Yo guys I just wanted to open up a discussion about the female condition, as it's a good reason why a lot of us are on here. I also feel like I've been weighed down a bit by my conflicting feelings on the matter, and so I just gotta get a few things off my chest here. It's kinda weird to talk about it in a community focused on male self-improvement independent of the opposite sex, but I feel that perhaps if I try and examine this mess of a modern society from a different lens I can actually improve my own life in some way.

From my personal experience, I've witnessed many of the toxic personality quirks of the stereotypical modern woman manifest themselves in people I know. One of my friends in particular has that complex about herself, where she would control an entire horde of orbiters to do her bidding and easily become the center of attention before going through her own love triangle drama bullshit and then complain about how shitty her life is and how alone she feels in spite of all this.

I mean, holy fuck I remember her inviting a lot of guy friends I didn't know to a party I hosted awhile back, and it was like watching Animal Planet or some shit. I sat back and observed how easily both my friends and her friends just sorta circled around her and followed her every move without actually touching her. It was like a gang bang but without any actual banging. It got to a point to where we began to play Truth-or-Dare, and one guy dared her to go explore the spooky sewer system near my house. When she asked for a volunteer to go with her cuz it was too scary and shit, literally about 20 guys jumped out of their seat and marched behind her to the sewer like some fucking ant line.

And yet, despite all of that, for one reason or another I could never get myself to completely hate her or resent her or anything. I mean, those feelings definitely popped up from time-to-time, especially in high school when I even fell for her but then ended up as one of her soy-boy guy friends much to my dismay.

But like, a part of me kinda gets it ya know? I mean, fuck, you happen to be a smokin' hot 10/10 IGN (with a huge rack to boot) and you get a lot of flak from a lot of guys you might not necessarily feel comfortable being around. Like, imagine trying to build genuine connections and friendships with people, but almost every guy you meet only interacts with you in the vain hope they get to purge their biological instinct to procreate out of their system and into your coochie. And you can't just make female friends either because they all end up slut-shaming you when they see you getting all this attention from all these guys. The only thing you can do at that point is just take advantage of the situation and indulge in the power you hold over the opposite sex, especially when society empowers you for doing so because women's oppression and down with the Patriarchy or some shit.

Because if you don't do that, then you might as well be nothing.

Perhaps what I expressed here was more of a case study more than anything else, but part of me thinks this is a tad more common than we like to believe. Like, I don't think modern women pull this kind of shit out of sheer malice per se. There's some malice for sure, and holy shit does it fucking sting when they string us guys along like that. But, I dunno, I feel like it's kinda reductive to look down on women for pulling that kind of stuff out of their ass. And, like, I kinda see some people do that in this community and it feels kinda weird to see that.

I'm not saying we should forgive them whenever they do what they do, though. We can't just let ourselves be treated with the same level of respect as a used tampon and enable that shit cuz that's just as fucked. But I guess that's why this community was formed, eh?

I mean shit, maybe this entire post is just me realizing what it means to be MTGOW to some degree. You accept that women can be a pain in the ass and avoid playing their game, but you don't let that knowledge consume you with hatred or spite towards them cuz you kinda get where it comes from; then you can focus on improving yourself.