Confused. Very Confused.

Loganphoenix122 · 2020-01-06T17:53:54+00:00

I think it was the apostol Paul who said its better to remain single unles your burning.

Also I suppose you need to think of what you think is important for you to see in a wamon. Like these should be at least stable and healthy / mature: - 1. financially No debt what so ever; Cash saved; Steady paying job;

1. emotionally Good relation with parents; No divorced parents; No history of sexual abuse; One that understand the role and place of the man in christianity and one that understand her role and place; Has hobbys; Is responsible; No orbitors or exes in her live; Takes responsibility for her own faults; Is happy and content with live Doesn’t need attention from other men;
1. physically: Not over weight; Eats healthy;
1. creativity Has hobbys; A vision;

You get my drift. But like I always say its better not to play.

Usually your feel good hormones come around the corner and try to place you back in your comfort zone. You know that most men are here cause of what they went trough. Ive being excommunicated in a church to be trown our of a church by the truth of my ex fiancee. Most church wemon are the worst of the worst. On sunday its a show for them to make themselves look good. And what wemon always say is in that moment. You cant trust them, they have no sense of loyalty, trust or honor.

It was Eve who led the downfall of all men and before her there was Lilith. Its the nature of wemon to bring any man down. But perhaps you need to go through it and once you experiences it, if that doesnt kill you, you might become mgtow or just go through it a couple of more times.

Also understanding female nature and enjoying wemon for what they are isnt a sin.

faltHes · 2020-01-06T18:16:17+00:00

Proverbs 21:19.

Many of the greatest men in history have lived MGTOW. Your path must be your own, even if it is a difficult one to tread. That is what it is to be a man.

The struggles of modern age aren't unique, but technology has made the world much smaller than it used to be. This comes with the good and the bad. It can make your world feel like a jail cell at times. I'd recommend getting off of social media, but still going out to cafes and socializing when you can.

I think it's important that you stay true to who you are. If that means staying true to your faith, then don't waiver in the face of struggle. But always hold AWALT truths close. Those are truths that have been in recorded history for as far back as you can look. Ignoring them just to hold out false hope would be foolish.

DavidLoPan13 · 2020-01-06T18:04:38+00:00

I was raised catholic but I no longer practice religion. I do however see value for it in society. I mean look around, there is quite a bit of degeneracy eroding society. That being said, dude your only 19. Just relax and focus on yourself for now. Your psyching yourself out it seems. But marriage is a terrible idea just from a financial stand point. It seems as tho you want to get married to get laid. That’s a really dumb idea. I can’t tell you to go against ur faith cause I wouldn’t feel right doing that. Only you know how you feel about that. The only thing I can say for sure is marriage is really really stupid.

no_patrick_the_lid · 2020-01-06T18:55:31+00:00

Allow me to tell you a tale from personal experience.

When I was in HS I was super Catholic and thought having premarital sex would send me straight to hell. I ended up dating a thot - how that happened is another story - who insisted on having sex about 2 weeks into the relationship. Well, the hormones were raging and I reckoned that I was either going to get married or break the sixth commandment very soon, but I was going to fuck her either way.

I broke after 2 more weeks. Going into it (no pun intended) I was nervous that I would lose some part of myself. A few minutes later and I found that I didn't feel any of the shame or guilt I expected. That, for me, was the most jarring part. Nothing bad happened, even when my parents found out. Up until that point they had stressed abstinence, but as soon as they knew their good Catholic boy was up in the guts their entire tune changed. Mom said it was natural for men to have premarital sex. Dad was just glad I used a condom.

We still prayed before dinner and went to mass every Sunday, but I started to question how they could be so nonchalant about something the church considered a mortal sin. This kicked off doubts that took me on a journey outside of the faith for many years, and I have yet to fully re-accept the teachings of the church.

All that is to say, losing your virginity is a life-changing "non-event". Nothing substantial will change for you after it happens. However, once you're on the other side you may wonder what the fuss was all about and that will lead you down a road of introspection that can be uncomfortable at best. If God is at the core of your identity, it will challenge and possibly break your sense of self. But the sex act on it's own? Nothing special.

TL;DR: "Amen, amen, I say to you, just as we are commanded to put bros before hoes, so too should man place the LORD's wishes before bitches." (MGTOW 11:6)

Title	Confused. Very Confused.
Author	bruh_moment54
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Date	January 6, 2020 5:50 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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