This story happened a week ago. I have seen this girl three times with minimum exchange of text and stuff. We made plans to meet last Friday and we made that a week ago. On friday I confirm with her the plan and I even got tickets for a show and told her to pay me later when we meet. She confirms and all. Two hours before we were supposed to meet she texted me "I can't make it tonight, something came up, I am so sorry", I promise nothing more. I replied that's disrespectful, I don't accept this kind of behavior and she got to pay me her ticket still. The next day she texted me giving me all kind of deep excuses, and adds that me talking about money made her uncomfortable. I replied that all I care is that she pays me back. I pushed on her and she paid me the same day. I know deep down in my gut this "something " is a Chad and I say cool for him. I am grateful for the experiences shared in this sub, all gave me more clues to look for and know what to expect, because the only thing I might have lost from this situation was time writing more to her than usual!

One may ask "what happened on that friday night ?" . I got another girl to go out to the show and dinner that she invited me for!

I am sure there are brothers out there invested in various relationships, never allow women to bullshit you and abuse your generosity. Women can easily use the guilt card to make you feel bad and forbid you from going all the way to ask for your dues (I say this assuming that the men here are being giving and investing something into the relationship).

Thank you again for being brothers, teachers, advisors, and most importantly going our way to bring out what makes us best as men