I have touched on this before but I have come to the belief that in only accepting the truth in whole can a man be free. For example if you are married I would say divorce, the cheaper be to keep her is a lie because it only gives her more time to risk your life be it through spending or her daring you to do something you will forever regret.

As for child support I look at it like this if you try to be in there life when you did nothing to begin with to lose them, then you are admitting that what you did was wrong, and choosing to have suffering be the very aspect of having time with your children is to place suffering as an aspect of what they mean to you. Since it's only legal for the government to o be the father than let the government be th father and let her have full custody, why fight it. Also in the long run it is best that your children in the future meet their father who has financially recovered isn't homeless, has control of his future so if they do decide to find and talk to you they can. There is no point in fighting for something the government will only win after all it makes you predictable.

I say see through it, move forward. See the government knows that it's easier to get access to your funds through child support and divorce because you will work as hard as possible to give your former women more money. Instead accept the lose and move on, the government will panic because you are going off script and not fighting a losing battle that leads to you losing a war