(Not native english speaker)

I want to share 5 years experience that i decided to break up

was my first GF, we started when we were both 17-18 , at first years was everything ok and nice, she was sweet and all. Then we decide to live together, i was fighthing alot with my dad ( prob because we dont like me playing WOW 16 hours a day) . I got a job and we moved together and the whole thing started to change, prob because she had a " guarantee " that i wont dump her.

She started change, the sweet gurl became a fat monster , got mad for everything and did tons of rages. There was time i had to lock myself inside the room while she was raging.

I really try to fix things, say to her to dont rage about stupid things, help with diet and goals but nothing changed. I couldnt leave the house cause the contract was one year along.

While the months pass i really started losing the love, all the abuses rages and all kind of shit just made me lose afinity . I started the no fap shit more like an excuse to avoid sex at all cust.

Now 1 year has passed and the contract is over, i dumped her cause i really dont see a reason to keep a relationship with someone u feel nothing. She cried alot and said that she dont understand and only need a change to show that " shes not the kind of toxic person she became".

When she saw that no way back she treath me to beat her and said shes going on my job to fuck me with my boss....

Lessons i learn:

1- Dont move together DONT DO IT TRUST ME , is nice at first day and ill become ur prison

2- Most woman cant plan and achiev goals

3- She ill get fat and stop giving u sex, theres ill be always an excuse

4- Work, study, learn to cook and clean, she may trap u in this kinds of services.

5- Only breakup after she ended her period

6- Never stop improving, ur body , soul and mid, never acomodate on a realtionship or u will be jailed forever

Ty for reading hope it help someone =)