i'm fed up. had a huge fight with my best bro. well not big but i blew up at him. he's such a cuck.

i have to say beforehand, i'm quite sensitive to this subject. i had a friend, best friend for 19 years that married and older controlling women. i was still in young party/whores mode and he slowly cut me out of his life just because we became different people. i still loved him. that was 4 years ago and i havent' talked to him since, and the last time we talked he said he had NO male friends and hated his wife 50% of the time but they were having a daughter.

so in comes new best friend. known him 6 years. been besties for 4. great guy, so nice and peaceful. a bit lazy but a good bro. ever since day one he met his now wife i felt a bad feeling. she would publically makeout with him whenever we'd all meet and cling to his arm. it was clear what she was saying, "i know you two are best bros and really love each other, but now he's MINE and all his love and time is MINE!"

I didn't say much though. he's always been a bit blue pilled and wanted to find "love". he said he wanted to marry her but then i knew to give it time. he was already talking about how sex was getting boring and that he'd have soft dick problems but he did seem to want her. but he was being a typical non commited guy.

well she tells him and he stupidly believes her that she's very infertile, well she didn't say that but that her doctor said she is hard to have babies because she has small eggs, so of course cum in me. he does, baby, marriage. its all over, dated since day one like 10 months now and in that time he's been married and a baby is on the way.

he turned into the ultimate cuck. never could see bros for any reason. if he did he'd always be texting his wife her endlessly blowing up his phone with strict curfews. she quickly found ways to get dirt on me and our other best friend so she'd have a reason to dislike us, thus not allowing us to go to his house anymore.

so then he comes over, i just bought my first house ever. super excited. granted it wasn't fully done yet but it was my best bro, at my new house. big moment. he soon tells me he only has 2 hours to hang out. and part of that time has to be spent to go buy some food for his wife who is upset she has to stay at his house because she lived at her old house for 25 years.

YES, THAT'S RIGHT.....she got married and then got mad at him that after marriage she has to live with him. well i had it, i told him that's ridiculous. you should be able to stay out longer, it was friday night, she had no reason to need him back other than beat control. not only did he make sure to get her food and leave so soon after getting to my place, but while there she texted him endlessly and he was asking where he could take her closeby for a fun impromptu vacation he pays for her.

when my words escalated i basically told him she'll never respect him if he acts like a pussy, and that her logic makes no sense, she's in a huge shit test and he's failing. but this girl said the #1 most dangerous thing i've ever heard a wife said, she said, "i've dated alphas before...they are all assholes, i don't mind being with a nice guy beta now".

yes, she understands Chad Theory and basically has admited to her being with my best friend because he's a good orbiter. partly is she is hitting the wall hard. I think she dated a few Chad's when younger but was the type to never really be able to get the best one, she refuses to talk about her history with my best friend (huge red flag) even though she demanded he tell her his entire sexual history.

i just feel lost. i feel like i lost him forever. my old best friend hasn't contacted me in 3 years now. just lost in his family drone ways. this guy is doing the same. for the most part i have kept all my feelings inside. truthfully i don't think its my place to say shit. he wants a family and kids and all that nonsense, i really don't care, and i love him alot so let him do what he wants, but i want him to maintain some self respect. it's so clear once the baby comes this girl is going to lose any small respect she has left. she posts pictures online of him rubbing her legs and calling him beta, and even referenced in one pic she is a female praying mantis coming to eat his head (analogy of realism).....she's clearly super aware of gender roles and is bashing this guy into submission and i finally had a small talk like dude, you can love her but RESPECT YOURSELF first, always be the man, be dominant and control the family. he just had a dumb look on his face like he coudln't even comprehend what i was saying. I don't even want him to divorce her or have problems, fuck her but i love him and i'd rather lose him and allow them to be together if it makes him the happiest, but i want him to be happy, to know hot to treat women so they respect him. women don't want to love you but to respect you. i try to tell him about Thug and Chad theory and evolutionary biology of what women say they want vs. what they need. nothing, he says she's the one who understands him, but all she's done since marrying him is make him change all his habits (quit weed that he loves) and make sure he's on the ball to get a better job because she needs more money. oh and he gives her all his earnings and she doles out an allowance for him. fuck, i'm all about sharing in a marriage, but its just basic low of attraction, you need someone strong that you respect to find them sexually desirable. i fear for his future.