Coping with Codependency and Addiction

2016-09-12T01:42:39+00:00

Meaning of life (taken from my notes)

I really think that after all of this, the meaning of life doesn't exist. You have to create it. You can either be content with nothing or be unhappy with everything. It's your decision. Meaning of life is just a definition/perception of reality. It's important to form one because it helps you to live. So why do you want to live and not die? is a question that cannot be answered. It's like choosing your own comfort food. Everyone has one(some people don't) but it doesn't mean everyone should have the same one. In fact, this disbelief of a universal truth forces humankind to strive and search for meaning by passing the information they learned to the next generation. If you find a universal truth, it implies that you have reached the end of the possible growth of human race. Example: a man running for no reason(or an illusion of reason) keeps on running because he has to. You cant stop running because everyone else is running which leaves you alone and possibly, your genes might go out of existence pretty soon because you aren't fit. ONCE, mankind had found a universal truth(a stop from running) it's the deadend of human growth and reproduction which in turn means killing itself. It looks like as if we're sugarcoating mankind's need to evolve and grow. I think it all boils down to biology and it's simple theory of evolution. Growth is the fundamental phenomenon that keeps your body and mind active. All hormones will be pumping with ideal amounts which gives you a feeling of happiness,fulfillment. It's just all biological. We just create drama and sugarcoat everything to make our existence a bit smoother or to provide alternate ways to achieve fulfillment because human body is a machine that keeps on deteriorating.

You must aim for solitude.

Solitude, on the other hand, is a state of being alone without being lonely. While loneliness is self-destructive in nature, solitude is a positive and constructive state of engagement with oneself used for inner reflection and growth

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-09-12T01:31:11+00:00

What are fun things guys can do alone?

Anything you want. Is there a movie you want to see? Go. No permission or coordination needed.

Want to ride a motorcycle? Get one. No permission or coordination needed.

Want an adventure? Go backpacking in another country. Take a bicycle tour. Take up shooting. The world is your oyster.

2016-09-12T00:11:14+00:00

What are fun things guys can do alone?

Get a dog and take him for walks out in nature

If you like music, learn guitar. Find a tutor or just use the net - there's a ton of resources out there. You could spend two years wasting time with some skank and have nothing at the end of it except rage and pain or you could take that two years and become a competent guitarist.

JackRooks · 2016-09-12T00:33:43+00:00

If you are asking this question, you need to do some soul searching and become comfortable with yourself. Do interpret that as an insult or a recommendation to masturbate.

People who ask similarly framed questions are use to having other people tell them what to do, how to occupy their time, or other people(and folks) occupy their time and energy.

What are fun things guys can do alone? Men make whatever they do fun, enjoyable, or productive, alone or in a group setting.

victor_knight · 2016-09-12T03:06:15+00:00

Start a MGTOW YouTube channel and make videos, like me. Contribute to the cause. It will take up a lot of your free time as well and have you thinking less about women and loneliness.

Warjikin · 2016-09-12T06:32:08+00:00

Geocache.

Title	Coping with Codependency and Addiction
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	September 11, 2016 11:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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