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[–]mars_doom45 points46 points47 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Wow. This was me for almost two fucking years. FUCK that.
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[–]Stryker72002 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ha sounds like me. Got a pretty decent bank job but no fulfillment in it any more.
[–]Toshiba1point08 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
10 years, don’t feel bad. Good news though the red pill is always available when you’re ready.
[–]Northern-Breeze2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How did you wake up? How did you start as a blue pill if you don’t mind me asking, brother
[–]mars_doom0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You really want to hear that?
Well, concerning women I was blue pilled for a long time. I bought into the romance, wanting to fall in love, and the whole marriage construct. I was the gentlemenly type who wanted to please women.
Recently I dated a bat shit emotionally unstable woman. For 2 years. Complete waste of time. I was this guy in the picture who laid in bed with her every night for those years while wondering what the fuck I was even doing there. She was a borderline personality disordered slut. So you could say that woke me up after physical abuse started going down and false accusations. She was fucking delusional. It was soon after I realized everything I was doing was only hurting me.
[+][deleted] 7 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
Man I live like that now. (without the woman)
but.... part of me thinks i love misery.
[–]riskywiskey8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know the feeling. I've been stuck in a hole for a while now. Don't know why i can't get out. Sometimes i think i enjoy the misery.
[–]Shortmanking 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Holy shit I feel the same way, I'm almost used to the misery and anything else makes me feel uncomfortable and that's scary.
[–]YeahItsMe0072 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seek discomfort
[–]IcebergHermit 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There is a theory that some people are afraid of success and happiness in life or think they do not deserve it
[+][deleted] 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I believe I may have that issue. I feel awkward being happy so I stay away from anything that could even make me smile.
What happens is I end up alone, miserable, and staying at my shit job. I sometimes feel like I'm losing my mind... If it isn't already lost.
[–]IcebergHermit 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe don’t worry so much about being happy - focus on having FUN. Happiness occurs as a result of fun!
[–]vagrantchemist31 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I can remember my blue pill days were like this. What a pathetic peice of shit I was. Thank God for MGTOW.
[–]riskywiskey9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was me in my teens for over a year. But i was getting enough sex to make me put up with it. But slowly but surely the sex slowed down and the nagging and desperation increased. I thank god every day i got out when i did. I can only tremble at the thought of where i might be now if I'd stayed or knocked her up or worse, married her.
[–]chart66537 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Was basically roomates with my (now ex) wife for the last 18 months of our marriage, but was too chickenshit to get out because life was comfortable. Her cheating was the best thing that ever happened, got me up and out of that quicksand
[–]jedimasterliuqa0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm in this state now, wife is a good mother to our children but has forgotten about me. Our anniversary is in 2 days and not sure how we are going to spend it. May be another lonely night in the bedroom. I'm ready for the redpill, not sure when to take it.
[–]wisdomo1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plan it. Even if the plan means years of execution.
[–]MuleFool420 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh man, so easy to get stuck in the blue pill rut if you're not paying attention. Next thing you know 10 years go by and nothing has changed.
Good reminder.
[–]TheJerkAtTanagra 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The man looks like Jimmy Carter! When he was younger.
[–]Tre_Walker1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.
Thanks to MGTOW I now know better.
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[–]mars_doom45 points46 points47 points (6 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Stryker72002 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Toshiba1point08 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Northern-Breeze2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]mars_doom0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
Man I live like that now. (without the woman)
but.... part of me thinks i love misery.
[–]riskywiskey8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Shortmanking 1 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]YeahItsMe0072 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]IcebergHermit 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I believe I may have that issue. I feel awkward being happy so I stay away from anything that could even make me smile.
What happens is I end up alone, miserable, and staying at my shit job. I sometimes feel like I'm losing my mind... If it isn't already lost.
[–]IcebergHermit 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]vagrantchemist31 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]riskywiskey9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]chart66537 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]jedimasterliuqa0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]wisdomo1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MuleFool420 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TheJerkAtTanagra 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Tre_Walker1 point [recovered] | Copy Link