier to die than to find a worthwhile reason to "get this one") to do so, but men get a lot less support despite being diagnosed more often. So there's that.

Anyway (as anyone can see by reading my post history I tend to be long quite often) I went off a tangent, but yes. Either they are 100% become prude and follow rules "too much" (there are actually "subtypes" of aspie, something quite interesting to know), or they become completely hedonistic and don't give a damn at all; I've already said it in earlier posts, but the way society treats women is the WORST POSSIBLE WAY to treat someone with autism (pussy pass DOESN'T work well with autism when the person is trying to learn social codes without any instinct regarding them and it results in something even more entitled than a feminist). The same could be said for men... But the difference is that men usually get slapped (well, punched to be more accurate) in the face many times, quite early, if they're not respectful or don't behave well towards other people of the same age. Which tend to help when it comes to learning what is acceptable and what isn't (it's already a big problem for NT men and women but it's way worse with autistic men and women).

Autistic people basically have to learn like you'd learn maths. Including anything social, and it has to MAKE SENSE for them, in a non-arbitrary way. The pussy pass make it so that the book used to teach women how to behave socially is extremely wrong. Of course there ARE exceptions, but it's one hell of a problem when dating an aspie, even when you're one, but one who "had to learn", yourself. If you don't know what the fuck you are doing, but everyone is constantly telling you you're doing great and praising you, it will not end well personality-wise. If you're overprotected and your parents make you think that storks are the ones delivering babies even at 15, you'll end up the opposite way around, although it's more and more rare nowadays, thanks to the internet. Anything social is learned for an aspie or a more severe autist... and when the society teaching it to you is biased or allow too many things because, y'know, "body positivity" or "slut pride" or whatever else, the result is a disaster.

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This right here. Stop giving a fuck about things you can't control.

If you want sex, become a fuck-buddy for one of these women. The way you do it is, you wade through the river of shit tests and climb the mountain of rejection, and when you finally manage to nab a willing girl, you make it clear that you're not interesting in a relationship, then you fuck her brains out. Then be cool about it, be nice to her, and you'll get to hit it again, as often as you like.

So either do that, or stfu about it. It's not a "problem" if you're red pill. It's just reality. Don't obsess over shit like this. I'm very sorry for you that you can't have the happy family with the virtuous wife that you wanted. I really am. But I can't fix that. You can't fix that. It's just our shitty culture. There are other things you can do though - you can fuck sluts, and you can have a happy life on you own. Don't waste your life worrying about the one thing you can't have.

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