Do this, bring that

JayJayEcks · 2017-07-18T03:15:49+00:00

I was married.

Twice.

You are a trained seal. You do parlor tricks, you sit, you beg, and play as she wishes. Good dog.

Women are experts at soft power and social control.

Like you, I gave up my autonomy, twice, to someone with the emotional intelligence of a child.

She is testing you to see how obedient you are. And you haven't failed yet. However, it is irritating you, or you wouldn't be posting here.

However, I think since you are not going you own way, you are going hers though, you might want to try to take control of your marriage with advice from places like:

/r/TheRedPill /r/MarriedRedPill /r/AskTRP /r/manproblems /r/MensRights /r/relationships

Wife, fiancee, girlfriend, FWB or that hottie you are trying to lay pipe in? Many wouldn't call it a MGTOW issue. Some would even say it's a pickup artistry problem. Ergo, the links I posted.

You aren't legally or mentally going your way yet, if you ever will, so perhaps a different subreddit that is more about gaining the upper hand in your marriage might be more for you, for questions like these.

Or if not, at least have some fun, failing these shit tests your so called loving wife gives you.

Xlasingx · 2017-07-18T03:18:28+00:00

yes, it's extremely common..

if females believe they can order you around, they will..

my responses were more to, get it yourself, i'm busy, no, ignore, and occasionally the middle finger or ""incoming!!"".. if it's asked respectful and the situation warrants, then i'd help..

i refused to acquiesce to shit tests like this..

89Thoradin · 2017-07-18T03:38:25+00:00

I visit my mom for a week or two at a time and she tries to treat me like she does my dad. Man does her head explode when I don't fall for her bullshit. She'll be like cut up the peppers for me and I'll just get up grab a book and go outside to poke some smot lol. She will go fix this fix that and kill this bug. Oh you eat to much of this or eat that. She never stops talking always blah blah blah. No silence ever. Your to thin to fat, oh clean my dishes and floor feed my cat. Oh she has sat in the same spot the entire time playing poker on the computer by the way. Doesn't work doesn't do shit. Just nag nag nag. Loses her mind when I come over cause I say you are plenty capable of doing all of that yourself. I worked 32 days straight 12 hour shifts and on call 24/7 and you want me to do all your chores? Fuck right off. My dad had a brain timber and works over sees two months at a time and omfg the honey do list is a 400 page novel. My mom got so drunk once and told my 17 year old sister not to come home over text so I lost my shit and called her a cunt. She tried to hit me and fell over. I recorded the entire thing. I showed my dad and since then he has been considering divorce. He is banking money so when she takes half he has a fallback. P.s. my sister got pregnant after being kicked out for no reason.

Pk_s_to_the_yizzle · 2017-07-18T04:43:59+00:00

It is what passes for 'normal' with most women my friend!

I'm married too and browse this sub once in a while to see how much crazy shit goes on and learn a bit about both genders. Mine happens to be a real trad-con and I've found a groove between "here, let me help" and "too busy with this thing that's due, sorry bub." Pro tip: you can usually avoid the surgeon if you make it about income ;-)

Here's what you wanna do:

Typically us guys take care of shit ourselves - if we want a pen, we go get a pen - but we don't realise we can actually play the "you better be there when I need you" card too!

Next time you're doing some DIY or changing the oil, ask seriously for a coffee or a cold one. Ask her and thank her like it's expected. When you're in social settings with her, talk about how awesomely balanced you guys are and start driving the relationship in that direction.

Women really crave a leader and will usually acquiesce if you stand your ground - not with anger, but in that unflappable, centered way only males can do. Most of the problems we have women are from idolising them too much.

You can totally gain ground you've given up by establishing new habits. No one has power over you except what you allow them to have. Get control of the space around you and you'll find your influence starts to spread out to other people.

Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen. It's what they do.

TL;DR - if shes a surgeon, become a hospital administrator.

boringcarpets · 2017-07-18T08:47:03+00:00

those of you with wives

Lol.

Anyway, it doesn't matter whether it's just your wife or all wives, does it? She's irritating and treats you badly, there only one piece of advice you're going to get here, you must know that, so JFDI or GTFO

androphilistic · 2017-07-18T10:35:34+00:00

I'm not telling you to get a divorce per se, but do download this and get a taste of freedom by preparing yourself for a divorce, OP:

FIRE YOUR WIFE.pdf

EMPIRE_OF_THE_CLOUDS · 2017-07-18T13:03:54+00:00

Holy shit man, have some self respect and get your fucking balls back.

Griever114 · 2017-07-18T13:28:22+00:00

Its called shit testing.

Start saying "Are your fucking legs broke? DO IT YOURSELF"

mdcrubengonza · 2017-07-18T09:34:32+00:00

This is why I left my last chick. She wanted me to sit in a chair that I didn't want to. I walked out and never spoke to her again. I am ecstatic with that decision.

Title	Do this, bring that
Author	hubby_throw_away
Upvotes	22
Comments	31
Date	July 18, 2017 3:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/6ny42b/do_this_bring_that/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/do-this-bring-that.572286 https://theredarchive.com/post/572286

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