Do you guys ever get lonely?

jkarovskaya · 2017-09-21T18:57:43+00:00

Yes, in early days of monk mode, it happens.

So you find a friend, go to a party, find some non-female company, or if you can handle it , female company.

It gets a lot easier when you think about HOW MUCH DRAMA AND BULLSHIT You avoid by being single.

DThrillard · 2017-09-21T20:29:36+00:00

Nope. Loneliness is merely thirst for validation from an outside, and I've never needed that.

On occasion, I get a case of the "ex" and miss that slut I spent a few years with. I wonder if this is how it was supposed to be or if she ever thinks about the same things I do, but I realize it's just hormones and biology fucking with me. As MGTOW, it is a lifelong battle to overcome those things.

Simpsgalore · 2017-09-21T18:43:02+00:00

Nope. Have my best friend with me at all times. My dog

CrazyMGTOWer · 2017-09-21T19:04:40+00:00

I was feeling lonely years ago. I went to women because of this but always it got worse. So "modern" women is not the answer for feeling lonely.

A male friend always better than a female

2017-09-21T19:11:07+00:00

sometimes. But I'd rather be alone than share my life with a toxic person.

2017-09-21T21:21:12+00:00

Ironically, I get most lonely when I go out in public.

ZeroBlink · 2017-09-21T19:11:50+00:00

You can try working on it, it's not like it never worked... but if it doesn't thats more time commitment and nerves. So as always we would do cost-risk analysis in this place.
It will feel lonely for a time...
and you will miss every bit of her. You know you don't like her "like that" anymore, so you're with her just for comfort right now and that's fine too, but you gotta make the distinction.
You spent 9 yrs with her, You wake up you see her face, you go to sleep you see her face, you go to have a shit... you see her face , hard not to get used to it.
You cannot expect "nothing to happen" when you do leave , there is a gap in your life, but I get the feeling that you already know what you would like to do , that you cant while you're with her.
But that's just the first stage, after that you decide what you do with it, your life, your well being and your happiness.

Sol_Install · 2017-09-21T19:27:52+00:00

Why does it happen? Because she is a woman. Women are more emotional than men and no one ever reigns it in. So expecting her to stop doing it will never happen. Just because she understands where MGTOW comes from doesn't make her different. It just makes her more honest. Hence why it shows when she's logical because MGTOW is logical.

What you have to do is make a list. Compare the good and the bad. If you reach the realization that the bad cannot make up for the good, then leave. If you are willing to tolerate the bad for the good, then stay. I couldn't deal with my ex because the good didn't make up for the bad. Everyone has issues and flaws but if it's not worth the costs, get out.

psikosen · 2017-09-21T21:31:29+00:00

I just want to say thank you all for your advice and true words, I wish men in real life supported one another like this. I tell this problem to my wife friends in real life and most say that's how life is deal with it or they don't wanna talk about it at all.

HandyManDan90 · 2017-09-21T21:39:51+00:00

Loneliness is not cured by contact with humans, Loneliness is cured by contact with reality.

You are attached to a woman and im on a higher level by being free.

ChrisBrownApologist · 2017-09-21T21:42:13+00:00

Never be afraid of being lonely.

reaper555 · 2017-09-21T21:59:13+00:00

I got lonely from to time to time. It's something I struggle with. Oddly enough when I try to seek out people at Meetups or hang out with my blue pill friends I'm bored out my mind. I find it hard to find people on my wavelength. If things get really bad I hire an escort.

StoneTempleFlyboy · 2017-09-22T00:51:30+00:00

Yes, when I'm in a relationshit.

StoneTempleFlyboy · 2017-09-22T00:56:38+00:00

Do yourself a favor and put the concern about thinking anoir of you are lonely on hold for a month. Just say to yourself when the thought comes up that you will getting around to pondering the question in a few weeks. You will discover you're not actually lonely, your really just experiencing the guilt propanganda of "being lonely" people put in your head. Like when they ask you all concerned like if you're seeing anyone, as if there is something wrong with you if you arent. Wtf

josh_gropin · 2017-09-22T02:29:44+00:00

sometimes i get lonely but then i pull out my blow-up doll or put on VR porn, then i get all the fulfillment i need according to mgtow gospel

Nondisposableentity · 2017-09-22T03:01:09+00:00

Better to embrace solitude than get screwed over and having to deal with bullshit and complaining.

Starter91 · 2017-09-22T07:55:26+00:00

Idk i am religious , i talk to God , its okay, enough for me .

Raptorbite · 2017-09-22T08:34:23+00:00

you need a men's support group. My suggestions

Join the local Masonic Lodge.
Join a local fishing group.
Get a dog
Find a higher quality female.
Take up a cause that is bigger than yourself
Join a men's right group.
Start a MeetUp group

trumps_amygdala · 2017-09-22T08:59:32+00:00

I just like to think of the 16-18yo lads on D-Day who never made it.

Go look at their photos and their eyes. You will forget about your loneliness.

Doc_Sithicus · 2017-09-22T18:57:02+00:00

Solitude - painful in youth, but delicious in the years of maturity.

I felt lonely when I was living with my wife. Now I live alone, have my kid over on weekends and life is good.

-RubiconPONR- · 2017-09-23T05:34:01+00:00

Grew up an only child. Keeping myself entertained is my specialty. So no, I do not get lonely.

Hans_Klopeks_Beard · 2017-09-22T20:34:00+00:00

Never. Being alone is the sweetest thing there is.

Frongth · 2017-09-23T22:37:13+00:00

If you accept every creature is alone of self, and that companionship is an extension of ego and reflection, the moment-by-moment comparison of experience mediated between sentience, it is possible to be singular and agreeable within yourself to synthesise these interactions, or project them onto the inanimate.

Being extraordinary in creativity, or religion, or animal husbandry extends the opportunity to communicate into the imaginary chasms that illuminate broader aspects of the human experience.

Title	Do you guys ever get lonely?
Author	psikosen
Upvotes	2
Comments	24
Date	September 21, 2017 6:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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