I'll be quick, going down and debunking the checklist of shaming tactics I've experienced since waking up to all of this.

  • I'm 25
  • I'm 6'2
  • Have had plenty success with women since grade school girlfriends
  • Considered good looking my whole life and have benefitted from it
  • Gifted athletically, never been fat.
  • Play in a band, we have a decent local following
  • People like me socially, and usually respond positively to me
  • Never been cheated on(as far as I know)
  • Have experienced genuine sexual desire from every girlfriend I've had (as far as I know)
  • Really loved these girls while I was with them
  • Savings and investments are in very good shape compared to my peers, and I'm very frugal
  • (Points against me) I've never been very ambitious as far as career goes, I make 30k in a small town, low cost of living area.
  • (Points against me) I drive a 95 Ford Ranger that I know every inch of, and see no reason to buy a new car.

I hesitated to make this post for a long time because it will seem like I'm bragging, but people from my side of things need to come out with their experience as well. I've never been run through the ringer, or cheated on,or humiliated and beat down by former girlfriends, and I've ended most of my relationships on my own terms. I've just seen my social scene slowly become less and less worth it, for lack of a better term. I see no women worth putting effort into, and my friends that are on paths to become very successful have very combative girlfriends. I keep seeing these patterns in the people surrounding me (that have already been analyzed by people here) and it's just miserable, man.

By all accounts, I was dealt a very lucky hand and have gotten away with way too much in life. I'm going to keep that trend going by going MGTOW. If that seems contradictory, it's because you haven't truly opened your eyes and realized that this IS the best option for men nowadays. All types of men good and bad.