Hey all,

Been following you all and contributing on my other username, but wanted to ask for some advice. How have you been able to flip that MGTOW switch? I’m just out of a long relationship where when I look back, was probably not as great as I thought it was. Regardless, I still find myself thinking of her and not being able to get over that hump where I’m putting myself first. I’m curious if any of you have been in that boat, and how did you get over the hump? I can absolutely see myself doing the things I want(vacations, house, etc) but when I imagine those things, there is that creeping sense of sadness that she won’t be there with me. I haven’t been able to think my way around it. Any suggestions? I’m kinda hoping that someone has some advice that just makes it “click” for me.

Thanks!