So after months of complaints and 2 police reports I had my female coworker Charged with sexual assault to a minor and fired from place of work!
So long story short she started 7 months ago and I’m the only male worker where I work and she would constantly grind on me (ass on me) and touch me inappropriately on the chest and butt. I complained to my boss twice but she didn’t care so I filed a police report against said coworker and undocumented everything with pictures and a log of events. She did these gross actions to me every shift I worked with her so I called in almost every shift. I’m 17 so I had to have my parents file it for me cause I’m underaged which was quite embarrassing but I got through it and I’m glad there was actions done to stop her.
Sexual assault isn’t just for women, men can be affected too.
Edit: parents helped me file a report, they didn’t do it for me. While it’s really embarrassing to tell them something like this happened it’s probably one of the better things I did, telling someone really does help make you feel like you have someone’s on your side.
Edit: I saw someone asking why I didn’t say anything to anyone, even posts anything asking for help. I think I felt like that’s not supposed to happen and I thought if I asked anyone I would have been scoffed at and told your looking for attention. With that reasoning in my head I started taking pictures, secretly taking videos, audio recordings especially me saying “no”. This eventually led to a well documented log for me to show which I think without it the case would have been dismissed.
Edit: somebody asked if this is going to be public, simple answer is no. I don’t want this to get public I hate attention and frankly this is highly highly embarrassing and I personally just want to keep to myself atm
[–]80173513 points14 points15 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Why didn't the boss do anything about it? That's even sexismer than sexism itself.
[–]Scorpiontail14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
In the U.S., that's very strong grounds for a successful lawsuit against the employer for tolerating sexual harassment, sex discrimination/hostile work environment, etc.
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[–]NeverNeverLandIsNow6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
All the more reason you have a good discrimination case
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I hope her life goes through the milling machine like the countless lives of men before her.
[–]Frog_g5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Sadly it won't
[–]jeabben 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Being embarrassed should never stop justice. His feelings and bad experiences are not the focus here. The morally bankrupt offender's actions are.
[–]scaur4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Hertoo ?