It's crazy how even some guy friends of mine who agree upon the ill effects of feminism still want to date so badly and enter into relationships and later on, even marriages. Even after feeding them the pill, sending them articles, links, studies and screenshots from this sub as well as the men's rights sub, they are still of the belief that it's merely a "headspace" some people in some obscure corner of the internet are in due to its influence.

They think that the average woman is gonna provide them a stable relationship and family and that only a small fraction of the extreme end of the scale is being talked about.

They say they agree with all I say, but think it's a pessimistic view and cynical to allow that to "sway your life decisions" and that you need to "find the right one". I am often questioned for being messed in the head by some of my own guy friends, I just smile to myself, as men even twice my age have appreciated my mature outlook and decisions.

We've all just entered adulthood, can't wait to watch the entertainment. One of the guys has already been rejected several times by his crushes. What's worse, he even agrees with me that dating is tilted in favour of females and that a man's got everything to lose and nothing to gain unlike the woman, but still says nothing is gonna convince him from entering into relationships and marrying and desiring kids as he doesn't want to be alone in life. He even hates his life.

It feels amazing to have a head start on so much more that's yet to come in life, and being able to see through the delusion, knowing that you'd avoid so much of the financial, emotional and mental drain, putting you way ahead of so many others, some of whom even had the knowledge but didn't act on it. The realization that you've avoided and will avoid so many setbacks and not be dragged down in all facets of your life in the future is truly refreshing.