It's kinda funny because following her (and modern) advice about dating, the kid is having bad relationships.
The dad is married.
Obviously one of them knows how a guy reaches the end goal of dating, and it is neither the mom nor ~99% of the commenters on that thread. Hopefully this kind of experience will wake up the son to the fact that the only advice that will work is -- paraphrased -- "Instead of being yourself, you must change yourself and everything about you based upon someone else." That's my main problem with TRP/PUA/etc. and all this advice that actually does work for dating or marriage: Why should I change myself and everything about me if I'm happy with my person and my life?
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It's kinda funny because following her (and modern) advice about dating, the kid is having bad relationships.
The dad is married.
Obviously one of them knows how a guy reaches the end goal of dating, and it is neither the mom nor ~99% of the commenters on that thread. Hopefully this kind of experience will wake up the son to the fact that the only advice that will work is -- paraphrased -- "Instead of being yourself, you must change yourself and everything about you based upon someone else." That's my main problem with TRP/PUA/etc. and all this advice that actually does work for dating or marriage: Why should I change myself and everything about me if I'm happy with my person and my life?
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