I am 22 year old male. I applied for a secondary education course a year ago to get the grades I could to get into university. So, im with my GF whilst during this course. In my class I sat beside this really quiet foreign girl . She was extremely anti social and awkward. I took it apon myself to try to speak to this girl and make her feel less shy and awkward. I did the majority of the talking.

She said really weird shit, but I dumbed myself down and spoke to her on a level in which she could relate to and feel more comfortable. Bare in mind this girl was about a 4/10, my GF was about an 8/10 (not boasting just facts). For some reason I kept levelling with this girl, I was somehow attracted to her weirdness, and her anti social shyness. She was the opposite of my GF, my GF was hard work, extremely confident and outgoing. So whilst I continued to speak to this girl, we became good friends, she seemed "different" due to her lack of confidence. She was able to speak rationally and say shit no other typical girl would say.

Eventually me and GF broke up, and this girl and me remained friends. I moved on to college, but we remained facebook friends. Suddenly , in the last few months she's had a complete makeover and has a new bf (albeit he is incredibly ugly) and her personality has completely changed. She is more confident , but not in a good way. She is starting to be bitchy towards me and totally changed her original shy introverted and rationale personality. She has become extremely irrational, bitchy, horrible and started putting alot of selfies on FB, which she didn't normally do. I have no problem with her expressing herself or being confident. But I have noticed something - confidence is an absolute killer in terms of women. The more confident , the more ruthless, the less accepting. She has completely changed.

So I've witnessed this first hand - you can have an extremely shy introverted girl and she can be a complete sweetheart, but as soon as she changes her appearance and started getting BFs she totally changed. She totally forgot her original non-selfish self and moved on. It's frustrating because I wasn't even attracted to this girl yet I still wasted my time speaking to her thinking we could possibly have some sort of friendship relationship and I could speak to her about my GF. But now she has got "pretty" it's totally gone to her head. Funny thing is, she's only about a 6/10 now, as apposed to the 4 she used to be. She was my last hope for women, honestly, now it's gone. Confidence is killer .