One of the biggest mistakes I see guys make is never giving themselves the chance to develop. We are taught from a young age that a huge part of our identity is the woman we are with, how we treat women, and how much money we can bring in, how much of a provider we are for women.

Nobody encourages us to work on ourselves. Nobody cares how you feel about yourself. Nobody is encouraging self love, or saying you should do what makes you happy. Society has placed at least 80% of a mans identity in how we treat and serve women.

A real man would do (fill in the blank) for his wife/girl

I’ve seen it time and time again these guys that get out of a marriage or a LTR with a women acts like a child let lose at recess. He went from having his mom in charge of him, to finding a girl that acts and sometimes looks just like his mom, asking permission to do the simplest things.

“Oh I don’t know if I can do that, you’ll have to talk to the boss” points to his wife

You’re a grown ass man calling your wife “the boss.” The fuck is wrong with you?

It’s always been sort of a passive aggressive joke, calling your girl “the old ball and chain.” It’s 2018, you don’t need to voluntarily subject yourself into domestic slavery for sex. There are plenty of gorgeous escorts you can sleep with, they are better at sex and the transaction is more honest than you’ll find most relationships.

Get some hobbies, you shouldn’t have to feel guilty for having a few hobbies. This month I’ve done over 200 miles of hiking, went fishing a handful of times, went arrowhead hunting and found some real bangers, I’ve went to 2 national parks, did some photography, and played a live show with my band for a Halloween party. I’m by no means great at my hobbies but the point is, I have them.

People love to shit on men for wanting to work on themselves or wanting basic human rights but the truth is they are fucking retarded.